Sometimes I lose a day. It gets lost in the mire of grumpiness, or sometimes in the bog of self-pity. Ashamedly, it can even be devoured by worry and fret. Can you believe that? Why do I so willingly lose a day to misery, when each day is so precious? Each day is only coming around to me one time, with no guarantee of another. Each day truly is a 'once in a lifetime' experience. Time for me to only lose days to joy, and gratitude.

Just a little self-check to end my week.

Maybe you needed one too. Love Michelle

Today my favourite scripture is 1 Sam 2:21,

"And the LORD visited Hannah, so that she conceived."

The LORD has visited me, and I have conceived!

After 2 losses in 2011, we are absolutely over the moon, shouting from the rooftops excited, completely rejoicing and of course, coveting all prayers on our behalf for a healthy baby, and an uncomplicated and full term pregnancy. May our arms be blessed with Baby 12 next summer. We just had to share, as how many days in a lifetime are you blessed with such amazing news as a positive pregnancy test brings? Each day we carry this new life is a day of marvel, gratitude and joy. Thank you for celebrating with us, and keeping our pregnancy in your prayers! Love Michelle

It is easy to praise the LORD when things are going well. Tonight at our dinner devotions, we read,

"I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth." Ps 34:1.

This is quite a challenge, to say as David did, that His praise shall continually be in our mouths. This is fairly uncomplicated when we are overjoyed (as our family is at the moment with this new life) and much more trying in difficult times.

The thing is, if we practice to be continually in praise each day, throughout all circumstances, there will be much less room in our mouths for complaint and discontent. After all, our mouths can only utter so much at one time.

May we all practice using our mouths more and more for praise "at all times, continually", and less and less for anything else, today and every day. Love Michelle

The other evening I was so blessed to hear 2 older women I had never met before. I love to watch and learn from those a step ahead of me in life. I listened to one pray so powerfully and so humbly, and it encouraged me to hear her earnest pleas, and fervent faith. The other woman shared how she is battling cancer. She said that although she felt she could have done without this in her life, she knew the Lord was walking right beside her. She said she figured God must have felt that she couldn't have done without experiencing this illness, and He was going to walk alongside her through it all, no matter what happened. She said whether she saw physical healing or not, she knew that she truly was healed because her Saviour was with her, and that was the best part. These women were so gracious and calm, and they unknowingly taught by example how to walk with the Lord. Praise God for the body of Christ, that we can watch and learn from one another, especially from those that are a step ahead of us. Love Michelle

People often feel great when they get things accomplished. That is most likely what they will share with others too. Things like how their to do list got accomplished, or how the canning got completed, or the laundry got all caught up. These are great things, and I feel good too, when I get lots done. I've been thinking today that maybe we need to celebrate some other, less discussed accomplishments. The ones that perhaps aren't as tangible and yet probably carry more weight. Things like: I greeted my husband with a smile and a hug, even though I was angry with him, or I did not yell when my toddler broke eggs all over the rug. How about these? I prayed instead of complained when I was frustrated with my workload, or I praised, kissed and hugged my teens today even though some of their behaviour is disappointing.

These are the bigger accomplishments in my mind. Holding the tongue, showing love, controlling feelings, and behaving with grace and mercy, even when we don't feel like it. Now those types of things are worth their weight in gold and are big accomplishments. They are examples of bearing the fruit of the Spirit, and are worth celebrating and sharing. Love Michelle+1

Tonight as I went to give my two year old a bath, I grabbed the community paper to read. Once I got in the bathroom and started her bath though, I immediately began washing the sink, the toilet, the floor, the counters, and then I noticed the paper. I smiled. Why read the paper when I can make the bathroom a more pleasant place for everyone to visit, I thought to myself. Then I remembered how a younger me would have reacted. I would have complained how awful it was to not have time to read it, as there was always too much work for me to do. I would have resented that people in the house weren't cleaning up after themselves the way I would like, and the grumbling in my head and heart would have continued into a pity party and likely ruined that bath time. How silly of me! It is great to grow and learn, isn't it? Love Michelle

Motherhood has many seasons, each with new challenges. Just as we adjust to one season, a new one emerges. The baby grows, a new baby comes, a toddler becomes a child ready for school, a tween becomes a teen, a high school student graduates, a college student studies, a young adult needs direction, a wedding to plan, a grandbaby or 2. Life is so fluid, and often we forget how transient each season really is. "Normal" family life is forever re-adjusting, and we do well to continually embrace the 'new normals' that present themselves. Sometimes there is a season that allows for a more orderly home, sometimes there is a season that does not. Both are seasons, both are normal and both are good. Embrace whatever season you are in whole-heartedly and get every great memory you can out out if. Before you know it, it will be gone and a new one begun. Love Michelle +1

Today I heard a minister say that we are often hindered because we are led by "the pressure of the saints, rather than being led by the Holy Spirit".

Reread that. It is powerful!

He gave a very personal example of how he, as a pastor, would let fear of what his congregation might think, negatively influence what he should do even when he knew he should do it. This is so true for all of us!

How often fear stops people from stepping forward in faith, or stops them from going where they think God is leading them in their lives. This is quite clear even here on this page, when people share their fears about being confronted with negative feedback about a pregnancy, for example.

Oh that we would stand in the truth and be led by the Spirit!

"The fear of man bringeth a snare: but whoso putteth his trust in the LORD shall be safe." Pr 29:25. Strengthen us all dear LORD to not be led by the "pressure of the saints" or the world for that matter! Love Michelle +1 - I love my new signature...Thank YOU LORD!

Children never outgrow the desire to hear words of praise and affirmation from you, do they? I really noticed this the other night, when Cam and I took our oldest 4 (of 11) out for dinner. They are 21, 19, 18, and 15 years old.

They each groaned and looked somewhat mortified when I said I was going to speak a blessing to each one of them right there at the restaurant table.

I proceeded to tell them, one at a time, specific ways that they have been blessing me. I told them things I am proud of in their lives, and things that impress me about them. I spoke of things that I loved and adored about each one of them too.

Although they all originally thought it was a horrible idea, and I know that I put them on the spot, and way out of their comfort zone, I also know it was well worth it. I sure had their complete attention, and their eye contact when I spoke. All their ears just perked right up!

What a great reminder for me, as truthfully, more of what proceeds from my mouth to my children is correction, teaching, and training, rather than praise and adoration. This is especially true with the older ones.

I learned a valuable lesson. If I really want anyone's attention, I need to bless and affirm them, and they will be truly listening! Perk up the ears in your house today, even if it takes someone out of their comfort zone! Love Michelle +1

I just had to respond to the article entitled "How Many Children Should We Have?". I have written on my blog about this very touchy subject that I am so passionate about. It is a Scriptural debate on fertility, and not a judgement on anyone, so please do not twist it into such. We must stand on Biblical principles, and based on what is in the Scriptures that pertain to fertility. I hope you are enlightened to what the Word has to say on the subject. His Word, not man's. Love Michelle +1

http://aboverubies.ca/384/how-many-children-should-we-have/

Dear Heavenly Father,

I thank You for your grace and mercy upon me. I thank You that You often use the least of these, and that my feelings of doubt or inadequacy do not ever thwart Your plans. I pray that You fill me with Your Spirit, and enable me by Your grace. I want to be the sweet wife and mother, that is cherished and remembered with fond memories by her family, and not the harsh, complaining, stressed out one that I can sometimes be. Forgive me when I lose sight of Your truth, and focus on worldly cares. Help me to see and know the truth. Strengthen me and my faith Lord, and may my household and I all walk in righteousness in Jesus name, Amen.

Love Michelle +1

"Few matters in the world are as changeable as emotion. We can be one way one minute and feel quite opposite the next. Emotion changes as feeling changes, and how rapidly the latter can change. He therefore who lives by emotion lives without principle. Emotion may be denominated the most formidable enemy to the life of a spiritual Christian." wrote Watchman Nee.

Make no mistake, to be feeling and emotionally led is often to be led astray. This is true when we make poor decisions in the heat of the moment, or in highly charged emotional circumstances, especially with our husbands and children. Oh Lord, grant us the ability to walk in your truth and principles, and not get sidetracked by our ever changing and often incorrect and imbalanced feelings. Love Michelle+1

I love JC Ryle and thought this was worth sharing:

"I know that you cannot convert your child. I know well that they who are born again are born, not of the will of man, but of God. But I know also that God says expressly, 'Train up a child in the way he should go,' and that He never laid a command on man which He would not give man grace to perform. And I know, too, that our duty is not to stand still and dispute, but to go forward and obey.... It is just in the going forward that God will meet us. The path of obedience is the way in which He gives the blessing. We have only to do as the servants were commanded at the marriage feast in Cana, to fill the water-pots with water, and we may safely leave it to the Lord to turn that water into wine."– JC Ryle

I especially love that last line, love Michelle

Seriously, is there anything more beautiful than a pregnant woman? My heart is filled with joy and appreciation when I see a bulging belly walk by. It is a sign that the Lord continues to replenish the earth and it is so beautiful. Don't you think so too? Love Michelle

Everyone wants it fresh, not stale. Who would ever choose to eat stale bread rather than fresh baked? Who wants an old dried up orange over a fresh picked one?

It holds true in our walk with the Lord too. We must not get into a stale state in our faith life. We must keep it fresh with continual renewing of our minds in the Word, and through daily heartfelt prayer.

Also with our husbands, we must keep our marriages fresh and alive as well. We must be diligent to keep stale boringness from ever taking over.

We need to work at keeping these vital relationships fresh all the time, and not grow weary. I think that it is very exciting to come up with ways to keep it fresh, don't you? Love Michelle

There is nothing more unpleasant than being tossed to and fro by the ever changing circumstances that surround us. It is easy to get swept away in the waves of life. At times, the waves may even feel as though they are threatening to drown us.

We need to refocus and hold on tightly to our Anchor, don't we? After all, we are not defined by the day to day waves, we are defined by the truth of who we are in Christ.

We cannot be taken from His hand, we are loved beyond comprehension, we have eternal glory and a real, true peace that passes understanding. All that (and more!) is readily available to us. How incredible that we have the King of Kings fighting on our behalf, and the biggest battle has already been won!

May we all be well anchored today regardless of what waves hit us, safely snuggled in the palm of His hand. We shall not be tossed to and fro, for we shall stand, praise Him, and live the abundant life in Christ! Love Michelle

Want to change the world today? Want to make a difference? Have some influence? Make an impact? Well, that is easy to do as a wife and mother.

We love on our husbands, enabling them to be even better men. We raise our children, enabling them to be productive and God fearing adults. We minister to those that cross our path with love and hospitality, showing them the love of Christ.

What ever could be more influential, powerful and full of impact? Yield your power today right from your own home! Love Michelle

I posted this on my own wall and thought it was an excellent message for the general teenage culture we currently see around us. Love Michelle



 

I am learning that my character does not stand as I would like it to when faced with challenging circumstances. This move has seemingly not brought out the best in any of us, but it has proven just how desperately we need the grace and peace of our Lord. I know that He will see us through, and that He will mold us more into His image in the process. That is a beautiful thing. No experience is ever wasted in our lives, and He is always at work. I love that the challenges always do pass, and we grow through them. May you be richly blessed in whatever you face today, love Michelle

There is a common battle that we mothers face. I'll call it the Martha/Mary battle. We can so easily be completely consumed by the never ending demands of running our homes and families. We naturally focus on all the very necessary things that have to be done, but that can lead to not having enough time left after it all, to enjoy the children and our husbands. I have noticed this battle within myself, especially during our move this week. We must regularly pace ourselves, and balance our Martha's with our Mary's. After all, the work does not all have to get done this minute. Take time to just be each day. Love Michelle

I had a tree on my last property, where two different trees blended into one in its infancy, and so, it became one, even though it was really two completely different trees. To cut one off would kill the entire tree. It was an absolutely perfect analogy of how our married lives are supposed to be, in Christ. Our family will miss that tree dearly, but hopefully, we shall all remember its message throughout our lives, and talk of it through future generations.



 

Sorry I have been so absent from posting, I hope you can forgive me. Our family is in the process of moving out of province, after 16 years in the same place. It is quite an endeavour, and full of various challenges. However, I saw this and thought it was worth sharing. I hope to be posting more regularly again soon. Love Michelle

The other day, I was shopping at a store that my husband loves. As I tried something on, I wondered if he would prefer me to wear it in red, or in orange. I called him from the dressing room and asked. Although I did have my own preference, it was really him I wanted to please. I want him to love what I am wearing, and if he doesn't, why would I bother wearing it? It is only him I want to dress for after all, as his eyes are the only ones I want to please. If I wear something that he dislikes, I make sure to never wear it in his presence, or I get rid of it altogether. It is a very small and simple thing to do in trying to bless our husbands. After all, who are we dressing for? I hope not just for ourselves, or for our own comfort, but really for our husbands. It is a privilege to delight them this way, and I feel so good when I know that I look good to him. Love Michelle

Before I utter a complaint, or even finish thinking a complaint out within my head, I will lift it in prayer and ask for an attitude adjustment.

Perhaps it is me that needs the changing.

Amen.

Love Michelle

Do you think maybe what you do at home is insignificant in the big scheme of things? Perhaps you feel that you could better serve your Lord if you could be doing something else, something that seems more important? Maybe at times you secretly long for something with more recognition, and maybe even some pay?

Well, what if I told you that you are deceived when you think like that?

Do you know that your pay is actually uncountable? The impact that you have on all your future generations cannot actually be tallied! The payoff is ever-lasting and eternal, unlike an actual paycheque. Serving your family is the most significant thing that you can ever do with your life. Not only is the pay eternal, but the impact is far more powerful than any career, and the recognition is noticed and appreciated by the KING OF KINGS! Your submission to His will is of the highest value. He loves the example you set as a loving wife and mother. He loves how you teach the women around you to tend the home. He loves how you teach your children His ways. He loves how you meet your husband's needs. Your reward will be massive, dear mother, in this day and the next! In fact, all throughout eternity. If you are "just" a stay at home mom, be proud and grateful. Not all are as blessed as you. Love Michelle

Nancy shared at a retreat recently what her husband Colin will often say to the family after breakfast devotions, just as they all start off on their day.

"May this be the best day of your life!"

Isn't that great? Each day has the potential to be just that, the very best day our our lives, so far.

Each night has the potential to be the best night we have ever had as well. How exciting! Maybe tonight can be the best night we have ever had with our husbands, so far. :D Love Michelle

A very sweet friend of mine shared with me a few years ago a great nugget of wisdom. Would you like to know what it was? She said that as a wife, her role is to make her husband's life better, each and every day. Isn't that such a great question to ask ourselves each day? How can we make our husbands' lives better today? Love Michelle

I saw this today, and shared it at the retreat:

The definition of stupid:

Knowing the truth, seeing the truth, but still believing the lies.

Let's not be stupid. Believe no lies. If it does not match up with God's Word, it is not truth.

Love Michelle

I saw an Italian quote that read:

"Una buona Mamma vale cento maestre"

which means

A Good Mother is worth a Hundred teachers.

So true. Love Michelle

This is a beautiful representation of a sad truth in our fallen world. I have lost 6 precious ones in miscarriage over the years. May this be a blessing to all those that have suffered along with me. Love Michelle

Babies, with their helpless dependence on us for survival, and children with their constant needs, are so easy to nurture. It comes quite naturally and so willingly from us. Yet nurturing means so much more than raising, rearing and supporting the young. Spouses and marriages need nurturing, our spiritual lives need nurturing, and in fact, every relationship that we have needs nurturing. It is easy to nurture our babies and children, but we must not neglect to nurture our other relationships as well. Today is a great day to take time to nurture every person that crosses our path, no matter how old and independent they may be. We will have an amazing day too, as we focus on nurturing (encouraging, strengthening, promoting, stimulating, boosting, cultivating) all of our relationships. There is always blessing in loving, serving and encouraging others. As we pour ourselves out, we are in turn miraculously filled. Love Michelle

Is it just another day at your house? A typical weekday?
Of course not!
It is a new day, a never before lived day, a day that will never again be repeated! It is a day to make all kinds of new and joy filled memories! A day to revel in the rich glory of your life, your marriage, your motherhood, and your many and varied blessings. Today is a day to make the most of each and every thing, and to savour every drop of joy out of every precious moment you are given. Let not one of those moments be wasted, or unappreciated.
Be richly blessed today, and walk in joy. Love Michelle

Dear Above Rubies reader,

Oh please forgive me. I have not kept up with newsletters to you this year as I should.

Quick Index:

Trim Healthy Mama

Let's Get The Message To The World

Gobza Link

Celebrating 35 Years

Trip To Israel

A Day On The West Bank

Family Mission Trip

Cheer Up!

100 Days Of Blessing, Volume 2

Help Protect Traditional Marriage

Help For Rwanda

Keep Up The Great Work

TRIM HEALTHY MAMA

The biggest thing that kept me so busy was Serene and Pearl's new book, TRIM HEALTHY MAMA. From March until August I worked nearly full time on it. Praise the Lord, it is now ready and if you haven't ordered it yet, you certainly won't want to miss out on this book. Yes, it's a big book -- 640 pages of the most cutting edge information.

It's actually a one-stop book. You won't need to buy three books on different subjects, but instead, you'll get everything you need in the one book.

To order, go to

     http://tinyurl.com/TrimHealthyMamaUS

LET'S GET THE MESSAGE TO THE WORLD

As I write this, the new magazine, #85 is rolling off the presses so I hope it won't be too long before you receive it. I know it is going to be a blessing to you. However, it is sad that Above Rubies is still unknown to thousands. I was at a Homeschooling Curriculum Fair earlier this year and was amazed that nearly every mother who passed by our booth had never heard of Above Rubies! Wow, if homeschooling mothers haven't heard of it, what about the families in the church, and what about the rest of the world?

My vision is to get an Above Rubies into every home in the nation, Christian and non-Christian. We can do this as we all work together. Feel free to give Above Rubies to everyone you meet. If you only receive one copy, you are welcome to write for more. Or, you can email me the names of friends and contacts and we will be happy to send a magazine to these people. Email me at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

If you would like to read some ideas on how to share Above Rubies, go to the following link:

     http://tinyurl.com/DistributingIdeas

These are all great ideas, but I still think the greatest idea is always having a few Above Rubies in a plastic bag in your handbag ready to give to mothers you meet at church, in the supermarket, and wherever you happen to be.

GOBZA LINK

As you will notice, Above Rubies #85 is only the second issue of Above Rubies we have printed this year, although my vision is to print four issues a year. Above Rubies is only accomplished by the donations of those who give to this ministry because they have a vision to get this message out to the nation. Sadly, only a small percentage of our readers donate to Above Rubies.

However, I have always made Above Rubies freely available to readers worldwide, in whatever quantity they can effectively use. We don’t want anyone to go without the magazine because they can’t afford it, and we don’t want anyone to not get as many as they can give away because they can’t afford them. This, of course, is a big step of faith for me and we are constantly trusting God for the finances.

My husband and I have recently come in contact with GOBZA, which we thought may be an extra way you could support Above Rubies financially by blessing yourself at the same time, and without cost to yourself. Gobza is an online advertising portal which has been specifically designed to help fund Christian ministries (although it is not limited to that). By registering through the Above Rubies unique Gobza link, you will obtain your own unique Gobza link.

You can then share your Gobza link with your friends and family, and benefit from the savings. Above Rubies will get a small percentage of what you spend.

Gobza launched in Texas this month, and will soon have links to many large retail chains where you will be able to buy your favorite high street brands through Gobza around the world. Gobza is just starting out and this is a ground floor opportunity to establish long term funding for this very important ministry.

If you feel this is a way you could help Above Rubies keep going to get the message of encouragement and strength to the mothers and families of the world, all you have to do is sign on at www.gobza.com/aboverubiesas a customer, business, or non-profit, as applicable.

All business transacted through this address helps fund the ministry. And, it costs you NOTHING! That's what I like! Don't you? If you have your own business, please register your business with Gobza.

If you want to understand more, you can watch the short videos on the website, www.gobza.com/aboverubieswhich will explain all you need to know.

You may like to check out this one too. Once again, no money involved, otherwise I wouldn't mention it. Go to: www.ultimatepowerprofits.com/MrC72

CELEBRATING 35 YEARS

Can you believe it? I have been now publishing Above Rubies for 35 years this September. I started Above Rubies way Down Under in Palmerston North, New Zealand in September 1977 and have never stopped. Has it been easy? Certainly not. They say that a vision is "One percent inspiration and 99 percent perspiration." When I started, I never looked 35 years into the future. But, God has been so faithful and enabled me to keep plodding on in the face of all obstacles.

It is my life and my vision, as an older mother, to be available to the mothers of the nations. Each one of you are doing such a remarkable job as you nurture and train the precious children God has given you. But, I know you need encouragement along the way. That's why I give my life to undergird you, encourage you, strengthen you, and inspire you through the magazine and every other way possible.

Val Stares, the Director of Above Rubies in Australia has worked with me in this ministry since its inception. She worked right alongside me in New Zealand. When we moved to Australia in 1982, she and her husband and family moved with us to keep helping in the ministry. When we moved to USA in 1991, Val took over the leadership in Australia. And now, Val's sister, Heather Jones, leads Above Rubies in New Zealand. What a blessing to have such faithful co-laborers all these years. In the early days, we all raised our children together in Palmerston North, New Zealand.

TRIP TO ISRAEL

I have recently returned from a trip to Israel, which was an unexpected blessing God gave to me. Val and Heather were planning this trip and asked me to join them to celebrate our 35 years of working in Above Rubies together. I didn't feel I had the time, or the finance to go, but it was obviously on God's heart. Behind my back, He unexpectedly and wondrously provided. And it certainly was a wonderful thing for the three of us to do together as we celebrated our service to the Lord in this ministry of Above Rubies. And what better way than going to Israel?

Although Colin and I have led tours to Israel in the past, I hadn't been for many years. This trip we went with the Jerusalem Prayer Team. Check out their website: http://www.jerusalemprayerteam.org

Once again, I loved visiting the places where Jesus walked and where He died and rose again. I loved visiting the Garden of Gethsemane where we could look over to the Golden Gate of Jerusalem where Jesus will one day walk through, although this gate is closed at the present time, according the Word of the Lord (Ezekiel 44:2-3). I loved standing on the Mount of Olives, knowing that this is the place where Jesus will come again and put His feet.

And I loved praying at the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem, the most blessed thing I love to do in Jerusalem. But, don't stop praying for Jerusalem just because you are not there. We dare not give up praying, especially when Jerusalem and the land are surrounded by enemies who hate them. And sadly, even our own government is no longer a friend to Israel.

I always love going up to the top of Masada to see the place where the Jews took their last stand before the Romans captured the fort. And yes, I walked down the Snake Path from the top of Masada again! It's my tradition to do this, but, in the intense heat, not another person on the tour joined me!

I loved the privilege of being able to plant a tree in Israel. And I loved visiting some holocaust survivors. Isn't it amazing that there are some people who will not believe there was a Jewish holocaust. But, we met them in person. We were overwhelmed when we visited Yad Vashem and saw the history of the holocaust.

We loved traveling over the Sea of Galilee. It was a beautiful sunny day (and we didn't encounter a storm as the disciples did!) They joined two boats together to accommodate the 120 people traveling with the Jerusalem Prayer Team.The atmosphere was great as we sang hymns together on the Sea of Galilee.

We also sang our national anthems, Americans proudly singing The Star Spangled Banner with all our hearts. But, there were a few Australians and we sang the Australian anthem. Although I am now a US citizen, not to be outdone, Val, Heather, and I sang the New Zealand national anthem. I am sad to say it was rather a pathetic tribute to New Zealand as none of us can even sing in tune!!! A pity, because the words of the New Zealand anthem are amazing. And of course, we sang Ha Tikva, the Israel national anthem.

A DAY ON THE WEST BANK

However, I have to tell you about our greatest day in Israel. Val, Heather and I were very privileged to spend one evening and the next day in the biblical heartland of Israel, which is currently called the West Bank. We stayed in the temporary dwellings and tents with Tommy and Sherri Waller and their family, and the 120 workers (singles and families) they are bringing in from all over the world to help harvest the grapes on the hills of Samaria.

We were up at 5.00 in the morning on the misty hillside to help pick the luscious bunches of grapes. What a joyful privilege to fulfill Bible prophecy. Over two and a half thousand years ago the prophet wrote, "Strangers shall stand and feed your flocks and the sons of the alien shall be your plowmen and your vinedressers" (Isaiah 61:5). Isn't that amazing?

It is incredible to see these fruitful vineyards growing out of the barren rocky soil. It is nothing less than miraculous. It reminds me of Psalm 102:14, "For thy servants take pleasure in her stones, and favor the dust thereof."The farmers of the West Bank were told the soil was not suitable for growing vineyards, but they obeyed God's plan for the land rather than a soil test. Jeremiah 31:5 says, "Thou shalt yet plant vines upon the mountains of Samaria, the planters shall plant, and shall eat them as common things."

Did you know that God not only speaks to His literal people of Israel, but He also speaks to His land? Read Ezekiel, chapter 36. I'd love you to read the whole chapter, but here are some little excerpts, "Therefore, ye mountains of Israel, hear the word of the Lord God; Thus saith the Lord God to the mountains, and to the hills, to the rivers, and to the valleys, to the desolate wastes, and to the cities that are broken... O mountains of Israel, ye shall shoot forth your branches, and yield your fruit to my people of Israel; for they are at hand to come.(Now that God's people have come, and are continuing to come, back to the land, God is speaking to it to bring forth fruit. It is happening through the divine Word of the Lord)! "For, behold I am for you, and I will turn unto you, and ye shall be tilled and sown: and I will multiply men upon you, all the house of Israel, even all of it: and the cities shall be inhabited, and the wastes shall be builded... they shall increase and bring fruit: and I will settle you after your old estates, and will do better unto you than at your beginnings: and ye shall know that I am the Lord. Yea, I will cause men to walk upon you, even my people Israel; and they shall possess thee, and thou shalt be their inheritance."

When the children of Israel first possessed the land of Israel, it was a land of lush fruitfulness. However, when they were scattered to the four corners of the earth, because of refusing to walk in God's commandments, the land became barren and unfruitful and turned into deserts and malarial swamps. But, now they are coming back to the land, God has spoken to the land to bring forth fruit again. When they plant and water in this barren land it comes to life.

And God wants them to possess it again with vineyards and olive trees as the prophets prophesied would happen when they come back to the land. God wants all the hills of Samaria built up with towns and planted with vineyards, olive groves, and gardens.

This area of Israel is the very place where the children of Israel first established themselves in the land. They put down the tabernacle at Shiloh and made it permanent. What a privilege it was to stand on the site where the tabernacle was situated. But, although God gave the land to His people, they had to go in and possess it.

It is the same today. God has never revoked His divine promise of giving this land to His people for an everlasting possession. However, as in the beginning, they still have to possess it again today (Joshua 18:3). Pray for the farmers on the West Bank as they struggle to possess the land in the midst of many enemies. They face constant setbacks and attacks. The enemy is attacking what God wants to do, therefore we must do battle in prayer.

Amos 9:14-15 says, "And I will bring again the captivity of my people of Israel, and they shall build the waste cities, and inhabit them; and they shall plant vineyards, and drink the wine thereof; they shall also make gardens, and eat the fruit of them. And I will plant them upon their land, and they shall no more be pulled up out of their land which I have given them, saith the Lord thy God."

FAMILY MISSION TRIP

If you would like to do a mission trip to serve the Lord as a family, you may like to pray about helping in the vineyards of Samaria and enjoying the privilege of fulfilling Bible prophecy. There is no greater privilege. It is also a wonderful opportunity for young people. If you are interested, go to www.hayovel.com.

Tommy and Sherri Waller, and their family of 11 children, have been serving the farmers by helping them harvest their vineyards for the last eight years. But, now they come with more than their 11 children. Three of the oldest sons are married, and one more to be married soon, and now the grandchildren are coming on. And they still keep coming as a family. They are an amazing example of serving the Lord together as a family. They also bring in teams from all over the world to help them in this great task.

By the way, you may have seen the story of the Waller Family called A Journey Home, and also Betrothed, the story of Braden and Tali's betrothal. Braden is the oldest son of Tommy and Sherri. Go to: http://bit.ly/BetrothedDVD

CHEER UP!

Nanci at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...

"I just got your Cheer Up! book last week and I am so grateful! I want to encourage other moms to get one, especially if you are in my situation. I have an unsaved husband and it is very discouraging day in and day out to be the only Christian parent in the home. I've been praying for him for 17 years now. I also have a few extended family members who are saved (many are not), but those who are, do not believe the beautiful biblical job descriptions for us women to be wives, mothers, and nation builders from our homes. What a blessing to know that every morning I can open up my Cheer Up! book and know that I will start my day with true biblical encouragement regarding the value and power of biblical womanhood. This book is a treasure!"

Get your hardcopy at: http://bit.ly/USCheerUP

or ebook copy at: http://bit.ly/CheerUpEbookUS

100 DAYS OF BLESSING, VOLUME 2

I am now beginning to prepare 100 DAYS OF BLESSING, VOLUME 2. I know so many of you have been waiting for this and it is my next project after completing this newsletter to you..

If you haven't yet read 100 DAYS OF BLESSING VOLUME 1, you won't want to miss out.

Some readers have commented...

