PODCAST TRANSCRIPT | EPISODE 354: WE MUST NOT BE DECEIVED, Part 1
LIFE TO THE FULL w/ Nancy Campbell
EPISODE 354: WE MUST NOT BE DECEIVED, Part 1
We come to the last of the seven mandates God gave to His people in Jeremiah 29: DO NOT BE DECEIVED. In what way was the first woman deceived? How do we guard against deception?
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Nancy Campbell: Hello, ladies. I’ve got two messages for you before we begin our session today. I had a call from Allison Hartman. Allison and Daniel are the couple who organize our Above Rubies Family Retreat in Panama City, Florida. She called to say, “Nancy, don’t forget to remind everybody that the April retreat is coming up!”
Yes, in one month, the big April retreat, which we often have up to a thousand coming to this retreat. It’s the most amazing time. It’s hard to describe unless you've been there and experienced it. Just the wonderful fellowship of families. The parents, but also the hundreds of young people who come. It’s such a glorious way for young people to find other godly young people. It’s such an amazing time. Families come from all over the States.
The dates are April 16th to the 23rd, and that includes Easter weekend. It’s going to be over the Easter holiday this time, so why not take an Easter break, and bring your family? Go to AboveRubies.org, and you’ll be able to pick up the information, and get in touch with the right people. You’ll need to do it right away. Accommodation is going fast.
And then I had a message from Stephanie who is doing the organization for our Romantic Getaway Couples’ Retreat in Mexico. That’s from June 6th to the 9th. Today is actually the last day they’re holding all the rooms for us. After today, you can still get a room, but it will be open to the general public as well. So, get in quickly, today, tomorrow, the next few days. Get in as quickly as you can.
This is going to be such a special time, just for couples. You can come for three days, or you can come for the whole week, whatever time you have. Look into that soon. You can find the information on the Above Rubies website, AboveRubies.org. So, make the most of these wonderful, wonderful times.
We also have another family retreat coming up in eastern Tennessee. That’s going to be the most amazing time. But check out the website for everything.
Today, ladies, I am beginning the very last point in this series we have been doing from Jeremiah 29, talking about the seven things that God, the Lord of hosts, the God of the armies of heaven, told Jeremiah to give to the people in Babylon. The tribes of Judah and Benjamin had been taken by King Nebuchadnezzar to Babylon, and they were captives there.
No. 7. DO NOT BE DECEIVED
But God gave them seven things that He wanted them to keep doing, even though they were in captivity. We’ve been talking about these things over the last few weeks. We start the last point today. It’s an interesting point. Let’s read it from verse 8. “For thus saith the LORD of hosts, the God of Israel.” Remember the Lord of hosts is the God of the armies. “Let not your prophets and your diviners, that be in the midst of you, deceive you, neither hearken to your dreams which ye cause to be dreamed. For they prophesy falsely unto you in my name: I have not sent them, saith the LORD.”
Here God is warning them against deception. The interesting thing, ladies, is that He doesn’t say, “Now people, watch out, my dear people. Don’t be deceived by the deceptions and the evils in this Babylonian nation around you.” The people of Israel were used to God’s ways. Even though they weren’t following His ways, they did know His ways, and how God wanted them to live.
This was so foreign. This was a foreign nation who were bowing down to foreign gods and worshipping those foreign gods. But God didn’t say, “Don’t be deceived by these people.” He knew they wouldn’t be deceived. It was so foreign to them. It was something that was so different.
But what did He say? “Don’t be deceived by the prophets that are in the midst of you. That is, your own people. Watch out for what they are saying.” Obviously, there were many prophets there that were prophesying. “Oh, don’t worry, everybody! We’ll soon get back to our beloved land of Israel and get back to Jerusalem.” There were prophets that were prophesying that.
But God had said, “No, you are going to be living there for 70 years. I want you to make life there. I want you to build houses, and plant gardens, and have children. This is My plan for you while you are in Babylon.
But every one of these things that God said to His people there, He says to His people today. And God still comes to us today. It says: “Don’t be deceived by the prophets that are in the midst of you.” Of course, there is the true word of prophecy. But we must listen to know if it is God’s voice. Prophecy must be confirmed. It tells us in Corinthians that the prophets were to judge the prophetic words that came through that they were of God (1 Corinthians 14:29).
So, we still need this warning today. Do not be deceived. Deception is such a subtle thing. Usually when we are deceived, ladies, we don’t even know we’re deceived. That’s what deception is. You are believing something, and you don’t even know you're deceived. That’s why it’s so subtle.
