TOGETHERNESS, No. 462

TOGETHERNESS

“They broke bread together in their homes, sharing meals with simple joy”
(Acts 2:46 JBP).

Breaking bread is not only talking about communion, but sharing a meal with someone. God loves us to eat together. I’m sure this is one of the reasons why “God sets the solitary in families” (Psalm 68:6).

Togetherness begins personally and spreads outward.

1. TOGETHERNESS WITH CHRIST

We feast together with Christ in our personal relationship with Him (John 6:32-58; 14:23; 15:1-7 and Revelation 3:20). Without our personal relationship with Jesus Christ we have nothing of eternal value to bring to others. The corporate togetherness is where we share and overflow from our daily walk with God.

2. TOGETHERNESS AS HUSBAND AND WIFE

What a joy to share with one another the revelation we receive as we feed on Christ and His living Word. Our “heart burns within us” as He talks with us along the way (Luke 24:32) and we cannot keep it to ourselves. We love to talk and fellowship about it with each other. Do you love to do this with your husband?

Ephesians 6:25-29 tells us how the husband washes his wife with God’s Word. As He feasts on the Word, He then reads and expounds it to his wife and she is washed.

3. TOGETHERNESS AS A FAMILY

Breaking bread together as a family should be the habit of our daily lives. Many modern families no longer eat together, and we reap the negative results in our society.

A study found that children who eat dinner with their parents five or more days a week have less trouble with drugs and alcohol, eat healthier, show better academic performance, and report being closer with their parents than children who do not eat frequently with their parents. * Did you know the average American eats one in every five meals in the car?

However, I am sure you are a family that eats together. This is why we eat at a table--to see one another’s faces. Eating is not just assimilating food for the body, but for the soul and the mind. We interreact together. But there’s more. It’s also food for the spirit. This is true breaking of bread where we feed every part of our children’s lives—body, soul, and spirit. Never, ever think that preparing a nutritious and lovely meal for our family is a waste of time. It is all part of our homemaking mandate.

But we also make sure that we don’t leave the table before we read God’s Word to our children. In The Netherlands, reading God’s Word at the end of the meal is called “Finishing up the Meal.” They don’t leave the table before they feed their spirit.

A parent can have a strong relationship with Jesus, but if they don’t share it with their children, it will not affect their lives. We are to share our faith--firstly with our children. I know a mother whose faith is strong in God. But she has not imparted it to her children. She has left them to find their own way. She does not attend church or encourage her children to gather with God’s people. Three of her children do not walk with the Lord and two are in desperate lifestyle situations.

Make togetherness part of your family life—eating together, fellowshipping together, reading God’s Word together, and praying together.

4. TOGETHERNESS WITH THE SAINTS

Our Christian walk is not only personal but a togetherness with other believers. The early church showed the example. Every day they met in their homes to share food with one another and talk together of all the wonderful revelations of Christ in His Word. These Jewish believers had fulfilled the ritual of the temple sacrifices for centuries, but now, for the first time, they saw the fulfilment of Christ in it all. I am sure that every day they saw a new understanding of Christ and His death and resurrection for our sins. Their hearts would have been overflowing with joy.

They would be required to work for their living during the day, so mealtimes were the best times to get together. And the best times to share their new joys with one another. Eating is always enhanced when you feed your soul and spirit as well as your body. We know we have truly broken bread when our souls are satisfied as well as our bodies.

Are you receiving new understanding from God’s Word each day? Are you sharing God’s Word with your children? Are you opening your home in hospitality to share with other believers?

Did you notice that as the new believers met together DAILY in their homes that something else happened? “And the Lord added to the church DAILY such as should be saved” (Acts 2:47).

PRAYER:

‘Thank you, dear Father, that you did not create me to live alone, but for togetherness. Please help me to be a rich blessing to my husband, my family, and other believers as I gather them to my table. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

I am a gatherer—gathering my family around my table each day and gathering others to our home.

SCRIPTURES TO LOOK UP ABOUT TOGETHERNESS:
1 Corinthians 1:10; 5:4; 11:33; 14;26; Ephesians 2:5-7, 21, 22; 4:16; 3:17; Colossians 2:2, 19; 1 Thessalonians 5:11; 2 Thessalonians 1:2; and Hebrews 10:25.