"I just started reading this devotional, but it's already rocking my world. I've read lots of devotionals for moms/wives, but they're sissy in comparison with this one. This one is meaty and challenging and so encouraging! It makes you think on it all day long. It is very well put together with the scriptures, prayer, affirmation, and teaching. It's easy to read and very real!"

"The best devotional I have ever read! I just bought three more for family and friends. I am reading this to my daughters and they are loving it too!"

"You will find no fluff here. Nancy Campbell covers so many things that mothers face on a daily basis. It's like having a Titus 2 woman right there in the trenches with me to encourage and support me along the way. It reminds me that we are not just to survive motherhood, but we are to be victorious, joyful mothers!"

"WOW! Do I love this book! I've never had such an encouraging and directing devotional."

"It's so good I can't help but devour it!"

"I could barely put it down! I am soooo excited about this wonderful, powerful book!"

"This is the best devotional book for moms I have ever seen. I can't even begin to tell you how amazing it is; yes it's THAT good!"

"Every night I read one of these devotions before bed and I'm re-energized to meet

the next day. Nancy has such a gift of encouragement and reminding us what is really important!"

"I love this devotional so much that I just purchased a few for my friends! I have had other devotionals but never one that encouraged me so much in my role as a mom and wife. I read it every morning while sipping my Yerba mate tea!"

"Each and every one of these devotions spoke to my heart, and were so encouraging. I can't wait for the next volume!"

It is also a wonderful idea for gifts for friends and family, for Baby Showers, Birthdays, and especially with Christmas coming up.

Get Your copy here: http://bit.ly/100DaysofBlessing

HELP PROTECT TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE

Megan Hutson at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...

For the first time in history, "same-sex" marriage activists have pursued a ballot measure to redefine marriage. If passed, the marriage amendment in Maine will “re-define” marriage as a genderless institution.

A new, re-defined version of marriage would be the only legally recognized definition of marriage in Maine.

Citizens, small businesses, and religious organizations would not be allowed to let their beliefs and traditions determine their decisions, and they would find themselves in legal trouble if they do not comply with the new law's heavy-handed mandates. Those who do not agree with the law will be treated as racists and bigots and punished accordingly. A few examples include:

Religious groups like Catholic Charities in Boston and Washington DC have had to choose between fulfilling their social mission based on their religious beliefs, or acquiescing to this new definition of marriage. They have, for example, been forced to close their charitable adoption agencies. Nonprofit groups are faced with abandoning their historic mission principles in order to maintain governmental contracts (for things like low-income housing, health clinics, etc.)

In Massachusetts, children as young as second grade were taught about gay marriage in class. The courts ruled that parents had no right to prior notice, or to opt their children out of such instruction.

Wedding professionals have been fined for refusing to participate in a same-sex ceremony.

Christian innkeepers in Vermont and Illinois are being sued over their refusal to make their facilities available for same-sex weddings despite offers to refer the couples to other providers and in spite of the deeply-held religious views of the inn-keepers.

We ask that supporters of family values and traditional marriage join us in our cause to defend Traditional Marriage.

They can join our cause by donating $25, $59, $129, or even $1,999 right now to Protect Traditional Marriage. Because this is an issue campaign, there are no legal limits to what you can legally contribute.  Moreover, churches can provide financial support as well.  Several churches in Maine are committing to donating no less than $1,000, with larger churches donating much more. We highly encourage churches from all over the U.S. to join us in this battle.

I wish I could individually express to each of your readers the consequences of this ballot proposal if passed, but clearly the consequence are dire. We are asking supporters to join together and make a generous donation today to defend Traditional Marriage.

This election will have national implications and your help is needed.  More information about the campaign can be found on the website here. Donations can be made here.

Thank you in advance for your careful consideration and generous support.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Megan Hutson

Protect Marriage Maine

Grassroots Coordinator

Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/ProtectMarriageMaine

P.S. Here is an article of a Vermont Innkeeper who refused to host a wedding for a lesbian couple because of religious beliefs. The Innkeeper was sued and now has to pay $30,000!

http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/vt-inn-2-women-settle-lawsuit-filed-after-couple-was-refused-wedding-services/2012/08/23/a8b4f7e0-ed4e-11e1-866f-60a00f604425_story.html

HELP FOR RWANDA

Emmanuel Sitaki at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...

"Hi Nancy, Would you please, help me to spread the vision?

Equipping, Restoring, and Multiplying (ERM) is a Christian Interdenominational, Interracial Ministry 501(C)(3) nonprofit, a Holistic Evangelism dedicated to helping the people of Rwanda and beyond, turn away from a horrific past and look ahead to a future built on Christ, economic stability, educational excellence and strong communities.

ERM operation is to deliver long lasting practical solutions with focus on care for orphaned, poor children, and the widowed of Rwanda, hence equipping the future generation of godly Christian leaders. ERM Ministries was founded in 1996 by a survivor of the 1994 Rwandan genocide, Emmanuel Sitaki Kayinamura to respond to both physical and spiritual needs of people of Rwanda and the Great Lakes Region of Central East Africa.

The genocide physically eradicated more than one million innocents Rwandans, but it did not destroy the living spirit of hope, faith, and determination of survivors.

OBJECTIVE OF PROGRAM FOR WIDOWS AND ORPHANS UNITED FOR A COMMUNITY

1. To bring hope for a future to the widowed by inspiring, training, and equipping them with knowledge, skills, and hands on income generating activities that would boost their livelihood.
2. For long term sustainability, we intend to develop income generating projects in the area of animal rearing, business, and transport services.
3. To initiate a Grant/credit scheme to help poor families start a business or project to support themselves.
4. To inspire, train, and equip the widowed women who lost everything from the 1994 genocide with skill to improve their economic and social welfare, to break out of the poverty cycle and have a meaningful living.
5. To empower the widows economically by assisting them to start generating activities for a living.
6. In this way we aim to develop the communities they are living in.

WIDOWS SPONSORSHIP PROGRAM

Why sponsor a widow in Rwanda? How much does it cost to sponsor a widow in Rwanda?

With $40.00 per month, you can give hope for the future of a wounded widow from the 1994 genocide in Rwanda.

What is the benefit? This program is unique! When we have 5 to 10 widows sponsored, we group them in a cooperative for starting a small business and each one will be accountable to each one for the success and the growth of their small businesses.

Would you join us? www.ermrwanda.org

Emmanuel Sitaki, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

375 NE Terre View Drive, Apt.# E316 Pullman, WA 99163

Facebook Page: ERM-RWANDA

KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK

Please don't listen to the lies of well-meaning friends and family who demean your powerful and divine calling of motherhood. You are doing what God created you to do. You are in the perfect will of God. Lift up your head, put a smile on your face, and rejoice that you are doing an eternal work.

Every other career in which women get involved outside of the home will pass away. They can't take it to eternity with them. But, motherhood is an eternal career. Your children are eternal souls, born to live forever. You will take them to eternity with you. The more children you have, the more you will impact this earth for God, and the more you will fill eternity.

Be excited. Be encouraged. You couldn't be doing anything greater.

Look out for the new magazine coming.

Much love and blessings to you and your home from NANCY

www.aboverubies.org

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AboveRubiesUS

Just as I caught myself thinking;

"I am so annoyed with the constant training and repetition required in parenting. It is a daily struggle of trying to teach, train, and expect proper behaviour. I am tired of the never-ending demands", the Lord stepped in.
He reminded me of how He never tires, even though His job with me (and every other child of His) is even more demanding.
Again, He met me right where I was at, humbled me, and got me moving in the right direction once again.
He is so Awesome.
Isn't it wonderful how He patiently and mercifully leads us? Love Michelle

The other night I was tucking in two of my daughters to bed, and I saw that their room was a huge mess. I said, "Look at this room! Wow! You guys need to clean it up!" My daughter (8) answered, "Mum, we had a wild party when those other children were over, and it got messy!" I just had to laugh. How often I see mess, and they just see memories of fun. Once again, it was time to lighten up, and let life happen. Mess does happen often, when we are having fun, and there is always time to tidy up later. No need to get worried about it. It should actually bring a sense of joy to look around and know that so many had so much fun. Enjoy your home and your hospitality today. Love Michelle

I was nursing my sweet 2 year old this morning, and after a few minutes, I had decided to get up and do something else. I figured it was time to move on to the next thing, as she had already nursed earlier, and this was just a little comfort session. I told her it was time for me to get up and she said,

"More time Mummy! More time!".

Well, of course I gave her more time!
How convicting!
She will not always be nursing, and absolutely none of the tasks calling me are that pressing. I happily gave her more time, and will not rush her again.
It is so easy to get sidetracked and forget where our time really should be spent, isn't it? Love Michelle

One of the best gifts we have as Mothers is our instincts. I believe that this is a gift straight from our Father. He gives us His Word to guide us, and He gives us our motherly instincts to assist us in our parenting. I see too many young mothers second-guessing themselves, and seeking out counsel from all kinds of sources, and landing in confusion and frustration. They should really just be trusting their instincts most of the time. Dear Mother, you are better equipped than you think! Enjoy your motherhood in confidence! Love Michelle

I see a disturbing theme in parenting difficult teens these days. It seems to be permeating our culture. It seems that if a family is faced with a teen determined to make unwise and unhealthy decisions, families are counselled to step aside and let the young person have their way. The logic goes something like this: 'seeing as you cannot change a person that does not want to change, just let it run its course'. It is sort of the "you can't help someone that doesn't want help" mentality. You just step back and hope and pray for the best.

I disagree.
I look to the Word for counsel. I look at the ultimate Parent's example. He looked at His children, that were so terribly lost and continually and horrifically failing in every way imaginable, and He basically said there is no sacrifice too great.
He died to save His children.
Why do so many parents give up nowadays, and feel that they can do nothing?
There are always things that can be done, always new methods to employ, always new outreaches, and new supports to explore. There is always more prayer, more involvement, more love, more patience, more sacrifice and always more hard-work, even heart-wrenching work that can be done. There are always new avenues to explore, and when we reach a dead-end, we find a new route. We never give up, and we keep on trying. After all, our children are the future, and they will be raising all our future generations. It is worth it.
Let's follow the example of the Father, and not grow weary in our parenting, if or when trying times come.
Do not count the sacrifice, and do hope beyond hope as you employ every possibility. Never give up.
Love Michelle

When I was a young Mama, I would feel annoyed when I was trying to accomplish the baking or cleaning and a little one would interrupt me to demand some attention. Now that I am an older Mama, I am happy to stop my work when a little one wants to give me a hug, or show me something. Taking that moment gives us both such pleasure, and the work still gets done soon enough. I look back and wonder why I got so worked up! It is thrilling when some little person wants my attention, so why did I get so frustrated? Isn't it funny how perspectives change? That is why it is so important to not make decisions based on feelings, since feelings are always changing. Love Michelle

I will not be driven by negative feelings, they will not control me, as self-control is a fruit of the Spirit and the Spirit is my helper.

I will not be defined by my circumstances, as they change throughout life. After all, I serve a sovereign God who is in complete control of all things.

I will not let me fearful, doubtful or critical thoughts linger, as I take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.

The Lord will be there with me, to bless all of my efforts.
This is a great affirmation to start the day. Love Michelle

I have been busy lately, and I have felt overloaded with not only things to do, but also with concerns. Perhaps you have felt like me? You pray and yet still feel burdened? Have you ever experienced that? Well, it is precisely there where God met me with a powerful and comforting verse. Is 46:3-4 says,
"Hearken unto me, O house of Jacob, and all the remnant of the house of Israel, which are borne by me from the belly, which are carried from the womb: And even to your old age I am he; and even to hoar hairs will I carry you: I have made, and I will bear; even I will carry, and will deliver you."
NIV says, "Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you."
Isn't that beautiful? From our conception to our death He makes us, bears us, carries us, rescues us, and delivers us! We get caught up in so many things and forget that,
"I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me" Is 46:9.
We forget that He works out ALL details according to His purpose and pleasure. Is 46:10
May we all walk in true peace today, knowing and trusting that He is indeed in complete control. May we teach this by word and deed to our children. May fear, doubt, concern and worry have no place in our hearts as we walk in faith, trust, peace, and contentment. After all, we are His, and He is King. Love Michelle

I woke up this morning to a really messy kitchen, and as I washed up the dishes, I actually felt really pleased instead of annoyed. We have a large family with many different schedules, so our kitchen is in constant motion. That means it gets messy outside of regular meal times. Some people start their day at 4am, 5:30am, 6am or later. Some finish work at 10 pm, or end class at 7pm and still need dinner. The important thing about this is that the whole family still lives here, sharing the same house, and sharing some meals together. The day will come soon enough when our family will change, as our adult children marry and move into homes of their own. I will enjoy this precious season of still being together with thankfulness. I will deal with the mess that all the different schedules bring with gladness. Each season passes so quickly, I want to enjoy them all without grumbling. Enjoy the season your family is in too, as just like spring or summer, it will pass before you know it! Love Michelle

M- many
O - opportunities
T -to
H -help
E -excel
R -responsibly

and

M -magnificent
O - occupation
T -that
H -holds
E -eternal
R-responsibility

What a privilege to be a mother! There is no greater career, no greater role, no greater calling, and no greater use of a woman's time and energy. To be a mother is to be most blessed! Praise the Lord for all mothers (birth, adoptive, foster, "second", mentoring) and the supreme gift that motherhood is. Love Michelle

How are you holding up today? Think of Col 1:11 which says, "Strengthened with all might, according to his glorious power, to all patience and long-suffering with joyfulness". Imagine, long suffering with joyfulness! We are so prone to grumble in our suffering, just as the Israelites did. They were eye-witnesses to so many miracles in the desert, and yet they often grumbled and complained anyway. Likewise, we grumble and complain when we face hardship or discomfort. Yet, we are strengthened by His unfailing power to bear life's hurdles full of JOY. Let us walk in that truth today, confessing it, believing it, and bearing all things joyfully through His available and glorious power. Everything and everyone will be so much better for it. Love Michelle

Do you hear plenty of complaining? As I did my chores this morning, I thought about how much complaining I hear in any given day. It seems that a disproportionately large portion of just basic daily communication is in the form of complaint. I thought how nice it would be if we all prayed as much as we complained! Is that not a most beautiful solution? If, every time we heard or spoke a complaint, we immediately prayed, we would solve two problems at once. And who doesn't want to be an efficient multi-tasker? We would turn the complaints around, virtually stopping them in their tracks, and we would all be praying more, which is even better! It is the "complaint prayer chain", which we could all use, and then just like in Jer 31:13, the Lord would "turn their (our) mourning into joy". Love Michelle

This fallen world in which we live never ceases to amaze me. I thought I had heard all the criticisms against homeschooling that existed in my 16 years of teaching at home, but I now stand corrected. While in college, my daughter was ridiculed for missing sex ed, since she was home schooled. Seriously, we could hardly believe that!
The truth is, our children get plenty of real sex ed. They learn that sex outside of marriage is sinful and has a name - fornication. They learn that it was even punishable by death to not be a virgin at the time of marriage. Deut 22:21 states, "Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you." Our children miss nothing by learning the real truth about sex through studying what God's Word says about it.
We certainly are not able to control what the world thinks or does, or even what any given person thinks or does, but we sure can stand up for, teach, and promote biblical truth, even if it is unpopular.
May our children be so mighty in the land, able to stand up for biblical truth even when it flies in the face of all so called "common sense". Love Michelle

"Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers." Eph 4:29. This is our challenge as wives and mothers. Our words have so much power! "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof" Prov 18:21.
How are your words today? Take the time to think before speaking to ensure that your words are the ones you need to reach your goals of upbuilding and strengthening your family. What a wonderful way to honour the Lord in our homes. He will surely bless and multiply our efforts. Love Michelle

Are you ready for a challenge that will revolutionize your life? I hope so! It is the Eph 4:29 challenge! There is no complaining allowed, no negative words whatsoever. Only words that are positive and upbuilding. Can you handle it? Of course you can! Speak only the positive for 48 hours. Are you ready? Set? Go! Love Michellle

God doesn't need much of anything to make a fabulous, amazing, incredible, humongous result, does He?
When talking of His kingdom, He tells how the small mustard seed, the smallest of all the planted seeds, becomes the largest of all the plants in the garden (Matt 4:32).
In marriage, it only takes small acts of obedience, small steps of faith, and small bits of trust for Him to bless us with huge, gigantic, overwhelming and unimaginably good results. Perhaps not overnight, but certainly over time. Watch and see!
Even if only one spouse is making the effort, He blesses! Even if the effort is minuscule, the blessing is returned ten fold! He ensures that each and every act of obedience on our part is always rewarded! No effort comes back void, ever! We only need to do our part, even if we can only handle a small teenie tiny part, the investment comes back with terrific returns. Try and see how God will work unbelievable results. Love Michelle

When Mother sees her child in pain, worn down, hurt or suffering, she is filled with compassion. Everything in her wants to comfort and restore, and return peace and joy. She longs for her children to have the most blessed life, full of health, safety, wisdom and goodness. God the Father parents us with a parental love even more powerful! He designed parenting! He is the original parent, and He longs to restore us, longs to comfort us, and to see us living in His joy and peace. His goal is not to have us worn out and run down (Ps 127:2) He wants to fill us with His peace and His rest (Matt 11:28). If you are feeling run down today, lift up your eyes to your Father, who will not fail to give you rest and restoration. Walk forward in a step of faith and watch Him provide! Love Michelle

Today we were reading Genesis 30 at our family meal table. It is the chapter about Jacob, having sons born to him from Bilhah, Zilpah, Leah and Rachel. At the end of our reading, our 11 year old daughter said, "I am glad I am not a man in those days, having to lie with all those women!". In this day and age, a man lying with so many women would not cause even a blink of an eye to many. Praise be to God, our daughter saw that not only was that undesirable, but exhausting and unwelcome. Oh, thanks be to God! Dear Lord, please keep our children pure in this morally corrupt culture they are living in. Love Michelle

We know that we are not status quo, but who wants to look like everyone around them anyway? Even though I have a degree, we choose that I not work outside our home. Even though no families in our neighbourhood or church have 11 children, we continue to pray for more children. Even though most families around us send their children to the public school, we choose to teach ours at home. Even though most homes have cable or satellite television, we choose not to in ours. We don't want to look like everyone else, and there is no shame in that. We teach our children that the Lord make them each uniquely, with a specific plan and purpose. Why is there an expectation then to conform to status quo when we are all grown up? Be proud of how non status quo you are, instead of feeling pressured. Love Michelle

Part of being a helpmeet to our husbands is to help them be the very best they can be. Phil 4:8 ends with "if there be any praise, think on these things". When I complain or say I am overwhelmed, I immediately see the negative effects on my husband. The light in his eyes darkens, and his countenance saddens. It is as though I instantly deflate him and remove all the wind from his sails. When I am upbeat and positive, he shines and energizes, ready to take on the world! There is a reason we are told to think on the positive, because it benefits us, as well as all those around us. Turn pity into praise and watch the powerful, persuasive and potent results! Love Michelle

We were reading the story of Rebekah at the well, when she was chosen by the Lord to be Isaac's wife. Gen 24:16 says, "And the damsel was very fair to look upon, a virgin, neither had any man known her". The Douay-Rheims Bible words it, "An exceedingly comely maid, and a most beautiful virgin, and not known to man". I made sure to explain to our children that a very large part of this maiden's beauty was her purity. I'm always looking for ways to promote the blessings of purity. We need a "Virginity is Gorgeous" and a "Save Yourself for Marriage" campaign, to counter the other garbage campaigns out there that are lying (and destroying) to our youth. Love Michelle

Spring cleaning has begun at our house. I find it so exciting to de-clutter and put things back in order. It is like transforming our home into a whole new creation! I love it so much. Painting, organizing and getting rid of accumulation makes for a lovely home to enjoy our lives in. In addition, we never know what the Lord has in mind for our futures, so when our homes are in good order, we are ready if He moves us to a new location. Our children even get excited to see rooms sparkling and organized. It is work that is worthy of our time, and it greatly benefits our lives. Are you spring cleaning? I started with the office at our place. Maybe it will even be painted by the end of the weekend. How fun! Love Michelle

There are times when I really appreciate immediate gratification. That is one of the things I love most about home-making. We have the immediate gratification of a job well done, every time we clean something. We do not need to wait to see results, because we see the difference within seconds. What a blessing! Our homes get put back in order, things look clean and tidy, and the transformation happens instantaneously, with each little bit of effort exerted. I know the results are often short-lived, but that is okay. We live in our homes, and so we simply resume that bit of effort again, and Presto! we get instant results once more. I love how even if many of my tasks require repetition, they reward me with immediate results. How many people can say the same about the work they do each day? We stay at home gals truly are richly blessed! Love Michelle

Famous people may get hounded by the media, with paparazzi wanting their pictures, and fans wanting a second of their time, but that is nothing. As a mother, I am in demand 24/7 each day of my life! There is always someone wanting to share with me, touch me, talk to me, show me something, draw me, sit with me, listen to me, see me smile, hug me and kiss me. Someone always wants to know where I am, what I am doing, and how I am feeling. Someone always misses me, longs for me and wants to be in my presence, even if I am in the shower! I am forever in dialogue and in loving demand, and it will not pass. This is true of all mothers. Unlike the famous, we are always in the limelight. There is no fleeting moment of fame because for Mother, it lasts a lifetime. No amount of worldly fame and fortune can hold a candle to the power and influence of motherhood. What an incredible privilege, to be so very in demand. Love Michelle

In my travels I overheard some businessmen in conversation. One commented with enthusiasm how he would be home in an hour, and on his couch. He said it with such pleasure. He could not wait to be HOME. The next man mentioned their mutual friend, who would still be at the shop, as that is where he always is. The first man answered, "He just loves to be away from home." Oh, what a sad testimony! Home should be the family's favourite place to be: the place of renewal, rejuvenation, and belonging. May we all have such amazing atmospheres in our homes that our husbands and children cannot wait to be back home when they are away. Love Michelle

My seminar this weekend, called "Water in the Desert: How to Keep Going When the Going Gets Tough" was extremely well attended. I cover the three D's and the ABC's in this talk. The 3 D's are Doubt, Discouragment, and Deception and they all must be avoided in order to have your home and school run well. In addition, you must check your Attitude, Build up your relationships with your husband and children, and Care for yourself. How are your ABC's going? Make sure you are avoiding the 3 D's as well. The enemy loves to see us walking in deception, full of discouragement and doubt. Give him no pleasure today. Walk in the fullness of the truth, in the privilege of your calling as daughter of the Most High, wife of your king, and mother of the most precious children. What an amazing gift we have, the gift of life! I hope you can feel and catch my excitement! Love Michelle

What a beautiful evening I have had seeing so many lovely families and so many sweet babies at the Midwest Great Homeschool Convention. The body of Christ is so diverse and so beautiful...I am blessed to be a part of it. I heard a quote tonight that I will not soon forget, regarding the body of believers. It is, "You don't like me because I sin differently than you do." What a statement, to not only humble us all as sinners, but to also remind us all to offer grace to one another. Love Michelle

Twenty years ago today, I married a very brave man. He was willing to take a wife such as myself, and willing to become the father of all of our children.  I will not lie and say that our wedded life has been a glorious fairytale with each year growing progressively sweeter. There were some hard years and some times that we really didn't think we would make it this far.  However, we came through those deep valleys, and landed on mountains of strong unconditional love, intimate friendship, and clearer understanding that neither of us knew could exist in a marriage. We grew together, and truly became one. What a beautiful thing.  We now cannot imagine life without each other.  We look forward to the next 20 years, and the 20 after that. God honours what He joins together, and we are ever so glad.  Love Michelle

"I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living." Ps 27:13 NKJV. I love this verse so much. It holds the key, dear ladies! When things run amuck, when relationships are strained, when children rebel, when people fail us, when we fail ourselves, when we are tempted to give in to despair, this is our answer. We believe and focus on the fact that we will again see the goodness of the Lord while we live, and that things will change for the better. There is no need to lose heart over temporary circumstances. We know better! We will see the goodness of the Lord, and we take courage through the valleys we face, knowing that the sunny meadows are just ahead. In fact, we can choose to drag our feet, so it takes longer to get there, or we can run the race, and get there in no time! When the going gets tough, let's live in real faith, and not get dragged down by temporary circumstances. Look up! The goodness of the Lord never fails. Love Michelle

Our family was reading Genesis 16, and I was suddenly inspired by Hagar. She knew that she was pregnant, and the angel of the Lord confirmed it in the desert, when she had fled from Sarai. The angel said to her, regarding her unborn son in verse 12, "And he will be a wild man; his hand will be against every man, and every man's hand against him". Wow! What a hard thing to hear as a pregnant momma. Just think how many mothers nowadays would say, "Forget it! I don't want a child like that! I choose to abort!" Not Hagar. Hagar responded with complete awe that she survived seeing "the God who sees". She didn't complain and grumble. She worshipped, went home and gave birth. I was struck by her obedience, and her stamina. Many of us worry and complain unfoundedly over even the slightest difficulty with our children. Hagar knew she would have a difficult child even before she held him, yet she did not dismay. Few of us will have such a child as that. I found her attitude so inspiring. May we face any difficulties that come our way with the same resolve. Love Michelle

Family life, both parenting and marriage, do not come without some difficulty. This is the reality in every home. A wise wife and mother realizes her limitations in being able to control everything, and accepts this. She continues in her role of loving, nurturing and consistently building up and strengthening her relationships with her husband and children, even if things are not as she wishes them to be all the time. There is no perfect on this side of heaven, and that is perfectly okay. Our God and Father is big enough to handle all of our concerns, and He will work out all things according to His plan and purpose. He will make all things beautiful in His time. All we need to do is enjoy the journey, as we fulfill our God given mandate each day, and grow in our faith. Let's enjoy all that our perfectly imperfect lives have to offer today. Love Michelle

Motherhood is a calling, a privilege, and a gift. It is our legacy. It is what we embrace and pour ourselves into.  It is not burdensome. It is not an onerous list of unending tasks to complete.  It is not some half-hearted thing we do on the side of other things.  Motherhood is a most powerful and significant calling. We have the opportunity to be in a loving relationship with a precious one-of-a- kind creation from the very hand of God Himself.  We are granted guardianship, friendship and mentorship with an eternal soul whom we have the joy of sharing all of life with.  It is the most amazing thing! What could be a better use of our time? How can it ever be thought of as less than what it truly is? To be in relationship with our children and grandchildren throughout our lives with the ability to love and minister to them is absolutely the best of all opportunities. Love Michelle

 

Are you ready for another one of those catchy parenting phrases? I love to say this one to all the various ages of our children. It comes in handy on all manner of occasions. It is, "If it is not fun for all, it is not fun at all!" Love Michelle

Tonight at dinner, a lovely lady came up to me to have a few words. What she said brought tears to my eyes. She said that she had been watching my family continually this week, and was impressed with the behavior of the children and the calmness of the parents. She said she originated from a family of 10, but could only have 2 herself. She said she felt the need to commend us, as a good deed deserves to be recognized. She told me that I made her proud to be a woman! I tried to compose myself as I wiped a tear, and then I took her picture. I told her I would quote her today on Above Rubies, and she said that she too was a Christian. I hope she looks up Above Rubies. Thank you Lord, for Your words of encouragement through your servant Jolie today! Love Michelle

Do you ever wonder why it is so easy to be negative, grumpy or discontent? Grumbling and self-pity seem to come so naturally to us, don't they? Just like the Israelites in the desert, we quickly forget our blessings, and complain in bitterness. Yet, it gets us absolutely no place that we want to be. It may come naturally for us to be that way, but there is no pay-off. The pay-off only comes with a bit of work. "In all labour there is profit" says Prov 14:23, so we must battle our natural inclinations and check ourselves. When our attitudes reflect thankfulness, praise and a positive outlook, our pay-off is joy, contentment, and a lovely home life where everyone wants to be. Love Michelle

It really is no wonder that the Bible tells us to be slow to speak. I often end up surprised at the words that my husband, children, or others, will hold on to from a conversation. When we speak, we are never exactly sure which words will have the most inflluence and impact on the listener. That is why 2 people will remember completely different parts of the same conversation. Wemust be slow to speak, and choose our words carefully. I need to make sure the words that I speak are the ones that I want remembered, and repeated. I need to watch my flippant comments, and increase my praise and encouragement. Everything will be sweeter if I do, and I want that. How about you? Love Michelle

A couple was watching our family for awhile yesterday, and they started asking questions. The usual ones came up, like how many children do you have, what does your husband do, do you school at home, and how are you still sane, is it a religious thing, what about teenagers, etc. By the end of the conversation, they told us that they were getting married this fall, and that they had been afraid of having any children at all. The lady said she found us completely inspiring, and they both remarked that they would rethink their whole concept of children. Isn't that great? Praise the Lord, and let Him continue His mighty work in the hearts of people everywhere. Love Michelle

I have read so many t-shirts in my day. Many of them were not worth my time, but I just could not help myself as they walked by. However, in this last week I have read not only one, but two, that were excellent. The first one said, "My husband rocks!". It was worn by a mother of eight. The next one was worn by a beautiful young maiden that said, "I love hard core Christian guys." I loved them both, and thought they were a nice change from the typical t-shirt slogans. Love Michelle

Nancy has posted about being our husband's helper. Ouch! I have fallen so short, especially in these last few weeks! I do long to do what is right, yet I fail more often than I want to admit. My flesh, and my stubborn, self-centered pride like to take over. I guess that is why God's way is often likened to the narrow path. The wide sinful path of 'self' comes much easier than that narrow path of 'spouse' that leads to blessing. Time to repent, and begin again. I do find it diffult. Thankfully, I am married to a loving and forgiving man that spoils me undeservedly, and is patient with my many shortcomings. Love Michelle