That’s why we have to constantly be in God’s Word. That is the only deterrent against deception, because if we don’t know what God says, well, we will believe what somebody else says, or even what some prophet says. I know, when I am listening to a message, usually I find that when a man of God is speaking God’s truth, somehow it witnesses within me. Your heart is stirred within you.
It’s like the disciples on the way to Emmaus. Jesus came alongside them and talked to them. Their hearts burned within them as He spoke to them of Himself and how He was prophesied in the Scriptures, right from Genesis, right through, that He would come to die and to save His people from their sins. Their hearts burned within them (Luke 24:25-35).
But there are times when you can be listening to someone, and your heart jars a little bit. Have you ever felt like that? You think, “Ooh, I don’t really know about that.” So, you go home, and you check it out. You get out your concordance and you look up every Scripture on that subject to see if what that man is speaking is the truth. Well, sometimes it can be the truth, because you may have been ignorant of that truth.
But sometimes it’s not really according to the Scriptures. Who do you believe? We must believe the Scriptures. We don’t believe just one Scripture, because the truth of what God says about any subject is not one Scripture. It is what God says on that subject from Genesis to Revelation.
That’s why we have to be like the Bereans, who, when Paul preached there in Athens, the Bereans searched the Word of God daily to see if those things were really so (Acts 17:11). They wanted to check out that what Paul was saying was the truth. We all need to be like that, always checking out the truth.
In fact, just the other day, in our family devotions, we are at the moment reading through books of the Bible. We got up to 2 John. I was just amazing how much here John speaks about the truth.
He starts off in 2 John 1:1: “The elder unto the elect lady and her children, whom I love in the truth.”
Verse 2: “For the truth's sake, which dwelleth in us, and shall be with us forever.”
Don’t you love that Scripture? I’m sure he’s speaking about Jesus, who is the truth, but also His Word that is the truth. “For the truth’s sake, which dwelleth in us.” Oh, we have to have the truth. Not only Christ who is the truth but His Word that is the truth, dwelling in us. “And shall be with us forever.” Isn’t that amazing? It’s not only for this life but for eternity. Truth will be in eternity. We will have truth for the eternal ages.
It goes on, verse 4: “I rejoiced greatly that I found of thy children walking in truth.”
In 3 John, when he was writing to Gaius in verse 4, he says the same thing. In fact, verse 1: “The elder unto the well-beloved Gaius, whom I love in the truth.”
Then he says in verse 4: “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” That’s a prayer that I’m sure you pray for your children too, that they will walk in the truth.
There’s no greater joy that we can have as parents than to know that our children, yes, while they are young, but not only while they are young but as they grow older, as they get into their teen years, as they get to that age where they leave home to begin life on their own, that the truth is continuing to dwell in them, that they are continuing to walk in the truth.
Yes, go back to 2 John 1:8-9: “Look to yourselves, that we lose not those things which we have wrought, but that we receive a full reward. Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son.” What a powerful Scripture! Wow! That is so amazing, because that says that if we’re abiding in the doctrine (the doctrine of Christ is the truth), if we are abiding in that, well, we have the Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit.
But then it says that if we’re abiding not in the truth, we do not have Christ. We do not have God. It’s as simple as that.
Then it goes on, verse 10: “If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine (this truth), receive him not into your house, neither bid him God speed: For he that biddeth him God speed is partaker of his evil deeds.”
Now, back when I was speaking to you on the THEOLOGY OF MOTHERHOOD, I remember speaking to you about all the points about doctrine. Actually, I started off, after great study, with 14 points that God says about doctrine, and what we are to do with the doctrine, which is the truth.
GUARD THE DOCTRINE
But then I found another point. Fifteen points, and then, when I was reading this passage, I found another point! Sixteen points. Actually, I think we’re up to 17 now, because I found another one which is 16, and then this one, I hadn’t noticed. And what does it say? “If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine, receive him not into your house.”
There is another very, very important point about doctrine. This is my 17th point: GUARD THE DOCTRINE. How could I miss that important point? Guard the doctrine. It is important that we guard the truth and that we do not allow into our house anything that is not the doctrine of truth. In this Scripture, they were talking about people coming into your house. That also applies today. We don’t allow people into our house who are speaking a false doctrine.