* https://www.centeronaddiction.org/addiction-research/reports/importance-of-family-dinners-2012

HOW DO WE CHANGE THE WORLD?, No. 461

HOW DO WE CHANGE THE WORLD?

“That in nothing I shall be ashamed, but that with all boldness, as always,
so now also Christ shall be magnified in my body, whether it by life, or by death.

For me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.”
(Philippians 1:19, 20).

It is easy to live our lives in neutral, isn't it? We fit in with society. We are normal, mediocre, status quo, average, and consequently boring! But this is not an hour for complacency or compromise. We will never turn this society to Christ or back to God's ways by being middle of the road. Nor does God intend us to live this way. When we read God’s Word we notice that He doesn’t use ordinary language. He fills His Word with EXTRAVAGANT ADJECTIVES! He intends us to live ABOVE THE NORMAL!

Are you read to shift into a new gear?

Catherine Booth said these words: “If we are to better the future we are to disturb the present.”

Let’s check out our lifestyle. By the way, I have listed many Scriptures for you. I do trust you will find the time to look them up and read them. The Scriptures are much more powerful than anything I could say to you.

1. VERY COURAGEOUS

It is not enough to be courageous; God wants us to be VERY COURAGEOUS. When God told Joshua to lead the Israelites in to conquer the Promised Land, He told him to be strong and "VERY courageous" (Joshua 1:7). The word “very” is m’od and means “vehemently, wholly, diligently, exceedingly, mightily.”

2. UNCOMPROMISINGLY RIGHTEOUS

It is not enough to be righteous; God wants us to be UNCOMPROMISINGLY RIGHTEOUS. Proverbs 14:19 (AMP) tells us that the wicked will come to a screeching halt at the gates of the uncompromisingly righteous.

3. ABHORING EVIL

It is not enough to avoid evil; God wants us to fight, expose, abhor, and REPROVE ALL EVIL (Ephesians 5:11). It is not enough to be a flickering flame; we must be a huge flame, shining God's light on darkness, deception, and evil (Isaiah 60:1-3, Matthew 5:14-16; Romans 12:9; and Philippians 2:14-15). The word “abhor” in Romans 12:9 means to “shudder at evil.”

4. EXCEEDINGLY FRUITFUL

It is not enough to bring forth fruit; God wants us to bring forth MUCH FRUIT. Jesus said in John 15:8: "Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear MUCH fruit; so shall ye be my disciples." Read also Genesis 1:28; Leviticus 26:9; and Psalm 128:3).

5. WHOLE-HEARTEDLY OBEYING

It is not enough to give half-hearted obedience; God wants WHOLE-HEARTED OBEDIENCE (Deuteronomy 28:1, 15; Judges 2:1-5; 16-17; 1 Samuel 15:1-35; and John 15:14).

6. BOLDLY PROCLAIMING GOD’S TRUTH

It is not enough to speak for the Lord; God wants us to SPEAK BOLDLY (Acts 4:13, 29-31; 9:27; 14:3; 19:8; Ephesians 6:19-20; and Philippians 1:20).

7. EXCEEDINGLY REJOICING

It is not enough to rejoice; God wants us to REJOICE EXCEEDINGLY, not only when things are going great, but when we are being persecuted or going through difficult times (Habakkuk 3:17-18; Matthew 5:11-12; and 1 Peter 4:12-13).

8. ALWAYS PRESSING FORWARD

It's not enough to hold our ground; God wants us to PRESS FORWARD (Philippians 3:13-14; 1 Corinthians 9:24; and Hebrews 12:1-2).

9. FERVENTLY PRAYING

It is not enough to pray; God wants us to PRAY FERVENTLY Colossians 4:12 and James 5:16).
He also wants us to pray CONTINUALLY (Acts 6:4; Romans 12:12; Ephesians 1:16; 6:18; Colossians 1:3, 9; 4:2, 12; 1 Thessalonians 5:17; 2 Thessalonians 1:11; and 2 Timothy 1:3).
He also wants us to pray PERSEVERINGLY (Ephesians 6:18 and Philippians 1:4).
He also wants us to pray EARNESTLY (James 5:17).
And He wants us to pray EXCEEDINGLY (1 Thessalonians 3:10). The word “exceedingly” is the Greek word perissos and means “abundantly.” We don’t pray little prayers here and there, but we are always abundantly and exceedingly praying!