It would be easier to blend in more, wouldn't it? To be quiet and unnoticeable? We could spare ourselves mocking, ridicule and shame. But where is the joy in that? We can rejoice when we share in the persecutions of Christ. We are doing such an amazing job that the enemy takes notice and tries to discourage us. That is terrific! Why would anyone want to live a life that is not noticed by the enemy? Persecution is equal to a powerful life lived for Christ. And our sweet Saviour completely identifies with us in our sufferings, and He intercedes for us, as He prepares our eternal home. It is a great life. Love Michelle

The other day I was reading how a celebrity felt that her mother and grandmother were not able to exercise all of their talents as they were "only' able to have children and raise them. How sad, she completely missed that motherhood truly was their greatest calling. Even if they were gifted writers, singers, surgeons, or what have you, they could never exceed their abilities of raising the future generations. And neither can we. Love Michelle

Sibling rivalry? I really don't see it in our family. Do you see it in yours? Our children love to have each other around, and the family sure feels the loss when someone cannot join the family meal table at home. We miss being together! Many prayers have gone up for more siblings to come, from siblings. My sister and I didn't really experience it growing up either. Sometimes I have to wonder if all the buzz about sibling rivalry is not just another scare tactic to influence couples from embracing children? Love Michelle

I love Genesis 12:1-2: "Now the LORD had said unto Abram, Get thee out of thy country, and from thy kindred, and from thy father's house, unto a land that I will shew thee: And I will make of thee a great nation, and I will bless thee, and make thy name great; and thou shalt be a blessing". This verse actually reminds me of motherhood. The Lord sometimes has us take a stand contrary to what our family's stand may be regarding marriage, motherhood, and children. He takes us to a new land, a land of embracing motherhood. It is perhaps a frightening land to us, if we feel all alone. Yet, the Lord blesses us and makes us a blessing, as we raise up His mighty arrows. He gives us support and encouragement along the way, reminding us that He has put us in this new land, and He is well pleased. We are in the center of His will. Love Michelle

"Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it." Prov 3:27. I found myself referring to this verse often this past weekend. After all, it is what we are all called to, isn't it? If there is any good we are able to do for others, we are told to do it. For wives and mothers, there is truly no end to the good we can do to our husbands and children. We need to continually remember that we do this all for the Lord, and He is well pleased with us. Not only will He provide the strength and the means to help us, but He shall also provide the blessings when we carry it through. Love Michelle

It was so sweet yesterday when I was being teased about having so many children. I had just finished praising our oldest son, to the table of 21 that was gathered, about how well he runs the home when his dad and I are away. Someone replied that it was their guess that our son may not want to have any children of his own, after having to watch so many. Another commented that we better pay him well for such a gruelling job. To all this our son answered, "No, I want at least 12 children", and his sister piped out, "I want as many children as I can have", and I finished by saying, "This daughter of ours wants to adopt in between pregnancies, so that she doesn't have to wait so long to hold a baby, and although we don't pay our son, we will happily return the favour when he has a family of his own, regardless of the number." That left the whole table speechless, and they all got a whole new perspective on attitudes toward children. After a brief pause, someone said, "Well, I guess that's how it is for some people". Yes, I guess that's how it is. :) Love Michelle

My dad's funeral is today, and of course I have been sad about his passing. However, I found myself focusing a little too much on myself these past days, and that was adding a foul mood, on top of the sombre mood that exists. So to refocus, I wrote this acronym this morning:
Focusing on Self
F-finding
O-our
C-central
U-understanding
S-sliding
I-into
N-negative
G-ground

O-others
N-neglected

S-selfish
E-energy
L-lowers
F-family

Compared to being Other Centered:
O-our
T-thinking
H-has
E-energized
R-remarkably

C-cuz
E-everyone's
N-now
T-thankful,
E-everyone's
R-receiving
E-each
D-day
Love Michelle

It is amazing what we can do with a little support. Perhaps it comes through our spouse, our family, or our friends. Perhaps it comes through our church, our community, or even through something we read. The Lord gives us those boosts of support to carry us when we are weary, just as he did for Moses. "But Moses' hands were heavy; and they took a stone, and put it under him, and he sat thereon; and Aaron and Hur stayed up his hands, the one on the one side, and the other on the other side; and his hands were steady until the going down of the sun." Ex 17:12. We never walk alone, even when we feel weak and weary. He is always with us, providing for our needs, in His perfect wisdom. He carries us through, time and again. Love Michelle

In our morning devotions today, we were reading from Matthew 8, and in verse 29, where the demons ask Christ, "What have we to do with thee, Jesus, thou Son of God? art thou come hither to torment us before the time?". Our daughter Havenne said, "See, not even the demons want to go back to hell!" Wouldn't it be something if more folks had the fear of hell in them today? Imagine how society would be constrained, and the changes we would see in socially acceptable living and behaviours. Love Michelle

Our family said our final goodbyes to my dad last night, just before he passed away. It had been very difficult to watch his decline over this past week, yet the Lord's timing is always perfect. In our final visit last evening, my sweet husband had prayed that if my dad had made his peace with the Lord, that the Lord would commend his broken body to the ground and take his Spirit to Himself. My dad was gone within the next 2 hours. Each of us had time to speak our final words to him. I find great comfort in Matt 18:13, "And if so be that he find it, verily I say unto you, he rejoiceth more of that sheep, than of the ninety and nine which went not astray." Our hope and prayer is that the Lord is indeed rejoicing over a saved lost sheep, and that we shall meet together again in glory. I am so grateful for the many prayers that have been lifted, and the openness my dad had to the Word, and to prayer, in his final days. Love Michelle

May all of us make 1 Corinthians 14:1a our theme for the weekend. NIV says, "Follow the way of love", NLT says, "Let love be your highest goal!", ESV says, "Pursue love", KJV says, "Follow after charity", ISV says, "Keep on pursuing love", and the Aramaic Bible in plain English says, "Run after love". We need to pursue love even if we feel unloved, even if our nature tries pulling us away from love, even if our spouse is behaving unlovingly, even if our child is wayward, and even if someone is behaving in a hurtful manner. Remember Matt 5:46, "For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?" Let us be pursuers of love, all the time, with everyone. May the love of Christ shine so brightly through each of us today. He can do it through us! Love Michelle

My dad is now taken off of all medical intervention and will soon breath his last. He was so receptive to both visits from ministers and to prayer. He has not told me that he confessed Christ, but he has heard the gospel and was open to it. Who knows what the Spririt has done? It is encouraging to know that he was open to hear the Word, and to be prayed for. In addition, others in the hospital room were exposed to the gospel, and some shared with me that they believe in the Father and Jesus too. The Lord is always worthy to be praised, and I stand in awe of His mighty works. I hope you all feel the same way today, as you love on your families. Build up, encourage and love deeply, while it is still called today. Heb 3:13 Love Michelle

Sometimes a mother can feel that the routines in her day are too repetitive. Dishes, laundry, meals, diapers, and messes to clean seem to be the order of the day, every day. We may feel discouraged by this. Yet, these routines bring great comfort, stability and security to the family. Not only that, but each new day brings grand new adventures! New memories to build, new chances to love and nurture, and new opportunites abound, as we create loving atmospheres for our families. The precious moments are lived out right alongside those regular routines. Every day brings with it the joyful anticipation of surprises, blessings, unforgettable moments, and the increase of love. Enjoy the adventurous life in your home today. Love Michelle

When you feel bogged down, remember that it is the little things that really count. We cannot possibly 'do it all,' but we can do something small! A genuine smile, a warm hug, a kind word, a gentle touch, an "I love you", a heart felt apology, a little note of blessing, a quick phone call to say hello, an "I forgive you", a sit down and snuggle moment, an assurance of our understanding, a tickle or a touch. These small moments speak big volumes, and they leave lasting memories. We can all incorporate small meaningful moments into each of our days, no matter how busy, or overwhelmed, we feel. Love Michelle

Have you ever noticed how many "Never leave children unattended" signs there are? With so many dangers out there for little ones, I guess parents need reminding. As children of God, there are times we may feel unattended and alone. Our attempts at living a godly lifestyle can end up causing us much opposition, ridicule, and even pain. Yet we are never left unattended, are we? Our Father neither slumbers nor sleeps (Ps 121:4), and when we suffer for righteousness sake, ours is the kingdom of heaven (Matt 5:10) and we are blessed (1Pet 3:14). We need to arm ourselves with the truth, so we do not grow weary of doing good. Being in the will of God may not be easy, but it is definitely worth it. His watchful eye is always lovingly upon us. Even if we face opposition, and feel alone, we need to walk in truth and courage today. Love Michelle

My eight year old daughter came home from the recreation center in town last night and said, " Mum, I lost my hat. Guess what I did to find it?" "What?" I asked her. "I prayed to God twice, and I found it! Logan (her 12 year old brother) had told me to pray, so I did, and I found my hat! After I found it I said 'Bless the Lord!'" Isn't that so sweet? The Lord loves to show Himself strong to our children. He is so wonderful. Love Michelle

I read a blog today where the grown child said,""Mom, we never knew we were poor. You always acted like we were rich." I thought this was such a beautiful testimony. It should really be true for every Christian because we truly are so very rich. We are rich beyond measure! We have all the rich promises of God, all the rich benefits of Christ, and all the rich help and comfort of the Holy Spirit. This richness should shine out to all around us, as we walk in our daily lives. They should be able to see that whether we materially possess much, or not, we are living in true richness. Flash your true wealth today, because you have riches beyond measure! Love Michelle

Sometimes I need to remind myself that we truly have everything we need as women, wives and mothers. We are not impoverished, and we lack no good thing. "My God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Phil 4:19. We are more than able to meet every task of today because "God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work" 2 Cor 9:8. We cannot do it in our own power of course, but the power of Christ dwells in us richly. The amazing power of Christ works in us, empowering us, as we see in Eph 3:20 "Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us". Isn't that amazing? Quote for us for the day is: Him through me equals vic-tor-y! Love Michelle

Who are the content ones? Paul says, "Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content." Phil 4:11. The pursuit of money or material goods does not end, as there is always so much more to want. There really is no satisfaction in the accumulation of goods, is there? Yet our culture keeps accumulating. True satisfaction and real contentment do not ever come from what we own, but rather from the relationships we have. Those that are at peace with the Lord, and in solid relationships with their spouse, their children and their families are the most content people on earth. They have love, even if they have little material goods. Our time is so much better spent building quality relationships than amassing wealth. That is the secret to real and lasting contentment. How are your relationships today? Love Michelle

Many people argue that they are too old for more children, and so they choose to not have any more. I hear things like, "I do not want a teenager in the house when I am in my sixties!", "I will be old and retired before they are even married!", or "I am in my forties, I am too old for babies".
Funny thing is though, that these same people do not think they are too old for the workforce. They willingly work into their sixties, or even their seventies. Clearly, they are not too old to work. Most times they are not to old to raise children either. They have simply made a choice.
I am glad we have examples of some Biblical matriarchs that were old, and yet were still thrilled to raise children. Wish there were more like them living near me today. Wouldn't that be wonderful? Love Michelle

My 12 year old son was saying how he would love to get a job. His 11 year old sister told him that he was too young. He replied, "Size does not matter! Look at David and Goliath. David did not need size to win, and Goliath's size did not help him. God is all you need." I think this boy is going places. He certainly has the right perspective. I love it when someone supports their position with Scripture, especially when that someone is a child. Love Michelle

My friend's mother is one of the most loving grandmothers that I have ever met. She recently returned from a trip to Hawaii, where she attended a church service with a beautiful female choir and traditional Hawaiian music. There was a baby crying in the service, and many in the congregation were turning their heads, beginning to wonder when that mother would take the baby out. Then the minister said straight from the pulpit "I love to hear babies in the church. Babies belong here. This is a baby born in the congregation and she belongs here with us". This sweet grandma cried as she retold the story to me, and said how ashamed she was of thinking that the precious mother and baby were disruptive. She was moved and impressed with the minister's correct opinion on the high value of children. I think that congregation heard a very godly message that day, don't you? Love Michelle

Sometimes the demands of home and family life make a mother feel pulled in too many directions. Yet this is not a bad thing, this is a great thing! This testifies to the high significance of her role. The amazing truth of motherhood is that a mother can and does meet multitudes of needs each day. She is a worker like no other, rising to the challenges of each situation, regardless of the personal sacrifice involved. This is one of the beautiful ways she exemplifies Christ to the world.
Each of her days is filled with accomplishing so very much, and each new day brings more to do. She is not to be pitied for being in such high demand, but rather praised. She is absolutely irreplaceable! Employees in the workforce strive to be irreplaceable in order to secure their jobs. They never want work to run out. An irreplaceable worker is envied, valued, praised and never pitied. That is you, dear Mother. Your job is not only secure, but eternally important. You are irreplaceable and highly esteemed! Love Michelle

Dear Above Rubies reader,

This is our first Mini Newsletter for 2012. I can’t believe where the time flies. At the moment I am editing the new issue of Above Rubies, #84. I plan to complete it and give it to my Design Artist to work on while we are in Europe.

Quick Index:

UK and Europe Itinerary

Cheer Up!

Victim of Divorce

Above Rubies Blogs

Host An Orphan

A Picture Worth...

Eye Opening DVD's

Raising Missionaries

Reader Needs Advice

Pen Pals For Single Girl

Sign Petitions

Memorize Bible Verse Songs

Extraordinariness

UK AND EUROPE ITINERARY

At the end of this month Colin and I fly to England and Europe to take Retreats and Seminars. I will post the itinerary so if you know anyone in these places, you can direct them to the contact email or phone number

The Campbell’s’ Itinerary in UK/Europe:

2nd – 4th March

LADIES RETREAT at Annan Court, Sussex, England

Contact: Alice Gurr,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

6th March - Fivemiletown, Northern Ireland

Contact: Beatrix Heinzel,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it., Ph. 00353 49 4371339

7th - 8th March – Durham, Northern England

Contact: Grace Delapanosta,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

9th - 11th March – FAMILY CAMP at Cefn Lea, mid Wales

Contact: Sarah Dawes,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

12th March – Tongeren, Belgium.

Contact: Wilma Samyn,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

14th March - Hurlach, Germany

Contact: Kathleen Engelhardt,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

16th - 18th March – Conference in Kolin, Czech Republic

Contact:This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

19th March – Prague, Czech Republic

Contact: Kristyna Klusonova,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

We return home on the 21^st March and I will then complete the new magazine and get it into the printers.

CHEER UP

You will notice that I advertised this book on page 8 of the current issue of Above Rubies. Please forgive the delay in having it ready for you. It was a much bigger project than I realized, as is usually the case! Praise the Lord, it is now printed and I have ordered the books. They should be on my doorstep in a few days. Order today. You will be so blessed.

I am forever taking on projects that are much larger than I anticipate. At least I don’t get bored. I plan in the future to also publish NEVER GIVE UP, LOOK UP, SWEETEN UP and TOUGHEN UP!

Also, when I return from Europe, I plan to complete 100 DAYS OF BLESSING, VOLUME 2, so that will be coming up.

CHEER UP!
Mini Motivating Messages for Every day

By Nancy Campbell and Michelle Kauenhofen

You are going to love these inspirations. Grab them on the run as you begin another amazing day of running your home and training mighty warriors for God.

Start at the date you receive the book and keep going. You will not only want one for yourself but for gifts for others.

It is the “perfect gift” for every wife and mother.

Retail price: $14.95

Introductory price: $12.95!

     http://bit.ly/USCheerUP

And here’s the link for Canadian readers:

     http://bit.ly/CACheerUp

VICTIM OF DIVORCE

You will remember reading this powerful testimony on pages 9-10 of Above Rubies # 83. Unfortunately, a few lines of a paragraph disappeared at the end of page 9 as we formatted the magazine. Here is the whole paragraph for you:

I think I understand why God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). It pulls apart the very unit he has designed to shape and build our character and personality. And this affects the next generation, our communities and nation. Destinies are at stake. I recently took part in a study on covenants. We looked at Malachi 2:15, “Has not the Lord made them one? And why one? Because He was seeking godly offspring.” My notes explained, “This breaking of faith leaves the children’s souls wandering in confusion, seeking an oneness that has been broken and lost.” God detests divorce because broken families disrupt His ultimate goal: our oneness with Him.

You can also go tohttp://bit.ly/VictimofDivorce to read the whole article on the webpage or to forward it to others.

ABOVE RUBIES BLOGS

If you are on the Above Rubies Facebook, you will be blessed each day by the messages from Michelle Kauenhofen and myself. However, I know that some folks do not want to get hooked up with Facebook.

Therefore, we have now made the inspirational messages available to you on a blog, so you don’t have to miss out. I advertised them in the current Above Rubies, but there are some changes, so please take note.

TO RECEIVE THE DAILY MESSAGES ON BLOG FROM NANCY AND MICHELLE, go to:

     http://bit.ly/aboverubiesblog

My husband is also doing a Facebook for men, called MEAT FOR MEN—UNCOMPROMISING MANHOOD! Men who are on Facebook can type in Meat for Men and they will get it.

However, there are many men who also do not want to be bothered with Facebook.

TO RECEIVE COLIN CAMPBELL’S DAILY UNCOMPROMISING MESSAGES FOR MEN ON BLOG, go to:

     http://bit.ly/MeatforMenBlog

HOST AN ORPHAN FOR THE SUMMER

Michelle Vernon writes:

I'm with New Horizons for Children, the largest faith-based orphan hosting ministry. We are based in Atlanta, but our host program is open to Christian Families nationwide. We've brought over 1600 orphans since 2005 to the US to be hosted with Christian Families for 4-6 week host programs. We brought 400 orphans in 2011 and are looking to do the same this year.

For those interested in missions and ministering to orphans, but who can't travel overseas, this is a ministry and mission trip the entire family can be involved in, as well as their local congregation. We are beginning signup for Summer 2012 Signup.

Contact: Michelle Vernon, Ph: 678-574-4677 ext.6
New Horizons for Children International Orphan Hosting Ministry
http://www.newhorizonsforchildren.org

 

A PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS

I thought I would give you the link again for the article about FAMILY TREES. It is a powerful article and the pictures are amazing. It is something you can forward to everyone you know.

     http://bit.ly/FamilyTrees

EYE OPENING DVDS

Have you seen the two DVDs, INDOCTRINATION and AGENDA yet? If not, I would humbly and urgently encourage you to get them. For the sake of our children, our grandchildren and our nation, I believe that every person in America should watch both these DVDs. They are both powerful eye-openers to what is happening currently in our state education system and also in the nation today. You will not only want to watch them yourself, but invite friends into your home to watch them with you and discuss them together. Here is a little more about them.

INDOCTRINATION - PUBLIC SCHOOLS AND THE DECLINE OF CHRISTIANITY IN AMERICA

Ted Baehr of MovieGuide writes:
"This is the most important issue facing the Body of Christ, an issue that must be addressedand put to rest forever. IndoctriNation is an extremely important movie. Every church in America should show IndoctriNation. Every Christian should show IndoctriNation to their friends."

Cal Thomas (America’s most widely syndicated op-ed columnist) writes:
"Every Christian parent with a child in a government school should see this [movie] and be forced to confront their unwillingness to do what Scripture requires for the children on loan to them by God. A mass exodus from government schools is the only way to preserve the souls and minds of our children."

Retail: $19.95

      http://bit.ly/IndoctrinationDVD

And here’s the link for Canadian readers: http://bit.ly/IndoctrinationCA

AGENDA – GRINDING AMERICA DOWN!

Ted Baehr of MovieGuide writes:

“AGENDA is the most powerful expose of the communist, socialist, progressive attempt to take over America.”

Retail: $18.00

http://bit.ly/AgendaDVD

SPECIAL DISCOUNT:

Purchase both INDOCTRINATION and AGENDA

for only $30.00!

Save $7.95!

 http://bit.ly/Agenda-IndoctrinationDVDBundle

RAISING MISSIONARIES

An Above Rubies reader emailed me the other day.

“Thank you for the encouragement over 18 years that I have been receiving your magazine and now e-mails. I can't tell you how many times the magazine has come just when I needed it.

Recently, our pastor was telling us about how in the 10/40 window there are millions of people to one missionary.  Later, I was listening to Reb Bradley's Child Training Tips: Things I wish I had known when my children were young. It suddenly dawned on me, that because of so many Christians limiting their family size, there are less potential missionaries. USA is suffering because of the small family size and because of abortion. The Kingdom of God is not advancing like it probably could have if Christian parents in the last century had continued receiving the "blessings" God wanted them to have.  

This lack of missionaries really brought home the importance of raising my seven children to reach their generation and the next.

Two of mine are grown; one is just married, but does not want to have children. I am praying for her heart to change toward this issue. But I still have five children under 16. I hope to be able to disciple them in this direction with evangelism in mind. I'm not very bold in sharing my faith, but I’m asking the Lord to change in me. From M.B.”

READER NEEDS ADVICE

An Above Rubies reader writes:

I could really use some articles concerning moms with Teens and Toddlers--tips on how to homeschool, keep the house organized, get everyone to their jobs, lessons, classes and still cook that wonderful meal, have devotion time, tend to my husband, and keep the house ready for entertaining angels!

With seven ranging in ages from 16 down to 14 months I could really use some insight. God is good, but any experiences other moms could share would just be the cherry on my ice cream sundae my Jesus has given me.”

If you have something to share, type it with only one space between sentences and send it to me atThis email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. with TEENS AND TODLERS in the Subject Heading. I am sure I will get lots of wonderful idea to print in Above Rubies to help many mothers.

PEN PALS FOR SINGLE GIRL

Lidia,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

“I am a 19 year old about to enter secular community college and I have been looking for a way to find other gals who are Christians and have the same interests such as waiting for a future husband and preparing myself by reading books on homeschooling and marriage as well as knitting and dressmaking.

I am the youngest member of my church and live in Rhode Island, the grave yard of churches. I tried to find a homeschool group while in High School but there was no one. And I don't want to leave my church just for youth group. I typed in Christian Pen pals on Google and it just gave me dating sites.”

SIGN URGENT PETITIONS

Go towww.parentalrights.org to sign The Proposed Parental Rights Amendment petition for the protection of your children and future children. You can find out all about it by going to the webpage.

Frequently check out Home School Legal Defense Association’swebsite,hslda.org to be informed and check how you can stand up for family values.

MEMORIZE A BIBLE VERSE IN SONG EVERY WEEK

My Above Rubies Director in UK, Alice Gurr, emailed me about John Hardwick who will send you a Bible Verse every week on YouTube for your children to learn—absolutely FREE. They can learn 52 verses in a year! Go towww.johnhardwick.org.uk and click on THE BIG BIBLE VERSE CHALLENGEto find out all about it.

ORDINARINESS OR EXTRAORDINARINESS?

I’ve coined a new word—ordinariness. It’s a place where many people live. I’m not talking about the “sameness” of your everyday tasks in the home, for even the most mundane tasks are sacred and therefore extraordinary when you allow God into them.

I am talking about living in the state of thinking like the status quo, fitting in with the humanist agenda of our society, and trusting in your own resources and understanding. There is no other word for this state than ordinariness.

To move out of this comfortable state and live in biblical mindset takes you into extraordinariness. It is a challenging life--a realm of faith, hanging on the edge of a limb, adventures of trusting God when you cannot see where His provision is coming from, battles against the adversary, speaking up for truth and God-given convictions in the face of popular opinion, and receiving ridicule from family members and neighbors.

We are out of step with the world but in step with God. We are out of sync with public thinking in the media and humanistic education, but we seek to listen to the mind of God. It’s not the easy life, but it’s definitely not ordinary.

Why live in ordinariness when you can live in extraordinariness? If God has anything to do with your life, it will be extraordinary, for God is anything but ordinary.

Let’s move out of the “ordinary humanistic lifestyle” into the “extraordinary biblical lifestyle.

Love from  

NANCY CAMPBELL
www.aboverubies.org

It is a sad day at our house. My dad lies dying in the hospital at the young age of 63. We got the call late Thursday night. He has lived a lost life, and although he has been exposed to the gospel many times over the years, he has not made it his own. He lived with our famly for a time, but fell back into his old habits, moved out, and we haven't seen him in almost 10 years. He has not met many of our younger children, but the older ones remember him well, from when he shared our home. Today I will visit him, perhaps for the last time. I will speak of eternity, and forgiveness, and I will pray that the Spirit will move. All things are in the hands of the Lord, and it is still a day of miracles. My verse for the day comes from Luke 1:79,"to give light to them that sit in darkness, and in the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace" Although this verse refers to John the Baptist, it is my prayer today for myself, and for all of you, because we all can be used of the Lord, to guide others from darkness to light and peace. What a privilege! Love Michelle

Sometimes I feel stressed out. Life is so full of unexpected events. A sudden job loss, an unexpected expense, an accident or illness to contend with, or an unforeseen problem or breakdown. These all threaten to unravel us, don't they? Our natural inclination is to feel discouraged and downtrodden.
Today, I read II Kings 6 and 7, where the people were under siege and famine, and were completely devastated. They made my problems look miniscule. In ch7:2, Elisha told a man that it would get better the next day, and was met with unbelief . Isn't this just like us to doubt and feel that there is no way out when we are in the thick of things? Look what happens though. His doubt leads to his demise.
What a wake up call! We must remember the truth. God never leaves us or forsakes us. He never stops working out His purposes in our lives, and nothing is too great for Him, regardless of how things look to us. Be of good courage, and walk in faith and hope today. I am leaving all demising doubts at the doorstep, out of here, where they belong. Love Michelle

I read the sweetest thing today, and it is so true. Alistair Thomson said, "I'm 72 and I've learned a truth about Valentine's Day. Act as if every day is Valentine's Day and you'll be happily married forever." Who wouldn't want to be happily married forever? We do not make wedding vows temporarily, we make them for life. To be happily married forever, we must not take advantage of each other, and we need to cherish and respect one another continually. Valentine's Day is a great opportunity to remind ourselves to treat every day like Valentine's Day. I am actually married to a Valentine's baby, so Valentine's Day is used to celebrate his birth and our love, both of which need to be celebrated daily. Love Michelle

Embracing children is an attitude. It means that whether you are able to birth, adopt, foster, mentor, or not, you embrace children as a most precious blessing.

It does not mean that we all will have large families, or that we are all able to adopt, foster, or have opportunity to mentor.

It does mean that our attitude toward children is abundantly warm and welcoming. Our attitude will reflect God's heart toward children, not the world's. We will not view children as burdens, nuisances, drains or liabilities. We will view children as esteemed, valuable, precious, worthy of our time and resources.

Even if we ourselves are not able to parent, we will enjoy the blessing of the children that still touch our lives. We must counter the world's attitude toward children, with God's attitude toward them, regardless of whether we ourselves are fertile or not. They must be treated as the blessing that they are, and our attitudes will speak volumes to the watching world.

Love Michelle

What a pity the other day, as I glanced through a magazine on the plane and saw an ad for permanent birth control that said, "I love being done having kids". I was so angry. Where are the ads that promote child-bearing, or child-raising?

Our populations are dwindling, and embracing children is a most fulfilling and amazing way to strengthen our nations, and serve our Lord. If I had the finances, there would be full color ads in every magazine and newspaper, promoting the truly glorious life. A life of nurturing and embracing children, through every possible means - adoption, pregnancy, foster care, you name it.

Can you see my ad? Smiling parents sitting around a table full of children, or walking hand in hand to church, with the headline, "We love children, we'd love more". It would be so beautiful that everyone would see it and be impacted. They would want a house full of children to share their lives with, just by seeing such a wonderful ad.

I guess for now, we shall continue to be live, walking ads, shining out the best way to live life. We are making an impact just by existing.

Hmm, does anyone have finances to start an ad campaign? I'd love to help with the creative aspects.

Love Michelle

Sometimes a mother feels tired, and sometimes even a little overwhelmed. What does a mother feel most often though?

The warming of her heart from the unabashed love her child offers her.Nothing boosts a mother's day more than the joy her child brings her with the little things they say and do.

The other day, one of my daughters sent me a text when I was very far away. She knew I was with another mother, and so she sent, "Don't tell Mrs. Wiens, but I think you are the prettiest mom ever. I love you."

They are always boosting us up, aren't they? What a joy!

Love Michelle

Each sex was created differently and made to fulfill different roles, in their respective and equal image bearing of their Creator.

I have just returned from a trip where I saw many same sex couples. I noticed that all of them still played very clear male and female roles. Isn't that interesting? You cannot get away from it. Even in the perversion of the original design for marriage, the same God given roles are there.

How can it be argued that one is "born" attracted to the same sex, when they then end up converting to those same masculine and feminine roles within that same sex relationship? They do not both behave feminine, and they do not both behave masculine.

I think this testifies to God's original design. When I teach my children the truth about family and marriage, I am able to point out that even in perversion, we still see the truth of the fact that male and female He created them.

He did not create male or female to choose to act or behave like the opposite sex. This is not original design, this is deception, perversion and sin.

We need to speak out, lest our children get desensitized in our corrupt world.

Love Michelle

 

I love the concept of the clean slate. It is so beautiful and it goes against all the bitterness, regret and unforgiveness that can sink a person.

As individuals, we are washed and renewed by the blood of Christ. Every moment we have the opportunity to have a clean slate through repentance. As mothers, we are privileged to offer that same clean slate to our children, as we train them and teach them forgiveness.

