BETTER IS THE END, No. 502

BETTER IS THE END

“Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof
(Ecclesiastes 7:8).

BetterInEndIt’s easy to embark on a new vision or project with a “hiss and a roar.” But as time goes on, our enthusiasm wanes. Sometimes we peter out altogether. I understand this in the ministry of Above Rubies which I began over 41 years ago with a heavy vision from God upon my heart. I could not have not done it! But I realized as I began the journey that it is perspiration that keeps something going. Someone once said that a vision is often “One percent inspiration and 99 percent perspiration.” True. It doesn’t happen without daily plodding and faithfulness.

It is the same with the greatest institutions of life—marriage and family. God ordained these powerful foundations before church, before government, and before schools. Because they are God ordained, we don’t stop half-way through. We dare not stop before the finishing line. It’s all the way to the end.

Ecclesiastes 7:8 says: “Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof.” It’s not so much how we start, but how we end.

Perhaps you didn’t get a good start to your marriage. Or even with motherhood. You came into motherhood unprepared and not knowing what you were doing. Don’t despair. I know you are learning as you go. You are mothering better with each baby God gives you. You grow stronger as you mother. Remember, it’s not so much the beginning but the end that counts.

Keep pressing on. Keep seeking God for the way He wants you to be a wife and mother. Always keep learning. And keep fighting the fight of faith. Keep on until the end.

JESUS finished His work. He confessed in John 4:34: “My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to finish His work.” He said again in John 17:4: “I have finished the work which thou gavest me to do.”

PAUL also made these same confessions. Acts 20:24: “But none of these things move me (the fact they he was going to face prison and afflictions), neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might finish my course with joy, and the ministry which I have received of the Lord Jesus.”

What is the ministry you have received from God? If He has graciously given you children, this is your greatest ministry at hand—to nurture and train them. And it’s not only when our children are young, but mothering extends to the end of our days. We are always a mother. When our children grow up and leave the nest, we become an older mother to younger mothers and we are always available for our grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Paul confesses again in 2 Timothy 4:7: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” Let’s look at this Scripture a little more closely.

1. Paul FOUGHT THE GOOD FIGHT.

We are certainly in a fight for families in our nations today, aren’t we? Because the family is God’s idea, the enemy is out to destroy it. Because motherhood is
God’s ultimate plan for women, the devil hates it and wants to destroy it.

In this hour of history, we face a fierce fight. Feminism, humanism, the media, and public education have brainwashed the majority of women to think that motherhood is insignificant and unworthy of their time. Because we know this is deception, we fight against the tide. We will not give in. We will fight a good fight. We fight on the side of life. We embrace our calling because we know it comes from God. We will not only embrace motherhood with all our hearts but fight against the deceptions in our society. We fight to destroy the works of the enemy. 

Nehemiah 4:14: “Be not ye afraid of them: remember the Lord, which is great and terrible (awesome), and fight for your brethren, your sons, and your daughters, your wives, and your houses.”

2. Paul FINISHED THE RACE

This is the important thing. We will not give up until the end. I love to talk about the four watches of motherhood—first, second, third, and fourth. Many mothers flake out in the fourth watch. This is the watch when our children have grown. Many think it is their time to give up pouring out their lives for others and look after themselves. But no, God’s commission is to the older women to teach and encourage the younger women. If we do not do this, we fail the next generation.

3. Paul was FAITHFUL to the end.

The NLT says: “I have remained faithful.” Paul remained faithful through hardships, discouragement, imprisonments, beatings, stonings, shipwrecks, danger, robbings, weariness, painfulness, hunger, thirst, destitution, plus the care of all the churches. Surely, we can remain faithful through the few trials we face.

And never forget, there will be a reward. 2 Timothy 4:8 continues: “Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day, and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing.”