10. ABOUNDINGLY SERVING THE LORD

It is not enough to work for the Lord; God wants us to work ABOUNDINGLY 1 Corinthians 15:58 tell us to be "ALWAYS ABOUNDING IN THE WORK OF THE LORD." The word abounding is perisseuo and means "to excel, to increase, to superabound, enough and to spare, over and above.”

Do you notice that God is not content with the average and normal? He wants us to live an overcoming and extraordinary life. Are you ready for the next level?

NANCY CAMPBELL
www.aboverubies.org

PRAYER:

“Dear Father, please save me from living an ordinary life when you came to give me not only life, but ABUNDANT life. Please help me to live in the fulness of Your life which dwells within in me. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

By the power of the Spirit of God who indwells me I am living exceedingly, abundantly, aboundingly, courageously, whole-heartedly, uncompromisingly, and proclaiming boldly God’s truth wherever I go.

ONE FLESH MARRIAGE, No. 460

ONE FLESH MARRIAGE

“Wherefore they are no more two, but one flesh.
What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder”

Matthew 19:6).

God designed marriage:

1. DIVINELY

The Creator of male and female divinely designed His perfect plan. It is God who joins the man and woman in marriage: “What therefore GOD hath joined together.”

2. PROPHETICALLY

God revealed His plan in the beginning for all future marriages: “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” Where were the father and mother? They were nowhere on the scene when God spoke these words. Adam and Eve had never seen a father and mother! God prophetically revealed His plan and how it would work for all future mankind.

3. INTENTIONALLY AND FACTUALLY

God unmistakably states His plan: “They two (the man and his wife) shall be one flesh. Wherefore they are no more two, but one flesh.” It does not matter what mere man thinks, it is what God states! His Word is eternal. It doesn’t change from the beginning to the end.

4. EMPHATICALLY

There are no “if, buts, or maybes,” but “And God said.” Not man (the created), but God (the Designer and Creator) has the first and last say!

5. PHYSICALLY

The coming together of male and female to be “one flesh” in marriage is a perfect fit. The sexual organs of male and female are opposite, (the man’s external and the woman’s internal), but they fit perfectly by God’s design. Male and male or female and female are not a perfect fit. This lifestyle is outside the Creator’s design.

When Jesus answered the questions of the Pharisees He said: “Have yet not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, FOR THIS CAUSE. . .” It was FOR THIS CAUSE (because He created them male and female) that the man cleaves to his wife. Please notice the words “man and wife,” not two of the same sex.

6. GENERATIONALLY

The coming together as “one flesh” results in the potential procreation of children and children’s children. From the two come one, or many, each bearing genetic genes of both the father and mother. This is impossible in a homosexual relationship which is outside of God’s blessing. These relationships end in nothingness and future destruction.

It is the male and female oneness that God blessed: “Male and female created he them. And God BLESSED them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth.” Children only come through the blessing of God.

7. DELIGHTFULLY

God must have been filled with joy and delight when He designed the “one flesh” marriage. Who but our amazing God could plan for the man and his wife to experience such ecstatic joy, fulfillment, and wonder together? Proverbs 5:18,19 speaks of the married couple ravishing and intoxicating one another with their love.

8. EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY

Human beings are not animals. We are created in the image and likeness of God. We are body, soul, and spirit. Because God created us with a heart, mind, and soul, the “one flesh” statement is more than physical. It is also a oneness of soul. I am not whole without my husband. He is not whole without me for “they are no more two, but one.” We complement one another and each one brings different strengths to the marriage to make it complete.

9. SPIRITUALLY

Our bodies are only the house of the real person, the spirit--the part of us which was made for fellowship with God. God’s highest purpose for us in marriage is to become one together in spirit--connected to one another by our spirits and God’s Holy Spirit. We are to be glued together as one.

10. PURPOSEFULLY

God brings the male and female together to accomplish His purposes. God’s primary purpose for male and female is to have children. As husband and wife, and together with their children, they are to be fruitful, fill the earth, and “subdue it: and have dominion.” Purposefully together they advance God’s kingdom in the earth, reveal His image and likeness, and bring more of His love, truth, justice, and peace to the earth.