As marriage partners, we have a clean slate as we overcome our arguments, forgive each other, and move on in love.

Each new day as the moring dawns, I like to remind myself of the clean slate. It is important to leave the yesterdays behind, and move forward with excitement and anticipation of the wonders of today. It is wonderful and life-giving, to start anew, with a clean slate.

Love Michelle

One of the most beautiful things about families is how they work so lovingly together.

Today, in Mexico, I saw an impoverished mother nursing her baby, while her young son played nearby. Her oldest daughter, around 8, tended so lovingly to both her brother and her mother, so that the mother could continue to sit and nurse the baby.

The daughter was so amazing, and so grown up, as she did her very best to serve her family. How powerful it is to watch the family work together!

It makes me wonder how anyone can think that another sibling is not a blessing. This family moved my heart today in their clear love for each other. Bless them, Lord.

Love Michelle

When I grew up, there were very few open same sex relationships, and they were certainly rarely promoted on television programs. Nowadays, it seems everything is permissible in our culture, and those things that are abominations to the Lord have become widely accepted.

When I grew up, it was common to see down syndrome children, but today, not so much. Many are denied the right to see the light of day before they even take a breath.

I am thankful for believing families, that shine the truth before the eyes of society. Simply by living our married lives, raising our precious children, we send a message that is clear and beautiful.

Our simple daily life is so powerful, and so beautiful. Keep shining!

Love Michelle

It is easy to forget how important our roles as wives are, when we are so busy being mothers.

I must confess that I have had to take special notice, and pay close attention, to being a wife. Especially this month, when I am trying to estalish the habit of being more affectionate to my husband.

I have realized anew how crucial it is to build up our marriages, and spend time together as man and wife, not just as mom and dad. To be effective, we must be solid as individuals in our walk with the Lord, solid in our marriages as pictures of Christ and the church, and solid as parents, in our raising of the next generation in the faith.

We must work on those goals that have everlasting value, and learn to put aside the lesser things.

Love Michelle

Time. It shows no favoritism, and yet it molds each of us.

As a young mother, I longed for breaks from my responsibilities, and time to just think about myself, as I did prior to motherhood. As an older mother now, I find I can barely stand to miss a second away from my children.

I have seen how fleeting the time is, how very quickly it passes, and I want to savor every moment with every single child, at every stage. I used to dream of a day off, and now, if I feel overwhelmed, I just need a tiny break, like a quick bath or a fast workout.

Remember that you are always evolving as a mother, so it is good to try to keep in mind that your feelings do change over time. You will look back at the business of young motherhood, and fondly recall that these truly are the best days of your life.

Love Michelle

Some of you may recall that at the beginning of this year, I said that each month I would start a new habit, and at the end of 2012, I would have 12 great new habits.

In January, we worked on reinstating morning devotions, and we have managed to make that a regular part of our family routine once again.

For February, I am going to stretch out of my comfort zone because I am not naturally affectionate. Some of you instantly greet others with warm hugs and kisses, but I don't even think about it until I am responding to one.

I need to establish the habit of greeting my husband at least once per day with a hug and a kiss, initiated by me instead of him. He will love it.

Are you ready to begin a new habit? Figure it out today, and tomorrow let's begin.

Love Michelle

I had a very powerful dream last night. I was under a massive attack, and was not coping well at all. In fact, I seemed to be losing the battle, and I was terrified.

Just before I gave up, and caved in defeat, I remembered the power in the name of Jesus. I began praying and singing praises out loud, uttering the name of Jesus. At first, my voice was frail and weak, and I could barely speak His name.

I looked for people to join me in praise. The more I sang and prayed out loud, the stronger my voice became. I eventually began to take dominion, through the power of Jesus. I woke up realizing how often I muddle through my day, when I should be calling upon Jesus more often and more quickly.

There is such power available through Him. I wonder why I wait for utter desperation before I turn to Him?

Thanks for the dream Lord, and the wake up call. Oh, how I love Jesus! I won't wait for defeat to be encroaching at my door today before I call out in prayer and praise.

Love Michelle

Families with several children are often bombarded with comments and questions, and wonder how to best respond.  Listen carefully to the words of Psalm 128: "Blessed is every one that feareth the LORD; that walketh in his ways. For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee. Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table. Behold, that thus shall the man be blessed that feareth the LORD."

Those that fear the Lord and walk in His ways shall be blessed because they:

• 1) benefit from their labour,


• 2) are happy and well


• 3) have fruitful wives (have you ever noticed how a vine grows and spreads along the wall of a house?)


• 4) have children around their tables.

I didn't make this up, the Psalm says so.

Next time someone makes a comment to me about my 11 children, or my wanting more children, I shall answer like this. "We are just living the Psalm 128 life!"  That should get them reading the Scriptures, and what will there be to debate after that? ;)

Love Michelle

"For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he" Pr 23:7.

We must never underestimate the power of our thoughts.  Those unspoken dialogues we have with ourselves are very influential.

So often we are held captive to negative, derogatory thoughts about ourselves or even about others. We forget all about the truth and end up believing lies. We forget how fearfully and wonderfully we are made (Ps 139:14), and how amazing our lives in Christ really are! We doubt our abilities, even though the Sovereign Lord of all the universe has entrusted us with our tasks.

Take every thought captive into obedience (2 Cor 10:5) is not just referring to sinful thoughts, but the thoughts that have us operating out of anything but the truth.  The truth is that we are created in His image (Gen 1:27), we are more than conquerors (Rom 8:37), we are deeply loved (Jer 31:3), we are able to do all things through Christ, because He strengthens us (Phil 4:13).

Correct your thinking, cast out the falsehoods, and walk in truth.  The day will be magnificent, and amazing, full of God's blessing because "we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." Rom 8:28.

Love Michelle

I walked past a lady yesterday and today I thought, "I don't remember what she looked like, I only remember how stressed she looked".

Many times I have noticed people around me, and what was it that I remembered about them? It was their expressions, not their physical appearance. I remember the anger, the sadness, or the joy and contentment that I saw on a face.I rarely remember the hair or eye color.

All too often, I think I leave an impatient face, rather than a patient, loving face, in someone's memory of me. That is not my goal at all. We wear our face more than anything else, and it should leave a beautiful impression to those that behold it.

May the peace, patience, joy, and love of God shine through our faces today.  "Hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God." Ps 42:11  Healthy countenances are beautiful to behold.

Love Michelle

I have been in some of the most beautiful homes, with the finest of furnishings and decor, and found the atmosphere to be lacking, filled with stress, strife or anger.

Other times, I have been in the poorest of homes, that lack in adequate furnishings for the family, and yet felt the atmosphere's sweetness, cheerfulness, love and relaxation.

It truly does not matter what your home looks like, as much as how your home feels! The atmosphere in a home is not created by the physical beauty of its belongings, as much as the emotional energy it holds.

As mothers, we often are directly responsible for that atmosphere! We need to be pleasant, sweet, and loving, perseverant even under trials, in order to have an atmosphere that blesses all those that enter it.

We are able to do this, as we lean into God, who loves to love through us!

Love Michelle

When we focus on how we can be better molded into the image of Christ by the Spirit of God, and less on how we feel those around us need molding, we find contentment.

Our joy is often robbed by dwelling on the perceived deficits in others. That time would be better used, and more profitable, by working on our own deficits.

"Cast out first the beam out of your own eye, and then shall you see clearly to pull out the mote that is in your brother's eye." Luke 6:24.

In marriage, it is not so much about finding the right person, as it is about becoming the right person for your spouse.

Love Michelle

Today I finally let go of a sentimental trinket that has been broken and glued back together countless times over the last 20+ years. After all, it really isn't that important. Yet, how I have tried time and again to keep it functioning and on my shelf, despite several moves, falls and breaks.

I was shocked to realize that all that effort I put into fixing my item is often not even put into valuable relationships!  So many around me give up on marriages, or rebellious young people, because of the pain, hassle and effort involved. I was almost one of them, in regards to my own marriage years ago!

Yet, tossing these relationships out is so very detrimental on so many fronts! How come we often pour lots of loving attention on things of little value, and give up on the major things?

We must not give up, and we must encourage those around us to not give up either!

Nurture, encourage and develop those precious relationships, and watch them bloom! You can toss your trinkets, but do not toss your God given relationships!

Love Michelle

“The homemaker has the ultimate career. All other careers exist for one purpose only - and that is to support the ultimate career. ” ― C.S. Lewis.

I especially enjoy that this quote is spoken from a male perspective. Being a homemaker truly is the ultimate career, the ultimate adventure, the ultimate lifestyle, the ultimate experience. Embrace it for all of its wonderfulness!

Even if you are not presently a homemaker full time, it is still your most ultimate career, above any other one. It may rarely offer an actual paycheque, as other careers may, but the eternal rewards, and even the earthly joys, are immeasurable!

I just love my ultimate career!

Love Michelle

‎"Are you done yet?" "Don't you know what causes that?" "I could never have enough patience!" "What on earth does your husband do for a living?" "Haven't you heard of birth control?"

These are common statements many of us have heard. Guess what the beauty is about hearing people's opinions? They are only *opinions*! They are not *Truth*!

The truth is that the Lord opens and closes the womb, the Lord says children are a blessing, the Lord says children bring joy and happiness, the Lord loves to bring forth godly seed and a quick study of Genesis, Proverbs and Malachi offer many truths regarding fertility, and when someone offers an opinion, you have an open opportunity to offer truth!

When my OB told me my uterus was getting worn out, I said,"Isn't the uterus the strongest muscle in the body?" "Yes," she replied. "Well, all muscles get stronger with use!"

She didn't agree, but it is always a wonderful opportunity to spread the truth about children, when you are offered an opinion.

Love Michelle

I grew up in a culture where being a 'stay at home mum' gave off the impression that the mum must be fairly uneducated and unable to do much else with her life, hence she 'just' stayed home.

What a complete and utter falsehood! Running a home smoothly, training children through all stages of life, figuring out how to feed a growing family with nourishing and wholesome food, and being a godly wife take more skill than many professions!

Stay at home mums need to be experts in far more than one field, and it takes endurance, perseverance, diligence, wisdom, passion, research and so much more! How can anyone believe that a stay at home mum is for the weak-minded?

Stay at home mums are among the very most gifted and competent members of society! Truth!

Love Michelle

What's holding you back? Fear? Circumstances? Self-pity?

Time to cut loose! Rise above! Overcome! Like an eagle you can soar above it all!

Through your zest for life, no matter what your circumstances are, you will shake and impact the world! No need to sink when you can soar!

Think Daniel, think David, think Joseph for some inspiration!

Love Michelle

"For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out."

I feel this exact same sentiment when I face the day with the best of intentions, and then find that I fail my expectations, time and again! I make a plan to be sweet, and then end up being sour!

It takes effort, to put to death my sinful mind, and walk in the Spirit instead! I am grateful that the failures drive me deeper into prayer, and strengthen my commitment. We need never feel defeated when we fail, because there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus, and we are daily being transformed and renewed

I love Romans 7, don't you? Press on, lovely ladies, if you have been sour rather than sweet! Get back up, and never let your failures keep you down!

Love Michelle

In the bank today, I heard some women talking about grandchildren and how they couldn't wait to have some more. They also discussed how "nowadays there doesn't have to be a marriage" to bring in a grandbaby, as one of the ladies had 4 grandchildren, yet no married children.

Well, this is, and always has been true, but it is certainly not ideal and not God's best. We need to love on the babies that come no matter how they come, yet never settle for whatever status quo is saying.

These lovely women were bang on for craving grandbabies, but needed to stand firm on maintaining that the best way for this to happen is through a godly marriage. We need to strive for the best even in the face of less than best!

We can't just give into status quo acceptance and complacency, as there is always hope for 'a change in tide', right?

Love Michelle

Following up on Nancy's post this am, how are you "cheseding" today?

I was thinking about this verse in Proverbs also, "The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life".

I need to consistently work on my chesed kindness, and this would do so much to allow my husband's heart to safely trust me to always do him good!

What a beautiful, and attainable, goal because "I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me!"

Love Michelle

I was explaining to our children today the concept of storing up treasures in heaven (Matt 6:20) during our morning devotions. I asked them what kind of treasure they thought they could take to heaven? Their favorite toy? No! The best treasure to take to heaven is another soul!

When couples are open to receive children, there is hope for bringing "soul" treasure to heaven with them.

So why do folks waste time trying to gain more and more material treasure, and think they cannot afford "soul" treasure?

We are told to store up heavenly treasure, yet we fill our houses with clutter to keep us busy and disorganized. We have things so backwards, don't we? This was the lesson from our breakfast table today.

Love Michelle

I think that part of being a helpmate is helping your husband turn his heart toward God, home, and children. One of the very best practical ways to do this is to enjoy your faith, your home and all children immensely.

When a husband comes home to a wife that complains about her life at home, or her church life, or is always frustrated as a mother, he naturally wants to lessen her grief.

If he sees that her faith, her home life and all children she sees as bringing great joy, he will be much more likely to embrace what she embraces.

Attitudes are catchy, and an easy way to influence and bless others! How is yours?

Love Michelle

TOP POST #3 from Michelle:

I feel so LIBERATED! I woke to the sound of my children, not an alarm. I
dressed according to my plans for the day, not someone else's.

I donned my apron, cleaned my home, made nutritious meals in between
teaching my children what I wanted them to learn. I was free to exercise,
chat, laugh, train, teach and enjoy my children, my home, and God's
provisions.

Some think I need liberation from my home and children- to feel free...but
I am completely free and liberated (even a tad spoiled!) to be home!

Love Michelle

TOP POST #4 from Michelle:

Where are the folks that believe in courtship today? What is wrong with encouraging our children to stay in the family home until they wed?

What is wrong with a young man being serious enough about a young lady to come to the father for permission to get to know her?

We have been frowned upon for encouraging such things, yet I have to ask, what is right about dating, or moving out as a young/barely adult?

Michelle

TOP POST #5 from Michelle!

Today, my husband was running so behind that he was going to miss his flight. He would only arrive at the airport as the plane was taking off!

The stress was so high, as he ran out the door. I gathered the nearest children, and we stood together in a circle and we all held hands, even though one of them disapproved of the hand holding.

We asked the Lord to intercede, and to keep Dad safe on the icy roads, to make all things well and to allow him to somehow catch the flight. A few minutes later, Cam called to say that he forgot his wallet and his passport, so he raced back to get them. I thought to myself, "that's it, he'll never make it now!".

Almost an hour later, Cam calls again to say his flight was delayed by half an hour, and that he would make it! I told him how we had prayed, and I then felt ashamed of my disbelief, and was so glad I hadn't shared my doubts verbally to the children.

They got to see firsthand the amazing power of prayer. Where two or more are gathered! The Lord delights to show us His power!

Love Michelle

Michelle's TOP POST #6!

I love being called upon, paged, needed, longed for, and hugged all day long by various aged children! I love having them with me at every meal, and having them with me every morning, afternoon, and evening!

Why do so many people think this is crazy? By my 'crazy' standards, this is the best way to live life! Let me hear "Mummy, Mom, Mum, Mummeee!" for all of my days! The fertile years will pass WAY TO FAST for my liking and I am far from crazy!

Anyone else LOVE MOTHERHOOD like crazy ;) ?

Love Michelle

Michelle's TOP POST #7:

That's right, I am "just a housewife." How about you?

It is the most accomplished title there is! It is far more powerful than my degree. As housewives, we multitask and get things done! We are not quitters, as there is no shortage of work. We clean, cook, mend, nurture, care for the needs of the home and the family, and we know how to work around all kinds of disruptions!...

We are financial wizards, hairdressers, fashion designers, chefs, physicians, personal trainers, teachers, organizers, managers, nutritionists, counsellors, chauffeurs, motivational speakers, coaches, librarians, singers, dancers, lawyers, judges, hostesses, lovers, creators, writers, maids, laundresses, comedians, mechanics, bakers, gardeners, and so much more!

We are world changers! That's right, just us housewives, doing our jobs!

Love Michelle

TOP POST #8 from Michelle:

People laugh at me because I see children as the answer to so many issues!

Struggling with pride? Raise a child! Feeling unloved or lonely? Raise a child! Feeling like you want to do more for God? Raise a child! Struggling with finding a real sense of purpose? Raise a child! Need motivation to take better care of yourself? Raise a child! Battling selfishness? Raise a child!

I could go on & on!

Love Michelle

TOP POST #9 from Michelle!

Why do some Christians think it is better not to bring a child into this sinful world? How can good ever overcome evil if the Christians do not raise godly seed? God never told His people to decrease, only to increase!

Love Michelle

Michelle's TOP POST #10 of 2011:

I was feeling so inspired by the legacy of the 1950's housewife. The picture of her all dolled up and donning a cute apron to take on her domestic duties prompted me to purchased several aprons of various sizes and colours from our local second hand shop.

Well! Would you believe the motivation these little aprons brought?! Within moments of coming in the door, I h...ad 3 girls with aprons, and an hour later, they were still joyfully cleaning, brooms in hand! I have one on too, and my living room has been completely tidied and reconfigured! On to the next room!

The power of the apron! Highly recommended for the joyful duties of making a house a lovely home!

Love Michelle

Dear Above Rubies reader,

This year is catching up on us quickly, isn’t it? I can hardly keep up with it. In a few days we’ll all be enjoying Thanksgiving together with our families. What a precious time. We’ll be sure to have a wild and exciting time, as we always do, with our large extended family. May you have a precious and joyous Thanksgiving together, too.

I am still waiting, but still believing, to print and send out another issue of Above Rubies before the end of the year. Although I am now waiting for $30,000.00 to come in to be able to go to print, I always continue in faith. My design artist is working on the magazine and I trust we will have the miracle to print.

In This Issue:

• What's New
• What's Coming
• Birthing Stories
• Meat For Men on Facebook
• Back To Life Movement
• Dads Against Daughters Dating
• Lost Magazines
• First Things First
• Be Careful We Are Not Deceived
• I Am Thankful Today

WHAT’S NEW?

Last newsletter, I released HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN in E-book form so you could download it to your kindles and nooks. I don’t have such a thing myself yet!

However, we now have it in print for those of you who like to hold a book in your hand. You won’t want to miss out on this book. And it is a perfect Christmas gift, too. The following are some special discounts for you.

HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN --

Tools to help you raise Mighty Warriors for God!

Book Version

Compiled by Nancy Campbell

Filled with wonderful, inspiring and practical ideas to help you
encourage your children to be all that God created them to be.

Retail Price for the Book Version: $13.95

Special introductory price for you -- $11.95!(plus S&H)

Go To:http://bit.ly/EncourageChildrenBook

EXTRA SPECIAL:

Purchase HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN - Book Version

& HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR HUSBAND - Book Version

together for ONLY $20.00(+S&H) and save $5.90!

Go To:http://bit.ly/EncouragementBookBundle

EXTRA SPECIAL CHRISTMAS GIFT SPECIALS:

ENCOURAGE CHILDREN - Book Version:

Purchase two for only $10.00 each; three or more for only $8.00 each.

Go To:http://bit.ly/EncourageChildrenBook

ENCOURAGE HUSBAND - Book Version:

Purchase two for only $9.00 each; three or more for only $7.00 each.

Go To:http://bit.ly/EncourageHusbandBook

Or read the E-book Version on your Kindle, Nook or other E-reader for only $5.95 each.

Web links:

A new DVD:

IT’S YOUR LIFE—The Story of the Moss Family

As they base their family life on Deuteronomy 32:46-47, watch them enjoying family together (children who are best friends with each other), working hard together, Beverly facing eight c-sections, facing family tragedy together, going against the tide of popular opinion, but most of all, learning how to enjoy life together as God intended.

Available for $15.95(plus S&H).

Go To http://bit.ly/ItsYourLife

This DVD comes from the same folks who produced CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING.

SPECIAL:

Purchase the two DVDs for $25.90 (plus S&H) — a saving of $5.00!

Go To: http://bit.ly/MooreFamDVDBundle

WHAT’S COMING UP?

TRIM, HEALTHY MAMA

Oh I know you are getting desperate, and tired of waiting for this book. It has been finished for many months now, but Pearl is still working on adding headings, but the main hold up is that we are still waiting on money to print!

It is going to be a BIG BOOK and we’ll most probably have to charge at least $20.00 or more!

However, it is a ONE-STOP BOOK, covering everything you need to know about health and nutrition, exercise, hormones and intimacy in marriage—plus hundreds of amazing recipes!

You’ll get more than your money’s worth when it arrives. So keep saving and have the money ready and put away for when it is printed—and you’ll be able to get it straight away.

A BOOK OF FACEBOOK POSTS

I am preparing a book of two powerful inspirations for each day of the year. One will be from me and the other from Michelle Kauenhofen (mother of 11 children and the Director of Above Rubies in Canada).

These refueling “encouragements for each day” will be taken from the posts which Michelle and I post on Facebook each day. Facebook readers lose these as Facebook updates every day and many are not on Facebook.

I know this will be a powerful encouragement to all wives and mothers. We are still contemplating on a name for the book—and I hope above all hopes to advertise it in the coming issue of Above Rubies! How do I slow down? I keep getting new visions and ideas every day.

ABOVE RUBIES CALENDAR FOR 2012

I am now preparing a calendar for next year, so that will be available soon too.

I have four or five more books waiting to write, but I’ll get these out first before I tell you about them.

Although, I will soon be preparing 100 DAYS OF BLESSING, Volume 2. I hope to have this ready in the New Year, so keep your money away for this one too.

BIRTHING STORIES

Oh yes, I am planning to put together a book of Birthing Stories. I planned to do this years ago, but I will do it this time. I am therefore looking for testimonies on the following subjects:

HOME BIRTHS

HOSPITAL BIRTHS

VBAC TESTIMONIES

C-SECTION TESTIMONIES

NATURAL BIRTH AFTER INVASIVE HOSPIPTAL BIRTH TESTIMONIES

Send by email attachment.

Please type only one space between your sentences.

Please type BIRTH STORY in the subject heading.

Please add your email at the end of your testimony so it makes it easy for me to be in contact with you.

MEAT FOR MEN -Uncompromising Manhood!on Facebook

My husband has now started a Facebook page for men where he posts a challenging and inspiring post for men each day.

This is a “miracle page” for Colin has never been on a computer in his life and most probably never will! I type and post his message for him each morning and he has other men of God who watch over the page for him.

Tell your husband about it and they will be encouraged. They don't even need to be a member of Facebook to read it. (If they want to leave comments or share with their friends they will need a Facebook account.) All they have to do is go to:

http://facebook.com/MeatForMen

BACK TO LIFE MOVEMENT

 From Angela Ford, www.backtolifemovement.com

“I'm contacting you on behalf of Therese Engle and The Call. Therese wanted me to inform you about an upcoming prayer journey that The Call is involved in, called the Back to Life Movement. www.backtolifemovement.com

Back to Life is a young women’s movement fashioned to awaken America’s conscience to the injustice of abortion by amplifying the female voice.

Growing at unprecedented levels, the abortion industry has a longstanding, twisted pattern of wounding millions of women. Abortion has killed 54,000,000 fellow Americans, and this issue must be called to national accountability.

No longer leaving things to politicians, lawyers or previous generations, our vision as young women is to carry the part of this battle which is ours.

I myself am one of the 39 women who will be taking this prayer journey. Together, we want to encourage our generation in their high calling of Motherhood and call our Nation Back to Life. If this interests you, please visit our website, www.backtolifemovement.com "

DADS AGAINST DAUGHTERS DATING

Mrs. Stevens of This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

“My 15 1/2 year old daughter recently went on a short trip with some dear friends of ours. When she returned, she lovingly had bought each family member a souvenir. She had purchased a shirt for her father that read, "D.A.D.D" - Dads Against Daughters Dating. My husband wears it with pride!”

LOST MAGAZINES

Back copies of Above Rubies disappear so quickly. However, I try to keep one copy of every magazine that I don’t let go. Going through the magazines recently, I found that I need to find three magazines-- #69, 71 and 81. I actually do have a copy of these magazines, but only with the Postal insert. I do not have a copy with the full back page. If anyone has an extra of any of these issues with a full back page, would you mind sending it to me at:

ABOVE RUBIES
PO BOX 681687
FRANKLIN TN 37068-1687

Thanks so much.

FIRST THINGS FIRST

 From Anne Jisca Meyer, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“When I received the last Above Rubies Mini Newsletter, I excitedly sat down to read it even though my eight month old baby was screaming in the background and needing his Mommy. I read the very first line of the newsletter: "Trust this little note finds you rejoicing in the Lord and in your wonderful high calling of motherhood!" Immediately I felt convicted! I stopped reading, and went to nurse and cuddle my baby. Motherhood is a high calling, and I need to constantly remember to put my children first, even above reading the Above Rubies newsletter!”

BE CAREFUL WE ARE NOT DECEIVED

 From Jessica Campbell, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

 “The other day at the library I came across Mary Poppins on VHS and decided to watch the cute, classic show with my chicklins. We sat down on a Saturday afternoon and began to watch the classical tale of the famous hired nanny. It didn't take me but a few moments into the movie to realize there was definitely an agenda behind this Hollywood tale.

In one of the first scenes, the mother of the children, proudly displaying her banner for the rights of women to vote, began to sing a song portraying men to be just a little stupid. As I gasped in surprise, I knew a history lesson for my girls was about to unfold. The story of course goes on to hiring a nanny for the children, because it is obvious that the mother of the children was on a mission. She was gone throughout the entire movie, busy campaigning for women’s rights, etc.

And here comes the perfect nanny "mother" figure for the children-Mrs. Mary Poppins! A perfect picture of our society today. Children being nannied, instead of mommied! I could not believe that this wonderful childhood classic that we all remember and loved was filled with such evil intentions.

As the movie winds down, we see a repenting father who didn't have time to spend with his children because he was out providing for his little brood. Again, I asked, but what about the Mommy? She was never portrayed as wrong, or being a bad mother because she was not around.

Now some might be thinking that I have read way too much into this harmless childhood classic.

But I think not! Only time has told what this type of thinking and acting has done to our society. Satan's agenda!

As a mother, there is nothing more precious to me than raising my children. I, the mother, take full responsibility, and will give an account to God for what I do with these blessings He has given me. No campaign, no movement, no agenda and no job could or should keep me from the awesome task of being a keeper at home, a wife and a mother!

I do hope someday to be as creative, fun, and witty as the famous character displayed in the movie, and I also am glad that there are sweet Mary Poppins throughout the world, but the job of a nanny most certainly belongs to none other than the mommy!”

I AM THANKFUL TODAY!

Read Colossians 2.7 and 1 Thessalonians 5:18 and speak this affirmation out loud. Maybe you could read it to your family on Thanksgiving.

T     I am thanking God for Teaching me His ways

H      I am thanking God for giving me my Husband

A      I am thanking God for Anointing me to be a mother

N      I am thanking God for creating me to be a Nurturer and Nourisher to my family

K      I am thanking God today for His Kindness to me

F      I am thanking God for my Family and His daily Faithfulness to me

U     I am thanking God for giving me Understanding of His truth

L     I am thanking God for Loving me enough to die for me and shed His precious blood for my sins

Love from NANCY CAMPBELL
www.aboverubies.org

Dear Above Rubies reader,

Trust this little note finds you rejoicing in the Lord and in your wonderful high calling of motherhood! No matter what society says around you, you have the most important career in the nation! You are determining the future of this nation as you raise godly children who will impact the world God’s love and truth.

Subjects in this Issue:

ABOVE RUBIES # 83 IN PROCESS

GET READY TO CHANGE THE WORLD

SIGN PETITIONS

ABORTION MOVIE

CORRECT EMAIL

THE HAND THAT ROCKS THE CRADLE RULES THE WORLD

LONG PLAYING RECORD

AUDIO IN HUNGARIAN

BOOKS ABOUT BREASTFEEDING

BOOKS ABOUT NATURAL BIRTHING

AN EVERLASTING POSESSION

HOPE FOR LEVINA

GOD WANTS TO WALK IN YOUR HOME

ABOVE RUBIES # 83

I have completed editing the new edition of Above Rubies, # 83 and it is now with the Design Artist who is working on it. However, I don’t yet have the money to go to print. I have just completed paying the last issue. Now I have to trust the Lord for $40,000.00 before I can print this current one. However, I always continue ahead in faith, working on it, so I can have it ready when God miraculously provides. I do hope I can get this one out before the end of the year as this will only be the third issue this year. I like to print four every year. But we have been printing Above Rubies for over 34 years now and God has always been faithful through His people, so I keep trusting Him.

I make Above Rubies available freely as I want to get it to every mother in the nation—and every nation in the world! My heart is so burdened to encourage and strengthen marriages and motherhood. If you are one who cannot give financially in any way, I am still happy to freely send it to you. I want you to be blessed. However, if God places a burden on your heart to give to the Above Rubies ministry, either BIG OR SMALL, and you would like to help, you can do it either of three ways:

1.    Go to http://do.nr/1LG and make a donation on-line.
2.    Call us at 1 877 729 9861 and make a donation by credit card over the phone.
3.    Send a check to Above Rubies, PO Box 681687, Franklin TN 37068-1687

Thank you! We appreciate it very much.

GET READY TO CHANGE THE WORLD!

Praise God, the new EBook, HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN – Tools to help you raise Mighty Warriors for God is now available. You are going to love it. I believe it is a MUST for every mother. I am making it available for a limited time for only $9.95 which is the same price as HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR HUSBAND, even though it has 30 MORE PAGES of great inspiration. In fact, it is filled with encouragement from the beginning to the end!