PRAYER:

“Thank You, Father, for wooing me on to the end. I don’t want to stop in the race halfway. I want to be faithful to the end. Please help me each day to be faithful. Faithful in the little things, the mundane things, the ordinary things, for this enables me to be faithful in the big things. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

I’m not giving up. I’m going all the way to the end.

 

 

Did you know, I am now doing a podcast for you each week called FROM OUR HOME TO YOURS w/ Nancy Campbell? I know you will be blessed and encouraged. Go to www.aboverubies.org and you’ll see the icon. Or go to http://ARPoddy.buzzsprout.com

LOVE IN YOUR HOME, Pt 5, No. 501

LOVE IN YOUR HOME
Part 5

“But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you,
do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you,
and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is heaven”
(Matthew 5:44, 45).

  1. POURING OUT Love (Romans 5:5).

“God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us” (ESV). Most translations of this Scripture used the words “poured out.” The Holy Spirit pours out God’s love into our hearts, so we can pour it out into the hearts of others.

  1. PURE Love (1 Timothy 1:5 and 1 Peter 1:22).

Agape love is love that comes from a pure heart. No ulterior motives. It is love that loves for the ultimate blessing of the other person.

  1. REACTIONARY Love (Matthew 5:44, 45).

What does it mean to have reactionary love? It means to react with love—to every vibe, word, or action toward us. Even those that are negative, abusive, or hurtful.

When a glass is bumped, what spills out? Whatever is in the glass! In the same way, what is inside me will immediately spill over. I pray that when I am rubbed up the wrong way, when things don’t go the way I want, and when hurtful words upset me that I would, without having to think about it, respond with love. Automatically react with love.

I don’t always do this, but this is what I want to do because God’s love is poured into me by the Holy Spirit who dwells in me.

When Paul was reviled, he reacted with blessing (1 Corinthians 4:12).

Peter reminds us in 1 Peter 3:9 that when we are insulted and reviled to “pay them back with a blessing” (NLT). The NEB translation tells us to “retaliate with a blessing.” That’s Holy Spirit reaction. That’s the way we pay back people.

Read also Proverbs 20;22; 24:29; and Romans 12:14, 17.

  1. SACRIFICIAL Love (1 John 3:16).

“Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.” Jesus revealed pure agape love when He laid down His life for sinners and we who were enemies to God.

In the same way He asks us to lay down our lives for others. Read also Romans 5:8; Ephesians 5:25; and 1 John 3:14. This doesn’t come naturally to us, does it? It’s only when agape kicks in that we can walk in sacrificial love.

  1. SERVING Love (Galatians 5:13).

“By love serve one another.” The word serve is doueuo which means “to serve like a slave.” We don’t serve because we are a slave but because we love. Let’s get it straight. Agape love serves! If we don’t want to serve one another, we don’t have love. Much of our ministry as a wife and mother is serving. If we have no delight to serve, we show that we do not really love. Jesus revealed His love by serving and laying down his life. He wants us to follow His example (Mark 10:45; John 13:1-17; 10:28; and Philippians 2:5-8).

  1. TRUTHFUL Love (1 Corinthians 13:6).

True love rejoices in the truth and hates evil. True love is not wimpy. It loves unconditionally but does not tolerate evil.

  1. WALKING Love (Ephesians 5:2).

“Walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering, and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling savor.” To walk in love means wherever you walk. When you come into your kitchen in the morning are you walking love? Do your husband and children feel it and see it wherever you move in your home?

  1. UNFAILING Love (1 Corinthians 13:8).

“Love never fails.”

  1. UNSELFISH Love (1 Corinthians 13:5).

“Love is not self-serving (NET).”

 

PRAYER:

“Dear Father, my love is totally inadequate. Thank You so much for Your agape love which is poured out in my heart. Help me to always react with love to every negative situation.  Please help me to be “walking love” in my home. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

I am building a love-filled marriage and love-filled home.

P.S. Have you been sharing these 35 love adjectives with your family? If not, start doing it now. We need to put these in action together as a family.