11. UNDEFILEDLY

Marriage is called “holy matrimony” and the marriage bed is holy and sacred. At the beginning of the wedding vows, the minister says: “Into this ‘holy estate’ these two persons come now to be joined. Therefore; it is not to be entered unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently and soberly.”

Marriage is God-mandated and to be enjoyed according to God’s pattern, but it is designed only for male and female. Hebrews 13:4 (ESV) states: “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” God created the sexual act to be totally fulfilling without the use of “toys,” alternative ways that are not according to God’s Word, or anything that violates the conscience.

12. UNENDINGLY

The traditional wedding vows state: "I take thee . . . to love and to cherish, till death do us part (or, as long as we both shall live), according to God's holy ordinance.”

Sadly, we don’t live in a perfect world and there are times when it is no longer safe to live in a marriage where one of the two continues in a despicable, ungodly, and unrepentant lifestyle. Jesus admitted when talking to the Pharisees that Moses allowed divorce because “of the hardness of your hearts,” but He continued, “From the beginning it was not so.” It was never God’s plan.

Jesus also forcefully stated: “What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder (or separate).” Or, let no man or woman, no organization, no church, no Facebook, or anything at all separate a man and wife from each other. They are to be fused as one.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell
www.aboverubies.org

PRAYER:

“Thank you, Holy Father, for your perfect design for marriage. You created male and female to come together as one. Thank You for your glorious design. Please help my husband and I to be a living picture of the relationship between You and Your bride, the church. Amen.

AFFIRMATION:

I embrace God’s highest design of a one flesh marriage.

SCRIPTURES:
Read the following Scriptures referred to above: Genesis 1:26-28; 2:23, 24; Proverbs 5:18, 19; Matthew 5:27, 28; 19:4-9; Mark 10:2-9; 1 Corinthians 6:16,17; 7:1-5; 11:8, 9; Ephesians 5:31-33; and Hebrews 13:4.

OPEN YOUR MOUTH, No. 459

OPEN YOUR MOUTH

“Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering."
Hebrews 10:23 (ESV).

How do we stay strong in faith? How do we stand fast against the ungodly influence of others around us? God has the answer. The way to do it is to continually confess our faith. We are born again into the family of God by believing and CONFESSING that Jesus is our Lord (Romans 10:9,10). But we don’t stop there. We keep on believing and CONFESSING every day of our lives (Colossians 2:7).

You only keep what you speak out. Both David and Paul stated: “I believed; therefore have I spoken” (Psalm 116:10 and 2 Corinthians 4:13).

Can I encourage you to continually confess your faith, your hope, your convictions, and the truths God daily reveals to you? If you don’t speak them out, you’ll lose them. The more you speak them out, the more they become part of you, and you become UNWAVERING in your faith. You will stand no matter what people say against you.

SPEAK TO YOUR SOUL

When doubts and unbelief creep in, speak the truth aloud to your soul. When discouragement and despair begin to overwhelm you, encourage your soul. This is what David did: “Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted in me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance” (1 Samuel 30:6; Psalm 42:5, 11; and 43:5).

SPEAK TO YOUR HUSBAND

Share the truths and revelations you receive as you read God’s Word with your husband. As you share them, they will become even clearer and stronger in your spirit.

SPEAK TO YOUR CHILDREN

Speak out God’s truths and ways daily to your children. It is not enough to have God’s Word in your heart. You must have it in your MOUTH! And even that’s not enough. God’s purpose for you as a mother is to get His Word and His truths into your children’s MOUTHS! Not just their hearts.

Isaiah 59:21 is the vision we must have: “My Spirit who is upon you, and my words which I have put in your MOUTH, shall not depart from your MOUTH, nor from the MOUTH of your descendants, nor from the MOUTH of your descendants’ descendants, says the LORD, from this time and forevermore.” How will your children get it into their mouth unless it continually comes out of your mouth?

SPEAK TO EVERYONE YOU MEET

Always be ready to open your mouth to sow seeds of truth--to friends at church, but also to unbelievers you meet when shopping or out and about (Hebrews 3:13; 10:25; and 1 Peter 3:15).

Truth becomes part of you when you confess it. Therefore, the more you confess, the less you will waver! The more you speak out, the less you will be intimidated by your antagonists.

Jesus said: “Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven. But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before M=my Father which is in heaven” (Matthew 10:32, 33).