“Encouragement is the rich soil in which children grow to their full potential!”

Therefore, as you read this book, GET READY!

Get ready to raise a genius!
Get ready to raise children who will invent things
no one has thought about before!
Get ready to raise children who will think outside the box!
Get ready to raise children who will
change the world for God!

To order, go to: http://bit.ly/EncourageYourChildren

FOUR URGENT PETITIONS TO SIGN

I am one of those people who want to stand up for everything that is righteous. I sign every petition I can that upholds righteousness. I hate evil and love righteousness--and I want to do something about it. I am always challenged by Psalm 94:16, “Who will rise up for me against the evildoers? Or who will stand up for me against the workers of iniquity?”

The following are some petitions I have recently signed. You may like to, also.

To save the Christian pastor in Iran from being executed. Hope there is still time. Go to: www.aclj.org

To sign for freedom and liberty in our nation and to uphold the Declaration of Independence, go to: www.thecoalitionofamericanvoices.org  You can click on THE PETITION, and SIGN THE PETITION.

To stop the “out of control spending” by our government, go to www.endthespending.com and click on SIGN THE PETITION.

To stand for God’s city of Jerusalem and the land of Israel, go to: www.israelunitycoalition.org/aa/alert.php?id=82

To keep up with information about standing with Israel, go to: www.facebook.com/unitedwithisrael

United with Israel is a grass-roots organization, deeply committed to the success and prosperity of Israel. Our mission is to foster global unity with the People, Country and Land of Israel and to demonstrate how Israel is a great source of blessing to the world. By distributing timely information, promoting pro-Israel advocacy and offering cause-driven products that support vital charities in Israel, we strive to broaden the worldwide network of Israel supporters and promote the urgency and privilege of standing United with Israel.

STOP ABORTION MOVIE

Have you seen the movie produced by Ray Comfort to expose abortion? It is very powerful, although some scenes would not be suitable for children. Their vision is to get this movie into all the colleges and universities to seek to bring truth to our young people. If you would like to see it go to: www.180movie.com

USE CORRECT EMAIL

Please don’t every use my old hughes.net email as the emails will not get to me. The only one to use is This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

THE HAND THAT ROCKS THE CRADLE RULES THE WORLD!

An old statement, but still as powerful when it was written. An Above Rubies reader sent this poem to me. It is actually one I have loved for years. I will share it with you in case you haven’t read it.

Blessings on the hand of women!
Angels guard its strength and grace,
In the palace, cottage, hovel,
Oh, no matter where the place;
Would that never storms assailed it,
Rainbows ever gently curled;
For the hand that rocks the cradle
Is the hand that rules the world.

Infancy's the tender fountain,
Power may with beauty flow,
Mother's first to guide the streamlets,
From them souls unresting grow--
Grow on for the good or evil,
Sunshine streamed or evil hurled;
For the hand that rocks the cradle
Is the hand that rules the world.

Woman, how divine your mission
Here upon our natal sod!
Keep, oh, keep the young heart open
Always to the breath of God!
All true trophies of the ages
Are from mother-love impearled;
For the hand that rocks the cradle
Is the hand that rules the world.
Blessings on the hand of women!
Fathers, sons, and daughters cry,
And the sacred song is mingled
With the worship in the sky--
Mingles where no tempest darkens,
Rainbows evermore are hurled;
For the hand that rocks the cradle
Is the hand that rules the world.

William Ross Wallace (1819-1881)

LONG PLAYING RECORD

Back in the early days of Above Rubies, in the early eighties, we produced a music CD which we called The Hand that Rocks the Cradle. Do any of you still remember the Long Playing Records? When we produced The Hand that Rocks the Cradle, we also produced a LP of this project. However, I don’t have one in my possession as a memory. I am wondering if any “older” mothers in Australia or New Zealand still have one in their possession. Let me know if you do.

AUDIO TRANSLATIONS IN HUNGARIAN

Szabolcs Gergely, Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. has translated two messages from my series, LOVELY HOMES into the Hungarian language.

The first two audio translations of the  lectures Nancy gave on Lovely Homes:
http://caterpillarschool.blogspot.com/2011/01/lovely-homes-magyarul-1.html
http://caterpillarschool.blogspot.com/2011/02/lovely-homes-magyarul-2-resz.html

If you know anyone who speaks Hungarian, you can forward it to them.

If you go to Foreign Languages Articles on www.aboverubies.org you can also print off articles in the following subjects: Spanish, Finnish, French, German, Slovenian and Polish or forward them to friends who speak these languages.

BOOKS ABOUT BREAST FEEDING

In the last Mini Above Rubies Newsletter I asked for mothers to share the books that have helped them the most about breast feeding and birthing. I will now share the list with you, plus the mothers who recommended them and some of their comments:

Adventures in Tandem Nursing: Breastfeeding During Pregnancy and Beyond by Hilery Flower (Recommended by Susanne Alm,  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. – This book encourages extended breastfeeding of a toddler or nursing while pregnant. It helped me put my almost three year old, who was struggling nutritionally, back to the breast, although he had been weaned for 1 1/2 years!  For six more months he nursed along with his little sister until he was able to eat better at the table and now we are weaning a second time).

Baby-Led Weaning by Gill Rapley. (Recommended by Susanne Alm,  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. – This book is about a more natural and gradual approach to weaning). 

Breastfeeding and Fertility by Jenny Silliman (Recommended by CarrieAnn Thomas, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - my FAVORITE that I purchased from the Above Rubies, Bookstore. It completely changed how I nurse and care for my babies). 

Breastfeeding God’s Way and Why do Babies Suck? (Recommended by CarrieAnn Thomas, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. – I  always refer my friends to Nancy Campbell’s articles. Go to:

Healing Our Children by Ramie Nagel (Recommended by Sarah Nicholson, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.).

Nourishing Traditions by Sally Fallon. (Rec9ommended by Sarah Nicholson, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - My firstborn, a son, was 2.5 weeks overdue, had a c-section, had terrible trouble breastfeeding and he had terrible allergies and eczema which meant I had to stop breastfeeding at 14 months.  In our search for answers and a better experience, I came across the Weston A. Price Foundation. I followed many of the recommendations Fallon and Nagel give for conception / pregnancy / birth / lactation.  My daughter came on her due date, I had a brilliant labour and birth, and I’m still breastfeeding and she’s nearly two, and her allergies and eczema are minimal compared to my son.  I wish I could have more children so I can improve on it all again and again. My dream is to have twins born at home in water without allergies!) 

The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding by La Leche League (Recommended also by Rhian Landowski, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * CarrieAnn Thomas, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
* Holly Loughlin, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.).

BOOKS ABOUT NATURAL BIRTHING

Active Birth by Janet Balaskas (Recommended by (name missing) - I have had five natural births and I would whole heartedly recommend this book * Germaine Mowery, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Born in Zion by Carol Balizet (Recommended by Mary Ann Avery,  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.  - this book was a blessing in my every day prayer life and during the birth of my last two children. It encouraged me to not give God a list of my perfect labor and delivery requests but to pray, "Have your way, Lord." Also, it helped me to see how God is at work in our lives during special times like childbirth. I had always considered other events like communion and water baptism to be times when God could move in extraordinary ways. Now I was free to expect His Hand in the birth of each child).

Childbirth Without Fear by Grantly Dick-Read (Recommended by Darla Richter, mother of 10 children on earth and 5 with the Lord, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.  - my favorite by far, but one warning, he is a believer in evolution. I also recommend reading the Psalms and underlining verses for peace and comfort).

Christ-Centered Childbirth by Kelly Townsend (Recommended by CarrieAnn Thomas, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - I think this is the BEST book. Most others have occult, new-agey material that Christians shouldn't be filling their minds with.)

Easing Labor Pain by Adrienne B. Lieberman (Recommended by Tamsyn Short, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Simply Give Birth by Heather Cushman-Dowdee (Recommended by Angie, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. (I think!) -  It is a collection of planned natural birth stories by mums and dads in the States.

Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering by Sarah J. Buckley, MD (Recommended by Angie, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. (I think!) - Some of the questions she answers are: Is it safe to expose my baby to ultrasound?, Which modern birth practices could be dangerous for my baby and me?, Could drugs used in birth affect my baby's brain development?, Is it good to bank my baby's cord blood?, How can I get a good night's sleep with a small baby?, Will breastfeeding still benefit my older baby? One of the things I loved learning from her book was how God actually creates the cocktail of hormones for women to get through birth and even love it.

Having a Great Birth in Australia edited by David Vernon and Men at Birth edited by David Vernon are both a compilation of birth stories that are mostly homebirths. Having a Great Birth in Australia is full of birth stories by mummas and Men at Birth is full of stories from the dads’ perspectives.

Husband Coached Childbirth by Dr. Robert Bradley (Recommended by Reba Sanborn, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Nicole Taylor,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Mandy Tyree, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way by Susan McCutcheon (Recommended by Reba Sanborn, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Nicole Taylor, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Holly Loughlin, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Naturally Healthy Pregnancy by Shonda Parker (Recommended by Cristal Tate,  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. – she gives lots of nutritional information for pregnancy and what herbs you can take and cannot take.) 

Supernatural Childbirth by Jackie Mize (Recommended by Michele Johnson, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - After reading this book in 1999, I had a pain free and uncomplicated birth (my 3rd birth) with my third son in the hospital. Immediately after that experience, I decided I wanted to home birth our next baby. I have since given birth to four other babies by UC home birth (with another due any day now). Some in water, some not (I really recommend water birth as well). This will be our 8th baby. *  Nitasha Williams,  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. 

The Birth Book by Dr. Sears (Recommended by Germaine Mowery, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - good for first time moms to learn terminology and questions to ask the doctor). 

The Five Standards for Safe Childbearing by David Stewart, Ph.D. (Recommended by Michele Dicen, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

The Joy of Natural Childbirth by Helen Wessel (originally published under the title, Natural Childbirth and the Christian Family  (Recommended by Rosemary Doré from Australia – only one negative in the book in that it has two pages about contraception * Nancy Campbell, I read the original book, Natural Childbirth and the Christian Family when I was having my babies and loved it).

The Lord of Birth by Jennifer A. Vanderlaan (Recommended by CarrieAnn Thomas, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - A Biblically based book).

The Naturally Healthy Pregnancy by Shonda Parker (Recommended by CarrieAnn Thomas, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - this book is great for preparing for childbirth and caring for our pregnant bodies/babies).

The Natural Pregnancy Book: Herbs, Nutrition, and Other Holistic Choices by Aviva Jill Romm (Recommended by CarrieAnn Thomas, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - A lot of helpful information. She is *not* a Christian, so there are sections I skip right over. You will probably get recommendations for either Ina May Gaskin's books. Sadly, since there is such a limited market of Biblically based childbirth books most Christians read these books. I would caution against putting them on your list. I read one (can't remember which one), and always thought that I would just skip over the new-agey (power in crystals, "power to the woman,” push the husband aside and let the woman do the real work, type of thinking) but, one vivid excerpt I read on stimulating childbirth was pornographic in nature, and appalling. I have since repented of ever picking up this book that does not exalt Christ as Lord, and always caution women from reading her books.

WEB SITES AND DVDs.
http://www.birthingnaturally.net/ (Recommended by Angela Forman, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.  from New Zealand - a great help for focusing my thoughts on birth)

www.comfortinchildbirth.com (Recommended by Nicole Roberts - I would consider this CD set mandatory for anyone that is planning to have their baby in the hospital for any reason, anyone considering becoming a doula or who loves helping woman having the birth God created them to have).

Making Babies -- Shoshanna Easling's new series: 3 DVD's plus a book to go along with it. 

AN EVERLASTING POSSESSION

"I was so thankful for the Scriptures about Israel-The Everlasting Possession, that I made copies for all the women in my Bible Study group! " Mrs. G

Here is the link: http://bit.ly/EverlastingPossesion

HOPE FOR LEVINA

Melissa Kelly, Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * 515-782-4967 writes:

I was so touched by reading the information from McKennaugh Kelley and her heart for Levina, the special needs orphan in Ukraine in your recent newsletters. McKennaugh and I have been corresponding and have created a FB page just for Levina. Here it is if you would like to check it out: https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Hope-for-Levina/161380110611572

BYE FROM NANCY

May God walk in your home today.

Genesis 3:8 says, "They heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day." This is the first thing we read that God did after He created the world, created man and created the first Garden home. He walked in the garden! The Garden of Eden (which means "delight") was the first home and was an example for all future homes. God wants us to make our home a delight. That is what homes are meant to be--a delightful place to live. They should be a delightful place for our children, a delightful place for our husband to return home each evening, a delightful place for everyone who comes in through our doors, and a delightful place for ourselves.

The greatest way we make our homes a delight is to experience the presence of God in our homes. And this is what God longs to do--to walk in our homes and fellowship with us. He wants to be part of everything we are doing.

You may be thinking, "Help! I can't imagine God walking in my home. There's stuff going on around here that God wouldn't be very happy about!" The amazing thing is that God does not only come to us when everything is perfect. He comes down to our lives when everything is out of order. He wants to come into your home to make everything right. That's what He was doing in the Scripture we read. Adam and Eve had disobeyed God's command and sin had entered the world. It was a tragic moment! But God did not abandon them. He still came walking in the garden to meet them--to meet them right where they were. He came to put things right. He came to bring them salvation and restoration.

At first Adam and Eve "hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God" as we often hide ourselves from God when things aren't right, when we are in rebellion, or when things seem out of control. But when they allowed God to find them, they came to great repentance and God brought salvation to them. Of course, it was not without great cost. Animals had to be killed and blood was shed for the first time (Genesis 3:21).

But now Jesus has shed His perfect and precious blood to make atonement for our sins (Ephesians 1:7; 2:13; 1 John 1:7, 9). There is nothing too hard for God to forgive and cleanse. And He comes walking in your home to meet you right where you are, even in the midst of your sin and hopelessness. As you come to the foot of the cross with a repentant spirit, He will forgive you and cover you with His righteousness. He will bring healing to your relationships. He will bring restoration to the things that are out of order in your home. That's why He comes--to bring us salvation, healing and restoration and to fill our homes with His delightful presence.

Will you let God walk in the midst of your home? Will you let Him find you right where you are and minister into your deepest need? He is walking and He wants to find you and bring you His blessing.

Leviticus 26:12 says, "I will also walk among you and be your God, and you shall be My people."

Jeremiah 31:1 says, "I will be the God of all the families of Israel, and they shall be My people."

Ezekiel 37:27 says, "My dwelling place also will be with them; and I will be their God, and they will be My people."

We go over to the New Testament and read in 2 Corinthians 6:16, "I will dwell in them and walk among them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people."

May you enjoy God walking in your home today.

Love from NANCY CAMPBELL
www.aboverubies.org

Dear Above Rubies reader,

Many blessings to you and your family. Don’t forget that you are in the most important career in this nation as you train the next generation to be a godly generation who will be a light in the “gross” darkness (Isaiah 60:1-2) and who will push back the encroachments of the enemy. It is a mighty task. You are preparing “navy seals” for God’s kingdom who will know how to fight the enemy and take territory for God.

Subjects in this Issue:

TESTIMONIES FOR ABOVE RUBIES # 83

ARTWORK NEEDED

“FAMILY TREES” PDF FILE

SEPTEMBER RETREATS

AFRICAN ABOVE RUBIES

BOOK LISTS

HYMN OF COURAGE

“THE LAND” SCRIPTURES—AGAIN!

POEMS FOR YOUR SONS

PARENT’S RIGHTS

TEENAGE GIRL PARALYZED

ACTIVELY PRO LIFE

MAMA’S APRON

RUSSIAN ORPHAN

THE CULMINATING MOMENT

TESTIMONIES FOR ABOVE RUBIES # 83

I am now preparing the new edition of Above Rubies.

Last weekend I was talking to a mother to whom the medical profession told her that her baby may have abnormalities and they wanted her and her husband to have genetic counseling. Of course, they refused and their baby was born perfectly normal, a most beautiful child.

I would love to receive testimonies from other mothers who have received similar diagnoses and have even been encouraged to abort their baby, but have refused and their baby has been born perfectly normal. Can you imagine how many babies could have been aborted unnecessarily by those who fear the words of medical counselors?

Of course, there are times when a baby is born with abnormalities or Down’s syndrome, but that is not a reason to abort a precious life. Every mother whom I know personally who has a Down’s syndrome child confesses that they are the greatest blessing to their family.

I’ll look forward to receiving your stories. Don’t forget to:

1. Type only one space between your sentences.
2. At the end of the article, type your name, city and state.
3. Also include your husband’s name and the names and ages of your children as at November 2011.
4. Also include your email address at the end of your article.

I’m also very glad to receive any testimonies of MARRIAGE RESTORATIONS. Thanks so much.

ART WORK FOR BOOK COVER

I have nearly completed the new book, How to Encourage Your Children which is going to be such a blessing. I will publish it as an E-book first and later print as finance comes to hand.

However, I now need the front cover completed. If you are gifted in design you are welcome to have go at designing the cover. I will give $100.00 for the cover which I choose to use and of course your name will be published in the book.

Email me atThis email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and put BOOK COVER in the Subject Heading, or call me at 931 7209 9861 and I will give you the details that you will need to go ahead. Thanks so much.

PDF FILE OF FAMILY TREES

Do you remember reading the article in Above Rubies # 78 about Family Trees? It showed the huge prolific tree of the Steiner family who lived at the beginning of the 20^th century. A descendant of the family found this picture and decided to make it more realistic to our modern day and so pruned the tree so that every family only had four children each (quite a large number in today’s society). It’s amazing to see how stunted the tree looks.

Colin and I then decided to make it even more realistic and prune it down to two children each. It hardly looks like a tree! If you haven’t seen these pictures, you must. A picture is worth a thousand words!

Because we have completely run out of these magazines, here is the link:http://bit.ly/FamilyTrees

You will enjoy reading and “seeing” yourself, but don’t keep it to yourself. Send the link to everyone in your Facebook and Blog lists.

SEPTEMBER ABOVE RUBIES RETREATS

We have two Above Rubies retreats for September, one in the USA and on in Canada.

Here are the details for you:

16 - 18 SEPTEMBER, WASHINGTON, USA

LADIES RETREAT at Camp Brotherhood, Mount Vernon

24880 Brotherhood Rd, Mount Vernon, WA  98274

http://www.campbrotherhood.org/ * Ph: Pat Slater: 360-420-1468

Contact: Meighan Graham * Email:This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Ph: 206-351-2942 or 206-909-3534

And…

23 – 25 SEPTEMBER, ALBERTA, CANADA

1^ST ANNUAL LADIES RETREAT,Pioneer Lodge, Sundre

Only 1.5 hours out of Calgary!

Contact: Michelle Kauenhofen * Home: 204-388-6015 * Cell:  204-355-7682

Email:This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. orThis email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

If it is too far away from you, tell your friends about it in these areas. Nursing babies are welcome. We also welcome, not only the mothers, but the grandmothers and the teen daughters who will all be blessed and benefited from the messages.

AFRICAN ABOVE RUBIES

I still have all the African packages of Above Rubies waiting to send, well over a thousand of them, but I do not have the funds to send them out. There is such a cry for Above Rubies across the countries of Africa. Many pastors have up to 100 churches under their care and some ask for 1,000 magazines to share amongst their people. I can only afford to send them one magazine! The shipping is so exorbitant to Africa and they are not in a position to pay for their magazines. The need to strengthen marriages, motherhood and family life is desperate in Africa. They need this message of truth.

If you have a burden for Africa and God touches your heart to help us send these magazines that are sitting waiting, send in a donation, earmarked for Africa.

You can do it either of three ways:

1. Go toour on-line donation page 
2. Give us a call at 1 877 729 9861 and do it through your credit card.
3. Send it by check to: Above Rubies, PO Box 681687, Franklin TN 37068-1687.

LISTS OF BOOKS

In the last two newsletters, I sent out a list of books on ADOPTION and also TRUSTING GOD FOR FAMILY SIZE.

I am now interested in making a list of books to have available for mothers about NATURAL BIRTH and also TOTAL BREASTFEEDING. What are the best books you have read on these subjects? When you email me atThis email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. please put the subject in the Subject Heading. Thanks.

HYMN OF COURAGE

Each Tuesday evening we have a prayer meeting in our little community of Primm Springs, Tennessee. We hold it either at our home or in the Jobe’s home (long-standing citizens of Primm Springs). Folk from different denominations gather together in unity to pray for the needs in our district, our nation, and other countries. We have not failed to gather together for the last 10 years. Each Tuesday evening, we get out the hymnbooks, sing a few of the great old hymns and then get to prayer.

Last night we sang a hymn that I hadn’t sung before. Well, I knew the tune well as it is sung to the tune of Guide me, O thou Great Jehovah. However, the words were new to me. I would love to share them with you as I think they are powerful. If you know the tune of Guide me, O thou Great Jehovah, you may like to sing them together as a family at your Family Devotions this evening. I think we’ll be singing it often at our Family Devotions.

It is a prayer for wisdom and courage to face this hour. I believe these words are more needful now than when they were written.

GOD, GRANT US COURAGE

God of grace and God of glory

On thy people pour thy power,

Crown thine ancient church’s story;
Bring its bud to glorious flower.

Grant us wisdom, grant us courage

For the facing of this hour

For the facing of this hour.

Lo, the hosts of evil round us

Scorn thy Christ, assail His ways,

Fears and doubts too long have bound us;

Free our hearts to faith and praise.

Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,

For the living of these days

For the living of these days.

Cure thy children’s warring madness,

Bend our pride to your control;

Shame our wanton selfish gladness

Rich in things and poor in soul.

Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,

Lest we miss thy kingdom’s goal,

Lest we miss thy kingdom’s goal.

Set our feet on lofty places,

Fill our lives that they may be

Strengthened with all Christ-like graces

Pledged to set all captives free.

Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,

Lest we fail our call from thee

Lest we fail our call from thee.

Save us from weak resignation

To the evils we deplore,

Let the search for thy salvation

Be our glory evermore.

Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,

Serving thee whom we adore

Serving thee whom we adore.

IT’S GETTING CLOSE

At each of the last two Above Rubies retreats I asked a question: “After reading An Overflowing Land in the current issue of Above Rubies, who has gone to the link

http://bit.ly/EverlastingPossesion and read the Scriptures?

Guess what? At both retreats not one person put up their hand! If I had been in the audience and a speaker had asked that question, I most probably would be one who didn’t put up my hand either! I understand. I know how busy life is. But I felt sad, not for the hours oftime I spent putting these Scriptures together, but because I don’t think that most people realize the importance of these Scriptures.

In a very short time, on the 20 September, this month, each country in the world is going to be pressured to vote for a Palestinian state and for Israel go back to their 1967 borders. This land is rightfully theirs, not only won in victory, but given to them by divine covenant. There is so much propaganda that comes through the media and it is easy for even God’s people to be deceived. The only way we can know the truth and be kept from deception is to know the Word, to know what God says. What God says is the final back stop!

Therefore, can I encourage you, if you haven’t already to go to this link,http://bit.ly/EverlastingPossesion and you could perhaps print it out. You most probably don’t have the time to sit for hours and look up all the Scriptures, but you may like to read a few Scriptures each day in your own Quiet Time. Or even take some of them as a theme for reading at your Family Devotions with your family. It is not only important for you to understand God’s heart for Israel, but for each one of your children, from the youngest to theoldest. Most of the prophecies in the Word are all going to happen in Israel and Jerusalem and therefore it is important that both we, and our children are not ignorant of what God is doing in this hour.

And don’t forget to pray morning and evening as a family for Israel and that God will work mighty miracles.

POEMS FOR YOUR SONS

Some time back I wrote a couple of poems for my grandsons. Here they are for you to print out for your sons if you think they will be a blessing to them.

Guard Your Life –

Body, Soul and Spirit!

Keep yourself pure, spirit, body and soul,

And keep your mind absolutely whole!

If a bad thought creeps in, send it flying!

It will save you heartache and lots of crying.

If you resist the devil, he will surely run

And you’ll have victory in the name of God’s Son,

The name that has power to conquer all sin,

Confess His name and send evil for a spin!

God promises to help you keep your mind clean

When from God’s Word you read and glean.

As you fill your mind with God’s Word every day

There will be no room for the devil to stay!

Remember to pray! You can’t live without prayer,

It should be as familiar as breathing air!

Prayer brings the victory and wins the day

When temptations come along the way.

Never stay on the fence, choose what is right,

Choose what is holy in God’s sight,

Hate what is evil, love what is pure

And no matter what, you will endure!

~ Nancy Campbell

YOUNG MAN OF VALOR

Young man of God, will you guard your eyes

And keep them only for your greatest prize?

The wife God planned for you from the beginning,

She’ll be enough to keep your head a-spinning!

Don’t waste your emotions looking at other girls,

No matter how special or gorgeous their curls,

Instead, keep your eyes fixed on the Lord.

Follow His leading and you’ll never be flawed.

Young man of might, will you guard your heart?

Don’t give your feelings to any up-start,

Keep your heart disciplined and wait for the time

When God shows you His choice; it will be sublime!

A daughter of virtue who has kept herself pure,

Who follows after truth and trusts God for sure,

One who loves children and keeping the home,

And who delights to serve without a moan.

Young man of valor, will you keep your first kiss

For your wedding day when it will be true bliss?

Will you start your marriage on a holy foundation?

For this is the way to strengthen the nation

And establish a family that will endure any test!

For God will be with you and you will be blessed

Even in the storms, the wind and the battles of life

If you keep the covenant with your lovely wife.

~ Nancy Campbell

PARENT’S RIGHTS

Karin Miller,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

“I’m writing with a brief response to your comments on the book, Sarah’s Last Wish which you mentioned in the last Email newsletter. Here in America, we are poised on the brink of the government taking more control to intervene in the upbringing of our children, unless we pass a Parental Rights Amendment to the Constitution. I strongly encourage you and all your readers to visit:www.parentalrights.org

You can also watch this short You Tube video they created called Overruled: Government Invasion of Your Parental Rightsat this link:http://www.youtube.com/user/parentalrights

Parental Rights are a strong Christian organization, spearheading the effort to protect America’s children from undue government intrusion by promoting our need for a Parental Rights Amendment to the Constitution. This amendment would protect the right of fit parents to direct the education and upbringing of their own children.  And of course, protecting this right is absolutely paramount to protecting our freedom to raise our children for the Lord!

I encourage you to go to their website and learn more  They are going to be asking citizens to do a big call blitz to our representatives starting September 6th  in order to gain more support for the amendment and try to get it passed this legislative session.  Parental Rights.org has an online petition that you can sign up for, which adds you to their email alert list.”

TEENAGE GIRL PARALYZED

After reading the following, you may like to encourage your daughters to write some special things to encourage Naomi. You could even make it a homeschooling project.

FromRivqah Coover,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it., writes:

“Naomi is a sweet friend of mine, 16 years of age and dedicated to the Almighty's will and passionately in love with Him, striving to live her life as a light and testimony for Him. She just recently encountered an illness that has left her totally paralyzed, with her only movement being in her toes and the tips of her fingers. She is very hopeful and positive, and we are praying that she will get her movement back again, but it looks like a long road ahead.

I would like to put together a special book for her which her family could show her. I think it would be a real encouragement to her. If each woman or girl who receives this letter could send a contribution, I could compile them all together and it would make a very lovely book. Some ideas would be song lyrics, poems (either original or otherwise), Scriptures, encouraging letters and art work.

One word of caution. Please do not write that you are so sorry this has happened.  I don't think that Naomi wants people to feel sorry for her. She is such a bright encouragement!  I called to talk to her and encourage her, and she encouraged me!  She has a precious personality, and only wants the Heavenly Father to be glorified through all of this. Send your encouraging contributions to:

Rivqah Coover

117 Railroad Lane

Shippensburg PA 17257

Can you send them as soon as possible as I really want to send this book to Naomi soon. Sincerely, Rivqah Coover.”

BECOME ACTIVELY PRO-LIFE

Ginger Umstattd,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

“Please check thewebsite: www.thomasumstattd.com.  Browse around, then click on the Almighty music video (I think it is the third one down the page). Our family, with the help of our home school speech and debate club, which our family started in 2004, made this pro-life video this past winter. It has received nearly 8000 hits on YouTube so far. Our daughter, Cynthia, is the singer, and my dear hubby, Tom, wrote the song many years ago, when he was grieving a miscarriage I was in the midst of.  We feel the message is powerful in getting the church to become active in the pro-life movement, instead of just giving mental assent to it.” 

SEXY MAMA IN HER APRON

A HAPPY MOTHER IN CALIFORNIA, writes:

“I sit here wearing my apron, thanks to you. My mother never wore one, but a couple of years ago after I read your article on aprons I went right out and bought a pretty one. Now, if I'm in my house my apron is on! I feel like I'm not fully dressed without it--I love it!  The first day I wore it my husband came home from work and found me wearing it while cooking his favorite dinner. He said, “You look like a sexy 1950's housewife!" That was the best complement he could've given me!”

If you would like to read the article, go to:http://bit.ly/WheresMyApron

We also have some aprons in stock. If you would like to purchase one, give us call at 1 877 279 9861 and we can describe them to you.

RUSSIAN ORPHAN STILL WAITING

McKENNAUGH KELLEY (age 15),This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

“I am so thankful that you included Levina in your newsletter. I had so much hope that she might get a family. However, no one stepped forward and Levina is going to die if she has no family. I am so afraid to her.