 

Did you know, I am now doing a podcast for you each week called FROM OUR HOME TO YOURS w/ Nancy Campbell? I know you will be blessed and encouraged. Go to www.aboverubies.org and you’ll see the icon. Or go to http://ARPoddy.buzzsprout.com

LOVE IN YOUR HOME, Pt 4, No. 500

LOVE IN YOUR HOME
Part 4

“But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you,
do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you,
and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is heaven”
(Matthew 5:44, 45).

More adjectives for you today:

  1. INCREASING Love (1 Thessalonians 3:12).

The Lord make you to increase and abound in love one toward another, and toward all men, even as we do toward you.” Our love should always be increasing, not diminishing.

  1. KIND Love (1 Corinthians 13:4 and Proverbs 31:26).

“Love is very kind” (Moffat). Love does kind things. Love speaks kind words. Love gives. Love gives tangible gifts but also gives reassurance, encouragement, smiles, and cuddles. Perhaps the biggest gift love gives is time. Time is a love gift. “Love ever gives, forgives, outlives, and while it lives, it gives! For this is love’s prerogative, to give and give and give!”

  1. KNITTING TOGETHER Love (Colossians 2:2).

God wants us “to be encouraged and knit together by strong ties of love” (NLT). This is what we strive for in our family life. We make every decision in the light of knitting us together more as a family. If our plans are going to fragment the family, we don’t do them. We do what knits us together as a complete family.

  1. LABORING Love (1 Thessalonians 1:3).

“Remembering without ceasing your work of faith, and labor of love, and patience of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.” Love is not just a feeling. It is action. It is work. Hard work that makes us weary. Dear mother, do you sometimes feel you are over worked? Tired beyond measure? Be encouraged. Working hard for your home and family shows your love for them.

            Your work is not in vain. Hebrews 6:10 says: “God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labor of love, which ye have showed toward His name, in that ye have ministered to the saints, and do minister.” God sees you working hard for your family. He does not forget. All your “love works” in your home will reap an eternal reward.

            1 John 3:18 reminds us again: “My little children let us not love in word neither in tongue, but in deed and in truth.” The word “deed” is ergon, the same word used for “home workers” in Titus 2:5 which means “to toil.”. It’s not enough to say, “I love you” to our husbands and children. We must back it up with our “labor of love.

            A great family challenge for this love quality is to encourage each member in the family to do something for someone else in the family that takes hard work (or at least a little extra work). Remember: “Work is love and love is work!”

  1. LONGSUFFERING AND PATIENT Love (1 Corinthians 13:4, 7).

Longsuffering means “to be long-spirited, to endure patiently, and to exercise patience towards people.” How easy it is to get impatient with those we love. They don’t come up to our standards. They take so long to do something. They can’t grasp what we are trying to teach them. They exasperate us. But God’s agape love is full of patience.

            James 5:7-10 illustrates the farmer who has “long patience” to wait for the harvest of the seed he planted. In the same way, we often have to have long patience as we wait to see God work in those we love. Keep sowing the seeds and you are guaranteed a harvest.

Instead of getting impatient, claim the promise of Philippians 1:6: “Being confident of this very thing that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.” Each new day, thank the Lord for the good work He is doing in your husband and your children.

  1. NEVER GIVING UP Love (John 13:1 and 2 Corinthians 12:15).

Jesus loved “unto the end” and He wants us to do the same.

  1. NON-PROVOKING Love (1 Corinthians 13:5-6).

“Love is not easily angered or resentful” (NET).

  1. PERFECT Love (1 John 4:18).

“Perfect love casts out fear.” Perfect agape love enables to love without fearing.

  1. POLITE Love (1 Corinthians 13:5).

“Love . . . is not rude” (NET). Ask your children to give you feedback on how they can be polite love to one another. Ask them how they feel when their siblings are impolite to them?