Are you a confessing family? It’s the only way for you and your children to stay strong in the truth.

Blessings to you today, Nancy Campbell
www.aboverubies.org

PRAYER:

“Dear Father, I have so much to confess. You have saved me and washed me clean through Your precious blood. How can I keep this to myself? You daily show me wondrous things out of Your Word. Please help me to share them with my family and everyone I meet. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

I am an unwavering Word-believing, Word-adhering, Word-confessing believer!

WHAT IS YOUR CROWN OF BOASTING? Pt 2, No. 458

WHAT IS YOUR CROWN OF BOASTING? Pt 2

“Holding forth the word of life that I may rejoice in the day of Christ,
that I have NOT RUN IN VAIN, NEITHER LABORED IN VAIN”

(Philippians 2:16).

We continue our study about preparing our children for the coming of the Lord Jesus.

4. GOD’S WORD OF TRUTH

We must have a healthy fear of God’s Word. That means we revere it as the living, breathing, active Word of God. We read it as though God is personally speaking to us. We listen to Him through His Word. We obey Him. We tremble at His word. If we have this attitude to God’s Word, our children will imbibe the same attitude.

If we carelessly treat God’s Word, our children will be careless about it. Our children notice if we rarely pick up God’s Word. They see what importance we place on His Word by how much we read it and talk about it. Do we read it with them every morning and evening? They soon become aware that we either take it with a grain of salt or tremble at His Word (Isaiah 66:2).

In preparing the new Christians to be his “crown of boasting” when Jesus comes, Paul lifted God’s Word to its high level. 1 Thessalonians 3:13 says: “When ye received the word of God which ye heard of us, ye received it not as the word of men, but as it is in truth, the word of God which effectually worketh also in you that believe.”

When writing to these believers, Paul shared how he longed to see their faces again so he “might perfect that which is lacking in your faith” (3:10). How did he do this? By continuing to teach them more of God’s Word of truth. It is the Word that builds up our faith and fills up the areas we are lacking in our lives and our children’s lives.

THERE IS NOTHING LIKE GOD’S WORD TO FILL UP THE WEAKNESSES IN YOUR CHILDREN’S LIVES.

When you see an area of lack in your children’s lives, fill it up with God’s Word. Find the Scriptures that apply to that area of need. Read those Scriptures with your children. Write them up in big colorful letters in appropriate places in the home. Encourage your children to memorize these Scriptures. You will find that there is nothing else that is as effective of God’s Word to fill up the lacks.

5. PRAYER

The last point, but the most important of all. And the one we use the least. Do you and your husband pray together each day for your children? It takes much prayer and intercession to get them through life in victory and holiness—and for them to become your “glory” and “joy.” Never give up praying. Find a time that is suitable for your husband to pray with you each day. Paul prayed “NIGHT AND DAY EXCEEDINGLY” (3:10). We can at least find one time in the day.

He prayed that God would establish their hearts “unblamable in holiness before God” (3:13). We live in an evil and deceived world and it takes prayer to keep our children and grandchildren walking in holiness. He prayed: “And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly, and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ” (5:23).

He not only prayed, but travailed in prayer for the believers in Galatia (Galatians 4:19).

He prayed many blessings for the Ephesians believers and that they would be “filled with all the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:14-19).

He did “not cease to pray” for the Colossians believers (Colossian 1:9-12).

He prayed for the Philippian believers who he also called “my joy and crown” (Philippians 1:4, 9-11 and 4:1).

We must continually lift our children up before the Lord for He is the only who can “keep you from falling, and to present your faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy” (Jude 1:24).

Are your children your boast in the Lord? Paul confessed in 1 Thessalonians 3:8 “For now we live, if ye stand fast in the Lord.” Is this how you feel too? You feel you can only really live if your children are standing fast, walking in holiness, and overcoming the temptations of this evil world.

May our children be our “glory” and “joy” at His coming. May we not live in vain.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell]

PRAYER:

“Dear Father, Thank You for showing me the tools I need to prepare my children for Your coming. Help me to use them faithfully. Help me to give them a LOVE for Your precious word. Help my husband and I to be faithful in praying for them each day. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

I have no lesser a vision than to be a Holy Spirit-filled, Word-loving, and powerful-praying mother.

 

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