Here is a poem I wrote about her…

Levina’s Wish

Little girl

Six years old

And fifteen pounds

In a crib

That she never left

And never will

I’ve seen her cry

Alone

Abandoned

Tears making trails

Down her cheeks

I’ve heard her

Calling to me

In the only way she knew how

Trying to smile at me

I’ve stared into

Her pretty pale blue eyes

That are as dark as night

In her world

And

She spoke to me

Spoke to my heart

As I sat with her and held her hands

She told me

Of hugs and kisses

Of a mommy and a daddy

To hold her

And feed her

And laugh with her

She told me her wish

With her unseeing eyes

With her crooked legs

With her thin, tired body

She told me

With her whimpering cries behind the closed door

She told me

By the tear streaks on her face

And she continues to beg me

Long after I have left her

Begging my heart

To hear her wish

Begging me

Calling to me

To bring her a family

Our family went to an orphanage in Ukraine to adopt two little boys, Timur and Misha. It was there that I met Levina, who was six years old and 15 pounds. She was starving to death. Dear Levina is blind, she has microcephally (a small head), no knee joints and was supposedly born with brain damage and other complications. Levina needs a family to come quickly for her. A family who will grant her wish before it’s too late. Please go to my sitewww.ukrainianorphans.com to find out more, be her family, or contact me atThis email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. .”

THE CULMINATING MOMENT

What is the culminating moment in your day? In our home it is when we sit down at the evening meal and enjoy fellowship together and then enjoy Family Devotions together—reading the Word, praying for this nation and countries of the world and perhaps singing a hymn together. I am always aware that taking this time, morning and evening, to stop all other activity and listen to the living Word of God and pray, is the VERY LEAST that we can give God in the day. It is great to have time on our own to spend in the Word, but I know that as a busy mother, you don’t often get the time to do this as you would like. But, you will never miss out, when you stop twice a day, as a family, to take time to hear from God and speak to Him.

I love both the morning and evening times, but the evening is often more special. We sit around a lovely meal and can spend more time than we can in the morning.

We see that even Jesus was aware of this when He spoke the famous words in Revelation 3:20, “Behold, I stand at the door, and know: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.”The word “sup” in the Greek is the exact same word that is used for “supper, the main evening meal.” Even Webster’s 1928 dictionary says that “sup” means “to eat the evening meal, to treat with supper.”

Jesus was saying, “When I come into your life, I want to have the kind of relationship and fellowship with you that you have when you sit around and commune together at the end of the day at the supper meal.” This is what “supping” is all about. It’s not only eating, but fellowshipping. It’s not only feeding our body, but feeding our soul and our spirit. The only way our spirit is fed is through the living Word of God. Don’t ever let your children leave the table before you feed their spirit as well as their body.

Many blessings to you until next time,

NANCY CAMPBELL

www.aboverubies.org

Dear Above Rubies readers,

I know you have been enjoying the new magazine. Here comes another mini newsletter to keep you in touch while you wait for the next magazine.

In this issue:

SARAH’S LAST WISH

FLIP CALENDAR

MAGIC MOMENTS

FAMILY INTERCESSION FOR ISRAEL

REQUESTS FROM READERS

DREAM FOR MARRIAGE

THE PREPARATION DAY AND THE SHABBAT MEAL

MORE ADOPTION BOOKS

INSPIRING ADOPTION STORY

INVITATION TO HOMESCHOOLERS FROM ISRAEL

GOD IS PRO LIFE AND PRO CHOICE

SARAH’S LAST WISH

While in Australia last year I purchased Sarah’s Last Wish—A Chilling Glimpse into Forced Medicine by Eve Hillary. I was appalled as I read. It was hard to believe such “atrocities” could happen to a “normal” Aussie family as they sought to protect their dying daughter. But they did happen in what is supposed to be a free country! How could government authorities have the power to break into the Westley family’s home on numerous occasions, tap their phones, steal letters and personal documents and subject their children to constant fear through overt and covert surveillance? DoCS case workers even used threats to remove the Westley family’s other five children in order to get the parents to obey their orders which were hastening Sarah’s death. I was stirred to righteous anger on every page. For your own awareness and protection, I believe every parent should read this book.

Maggie Dent writes: “This is a chilling story of one family’s scary journey through the minefield of government red tape and an inflexible medical system… This must NEVER happen again in Australia or anywhere in the world.”

If you are interested, go to http://www.sarahs-last-wish.com/

FLIP CALENDAR

Holly Loughlin, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

Take 3x5 note cards, the more the better, and write on them all the things you are thankful for about the specific person in your family. This can include general character traits as well as specific memories. The more family members who contribute, the better. After all the cards have been written and/or illustrated, punch two holes in the top of each cards and slip binder rings through to connect them. VOILA! Now you have a flip calendar of personal encouragement.

My sister and I did this for my mom when we were girls when she was having a really deep depression. She still (15 years later) flips it every day. My daughter and I did it for her daddy a couple of years ago. The hidden benefit is that the writers then have daily reminders of what they can be thankful for.

MAGIC MOMENTS

In response to my email devotion, I Beg Your Pardon, Julie, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

in Australia writes:

This morning I was feeding my baby, tucked in under the blankets, warm and snug. She is 17 months old. I could see her little eyes looking up into mine in the early light. I smiled down at her and then I saw her eyes smile. It was so magic--so beautiful. I had to call my husband and show him. Quietly I smiled at her as she snuggled in, feeding, and quietly her eyes smiled again.

Being a mother is wonderful (yes, challenging at times), and there is no greater charge than raising children for eternity. We have been blessed with five children so far and each one is easier, filling our home with more joy.

I say to my daughter (who is 12), “If you are going to be a mother, BE a mother! BE all you can be! If you are going to be a wife, BE a wife!  If you are going to be a woman BE one all the way. Don’t be half a one, wanting to do half a man’s role. BE a lady and be one all the way! Don’t live half a life. Give it all you’ve got! Live life. Don’t be mediocre!”

FAMILY INTERCESSION FOR ISRAEL

I would encourage every family to pray for Israel at this time, especially as the United Nations Vote is coming up in September to make Palestine a state with East Jerusalem as its capital. The world has been fed lies and propaganda regarding the Palestinians in Israel. Yes, many are in a sorry state, but they are kept that way for world propaganda. To take more land from Israel (it would make their boundary 10 miles wide--can you believe it?) is totally against the promises of the Word of God. In fact, it is Satan inspired because if Satan can wipe out Israel, he wipes out the Word of God! It is a spiritual battle. We should get in this battle and be praying daily. Pray as a family every morning and evening at your Family Devotions.

Isaiah 62:6-7 says, “I have set watchmen upon thy walls, O Jerusalem, which shall never hold their peace day nor night: ye that make mention of the Lord (Margin: The Lord’s remembrancers or reminders of His promises), keep not silence, and give him to rest, till he establish, and till he make Jerusalem a praise in the earth.”Become a watchman family for Israel.

Have you read God’s promises about the land yet? Go to: http://bit.ly/EverlastingPossesion

I would encourage you to read again all the promises that God has given to Israel about bringing them back to their “own land.”He promises in Nehemiah 1:9, “Though you were cast out unto the uttermost part of the heaven, yet will I gather them from thence, and will bring them unto the place that I have chosen to set my name there.”The Living Bible translates it, “Even though you are exiled to the farthest corners of the universe, I will bring you back to Jerusalem. For Jerusalem is the place in which I have chosen to live.” The NIV says “the farthest horizon.”

I have just opened my email to Dr. Michael Evan’s report from The Jerusalem Prayer Team. He writes:

"The Palestinian Authority has officially notified Secretary General Ban Ki-Moon that they will seek UN recognition as an independent state on September 20. President Abbas plans to personally present the Palestinians’ demand for statehood and insist on a vote from the world body. All diplomatic efforts by Israel and other countries to prevent this from happening have been unable to deter the plan from moving forward.

Perhaps that is not surprising giving the historic hatred of the Palestinians for the Jews and their utter refusal to take serious steps toward bringing peace. In July, a Palestinian envoy told the UN Security Council, meeting to consider steps leading up to the vote on statehood: 'With international political and financial support, this plan has reached its objectives as acknowledged by the international community. We have completed our responsibilities and are ready to govern ourselves. We cannot keep waiting for Israel to negotiate with good faith.'

A majority of the 193 members of the United Nations have already indicated support for the plan, including most members of the Security Council. Israel’s future is being threatened more seriously than ever before. The political, economic, and military implications of a Palestine perched on the very steps of Israel’s home (including in her capital city—Jerusalem) are dire. This plan must not pass!

America is on a prophetic countdown to the gravest days in our history. Understand this clearly—every nation and individual that supports this plan to curse Israel and steal from her the land God promised the Jews as an eternal possession will suffer His chastisement and judgment. Every nation and individual that opposes this plan and stands with Israel as a blessing to her will enjoy His blessing."

It is a sobering thought that we incur either blessing or cursing upon our families depending on what we do about Israel! Read again Genesis 12:3.

REQUESTS FROM READERS

Desperate Need for child in Ukraine 

McKennaugh Kelly writes: 

I went with my parents to Ukraine on our journey to adopt two special needs boys, Timur and Misha. Circumstances in Ukraine for a disabled child are often terrible, where they are sentenced to live out their short lives confined to cribs, even if their disability is minor. During our seven weeks at the orphanage, I met a little girl named Levina. Due to the care the children are given, although she is six years old, she is only 15 lbs. She is dying and needs a family that is willing to come for her quickly and save her life. Levina is blind, has microcephally (a small head), and was supposedly born with brain damage. She also has other complications. Imagine being six and never in your life hearing the words, “I love you.” Imagine never being held from the time you were born. Imagine lying in the dark because you are blind and no one will talk to you. This is Levina’s life. Please contact me and help me save her. I have pictures, videos and her medical record. Email me at:This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or go to my websitewww.ukrainianorphans.com OR Ph: 507 549 2442. 

McKennaugh Kelley, 15 years. 

Lonely New Wife in Connecticut 

Danielle Hull, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

I have a young friend who just married and moved away from family and friends. She needs some “real life" women to meet with. Her husband often works on Sunday so they don't have a home church yet. She is in Torrington, Connecticut. Please contact me if you could befriend her.

Need Like-minded Friends in Noosa, Australia

Gemika Maloney, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:
I have recently moved to the Sunshine Coast, near Noosa (Australia) and would like to meet up with some other likeminded mums.

Ecological Breastfeeding

Gemika Maloney, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes again:

Secondly, I have a long term goal to produce a bible based book including the history and physiology of ecological breastfeeding and how it spaces children

naturally. Ecological breastfeeding is demand feeding, plus co-sleeping, baby-wearing etc. I want to make an aesthetically beautiful book full of photos, especially breastfeeding and co-sleeping photos, also birth photos and toddler photos. I'd also like stories from mums who have used this approach. I am currently newly pregnant with number two. My first son, Asher is nearly three years and we used no contraception before this pregnancy.

A TEN YEAR OLD’S DREAM

Carrie Steffen, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

The following was written by my 10 year old daughter, Mykenzie.

My Husband…

My husband must follow God with his full heart and never use God's name in vain, in fact he must follow all the commandments. He must love children! The man that shall be my husband must read his Bible and study it often. He must be slow to get angry and very wise. He must be trustworthy and hard working. When I say, "I do," he must stick with me for life. No smoking or drinking is allowed for the man I marry. I expect the man I marry to court me, not date. The man I marry must meet my parents' expectations and mine. When I shall meet him, I do not know, but that will come in God's time.

P.S.  He must LOVE ME ESPECIALLY!

THE PREPARATION DAY AND THE SHABBAT MEAL

Nearly six years ago I sent out two posts, one called THE PREPARATION DAY and the other THE SHABBAT MEAL. I received a lot of response from these devotions and promised that I would send the responses to our readers! Here I am nearly six years later actually getting it organized. I will give you the links for the original devotions and also for the responses.

http://bit.ly/PreparationDay and http://bit.ly/PreparationDayIdeas

http://bit.ly/ShabbatMeal and http://bit.ly/ShabbatMealIdeas

MORE ADOPTION BOOK TITLES

In the last email I mentioned a few books about Adoption that I have read. I received a wonderful response from our readers of more Adoption books which I will list here for you. If you are interested in this subject, you will have plenty to keep you going. I am sure you could find them all on amazon.com.

Adopted for Life by Russell Moore. This book makes the case that adoption is much more than pity on an orphan. It is recognizing ourselves as orphans and the God of the Gospel as our only hope. That it is not a "poor them" charity act but an extension of what Christ has done for us, to reach out and give hope and life to a physical orphan so that God can give hope and life to a spiritual orphan. (Recommended three times).

Adopting the Hurt Child By Keck and Kupecky

 Adoption Miracles By Karen Kingsbury

 Adoption Parenting Creating a Toolbox, Building Connections MacLeod and Macrae

 After the Dream Comes True By Gardner Fields of the Fatherless: Discover the Joy of

Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parentsby Deborah Gray. This is in-depth guidebook for any adoptive parent but especially for parents who adopt an older child. As a clinical social worker, Gray has hands-on experience and offers child, family, and individual therapy specializing in attachment, grief and trauma.

Beyond Consequences, Logic and Control by Forbes and Post

Brothers and Sisters in Adoption Helping Children Navigate Relationships When New Kids Join the Familyby Arleta James

 Celebrating Adoption, The Intentional Family By Kimberly Raunikar Taylor

 Compassionate Living by Tom Davis. Forward by Steven Curtis Chapman. (Recommended twice).

Damaged Angels. An Adoptive Mother's Struggle to Understand the Tragic Toll of Alcohol in Pregnancy byBonnie Buxton.

For This Child We Prayed By Thomas and Rhoda Bontrager

When Love is Not Enough by Nancy L Thomas

 Nurturing Adoptions: Creating Resilience after Neglect and Trauma by Deborah Gray

Recognizing and Managing Children with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome/Fetal Alcohol Free: A Guidebook by Brenda McCreight 

Reclaiming Adoption by Dan Cruver. Go to www.togetherforadoption.org

Small Town, Big MiracleByBishop WC Martin

Successful Adoption: A Guide for Christian FamiliesNatalie Nichols Gillespie

The Adoption Decision, 15 Things You Want to Know Before Adopting By Christianson

 The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family by Karyn Purvis (Recommended three times).

The Family Nobody Wantedby Helen Doss. Although the adoption process they faced is rather outdated (they adopted 12 children in the 40s) it is a heart-warming book that the entire family will enjoy.

The Spirit of Adoption: Winning the Battle for the Children by Randy and Kelsey Bohlender. Available from thezoefoundation.com

The Waiting Child by Cindy Champnella.

Three Little Wordsby Ashley Rhodes-Courter. One warning she describes a pornographic video that she stumbles on which should be skipped over. It has interesting insights into older child adoption. It is also an indictment of the broken government foster care system. I hope it will encourage Christians to get involved with adoption.

Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge

 Whole Life Adoption by Schooler

Wounded Children, Healing Homes By Schooler, Smalley, and Callahan (Recommended twice).

 

INSPIRING ADOPTION TESTIMONY

Bonnie Walker, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it., is a mother 26 children, 22 of whom are adopted, plus one more foster child which they are waiting on the paper work for final adoption! Bonnie’s vision is that every child in America receive a “forever family” and that the foster care system as we know it will be done away with. Her testimony is written as a prayer to the Lord.

To God, From Your Servant at Refuge Ranch

Tuesday, July 12, 2011Hello Father,

Well, on April 8^th, You did it again! And I sound like the court official responding to our lawyer. When our lawyer said that she was there representing the Walkers for an adoption, the court official exclaimed, “Again?” Yes, again! One more time we finalized the adoption on four more little Walkers! One more time, we get to be called mama and daddy forever. One more time, four more children get the security of knowing that someone loves them enough to say, “I love you forever.” “Adoption!” Such a precious word backed up by an eternity of Love! Abba, thank You for giving us Your heart about adoption. At 53, adopting a sibling group of four little ones, ages 3, 8, 10 and 11, [plus planning to adopt their baby brother, age 18 months, as soon as paperwork is completed] definitely wasn’t on my agenda for my life, but I’m so glad that is was on Yours!

I have longed to tell their story, Your story, of their lives. So finally with new names and new birth certificates on the way, You can receive the Glory and Honor that’s due you for Your miraculous workings.

Oh Father, where do I even begin? I guess at the beginning would be the best place. I remember 2005, Billy and I had semi-retired. The only reason that we wouldn’t say we’re finished is because You had given me a Scripture several times that there were yet seven to inherit the land. At this point in my life, I was open to having misunderstood You about exactly what that meant. No longer baby crazy, and somewhat weary, retirement seemed the way the wind was blowing. Oh how You must have laughed!

October 2008 I am teaching Worshipping Warriors (children’s church) and in walk these two adorable little boys, Noah (8) and Daniel (6) who had just been placed in foster care for the 2^nd time. My heart went out to these two little fellas and I began to shower them with love. But even I did not know that You had just introduced me to two of my new sons!

In December, the boys were returned to the biological parents. I missed them, was mad at the system that would return helpless children to such an environment, but resigned myself that there was nothing I could do. Then the first week in January, they were back in foster care and attending church again. Or at least they were sort of back! It took me the whole class period to coax just a partial smile out of Daniel. Both the boys were extremely traumatized and I wanted to choke the bureaucratic monster that allowed precious children to be so repeatedly mistreated!

Father, I remember that day so well! I had been fighting back tears all the way through class. Afterwards, I managed to get in the van before I burst into tears! Billy, not having any idea what had been going on asked, “What is it?” I blurted out, “I want those boys!” Then I explained how hurt and damaged they were and I couldn’t stop crying. Noah and Daniel already had issues and behavioral struggles previously, but now everything was compounded several times over!

In March 2009, You added another piece to the puzzle. Older sister, sweet Menorah (9), was also placed in foster care and she too became very attached to me. Every service at church when the children were dismissed for children’s church, I’d leave out of the sanctuary with Menorah under one arm and Noah under the other arm. I loved them so much, but still didn’t know what You had planned. It’s funny now, looking back. In my semi-retired state, I was very slow to read the writing on the wall. Usually, I always know way ahead of time when You’re sending children! Not this time!

The boys continued to struggle emotionally. I didn’t find out until later that Noah’s biggest problem was going to parental visits, sitting in a room, roughly 8 x 10 foot in size, with the man that used to beat him sitting in the same room! Father, I just don’t get it! No one would make an adult repeatedly stay in that close proximity with their abuser, yet our system requires it of a innocent child! Something is wrong with that equation! Something is very wrong!

Summer came and VBS arrived. One day while we were playing games outside, Menorah came over and sat with me. She looked at me and said, “I wish I could live at your house!” Even this I down played, assuring her that she probably wouldn’t like it because my children have to work. She replied, “I’ll work!” It still hadn’t hit me, even then, what You were up to, Father. But I’m so thankful that Holy Spirit didn’t stop talking!

In September of 2009, after class Noah walked up to me, wrapped his arms around my waist, looked up in my face and said, “I wish you were my mama!” My heart skipped a beat! Lord, what are You doing? By October, there was talk of removing Noah from the foster home and placing him in a children’s group home. His behavior was progressively deteriorating and the foster mom couldn’t handle any more. I immediately asked Billy if we could we get him, so at least he’d be close to his other siblings and get to see them at church. One of our passions has always been to keep siblings together as much as possible. This was possible! I called DFCS and put in our request. We began to get the usual runaround. Are you licensed? No, you have too many children under the age of 16, and the list went on and on. I was not deterred! I had been around, over, and through that bureaucratic mountain on more than one occasion. I have seen You work so many amazing miracles on behalf of children that no red tape was going to stop me from saving that precious little boy!

Well, the devil ain’t no dummy. He saw Noah was about to be rescued, and he reared his ugly head. The next day, Noah had a melt down at school. He got upset and pitched a fit. Now, Lord, I know something needed doing, but I strongly disagree with what was done. The school called the police or DFCS. I’ve never been clear on who called whom, but the result was that an eight year old, terrified little boy was put in the back seat of a police car, and taken to DFCS! DFCS called the foster mom to bring his things and he was immediately transported to a children’s group home one and a half hours away! He wasn’t even allowed to say goodbye to his siblings!

You talk about a mad mama tiger, but I was furious and determined! I called DFCS the next morning and told them we’d do whatever it took to get Noah. Everyone was saying that it couldn’t be done! I wrote in my journal to You, “Show them what You can do!“ I cried, prayed, and could hardly sleep. I called everyone from here to the governor’s mansion, and the whole time I kept seeing Noah’s precious little face, afraid and crying.

Three days later, I had my word from You and confirmation! You let me know that You were on the way to help. Then you gave me Isaiah 54:2-4 again, telling me to “enlarge my tent.” Father, I should have kept a record of the number of times You’ve used that verse to let me know more children were coming. Through a prophesy You informed me that there was no Plan B. . . that I was Your Plan A for Noah’s life. With Joshua 3:5, You said, “Sanctify yourselves. Tomorrow God will work miracle-wonders among you.“ But still, I was tormented with some doubts and fears.

As I shared these concerns with a friend, they replied, “Bonnie, you have always gone straight into the Heavens, heard from God and not cared what anybody else said, ignoring the natural realm! You can’t start operating out of fear and doubts now.” Then they shared this revelation about Noah and his siblings that God had given during prayer. Noah in the Bible built an ark (a Refuge) for the saving of not just himself but his family. And that my Noah would pave the way for the other siblings to come to the Ark here at Refuge Ranch! I had no idea at the time how prophetically accurate that word was, but I was about to find out!

Immediately, I put in to go visit Noah, but here again red tape, moving at a snail’s pace blocked my path. A frightened little boy was locked away with total strangers in unfamiliar settings, not hearing one familiar voice or seeing one familiar face for 2 ½ weeks, and I couldn’t get to him! Father, here again, to an adult that would be horrifying! To a child? I cannot even imagine!

You’d been telling me that You were about to do a new thing (Isaiah 43: 18-19). Well, November 5, 2009, You did! At 11:00 a.m., I received a call from DFCS. The head guy had given permission for me to go see Noah. I said, “That’s great!” Then the worker said that they had also given permission for us to adopt Noah. I replied something like, “He did? That’s wonderful.” Then they replied that there’s just one hitch. I asked, “What is that?” The answer was, “It’s a package deal. You’ll have to take all five.” (The birth mom was pregnant and they were anticipating having to remove that infant as well.) I didn’t even hesitate! My immediate response was, “Okay!” I’ve often wondered if they offered us all five children to get me to shut up and quit bugging them. I am nothing if not persistent when one of my children is not safe. It didn’t matter to me what their reasons. I was ecstatic! I cried, squealed, laughed and shook my head at Your amazing ways!

Two days later, Noah’s CASA workers took me and his siblings to see him! Hallelujah! It was the first time I’d been around Janiah (2), for any length of time, and I’d only held her once. At VBS, Noah had come to me, nearly dragging her, wanting to show off his baby sister. Even at the time, I had a strange thought that he was offering her to me, trying to get me to want her, so I’d want to adopt him. It’s so strange that the children knew what You were doing, Father, before I did. But back to the visit day, Janiah started clinging to me. Now Janiah, is very shy, and doesn’t go to strangers at all. The CASA workers begin to raise their eyebrows and wonder what You were doing.

When we arrived, Noah’s face was priceless! So many mixed emotions--relief, joy, fear, hope and doubt all filtered across his little face as tears filled his eyes. I held him and hugged him so tight, fighting tears myself. But the worst was yet to come! We played and shared gifts that we’d brought, laughed and talked. He shared the horrors of bathing while the older boys in the cottage would put bars of soap in socks and hit him through the shower curtain. He told of the nights of crying and of being so afraid. He was the youngest in the cottage and most of the others were teens with really rough records already. Fear was his constant companion!

Then came the part that I didn’t think I’d live through--the leaving! Noah latched on to me and started begging me not to leave him, to take him with me. Then he looked up at me and said, “You’ve adopted all those other children. Adopt me, please?“ DFCS had not given me permission to let the children know yet what was going on, so all I could do was holler for the CASA worker, who tactfully changed the subject.

Leaving Noah there was harder than leaving Anna and her siblings in Texas when we went to visit them the first time, and I thought that would kill me! But Your grace was sufficient again! Little Daniel wanted me to sit in the back with him as we traveled home. With him on one side and Menorah on the other, I tried valiantly to cheer them up. When I got in my van at Rhine, I went to pieces! I couldn’t stop squalling.

One of the things I absolutely hate about DFCS is the predictable slowness at which they work. Lord, You know it’s not the caseworker’s fault. Most of the ones that I’ve worked with are just as frustrated as myself with all the bureaucratic red tape and the paperwork that has to be done five times over in triplicate! So here we were again, playing the age old game of “hurry up and wait!” And in the mean time trying to keep a nine year old little boy encouraged to continue hoping when there seemed no hope!

Pregnancies are wearying at times even in the best circumstances. Being pregnant with five and waiting for delivery. . . well, let’s just say it’s a long wait! But as with natural pregnancies, spiritual pregnancies don’t last forever either. The Monday after Christmas, the delivery began! The DFCS worker called and said, “I have a little bit of good news. Are you ready for Noah to come home?” Yes, oh Yes! I started getting everything ready. As she was on her way to the children’s home to get Noah’s stuff, she called me back with another question. She wanted to know if I had a crib. She said that the baby would be coming that week, because a c-section was scheduled for the next morning. I jumped up and down, squealing with joy. I was so excited and so overcome with Your awesomeness. You had said “a suddenly,” and it definitely was!

Late that afternoon, I went to McRae to pick up Noah! The worker handed me a sack. Puzzled I asked, “What’s this?” They were Noah’s meds. I knew he was medicated, but until then I had no idea just how medicated! Oh well, the Lord would deal with that. I was getting to take my son home at last. It felt so good to say, “Noah, let’s go home!” As I lay down that night, I was tired but almost euphoric with happiness.

On December 29^th, 2009, Elijah was born. He was having mild withdrawals, but the doctor was ready to release him the next day. We picked him up at one and a half days old from the hospital. I felt like I was dreaming and tears kept coming to my eyes. I kept saying that You are incredible! He is beautiful! Thank You, Lord! Thank You, Lord!

We kept praying over him and by Friday You had delivered him from the withdrawals. Thank You, Lord! I had felt like You gave permission to breastfeed him like I did Gabriel. I was giving about ½ the amount of milk he needed and was supplementing the rest. He was thriving and doing so well. There were times that Satan would try to torment me with doubts of us not getting to keep him, but then You spoke. With Isaiah 65:18-19, You said that there would be “no more sounds of weeping . . . No cries of anguish.” You had spoken! Elijah would not leave because I knew there was no way that he could leave without me weeping, and You’d said I wouldn’t!

Billy and I have caught a lot of criticism and a lot of kidding because of our ages. Many have wanted to know if we could count! Yes, we still can add 51 and 18. Most people don’t start over with a newborn at age 51! Well, we aren’t most people. We’re Your people, and we choose to obey You! We know without any doubt that the placement of these children was You and You only, so we are at peace about it and just enjoy the journey. And what a journey it is!

On January 19^th, 2010, the other three siblings came home: Menorah (10), Daniel (who turned 7 the next day), and Janiah (2). At last, they were all together. I was so ecstatic, but I rapidly became walking exhaustion for about three months! You had warned me in November 2009, with Isaiah 43: 1-7, “Don’t be afraid. . . When you’re in over your head, I’ll be there with you. . . “Most days I definitely felt over my head, but You are always faithful!

My milk for the baby had decreased and I was so tired I couldn’t figure out why. My pediatrician explained it to me this way, “Bonnie, you just got three more children! That’s enough extra stress to decrease anyone’s milk flow. I kept trying to breastfeed Elijah until he was three months old and finally decided to quit. It grieved me, but my doctor had also admonished me to stop trying to do everything myself and to let the teenage girls help. So I did, and I began to get more rest. Billy also began to do something that I still can’t hardly believe. He started cooking! His culinary skills have been a huge blessing.

God has worked so many miracles in these children’s lives. Noah and Daniel are not taking any medications at all! Praise God! Menorah is so peaceful to have her family complete with a mama and daddy! Janiah is blossoming out of her extreme shyness! And Elijah, for whom life with us is all he’s ever known, is the apple of everyone’s eye. A few weeks ago, a lady, who had heard about us and wanted to meet me, came for a visit. She works with foster children every day at her job. After visiting with us for a while, she said that she didn’t mean to take anything away from me and the work I do, but ‘THIS IS GOD!” My spirit rejoiced! That’s exactly what I want people to see and say! You are to be glorified Lord, just You!

Lord, there’s so much going on with the ministry right now. It seems like the work load is on overload and is never-ending. I am so passionate about wanting to teach others how to minister emotional healing, by the power of Your Blood, to the broken lives of wounded children. You are opening so many doors. Give me the grace to walk through them as You ordain. Father, I don’t want to miss You in any way. I am desperate to do Your will! Lead on my Lord! Lead on!

Your willing daughter, Bonnie Walker.”

INVITATION TO HOME SCHOOLERS FROM ISRAEL

Chris Davis, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:
 

Government of Israel reaches out to Christian homeschoolers!

The academic leaders and government ministers of Israel have created a unique opportunity for current and future Christian homeschooled students.