PRAYER:

“Thank You, Father for revealing to me what Your love means. I know so little of it in my human nature. Please pour Your Holy Spirit into me and teach me how to pour out Your love to my husband and family. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

My challenge: To love fervently, earnestly, deeply, heartily, intensely, passionately, unselfishly, and wholeheartedly!

 

Did you know, I am now doing a podcast for you each week called FROM OUR HOME TO YOURS w/ Nancy Campbell? I know you will be blessed and encouraged. Go to www.aboverubies.org and you’ll see the icon. Or go to http://ARPoddy.buzzsprout.com

LOVE IN YOUR HOME, Pt 3, No. 499

LOVE IN YOUR HOME
Part 3

Isn’t it amazing how many adjectives it takes to describe God’s love? One word is not adequate. I have found 35 different words to adequately describe it.

  1. COMFORTING AND CONSOLING Love (Philippians 2;1, 2).

Oh, the bliss of comforting love.       

       8. CONQUERING Love (Romans 8:37-39).

Agape love can conquer all situations.

  1. DISCIPLINARY Love (1 Peter 1:22).

This Scripture in the Knox translation says: “Purify our souls with the discipline of love.”

It’s important to understand that love takes discipline. To live in an undisciplined life is selfish. It’s not thinking of others but only one’s self. To sleep late, let the household chores pile up, and allow the home to become disorderly because you are undisciplined is not love. Disciplinary love makes sure meals are ready on time. Ii delights to make them delicious and nutritious. It makes sure the home runs smoothly so everyone can relax and enjoy life. To manage a home that’s filled with peace and love takes discipline.

  1. EDIFYING Love (1 Corinthians 8:1 and Ephesians 4:16).

Love edifies. It builds up rather than pulls down. When we truly love, we build up those we live amongst. We build up our husband each day with loving, positive, affirming, and encouraging words. We do the same with our children.

Encourage each child in your family to only say words that will build up their siblings. No negative words allowed!

  1. ENDURING Love (Romans 8:37-39 and 1 Corinthians 13:7).

Love endures all things, no matter how difficult. The AMPC translation says: “Love . . . endures everything without weakening.”

  1. FERVENT Love (1 Peter 1:22 and 1 Peter 4:8).

“Love one another fervently with a pure heart.” Other translations use the words “earnestly, deeply, heartily, intensely, passionately, unselfishly, and wholeheartedly.” What a challenge! Each word helps us to understand further how we are to love one another. Teach your children what this kind of love means.

  1. FORBEARING Love (1 Corinthians 13:4 and Ephesians 4:2).

“Forbearing one another in love.” Forbearing means to endure and put up with those who are difficult to put up with. It means to bear patiently with idiosyncrasies that annoy us. Agape love bears lovingly with the weaknesses of those in our homes. I love the Way’s translation of 1 Corinthians 13:4: “Love is long-forbearing.” That simply means to put up with for a long time.

  1. FORGIVING Love (Ephesians 4:32 and Luke 23:34).

“Be ye kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you” (Ephesians 4:32). Love is not love if it does not forgive. Even when Jesus faced the greatest abuse that any human could endure, He said: “Father forgive them, they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34).

  1. GENUINE AND SINCERE Love (2 Corinthians 6:6 and 1 Peter 1:22).

Romans 12:9 (NASB): “Let love be without hypocrisy.”

The NLT states it plainly: “Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them.”

2 Corinthians 8:8: “Prove the sincerity of your love.”

  1. HOPEFUL Love (1 Corinthians 13:7).

“Love . . . hopes all things (remaining steadfast during difficult times)” (AMP). Hopeful love hangs on while it looks expectantly to God to do good things.

  1. HUMBLE Love (1 Corinthians 13:4-5 and Philippians 2:7-8).

“Love does not brag, it is not puffed up (NET).”

 

PRAYER:

“Dear Father, how can I show this kind of love to others? It is so foreign to me. Please come and flood me with Your Holy Spirit and pour out Your love through me. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

Love is the atmosphere of our home.