It is especially parents who must guard the truth. We dare not let anyone in who would put false doctrine into our children. But we must also guard the other ways it can come in—through books, literature, social media, the internet, and the iPhones. Help! Oh, dear parents, we have to guard every way that false doctrine can come into our homes. Remember, we must not let it into our homes. We must guard the doctrine.
Well, today, that’s like a full-time job, isn’t it? Wow. So many young people today have access to iPhones where they can get anything. I know there are many godly parents who won’t allow their teenagers to have iPhones, and yet, some parents even allow their young children to have iPhones. Many will say, “OK, a flip phone is all you're getting. You’ve got your flip phone. You can always call us. We’re always available. It’s our communication together, but we’re not allowing you that access to all that other stuff that is false, and that is fraud, and that is deception.”
So, they are guarding their children’s minds and hearts. That is so important because of deception, oh, dear precious ladies, when did deception first start? Well, right at the very beginning of time. It is the first thing that happened to the first couple, Adam and Eve. We all know the story, don’t we?
We go back to Genesis three and we see where satan, the devil, came in the form of the serpent. Who did he come to? He didn’t come to the man. He came to the woman. He knew that he’d be able to get through to her more easily than the man. And yes, it worked. Eve was deceived.
Of course, the devil knows how to deceive. He doesn’t make it look evil. Oh, no! He made it look so good! Oh goodness me, and if you eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, you’ll be like God! Oh goodness me, and what does it say here? Genesis 3:5: and the devil was speaking: “And God knows that in that day when you eat, your eyes will be opened, and you shall be as gods, knowing good and evil. And when the woman saw that the tree was good,” oh yes, he made it out to be good.
“And that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired, and to make one wise.” Oh, can you see how cunning he was? And yet, dear ladies, it is how satan tempts us today. He’ll even choose to tempt me that way. He’ll tempt you that way. He won’t ever come with evil. Goodness me! You’d say, “Get out of here! I rebuke you in the Name of Jesus!”
You don’t want evil. You don’t want it in your life. You don’t want it in your home. But when he comes with things that sound so good, when he comes with things that sound so wise, you can be tempted. You can be deceived. And that’s what we have to watch for.
We cannot think, “Oh well, I’m great. I won’t be deceived.” No, unless we are in the Word and know the truth, we can be deceived, because there are many, many things that look good, that look wise. Oh, they just look the very best thing to do! And yet they’re not God’s truth.
We’ve been talking about this. We’ve been talking about the THEOLOGY OF CONCEPTION. What do we believe about that? Well, most of the Christian church today believe that when you start a family, when you have your one or two children, or maybe three, it’s the end. You stop having children because, well, you've got other things to do. You’ve got your career, and you've got to save for them to go to college, and you've got to do this. How can you manage it, to have more children, and there are so many excuses.
And all these excuses sound so good! “Whoo! What about this? I don’t have to have any more sleepless nights! Oh, goodness me, I can just sleep all night. I don’t have to sit up with a baby in the night.” Oh, you can think of all these lovely excuses. They sound so wise, and so good.
But are they the truth? No. That is totally humanistic doctrine that actually comes from the pit of hell. It’s not God’s doctrine. If you’ve been listening to the last two or three podcasts, we’ve been going into the Scriptures to see God’s heart about the subject which is totally the opposite. So, who do we believe? Do we believe that God and the Scripture? Or are we deceived by the things that sound so good and sound so wise!
Then, of course, people even today, even in the church, they make fun of families having lots of children. I’ve heard even pastors make snide remarks. And yet, they’re speaking against the truth of God. They’re very deceived. I think they can be wonderful people, loving God with all their hearts. However, because we love God with all our hearts doesn’t mean that we can’t be deceived. Deception is so subtle.
We go over to 1 Timothy. Let’s go over to 1 Timothy, ladies, because this is where it talks about women being deceived.
1 Timothy 2:13-14: “For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.” Here it tells us that the woman was the one who was deceived.
The man was not deceived. The man also partook of the fruit, but he didn’t do it in deception. He did it knowing what he was doing. God held him responsible. What does the Bible say how sin came into the world? Sin came in by one man, Adam (Romans 5:12). It doesn’t mention Eve. Sin came in by the man. God holds the man responsible for bringing sin into the world, but it was the woman who was deceived.