Israel desires to build a generation of Goodwill Ambassadors from among Christians who already have a heart for Israel. To this end, Israel’s Prime Minister is inviting Christian educators to participate in a prototype of what the government is calling The Israel Goodwill Ambassador Academy. Although the initial focus was to be Christian college and university students, after meeting with some American homeschooling parents last month, the Academy has decided to design its programs especially with Christian homeschooled students in mind.

I have been asked to invite you—homeschooling leaders and parents—to participate in this gathering because Israel recognizes that Christian homeschooled students are the future opinion-leaders of their respective countries. It is Israel’s desire to provide our students with accurate, on-the-ground facts regarding Israel’s place in the world as part of our students’ home education experience.

A prototype of The Israel Goodwill Ambassador Academy will be held in Israel this September 17th - 25th. As far as I know, this is the first time a foreign government has expressly asked homeschoolers to partner with them for the purpose of sustaining their country’s future. This is a historic opportunity for Christian homeschoolers to benefit the nation of Israel.

What isThe Israel Goodwill Ambassador Academy? 

As the governments of the world back away from their support for Israel, Israel has realized that evangelical Christians may be their best (and, perhaps, only) friends. This fully accredited Academy will counter the negative and non-factual information being disseminated by the media and other information outlets. Through seminars, forums, discussions, and travel to important locations in Israel, leading experts in the government, military, financial and academic sectors will provide the experience and higher education our students need.

Who is inviting me to this gathering?

The invitation to participate in the first Academy comes directly from Benjamin Netanyahu, Israel’s Prime Minister, who will welcome us to this first ever event. The invitation is being extended to educational leaders, especially to English-speaking Christian homeschool leaders and parents.

What responsibility will I have at this gathering?

As a participant, your responsibility will be to attend all meetings. When several meetings are being held concurrently, you will choose the meeting you feel will best help homeschooled students understand Israel and her future. Your second responsibility will be to give input to the Academy’s leaders as to how you feel future Academies may be improved for the sake of the homeschoolers you know.

How do I show my interest in attending and receiving more information (including cost, itinerary, etc.)?

Contact This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it., Ph: 931-287-9312 to receive PDF file in three parts: 1) The letter of invitation from Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, 2) The itinerary for September’s prototype Academy (note: exact times and locations of meetings with the Prime Minister, government officials and special guests are not noted for security reasons), and 3) The Registration Form.

If you are interested in attending, contact me immediately to let me know and with any questions you may have.

A final request:

It is important that the notice of this gathering get into the hands of as many homeschoolers as possible. I have only sent it to those whom I know personally. Please forward it to those you know, either by sending it to your Facebook “friends”, by including it in your newsletter, by placing it on your website, or by any other means. I do not want this opportunity to pass by someone who would be truly interested in attending simply because he or she did not know about it.

Thank you for your cooperation. I hope to see many of you in Israel this September!

Chris Davis, North American Homeschool Representative

The Israel Goodwill Ambassador Academy,Jerusalem, Israel

This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * U.S. Phone 931-287-9312

FINAL THOUGHTS – GOD IS PRO LIFE AND PRO CHOICE

I posted the following on the Above Rubies Facebook this morning, but thought I would share it with you here.

A precious young mother with a new baby came to me recently with tears in her eyes. She is coming into the revelation of God's heart for children and is opening her heart to embrace children. But she is being bombarded in every direction by "older women" in her church. They counsel her to stop having children because she won't have enough time to train her four children; she won't have enough money to send them to college; she will be overwhelmed and so the braining washing goes on and on. One woman even told her that God has given her a brain so she can CHOOSE!

This woman didn't know how "right on" she was! She meant of course that women can choose not to have children. But it is true that God gives us a choice. Deuteronomy 30:19 says, "I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore CHOOSE LIFE, that both thou and thy seed may live." Read the whole passage from verse 15 - 21.

God gives us a choice but implores us to CHOOSE LIFE. Why? For our own blessing and the blessing of our children, our grandchildren and the generations following. In fact, if we don't choose life, there may not be any generations following! There are many families today that are dying out. It took us 15 grandchildren before we were blessed with a grandchild to carry on the Campbell name! It doesn't happen easily!

When we choose life, we choose God. We choose His kingdom for His kingdom is a kingdom of LIFE. When we choose to reject life, we choose Satan's kingdom for his kingdom is a kingdom of death and his plan is to eliminate children every way he can--through contraception, sterilization and abortion!

Let's be LIFE CHOOSERS!

And may God expose to the dear "older women" in the church the deception that has clouded their minds. May they be opened to the truth of God's heart for families. The “older mothers” stand responsible before God for either turning a generation away from God’s truth and eliminating God’s children in the earth (do they realize what they are doing?); or for turning the young women’s hearts to God’s truth and encouraging them to embrace children and thereby fill the nation with more of the image of God—His love, His salvation and His truth. Do they realize how powerful, nation changing and eternity-filling that is?

No wonder it tells us in Titus 2:3-5 that if the older women don’t encourage the younger mothers to embrace mothering and homemaking that it is “a blasphemy to the Word of God.” Help! Folk get mad when I mention that phrase. The amazing thing is that I never thought it up myself. It comes straight from the Word of God.

Now, don’t get upset! I still love you, no matter where you are on your journey. It has taken years for God to get me on track and He’s still getting me on track! The main thing is to be soft and pliable to hear His voice, isn’t it?

Be encouraged and much love in Jesus,

NANCY CAMPBELL

www.aboverubies.org

Dear Above Rubies reader,

At last! The new magazine, # 82 is rolling off the presses. My plan was to go to print at the beginning of May but unforeseen delays kept emerging. But we keep on plodding on and it’s now happening. I will be looking forward to sending the magazine to you and I know you will be blessed as always.

In this Newsletter:

BOOKS ABOUT HAVING CHILDREN

 BOOKS ABOUT ADOPTION

THE NEW BOOKSTORE SPECIALS

UNIQUE FAMILY PICTURES

T-SHIRT ANSWERS

STUDY MANUAL EGROUPS

THE LAND OF ISRAEL

HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN

REQUESTS FROM READERS

NANNIES NEEDED IN EUROPE AND ISRAEL

BOOKS BY ABOVE RUBIES READERS

A YOUNG MAN’S VISION

THE MAYISHA CAMPAIGN

JESUS CAME TO OUR HOME

A TEN YEAR OLD’S THOUGHTS

ARE WE A CHRISTIAN NATION?

GOD SPEAKS ON MORE THAN ONE FRONT

In the new magazine, I listed on page 29 two new books, Positively Yes (Can you trust God or your Family Size?)and Family UNplanning. You can see by the titles that they are on the subject of trusting God to give the children He has planned for you. This belief has not been in vogue in the world, or even in the church that have followed the world, for many decades. But God is always in the business of restoring and He is restoring this biblical truth to believers. When God begins to say something to His people, He does not say it in one place only or through one person only. He speaks through many. There are many books that have now been written on this subject. God wants to make His truth known. God is speaking. I hope His people are listening.

The following are a list of books that I have read and would recommend. I know there are many more and I would love to hear from you of books that you have read that I could also add to my list. Thanks so much.

 A Full Quiver by Rick and Jan Hess
http://bit.ly/AFullQuiver

A Change of Heart-50 Reversal Testimonies (prepared by Nancy Campbell)
http://bit.ly/HeartChange

Be Fruitful and Multiply by Nancy Campbell
http://bit.ly/BeFruitfulAndMultiply

Does the Birth Control Pill Cause Abortions by Randy Alcorn
http://bit.ly/BirthControlAbortions

The Bible and Birth Control by Charles D. Provan
http://bit.ly/BibleAndBirthControl

The above books are all available at http://aboverubiesbookstore.mybigcommerce.com

The following are available on www.amazon.com

Family UNplanning by Craig Houghton  

Positively Yes! (Can you trust God for your family size?) by Hanna E. Farwell

Birthing God’s Mighty Warriors by Rachel Scott (I enjoyed reading this book. Rachel writes, “The book is also available in a PDF for a minimal fee and parts of the book are FREE on my blog: www.godsmightywarriors.wordpress.com * This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.)

Children: Blessing or Burden? by Max Heine

The Way Home by Mary Pride (a “must” read)

All the Way Home by Mary Pride

The Duggars: 20 and Counting! Raising One of America's Largest Families – How do they do it? by Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar (haven’t read yet)

BOOKS ABOUT ADOPTION

I would also like to compile a list of books written about adoption, which is very close to God’s heart. God sets the solitary in families. He wants all His children to be embraced into a family for this is the way He planned for us to live. Did you know that there are currently 143 million orphans in the world? Each one of them needs a loving family. If you have read a good book about adoption, please share it with me so I can make a comprehensive list to have available for women. Type ADOPTION in the subject heading.

The only ones I can remember I have read are:

Adoption as a Ministry, Adoption as a Blessing by Michelle Gardner
http://bit.ly/AdoptionAsMinistry

Adopted for the Kingdom, One Church’s Story by Terri Cooney and Kathleen Schwartz

Hidden for Glory, Destined for Adoption by SuDawn Peters

Refuge Ranch by Bonnie Walker (I printed Bonnie’s testimony in Above Rubies # 78 entitled Twenty One Children!Eighteen of these children are adopted and after sending the article to me, the Walkers were in the process of taking in another sibling group of five children, adding their number to 26 children!)

The Primal Wound—Understanding the Adopted Child by Nancy Newton Verrier (a most interesting book which should be read by all mothers contemplating adoption).

THE NEW BOOKSTORE SPECIALS

Now that we will start sending out the magazine this Wednesday, we have finished the specials for last issue and the new specials are now available.

ONLY $5.00 EACH FOR A FIVE-MESSAGE POWERFUL TEACHING SESSION!

Choose one or all three!

Changing the World from the Heart of your Home!
(Five messages on how to teach your children to stand up and be counted in this hour)
http://bit.ly/ChangingWorldMP3

Shepherding Your Flock
(Five messages about mothering our children the way God shepherds us)
http://bit.ly/ShepherdingFlockMP3

The Beautiful Woman
(Five messages about what it means to be a beautiful woman—beautiful spirit, submission, countenance, maternalness, warrior, purity, fragrance, speech, clothes and temple)
http://bit.ly/TheBeautifulWomanMP3

Download five hours’ of teaching for only $5.00 EACH!

THE FAMILY MEAL TABLE DVD-IN ACTION!

You will discover that food is only the beginning of what can happen at your table!

You will also see other families around their tables and many other interesting features!

All for only $8.00!You save $7.00!

Comments:

“Exciting and engaging!”

“This DVD is an invitation to a feast. It will change the way you look at your table.”

“We love this DVD!”

“Our family has been so inspired by the captivating and informative message of how God desires families to join Him at the family meal table. Even if your family already practices this tradition, this DVD brings more light, more depth and more meaning!”

“The family dinner table is one of those things that people are homesick for but don’t realize that’s what they are missing.”

Go tohttp://bit.ly/FamilyMealTableDVD 

or call 1 877 729 9861 to order.

UNIQUE FAMILY PICTURES

I am ready for a new influx of pictures—pictures of mothers and babies, fathers and babies, babies on their own, children, families, husbands and wives. I am planning to do an Above Rubies calendar this year so will need to get started on it pretty soon. And of course, I will need pictures! And we plan to do some more YouTubes.

I know that every picture of babies and children are beautiful. I ooh and aah over them all, but I will be looking for those especially unique and different pictures.

Instructions:

1. Make sure your picture is sharp and clear
2. Send as an attachment and no less than 300 dpi for good reproduction
3. Type PICTURES FOR AR in Subject Heading
4. Email names of who belongs to the picture
5. You may send the pictures as horizontal or vertical (but, if your picture was to be a front cover shot for Above Rubies it would need to be vertical!)

I am excited to see all these wonderful pictures. Send to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

T-SHIRT ANSWERS

Allison Durham writes, “I went to an Above Rubies conference with a friend in Texas years ago. One of the things you said that spoke to me personally was that when we are out in the world, at the grocery store or wherever, with all our little blessings following us and people are staring and asking questions, that we should hold our heads high and wear a large smile. When asked, “Are all these yours?” we should answer happily and proudly, “Yes, they’re all mine.”

When I go to town with my seven (eight on the way) I am always asked questions by perfect strangers. Now I have a ready answer. I have also designed a T-shirt that further encourages a joyful conversation.”

On the back of the T-shirt it says,

Yes…

They’re all mine!

I know how this happened!

We homeschool!

My hands are full, of love!

They were planned!

I’d be thankful for more!

Psalm 127:3

If you would like to order one of these T-shirts for yourself, contact Allison at

Ph: 530-632-3669

Or her mailing address is:

12300 Allison Ranch Rd

Grass Valley CA 95949

ABOVE RUBIES STUDY MANUAL E-GROUPS

Apart from the Above Rubies Facebook, we do have an Above Rubies E-Group (contact Denise Bryce at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.)

We also previously had four other E-Groups for mothers to study the four manuals together on line:

THE POWER OF MOTHERHOOD

THE FAMILY MEAL TABLE AND HOSPITALITY

BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY

THE GATEKEEPERS OF THE HOME

Preview each group at: http://bit.ly/WomensForums

NOTE: Currently, all our moderators have not been able to continue for various family reasons. Therefore, if anyone else is interested in moderating one of these groups, please contact me by email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

THE LAND OF ISRAEL

In the coming issue of Above Rubies that you will soon receive, I have written an article about the “land the flows with milk and honey” relating it to wifehood and motherhood. The article is taken from my recent Email series of which there were 10 parts. In preparing for this article I did a full research on the Scriptures regarding the land of Israel. I was absolutely amazed to find so many Scriptures regarding the promises God has given concerning His people coming back to their land. There are not one or two promises but over 100! God’s people need to know and understand these Scriptures, especially at this time when the nations of the world are turning against Israel, even the leadership of our own nation of USA. I would very much encourage you to read them. You will be very excited. You can get them by going to the link: http://bit.ly/EverlastingPossesion

Or you can email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and put LAND in the Subject Heading.

And, if you find any Scriptures that I have missed, please email them to me. I would be so grateful. Thanks, Nancy

By the way, I just signed a petition this morning. If you are concerned about the Wailing Wall, East Jerusalem and the West Bank being taken from Israel (leaving them only a strip 10 miles wide) you may like to sign this petition also.

http://www.unitedwithisrael.org/petitions/white_house/friends.php

HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN

Many of you will have enjoyed the recent book, HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR HUSBAND. I am now nearing the end of preparing HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN. I know you will find this a wonderful blessing too as I compile great ideas from mothers around the world. There is still a little window of time if you have a great idea you would like to include in this book. Send it immediately to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Instructions:

1. Type ENCOURAGE in the Subject Heading
2. Type only one space between sentences
3. Send by Word attachment
4. At the end of your article include your name, city, state and email address

REQUESTS FROM READERS

HOME FOR SALE

From Kathy White, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“We have a 3300 sq. ft. house with 7 bedrooms for sale in Central New York. Since the traditional housing market doesn’t offer much for large families, we are trying to share this information in other venues.

We are a Christian family of 10 and have enjoyed the home for 20 years. We are hoping to relocate to VA and need to sell soon.

Email if you are interested. LARRY AND KATHY WHITE.”

HOMESCHOOLING IN HAWAII

From JILL OWEN, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“I have attended several retreats and have been receiving your magazines for years. We will be moving to Oahu, Hawaii soon and I was hoping to connect with some women about home schooling. Please email. Many thanks!”

NEWLY MARRIED IN HAWAII

A message from This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“My daughter is in Honolulu, Hawaii with her sailor husband and is really lonely for good Christian fellowship. If anyone who would like to contact her let me know. She got married in December and is expecting her first child in September. She has an "Above Rubies” heart and needs a lot of encouragement. Thanks.”

NEED A HOME

From CRISSY ADCOX,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“We have felt the Lord leading us toward a more simple life, so we've been praying and waiting for his direction. We feel he is opening the door for us now. We are in the process of selling our home, and are in need of a rental home, preferably in middle or west Tennessee. My husband is an experienced home/auto repair man and is currently in the construction business, so he will be looking for work in that area. Any size home will do. We just need a big yard so we can start/run a small farm. We have six children and look forward to more. We want to live a simple life, work together, raise our family and serve with a fellowship of believers. Email if you have a contact. Thanks.”

COUNTRY LIVING

From Karen MacKenzie, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“I was hoping to get some advice on living life in the country well. We have been out of town for two years now and while I am so thankful to have lots of space, both inside my home and outside in my yard, I find difficulty with the commute, lack of playmates for my children and getting groceries, etc. I think our many months of winter in Saskatchewan add to my struggles. Anyway, this “born and raised city girl” would love to hear ideas from others in order to become a more content wife and homemaker.”

NANNIES NEEDED AROUND THE WORLD

From GERDINE MULDERIG in The Netherlands, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“I'm Gerdine Mulderij from Delft, Holland, and I came to your meetings every time for the last few years you came to Holland. I'm very grateful for your support and encouragement, I really love the Above Rubies magazine and other materials, and I'm looking forward to seeing you again!

My question is: I've some health problems (fatigue due to thyroid gland problems) and we're expecting our fifth child coming in October. It would be a great blessing for us if a homeschooled lady would be willing to stay with us for some time and help us out a bit. So we thought maybe you would have some contact with an American family with an older daughter that likes to spend some time (maybe some months?) in Europe with a homeschooling family here. We've a nice guest room on the attic with a small kitchen as well. The best time for us would be around September-December this year. I'm due mid/end of October.”

Email Gerdine in you are interested.

From CAMILLE NEVE in France, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“This is Camille Neve writing. I often think back on your visit to our place almost two years ago and how short it was and how I would have liked it to be much longer! I am always greatly blessed by your magazine. I am writing to you because last year has been quite a heavy year and we were thinking of taking an aupair girl for the next school year. By the way, we are happily expecting baby number 5 for November!

We would like a young Christian girl from a European country (which will make it easier for visas and health insurance etc.) who would like to travel to France and spend at least six months with us. We would make her part of our family. She would be helping me around the house and with the little ones. We would of course lodge her and feed her etc.

I can send pictures if you are interested.”

From Tali Klimer in Israel, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“Shalom friends, I would like to ask for your prayers and help. My daughter-in-law, Ortal is seven months pregnant. She is not feeling well and has strong pain on her lower beck and under the belly. Dadi and Ortal also have a sweet baby girl, Ghyah who is 11 months.

I need help with cleaning, cooking and helping with the baby.  We all live on the kibbutz. I need help in order to do my ministry work. If someone would like to come NOW and help us for three months, hat would be a great blessing! We will take care of accommodation etc. There is option to stay more time, even for six months and help with the new baby that will be born at the end of September.”

Email if you are interested.

Ariel and Talia Klimer
PO Box 348
Kibbutz Merhaviya 19100- ISRAEL
E-mail: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. Tel:  00972.50.2793556

BOOKS BY ABOVE RUBIES READERS

The following are some lovely books that some of our readers have authored and even illustrated and would like to make known to you:

ANSWERS IN A TIME OF MISCARRIAGE By Bethany Kerr

Bethany writes: “It is estimated that one in four pregnancies will end in miscarriage. It is amazing how many women have to deal with this grief silently and alone. Because of this, I decided to write a book about miscarriage. I collected questions from women across America and put them in the book with answers to those questions, along with adding stories from men and women (including myself), plus encouraging articles and Scripture. I believe it will offer much comfort and validation to women who are going through the loss of a baby. I hope this book will show the very real pain that mothers experience when they lose a baby, even from the very earliest stages.

To purchase this book, go to: http://www.prpeciousinfants.com/miscarriage.htm

Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

A DAY LIKE TOMORROW By Sarah Janisse Brown (Illustrations by her daughter, Anna Miriam Brown – 9 years)

Find out how Sarah Brown, mother of eight young children, brings her dreams to life on an ordinary day. Mothers and children alike will discover simple ways to dream big dreams, and make them come true, in their own backyards.

A delightful book and beautifully illustrated.

Contact Sarah at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

A LAMB NAMED EWE

“My name is Kevin Jones and my beautiful bride loves your magazine. She suggested that I send this book to you that I wrote to our four young children while I was deployed to Iraq.”

This is the most delightful book, a delightful story and beautifully illustrated. A lovely gift for your children.

Contact: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Ph: 316 259 9505

THE SHEPHERD’S HEART By Ian Moilliet

This book is written by a true shepherd. Although it is about shepherding as a pastor, not parenting, I learnt so many lessons about parenting as I read t his book. The more we know what it means to be a shepherd, the more we understand how to truly shepherd our own little flock. Colin and I stayed with the Moilliets on their 105-year-old Aveley Ranch in British Columbia and had meetings with them when we first came to North America nearly 20 years ago.

Order: www.essencebookstore.com * Contact: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Ph: 250 670 9574

A YOUNG MAN’S VISION

From Stacie Eddy, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“Our son, Josh (18) has been keeping a blog. I was so blessed by his post today. I still have tears in my eyes) and wanted to share it with you.  

What She Will Be?

For those who might ask, no, I don't plan on writing about marriage and relationships all the time. But a blog is a place for thoughts, right?

May 2011

Not even knowing who my wife will be, of these things, I am certain:

She will be loved, but not smothered.

She will be well cared for, but not spoiled.

She will be protected, but not caged.

She will be blessed, but not worshiped.

She will be a source of pride, but not touted as a prize or an idol.

She will be lead by example, but not a bad one.

She will be unbelievably beautiful, even if only in my eyes and God’s.

She will be praised, but not lied to.

She will be told the truth, even the hard truth when necessary, but always in love.

She will be led in the nurture and admonition of the LORD, but not treated as a child.

She will be listened to with an open heart and mind, not a closed one.

She will be a woman with her own desires, and they will not be overlooked.

She will be valued above the most precious treasures; all but the Lordship of Christ.

She will be supported in raising a godly family, not abandoned in such a crucial battle.

She will be my first priority in life, not shelved for the sake of my own desires.

She will be constantly reminded of my love for her, but not with lifeless repetition.

She will be a beacon of hope to all, and will never lack the admiration of her husband.

She will be given hope and love, especially in the hardest times of her life.

She will be given children who are taught to love and respect her.

She will be loved by me as Christ loved the church.

She will be the love of my life.

She will be all that and so much more. Lord, let not the blessing end with me.

THE MAYISHA CAMPAIGN

From Michaela This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

The Society for the Protection of Unborn Children (SPUC) are organising a campaign to deal with maternal mortality, called the Mayisha Campaign. As background, often high maternal mortality rate is given as a reason or a need for abortion to be provided in that country, as dangerous abortions are included in maternal mortality death statistics. This is a myth that is highlighted by the facts of maternal mortality rates in South Africa and Chile. In South Africa, they have one of the most liberal abortion programmes in the world, yet their maternal mortality rates have risen since implementing this policy. In Chile, babies are protected from conception by the constitution, yet they have the lowest overall maternal mortality rate in the whole of South America.

Anyway, if you want more information, please look at their blog http://mayishacampaign.blogspot.com/2011_05_01_archive.html

Mayisha is Swahili for “life.”

There are some really interesting articles, including one by the Economist on what economists would recommend to most improve health and life in third world countries, and just as a hint, it is not abortion or improved access to contraceptives!!

Anyway, if you don’t have time to read anything else, please read this letter http://pop.org/content/population-control-the-kenyan-perspective-895 . It is a letter written by a Kenyan doctor, to the US government, but actually, he could have written it any Western Country. It brought me to tears.”

I have just read this letter and it is powerful. Nancy

JESUS CAME TO OUR HOME

I am writing this after returning from the death and burial of my sister, Patricia Felix Dickey. As people are wont to do at times like these, we talked of childhood memories. One in particular stood out. It was the day my family believes Jesus appeared at our front door. It is a true story my family cherishes, and it brings us great comfort. I shared this story with Pat's minister, and he was so struck by it he included it in his sermon at her funeral. I feel that by sharing this with others I might bring hope and encouragement to them. It is the best personal experience I have in witnessing for Jesus, our Lord and Savior.

It happened around 1935 on a summer day, during the depression, when I was about eight years old. My family lived just outside of town and was very poor. That day for lunch, we were down to our last four pieces of bread and a dab of mustard. Water was our only drink. This was to feed three hungry children and my mother. What we were to do after that, we did not know. A knock sounded at the door just as my mother was preparing our lunch. We all thought this was strange because we heard no car, and our dog never let anyone come near the house without barking, not even people he was familiar with. My mother went to answer the door with three curious children at her heels. I will never forget what I saw that day when she opened the door.

There stood a man unlike any I have ever seen. He was very tall with flowing, medium brown, shoulder-length hair. He had a very fair, clear complexion and no beard. What struck me the most about his facial features were his eyes. They were the clearest, bluest blue I have ever seen. There is no name I can give to the color of them. Sky blue seems closest, but yet, not quite. They were the type of eyes that totally captivated you when you gazed into them.

His attire was very different from anything I had ever seen. He was dressed in a long, ankle-length brownish colored robe tied with a belt made of rope. He wore some sort of sandals on his feet. I was in awe of how clean he was from walking up our dusty lane. Not a speck of dirt was to be found on him. The final shocker was that lying at his feet, just as calm as you please, was our dog! The short conversation that followed was one I shall never forget.

My mother greeted him and asked what she could do for him. He said, "Mamam, could you spare some food and drink?" My mother told him that all she had to offer was a slice of bread with mustard and water, but he was welcome to that. He said, Thank you. Mamam.” She took it to him and asked if he would like to come in and sit to eat. He said, "No, this will be fine. My thanks, Mamam.”

My mother would not allow us to be rude and watch him eat, so she shut the door. But as curious children, we ran right out the back door and around the house so we could look at him some more. But he was gone! We lived on a hill where you could see for some distance in all directions, but he was nowhere to be seen; nor were there any cars. He seemed to simply vanish into thin air. We couldn't wait to tell mom.

We were so excited and full of questions! We wanted to know who he was, where he went, and why he was dressed so strange. My mother could not give us any definite answers, of course. But she reminded us that the Bible tells us not to turn away a hungry person, and that the Lord can appear in many ways.

Things were different after that. Things slowly improved for us. From that day on, we always had enough food. We never went hungry again. I feel strongly that our Lord visited us that day, to perhaps test my mother to see if she would sacrifice her last bite of food for Him.

I also feel He wanted me to share this story with others beyond my family. The telling of it brought my sister and entire family great comfort in her last hours. If telling it now does so for others, then I will have served the Lord's will.

HELEN STEMBAUGH MATHIS

A TEN-YEAR-OLD’S THOUGHTS

Many mothers bring their teen daughters and even their younger daughters to the Above Rubies retreats. It is such a delight to have these beautiful daughters with us at the retreats. And it is very important for them to hear these messages of truth while they are young and before the enemy has a chance to come in and deceive them with the deceptions that are all around us in society. It is great to see them sitting up the front, attentive, and absorbing all the messages. I have had five-year-olds taking notes in the front seat! That is inspiring!

Some of the young ones will draw pictures for me, sometimes of me speaking. Others write messages to me. Here are some thoughts from Abby Kelly which she gave to me at a retreat. I thought I would share them with you, too.

My Ideas!

Satan is like a robber

We’re like gold coins

And God is like a policeman.

Satan is stealing us

And God is stopping him.

God is like a rich man

And we are his gold coins.

We are all precious

And valuable to Him.

God is like healthy food

Satan is the unhealthy food.

God keeps us going

But Satan slows us down!

ARE WE A CHRISTIAN NATION?

A very interesting letter written to President Obama.

THE PRESIDENT WITHOUT A COUNTRY by Pat Boone

"We're no longer a Christian nation." - President Barack Obama, June 2009

"America has been arrogant." - President Barack Obama

"After 9/11, America didn't always live up to her ideals."- President Barack Obama

"You might say that America is a Muslim nation." - President Barack Obama, Egypt  2009

Thinking about these and other statements made by the man who wears the title of president, I keep wondering what  country he believes he's president of.

In one of my very favorite stories, Edward Everett Hale's, "The Man without a  Country," a young Army lieutenant named Philip Nolan stands  condemned for treason during the Revolutionary War, having come under the influence of Aaron Burr. When the judge asks him if he wishes to say anything before sentence is passed, young Nolan defiantly exclaims, "Damn the United States! I wish I might never hear of the United States again!"

The stunned silence in the courtroom is palpable, pulsing. After a long pause, the judge soberly says to the angry lieutenant: "You have just pronounced your own sentence. You will never hear of the United States again. I sentence you to spend the rest of your life at sea, on one or another of this country's naval vessels - under strict orders that no one will ever speak to you again about the country you have just cursed."

And so it was.  Philip Nolan was taken away and spent the next 40 years at sea, never hearing anything but an occasional slip of the tongue about America. The last few pages of the story, recounting Nolan's dying hours in his small stateroom - now turned into a shrine to the country he foreswore - never fail to bring me to tears.  And I find my own love for this dream, this miracle called America, refreshed and renewed. I know how blessed and unique we are.

But reading and hearing the audacious,  shocking statements of the man who was recently elected our  president - a young black man living the impossible dream of  millions of young Americans, past and present, black and white - I want to ask him, "Just what country do you think you're  president of?"

You surely can't be referring to the United States of America, can you? America is emphatically a Christian nation, and has been from its inception! Seventy percent of her citizens identify themselves as Christian. The Declaration of Independence and our Constitution were framed, written and ratified by Christians. It's because this was, and is, a nation built on and guided by Judeo-Christian biblical principles that you, sir, have had the inestimable privilege of being elected her president.