P.S. Are you sharing these love adjectives with your children?

 

Did you know, I am now doing a podcast for you each week called FROM OUR HOME TO YOURS w/ Nancy Campbell? I know you will be blessed and encouraged. Go to www.aboverubies.org and you’ll see the icon. Or go to http://ARPoddy.buzzsprout.com

LOVE IN YOUR HOME, Pt 2, No. 498

LOVE IN YOUR HOME
Part 2

“You yourselves are taught of God to love one another”
(1 Thessalonians 4:9).

More adjectives about agape love for you today.

  1. AFFECTIONATE Love (Titus 2:4).

The Bible gives us two different words for affectionate love in this Scripture, one for wives and one for mothers—a special word for each role. The wifely love is philandros and the motherly love is philoteknos. They both come from the root word philos which means “to be friendly and affectionate.” In other words, we physically show our love by touching, hugging, and kissing.

Do you tangibly show love to your husband each day? Caressing him? Touching him? Kissing him? Cuddling him?

Our children need this tangible love too. It’s easy to show this cuddly love when our children are little, but we must keep on showing it physically even as they grow older.

  1. BELIEVING Love (1 Corinthians 13:7 and Galatians 5:6).

“Love believeth all things.” The AMPC translation says: “Love . . . is ever ready to believe the best of every person.”

  1. BEARING UP Love (1 Corinthians 13:7).

“Love bears up under anything and everything that comes” (AMPC).

  1. CHASTENING Love (Hebrews 12:6).

Forgive me, ladies. I made a huge oversight. I had completed this beautiful study of  the adjectives the Bible uses to describe agape love, when all of a sudden, I realize I had missed one! How could I miss Chastening Love when its theme runs through the Old and New Testaments?

I am placing it in alphabetical order here for you even though I didn’t remember it until the end. I am glad the Holy Spirit prompted me before I closed this study (you will now discover 35 different adjectives describing agape love in the coming devotions).

            Hebrews 12:5, 6: “My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: for whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.” Strong language. We don’t like to associate love with chastening, do we? However, God’s love chastens us for or blessing. For our good. To conform us to divine truth.

God uses this same word for the love He has for His Beloved Son and for us His adopted children. Paul often referred to the saints as “beloved.” Therefore, let’s not get into a tizzy when God corrects us. His discipline reveals His love for us.

Even more, it reveals that we truly belong to Him. If we do not receive any correction or discipline from the Lord, are we truly His children? The Bible says No. Let’s read verse 7 and 8 from the NLT: “As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all.”

How does God discipline us? Many times, it comes through other people and sometimes members of our own family. We find this hard to receive, but it is actually God’s discipline.

Job 5:17: “Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty.”

Psalm 94:12: “Blessed is the man whom thou chastenest, O LORD, and teachest him out of thy law.”

Proverbs 3:11, 12: “My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction. For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.”

Revelation 3:19: “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.”

Because God, as a loving Father, deals with us this way, we also chasten our children. We don’t parent haphazardly. We don’t yell at our children when they do crazy things. We parent intentionally because we passionately them. We want them to grow into maturity and live god-fearing lives. Therefore, we discipline and chasten them with godly love.

To be recipients of God’s great agape love, we must also receive His correcting and chastening.

PRAYER:

Dear Father, I thank You for Your love which is so overwhelming. I thank You that I can bask in Your love for me. Please help me to also embrace the correcting anointing of Your love. Help me to receive instead of resist. I know You do it for my good, to change me from glory to glory and to conform me into the image of your dear Son. Amen.”

AFFIRMATION:

Without the chastening of the Lord I am not a true child of God.

 

Did you know, I am now doing a podcast for you each week called FROM OUR HOME TO YOURS w/ Nancy Campbell? I know you will be blessed and encouraged. Go to www.aboverubies.org and you’ll see the icon. Or go to http://ARPoddy.buzzsprout.com

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