It’s an interesting Scripture here. We often have to go into the Greek to fully understand it. Many commentators and many translations of the Word translate it correctly and give a fuller emphasis on the second word “deceived.” In verse 14, the word “deceived” is mentioned two times. “Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived.” There is a greater emphasis on the second time the word “deceived” is mentioned. In fact, the preposition with which this Greek word is compounded conveys the idea of thoroughness. Therefore, this is how many translations translate the Scripture.
The Way Translation: “It was entirely through Eve being utterly deceived. You see, not just deceived, but utterly deceived, that women have become involved in transgression.”
The New English Translation: “And Adam was not deceived, but the woman, because she was fully deceived, fell into transgression.”
Weymouth: “Adam was not deceived, but his wife was thoroughly deceived.” All these translations are the understanding, the Greek compounding of that second word.
The CEB says: “She was completely fooled.”
I like the Wuest Translation which says: “Adam was not deceived, but the woman, having been completely hoodwinked, has fallen into transgression.”
We see here that the woman had the tendency to that deception. The Scripture tells us here that this is why God gave the place of leadership to the man. Not because the man is squeaky clean. He is the one who brought sin into the world through doing it knowingly, but God knows that just the way He created us, that the man is created more for headship and leadership than the woman because she has this tendency to deception.
We see this not only back in Genesis. We see it in Romans one. I’m sure you're familiar with this Scripture.
Let’s start at Romans 1:26: “For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature.” And then the next verse, 27: “And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly,” and so on.
But who began the deception first? Once again, the women. Oh, I’m sorry, us women. But it’s interesting too, the word “women” here is a different word that is used. Usually, the most common word for “women” in the New Testament is gyne, which means “woman, wife.”
But there is another word, and it’s only used two times. It’s used here in Romans 1 and another time when Jesus was speaking. It is the word thelus, which comes from the word thelazo, which has a very interesting meaning. Do you want to know what this word means? It means literally “the nipple of a woman’s breast.” It’s the picture of a suckling mother, a woman suckling a babe at the breast.
That’s the word that’s used here in Romans 1, saying that women turned away from their maternal, their womanly functions. When they began to do that, then men began to turn away also, and turned to the opposite thing. But it was women who were first in the deception.
We do have to watch. This is also why I believe that God gives us that covering. Growing up in a home, a daughter has the covering of her parents and of her father. When we get married, we have the covering of our husbands. I am so blessed that I have my husband as a covering, and I have my husband as my leader because I cannot even imagine where we would be if I was in charge!
I think we, as women, this is our fleshly tendency. Our fleshly tendency is that we want to lead! Oh yes, we would lead them, and we would tell them what to do and we would run the roost if we could. But that doesn’t work. If you are doing that in your home, you may not really find that it’s having very good fruit, because how is your husband responding?
It doesn’t really work, because God made the man to lead. He made the man to be the head. He made the man to innately want honor and reverence. This is how a man is created. When he doesn’t have that, when he is told what to do, when he is nagged at, when he is the one who thinks he is just little boy around the place, he rebels.
That’s why there are so many marriages that are ending in divorce today. More than any other time, I think, in the history of the world. Many may not be divorced, but are they really happily married? Because we can only truly be happily, truly happily married, when we are not deceived and when we begin to embrace our role as God created us.
I think that my husband Colin and I would enjoy what I would call a most blissful marriage, a sublimely blissful marriage. But more so in later years because I think back in earlier years, although I was always in love with my husband, I didn’t always know how to truly honor him. And I was very good at telling him what to do and he didn’t really appreciate that at all.
It’s amazing. Often it takes time, and it takes years to learn God’s ways. You think, “Goodness me, but I know better than him! And I know what’s right, and that’s just not right!” We’re indignant about so many things. But we have to learn to shut our mouths and let our husbands lead.
When we do, you can’t believe how much it changes them! They can live in such a joyous life and rest in who God created them to be as the leader and not try to have to fight for it. Some men will fight for it. Other men are wimpy, and they’ll just give up. It might be sort of peaceful, but it won’t be truly blissfully happy because it’s not God’s way.
But anyway, our time has gone by, so I think we’ll just have to have another session to talk a little bit more about this subject. OK, let’s pray.
“Dear Father, I pray that by Your Holy Spirit, You will come to us and show us Your ways. Lord, we’re living in an age of deception all around us, even in the church, even in the midst of this world, as Jeremiah says, God, that ‘you do not be deceived by the prophets who are in the midst of you.’ Dear Father, help us to be women of truth who listen to You, who know Your truth. We ask it in the Name of Jesus. Amen.”
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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