You studied law at Harvard, didn't you, sir? You taught constitutional law in Chicago? Did you not ever read the statement of John Jay, the first Chief Justice of the Supreme Court and an author of the landmark "Federalist Papers": "Providence has given to our people the choice of their rulers - and it is the duty, as well  as the privilege and interest of our

Christian nation - to select and prefer Christians for their rulers."?

In your studies, you surely must have read the decision of the Supreme Court in 1892: "Our lives and our institutions must necessarily be based upon and embody the teachings of the Redeemer of mankind. It is impossible that it should be otherwise; and in this sense and to this extent our civilization and our institutions are emphatically Christian."

Did your professors have you skip over all the high-court decisions right up till the mid 1900's that echoed and reinforced these views and intentions? Did you pick up the history of American jurisprudence only in 1947, when for the  first time a phrase coined by Thomas Jefferson about a "wall of separation between church and state" was used to deny some  specific religious expression - contrary to Jefferson 's intent with that statement?

Or, wait a minute: were your ideas about America 's Christianity formed during the 20 years you were a member of the Trinity United Church of Christ under your  pastor, Jeremiah Wright? Is that where you got the idea that "America is no longer a Christian nation?” Is this where you, even as you came to call yourself a Christian, formed the  belief that "America has been arrogant"?

Even if that's the understandable explanation of your damning of your country and accusing the whole nation (not just a few military officials trying their best to keep more Americans from being murdered by jihadists) of "not always living up to her ideals," how did you come up with the ridiculous, alarming notion that we might be "considered a Muslim nation"?

Is it because there are some two million or more Muslims living here, trying to  be good Americans? Out of a current population of over 300 million, 70 percent of whom are Christians? Does that make us, by any rational definition, a "Muslim nation"?

Why are we not, then, a "Chinese nation?” A "Korean nation?” Even a "Vietnamese nation?” There are even more of these distinct  groups in America than Muslims. And if the distinction you're  trying to make is a religious one, why is America not "a Jewish  nation?” There's actually a case to be made for the latter,  because our Constitution - and the success of our Revolution and  founding - owe a deep debt to our Jewish brothers.

Have you stopped to think what an actual Muslim America would be like? Have you ever really spent much time in Iran? Even in Egypt ? You, having been instructed in Islam as a kid at a Muslim school in Indonesia and saying you still love the call to evening prayers, can surely picture our nation founded on the Quran, not the Judeo-Christian Bible, and living under Shariah law, can't you? You do recall Muhammad's directives [Surah  9:5,73] to "break the cross" and "kill the infidel"?

It seems increasingly and painfully obvious that you are more influenced by your upbringing and questionable education than most suspected.  If you consider yourself the president of  a people who are "no longer Christian," who have "failed to live  up to our ideals," who "have been arrogant," and might even be "considered Muslim" - you are president of a country most Americans don't recognize.

Could it be you are a president without a country?

GOD’S BLESSING ON YOUR HOME

May your home be filled with the joy of the Lord. I know there are many things that come up in your day that could easy take away your joy. But don’t let the enemy defeat you. No matter what is happening, you can rejoice because God is with you. He is faithful and will never let you go. He is your strength as you mother your children and keep your home. So keep rejoicing. Yes, even when you don’t feel like it.

Much love,

NANCY CAMPBELL

www.aboverubies.org

Dear Above Rubies reader,

Spring is here in Tennessee. It is so beautiful—starting with the daffodils of which I have about 1,000 planted on our land! Then the dazzling white blossoms of the Bradford Pear trees, then the Redbuds and now my favorite, the Dogwoods are flowering. I think I could call our place Dogwood Delight. I look out my kitchen window and see them flowering everywhere. I look out my front window and again I enjoy their beautiful white glory. What a blessing.

I am sure you are enjoying the new issue of Above Rubies. You are welcome to write for extra copies if you would like to share them with others. Don’t keep the truth to yourselves but make it known to everyone you meet.

In this Newsletter:

ABOVE RUBIES RETREATS

CANADIANS DON’T HAVE TO MISS OUT

HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR HUSBAND

HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN

CORRECT EMAIL

ABOVE RUBIES YOUTUBE VIDEOS

ABOVE RUBIES MOVIE

FIGHTING INJUSTICE

ONE OF THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE ON EARTH

PRAYER FOR BABY IN THE WOMB

HELP FOR FAMILY DEVOTIONS

ABOVE RUBIES ON FACEBOOK

HIDDEN BEAUTY

SOUTH AFRICAN EGROUP

TENNESSEE FAMILIES

I read this morning and wrote in my journal Hosea 11:3-4, "It is I who taught Ephraim to walk, I took them in my arms... I led them with cords of love... and I bent down and fed them." What a beautiful picture of our God, revealing His nurturing, mothering attributes from where we derive our motherhood. Isn't it so amazing that God still bends down to us to meet our needs? Love, Nancy

As a mother, I spend plenty of time tidying "trails" that others leave behind. As I pondered this, I realized that we all "leave a trail" of sorts, and that our trails should be worth following. My older children are leaving a trail for their siblings to follow, and I challenge them to make their trail worth following. We all leave a trail. Is mine (and yours) worth following? Love Michelle

C. H. Spurgeon wrote, "Are we not in Christ made kings to reign upon the earth? How, then, can we be the servants of custom, the slaves of human opinion?” When people say derogatory remarks to you about having more than the usual two children, don't be intimidated. You are not living by humanistic standards but by the eternal truths of God's Word. Never be ashamed of the blessing of children. Love from Nancy

I love it when modern day studies prove what God already laid out for us in His word! A study on increasing happiness listed these 5 things as key: helping others, expressing gratitude, forgiving, looking for the positive, and making religious practice a habit! All of these keys to happiness are given to us in the Bible! We truly need no other advice! Love Michelle

What kind of a face did you wake up with this morning? Gloomy and frowning? Sunny and happy? Proverbs 17:22 GNB says, “Being cheerful keeps you healthy. It is slow death to be gloomy all the time.” You can choose! Your spirit should rule your flesh. Even if you feel miserable, put on a smile! Your heart will change to cheerful and your children will start smiling too! Love from Nancy

Isn't it amazing how fast grumpiness can rob joy out of the home? I must admit that I let this affect me all too often! It is better to realize that time is very precious, and that there will never be another day just like today! Focusing on the blessings in the day, knowing that this day will never pass again, helps me guard against letting the joy be robbed! Love Michelle

Evangeline popped in a little while ago. "I have a new revelation," she said. Motherhood is equated with joy (Psalm 113:9). Children are joy-bringers! They fill our lives with joy. But do the give us peace? Well, children are loud! Children exert energy! It is God who gives peace! God says in Isaiah 66:12, "I will extend peace to her like a river." God extends peace to you. Look to Him for your peace. Nancy

Date nights, or some form of couple time, is so important to a marriage. Yesterday as I was getting ready to go out with Cam, our seven year old daughter, Jilissa smiled at me and said, "I will leave you alone so you can get ready for your DATE with DAD!!" She was so excited about it! Children love to see their parents in love and spending time together! Love Michelle

I woke this morning with 1 Peter 5:8-9 on my heart, "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walks about, seeking whom he may devour: whom RESIST steadfast in the faith." The devil doesn't want us to build up our marriages and homes. He wants to destroy them. We have a responsibility, not only to guard our hearts but also our homes, from every subtle inroad of the enemy! Nancy

I was sitting in my dimly lit room pondering the depths of Psalm 107:33-43, when my 11 year old son walked in and saw me with the Bible in my lap. As he passed my doorway, he lifted up his right hand, as though to add impact to his statement, and said with vigor, "The best BOOK in the world!" That's right my son, that's right! Small mercies every day! Love Michelle

Do you have turmoil in your life? Are you bowed down with worry? God's Word comes to you, "Return unto thy rest, O my soul" (Psalm 116:7). Christ Jesus is your rest. Look to Him. Trust in Him. Thank Him for His rest that fills your soul. When you dwell on your problem you will stay in a state of anxiety; when you trust in Christ you will experience true rest. Don't forget your resting place! Love, Nancy

What are you wearing today? Your "down in the dumps" dress? Your "grumble groaning" dress? Pretty ugly, aren't they? Why not wear something from your new wardrobe which God has given you? Your "joyful" dress, or perhaps your "pretty patience" dress. You can choose to wear the drab clothes of your old life or the new ones of the Spirit which we are commanded to put on. Read Ephesians 4:22-24. Love, Nancy

Psalm 113:9, "He makes the barren woman to keep house and to be a JOYFUL mother of children." What do you do when you don't feel joyful? SMILE anyway! It’s amazing how your attitude will catch up with your facial expression! Get up from this computer and smile at your children. Smile each time you look at them. Not only will you begin to feel joyful, but you will soon have a houseful of smiling children. Nancy

Just as God is the "Keeper of Israel," so we show the character of God when we are keepers of our homes. (Psalm 121 and Titus 2:2-5). What a blessing to be the "keeper of the home." It is no small thing. As we keep our marriages and homes strong, we also keep the nation! The nation weakens when the home weakens. Love, Nancy 

Are you being robbed? Perhaps your joy is missing? Our culture tries to rob us of our God-given role and the joy that comes with fulfilling it. Be robbed no longer! Live counter-culture and be proud of it! Who cares what the world says! Nothing pays better than the love and affection of a child, and the peace of living in God's will. Love Michelle

"Make every meal into a love affair." This is my challenge for each meal I create. It is not a matter of putting a meal together, but making the table a place where everyone in the family loves to come. Enjoy preparing your meals today, dear mothers. Don't do it out of resignation, but out of revelation, knowing that every meal has the power to bless your family and bring the presence of God to your home. Love Nancy

"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Heb 11:1. I need this today in my sleep deprived state. He will give me the strength to be pleasant, sweet and nurturing! He can do anything! His power through me will allow me to build up, and not tear down! There will be encouragement, smiles, and praise, not self-pity! Love Michelle

What does it mean to be who God created you to be as a female? I think of these words--femininity, womanliness, conception, wombing, life-giving, mothering, nurturing nesting, nourishing, feeding, succoring, embracing, enriching, encouraging, helping, inspiring, comforting, strengthening, forgiving and self-sacrificing. In this capacity, you not only nurture your family, but you build a nation! Love, Nancy

HIDDEN BEAUTY

Elisabeth Snell, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

Outside our parlor window grows a Tropicana climbing rose. It's a very odd bright orange coral color, and it takes forever to bloom. The first year we had one (perfect!) bloom, the second year we had three or four, and this year it's blooming wonderfully. The prettiest rose it's grown for us this year is turned as though it's looking in the window. Now, from the street it would be hidden. You'd hardly see it, if at all. However, this one rose lights up the parlor by peeking in the window, and to those of us who share this little place, it's the best rose on the bush. We can see every detail of its beauty.

It makes me think about little jobs that no one else sees. My children see a lot of work that no one else ever will. They see my struggles to become who I should be, and the times I fail. If I focus more on what everyone outside thinks of me than what those inside receive from me, I will fail at giving my best to my children.  If all the outside sees is a bunch of leaves and stem, then so be it, if I can give my dear family a shining and full face of bloom.

SOUTH AFRICAN EGROUP

From Marelize Keyter, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

“I've started a Yahoo group for Above Rubies ladies in South Africa to encourage, help and guide each other in our own special country with its unique limitations as well as its challenges. Here’s the link: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ARSouthAfrica/

TENNESSEE FAMILIES

Brenda Weatherly, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

An Invitation For East Tennessee Families!
If you live in East Tennessee, you may be interested in joining our group titled
"East TN Co-op and Barter". We meet on the third Sundays of the month at 6 pm
at our home in Loudon. Last month was the first meeting and potluck. This is an
informal, fun time to fellowship with other Christians and to exchange/barter
items, such as garden produce, homeschool books, children's clothing, home-baked goods and bread, raw milk, even services and skills such as handyman work, welding, sewing, furniture making, etc. There is a local Christian chiropractor (who happens to be a homeschool graduate) that would like to barter his chiropractic services. Another family has an organic chicken farm. Another family has an herb farm. Someone has wood on their property that they will barter out. There are more than a dozen families signed up to come to the second meeting in April and I imagine that this group may grow even larger as word spreads.

We believe that as a body of believers, it is important to actually BE the Church that we see as an example in Acts, of sharing and looking out for one another's needs. Our group is a non-denominational group and we will not have divisions that cause for controversy be brought up at the meetings. We believe that times may get hard here in America soon and we would like to be prepared for that, but more importantly, even if times don't get hard, we need to seek out fellow believers to fellowship with (not just in our own church congregations). We do not want to be merely self-sufficient, but we want to look for ways to serve others with the things that the Lord has blessed us with.

If you would be interested in coming to the next potluck, please email me and I
will send directions to our home in Loudon, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

May God bless you mightily in your high calling of being a wife and mother. You are determining the course of the nation.

In His service,

Nancy Campbell

www.aboverubies.org

Dear Above Rubies reader,

It is like a little taste of Spring this week. After seven wonderful snowfalls this winter (which was great for us here in Tennessee) we are enjoying lovely warm weather.

We are doing the final design for Above Rubies # 81 this week and it will go to the printers the following week. I will send out an email regarding any CHANGES you may want to make for receiving Above Rubies as soon as I have completed this mini Above Rubies. Watch for it.

In this Newsletter:

YOUTUBE VIDEO, "I DO!"

EMBRACING LIFE

FREEDOM FIGHTERS

PRAY FOR THE NATIONS-POWERFUL FAMILY MINISTRY

PRAY FOR ISRAEL

STAND FOR ISRAEL

GET INSPIRING MESSAGES STRAIGHT TO YOUR CELL PHONE

WRITING SUBJECTS FOR ABOVE RUBIES: Coping on a Minimum Budget / Difficult Pregnancy / Marriage Restoration / Sibling Fighting / Type One Diabetes

HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR HUSBAND

BEGINNINGS OF WOMANHOOD

WAITING TO BE ADOPTED

CONSERVATIVE MOMS

FROM DEATH TO LIFE

OCCUPYING SMALL BOYS INSIDE: Indoor Sports Arena / Wood and Nails

BABY DIED BEFORE BIRTH

GUARDING THE HOME: Purged our Home / God Opened my Eyes

A WORD FROM NANCY: GOD'S PRACTICAL PLAN

MY BEST QUOTE OF THE MONTH

I PROMISE TO LOVE YOU I DO

My daughter, Mercy, has now completed a beautiful slide show to Serene and Pearl's song, I DO. I know you will be blessed by the song and the pictures. Go to: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Bfh3tbzE6Y

{youtubejw}9Bfh3tbzE6Y{/youtubejw}

This song is from Serene and Pearl's album, This is our Road. You can purchase or download the whole album from the Music Store at http://bit.ly/ThisIsOurRoad

EMBRACING LIFE

JULIA JANSEN at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

This morning my sister called me with the news that "God has blessed us with another pregnancy!"  Erika and Dave have nine children. Their last baby, Luke was a precious Downs Syndrome baby and she also has a set of boy/girl twins who are now eight years.

My sister was so happy! I got teared-up listening to her tell me the story of how excited her children were when she and her husband told them! The oldest girl Kristina, 11 years old, hugged her mom and said, "Mom, I am going to be converted from now on. I think God is giving us another baby, so as the oldest daughter, I can help you out more!"  She had to call my mom (mother of 15 and grandma to almost 60) to tell her the news, because Erika was crying with joy. We are all very fortunate to have parents who REJOICE and CELEBRATE with us daughters and sons when we tell them we are having another blessing!  We were raised with a positive attitude and mindset towards accepting the children God gives us!

Erika's children all ran to their dad and mom and hugged and cried. They were so happy little Luke (one-year-old) was going to be a big brother. Some of the children asked if the baby was going to be a Downs Syndrome baby too as they just LOVE their littlest brother who is always smiling and happy.

My girls and I whipped up a cake and rolled marzipan out on top (European taste) and put a little sign on it, "You are blessed Erika and Dave! We rejoice and celebrate with you for another precious gift to your family!" We took it over for the whole family and she had a turkey in the oven to celebrate!

What a joy to read about the joy of embracing life! This is the attitude that God wants us to have, that when we embrace a little baby into our home, that we do it as though we were embracing Jesus Christ himself! Jesus said in Luke 9:48, "Whoever receives this child in My name receives Me, and whoever receives Me receives Him who sent Me." Read also Matthew 18:5.

FREEDOM FIGHTERS

A dear friend of mine, CONNIE HULTQUIST at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. sent me this email recently. I love her spirit and would love to share it with you.

Good Morning sisters who keep the home fires burning,

Makin' do is our game, we're content at home and we don't want to leave, Mothers of Destiny, Freedom Fighters, and Pioneers of a new move of God on the earth. We have a message that includes and doesn't exclude children. We love our husbands. The fruit of our wombs is precious. We hear the voice of Wisdom calling us--calling us home, calling us deep in our souls to "Come Home, come home, come home to a new revolution."

No weapons formed against us will prosper because JESUS is our banner lifted high, the Word of God is upon our lips and prayer is our Life. We whisper our prayers in the stormy night, "The Blood of Jesus over my husband and my children." We are Covenant Keepers. The blood of Jesus reminds Satan that he lost the wars of the spirit at the Cross of Calvary. "All of my children are taught of the LORD and great is their PEACE." Our unsaved husbands are sanctified and our children are holy.

Raise your banners high, dear mothers. You are the strength and backbone of our nation. Fight for your husbands and children. Hear the Spirit of God calling you to fight for your homes and your nation. You are the true Freedom Fighters of our day!

Connie has a most wonderful testimony of how she waited many many years for her unsaved husband to be saved and to come back to her. It is a powerful testimony that you can share with women who wait for husbands. Go to http://www.aboverubies.org and click on Articles and Stories, then Marriage, and thenBring Him Home.

PRAY FOR THE NATIONS-POWERFUL FAMILY MINISTRY

Dear mothers, I believe that we have the most powerful opportunity as families to not only pray for our nation, but for the nations of the world. God is interested in the nations. I believe we feel the heart of God when we pray for nations. Read Psalm 2.

Awhile back, an intercessor friend of ours called Colin and me to specifically remind us that God wants His people to pray for the nations. We always listen when our friend, Roger calls us. Before the huge earthquake occurred in Christchurch, New Zealand (our homeland) God touched his heart to pray for Christchurch (and he wasn't even familiar with this city in New Zealand!) God answered his prayers in that although it was a 7.0 earthquake there was no loss of life. Recently God urged Roger to pray specifically for Egypt and also Tunisia and Algeria. This was before the trouble in Egypt!

God takes special joy in us when we not only pay for our own needs but for the nations. The nations are on God's heart. May God save us from having a tunnel vision, but may our hearts be enlarged to feel the burden of God's heart for the nations.

We have always sought to pray for nations at our Family Devotions each day. After we have read the Word of God (usually The Daily Light) and my husband has asked questions, we all pray. We go around the table and each individual prays, even the youngest that is just learning to talk. We used to ask each one to ask God to show them a nation on His heart to pray about. Now we use the book,

PRAYING THROUGH THE 100 GATEWEAY CITIES OF THE 10/40 WINDOW

I had this book hanging around my home for many years and never picked it up. When I did, I was sad for all the years we had wasted not using it.

It gives up-to-date information and items for prayer regarding the neediest cities of the world. Many of them have 90% to 99% Muslim population and are closed to the gospel. We started off praying for a different city each night, but felt that each city needed more prayer, so now we take one city for a week and pray about it each evening. I cannot explain effectively enough how I feel the presence of God come to us as we do this each evening. I know God is with us. His heart is for these people--for these cities of teeming people who have never heard the gospel, and for the nations. The least we can do is to pray for them.

PRAYING FOR THE NATIONS TOGETHER IS ONE OF THE GREATEST MINISTRIES YOU CAN DO AS A FAMILY!

And it is a ministry we can do as a family! In fact, it is a powerful family ministry, one of the greatest ministries we can do as a family! You can teach your little ones to pray for nations from an early age. Involve your teens in praying for the nations. This will enlarge their vision for the world. It will give them a vision for the nations. It will take their eyes off their insignificant little problems.

YOU HAVE THE OPPPORTUNITY TO CHANGE THE WORLD FROM YOUR KITCHEN TABLE!

You can order PRAYING THROUGH THE 100 GATEWAY CITIES OF THE 10/40 WINDOW by going to the

Book & Music Store at http://bit.ly/GatewayCities

or you can call us at 1 877 729 9861.

PRAY FOR ISRAEL

Of course, the nation which is most upon God's heart is Israel. He yearns over Israel. I read the other day, "Is Ephraim my dear son? Is he a delightful child? Indeed, as often as I have spoken against him, I certainly still remember him, therefore my heartyearnsfor him. I will surely have mercy on him, declares the Lord"(Jeremiah 331:20). We feel God's heart again in Jeremiah 32:41 (among hundreds of other similar Scriptures), "I will rejoice over them to do them good and will faithfully plant them in this land with all my heart and with all my soul."

And don't you love this promise? "Thus says the Lord, who gives the sun for light by day and the fixed order of the moon and the stars for light by night, who stirs up the sea so that its waves roar; the Lord of hosts is His name: if this fixed order departs from before Me, declares the Lord, then the offspring of Israel also will cease from being a nation before Me forever. Thus says the Lord, if the heavens above can be measured and the foundations of the earth searched out below, then I will also cast off all the offspring of Israel for all that they have done, declares the Lord" (Jeremiah 31:35-37).

It is important to include Israel in your family prayers each day. At the Above Rubies retreat in Canada last month, Marie Ferreira, who handles the Above Rubies data base for Canada, gave me a silk scarf as a gift. The scarf is beautiful but the picture on it is powerful. It is a painting of rabbi praying at the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem. Instead of wearing it, I have arranged it on a sideboard in my lounge. I pass this spot many times a day as I go down to the office and up to the kitchen. Every time I pass I pray for Israel and that those who hate Israel and want to annihilate her will "be confounded and turned back" (Psalm 129:5).

I received an email the other day from Debbie and Randy Boer, dear friends of ours who lived near us here in Tennessee but who have now made aliya to Israel.

DEBBIE BOER at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. wrote: "As things are heating up in the Middle East, Israel also appears to be bracing for what may be on the horizon. Today our children said Chemical Warfare teams came to the school to prepare them and inform them. Gas masks have been distributed to us as well. We thankfully have one for each member of our family. The baby gets a bubble/tent that runs on batteries. I realized that I should really try to stock up food and supplies and any other necessary items in case of an emergency. We have a very small bomb shelter compared to most. During the 2006 Lebanon war, we thankfully only spent about an hour at a time in there. If we had to spend any longer amount of time, it might be quite a challenge."

Pray for the Boer family and all the families in Israel. Pray for their protection and that God will reveal His mighty right arm on their behalf. Debbie's two sons are also in the Israeli army and need God's protection as do all the young men and women in the army.

STAND WITH ISRAEL

Recently a dear friend of mine, Laurie Cardoza-Moore gave me a DVD which she and her husband have produced. It is very powerful and I would love to give you the opportunity of getting it if you are interested. The following is the information:

The Forgotten People, Christianity and the Holocaust is an award-winning, Emmy nominated documentary film. The film was produced by Laurie Cardoza-Moore and directed by Stan Moore, a two-time Emmy Award winning director. The film is 60 minutes in length and exposes the history of anti-Semitism in Christianity and how a "new" anti-Semitism is increasing globally. This "new" form of anti-Semitism is not only anti-Jewish, but anti-Israel and anti-Zionist as well. Finally, we discuss how this growing threat is being fueled by the far-right, the left, and radical Islam.

The mission of Proclaiming Justice to the Nations is to educate Christians about their Biblical responsibility to stand with their Jewish brethren and defend the state of Israel. You can order your copy to share with family and friends at: http://www.pjtn.org/

Laurie Cardoza-Moore, President of Proclaiming Justice to the Nations
Office: 615.778.0202 * Cell: 615.207.4119
This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

ABOVE RUBIES FACEBOOK IDEA -SMS MESSAGES STRAIGHT TO YOUR CELL PHONE!

CORINA TREECE at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

Often I have dreamed of what it would be like to actually spend one-on-one time with Nancy Campbell. Earlier this month, as I circled back and forth in our school room, helping the children with their school work, I heard the familiar small jingle on my cell phone which sits on my desk.  Methodically I glanced at the text message window which appeared on my screen. After reading the message, and as I stood there amid the juggle of homeschooling activities with eight children, I knew I had just experienced a little touch of God's grace.

In that text message were the timely words of Nancy Campbell right in midst of a tiresome morning.  On Feb 2 at 9:30 am Nancy came into my home speaking personally to me these words, "Are thinking about what to feed your family today? Sometimes you wish you could forget about cooking meals! Be encouraged, dear mother, feeding your family is an important part of your mothering. Ezekiel 34:1 asks, "Should not the shepherds FEED the flocks?" It is the true shepherd that feeds his flock. It is the genuine shepherding mother who delights in preparing meals and feeding her family. Love, Nancy."

Now mind you, to my chagrin, I have never been an organized or well-prepared cook for my family. It seems everything else comes first, and "what's for dinner" comes last. As I pondered the blessing of those words that unforgetful morning, the Lord God communicated His sovereign plan for me in that moment.  I wanted with all my heart to be that good shepherd for my children mentioned in the Scripture and a blessing to my husband as well.

What did I do?  Quickly, I stopped all my activities and immediately began to prepare a modest meal for my family. What a joy it was to put my mind on something that blessed everyone and all because the sovereign hand of God used his faithful servant, Nancy Campbell, through the medium of technology!  Can you believe it?

Though I have resisted much of the digital world up to this point, especially that of Facebook, I will say that God does use these modern devices to rapidly propagate His Kingdom message.  If you are not a member of the Above Rubies Facebook, I highly encourage you to consider it.

Also, if you have a phone with internet access, you could sign up on the Above Rubies Facebook webpage to have SMS messages sent straight to your cell phone.  With that service you do not have to even think about signing into your Facebook on the computer.  No time is taken from your family to "check" your Facebook.  Instead, your phone sends you a sound message and opens a text message window every time Nancy or Michelle blesses us with powerful words of encouragement.  I cannot tell you adequately how much I have been blessed by the Above Rubies Facebook ministry.

Spread the word, ladies!

May His face continually shine on you and your household,

Corina Treece, Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas, USA

This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

What a great idea! I am against unnecessary time spent on Facebook. It can be a time-waster, or it can be a great blessing. What a great idea to get a small but powerful message sent to your phone each day, without even having to check Facebook!

WRITING FOR ABOVE RUBIES

I would like to receive contributions on the following subjects:

Coping on a Minimum Budget

What are your ways to save money in your home as a one income family? Write BUDGET in Subject Heading.

Difficult Pregnancy

Have you experienced a difficult pregnancy? Maybe you have been on bed rest for months? Can you share how you coped, but even more, how the blessing of your child was worth your months of suffering? Write PREGNANCY in Subject Heading.

Marriage Restoration

I am always looking for testimonies of how God has restored a marriage. This gives such hope to others in similar circumstances. Write MARRIAGE in Subject Heading.

Sibling Fighting

An Above Rubies reader has asked for ideas on how to stop sibling fighting. Write SIBLING FIGHTING in the Subject heading.

Type One Diabetes

Anna at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and cc. to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. would like to know if any mothers with Type 1 Diabetes were able to have their baby with a midwife at home. What natural remedies helped? Are all the medical tests that doctors want to do necessary? Subject heading: DIABETES.

When writing for Above Rubies, please type only only space between sentences. At the end of the article, please type your email address, city and state where you live, husband's name and current ages of your children. Thanks so much.

HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR HUSBAND-

Ideas to Revitalize your Marriage

Have you downloaded this new eBook yet? It is greatest gift your husband will ever receive, even though you will not give it to him! Instead, you can keep SURPRISINGand BLESSING him each new day with ideas you read in this book. It has over 90 pages of exciting ways to fire up your marriage! Go to http://bit.ly/HowToEncourageHusbands and

Download for Only $9.95!

BEGINNINGS OF WOMANHOOD

DORAN RICHARDS, Founder of Blessing God's Way - Maidenhood, Maternity and Menopause, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

Our culture conveys masses of negativity about womanhood and how it should make us feel. Starting with our very first cycle  the media inundates us with negative messages concerning making your cycle disappear with no thought of how that could be harmful or dangerous to your body's health and well-being. During pregnancy, the less than desirable messages continue as we are bombarded with images depicting childbirth as an illness, a burden or even as a curse. Finally, and most sadly, our culture tears down the menopause phase, to such a degree that women are left feeling empty and useless.

I have been fortunate to be called by God to serve women in childbearing as a home birth midwife. I am pursing this calling by obtaining my training and requirements to become a Certified Professional Midwife through North America Registry of Midwives (NARM). For the past 10 years now, I have taught conferences on the important aspects to a better birth experience, regardless of the setting that the birth may take place:

1.    Obtain education and take responsibility for each phase of womanhood.

2.    Erase a spirit of fear surrounding womanhood.

3.    Trust the process of your body and God's design.

If we can look at each one of these phases and how it pertains to maidenhood (specifically), maternity, and menopause, we see how they can be improved to help create a better image, God's image, in and for our culture.

Getting education is the key! It is biblical to get wisdom, understanding and knowledge (Proverbs 4:5, 7). Why would this be any different for our three phases of womanhood? Reading Proverbs 2 is encouraging. When we get wisdom, something extraordinary happens. We can then begin to eliminate fear, which is the second point above (1 John 4:18). Only by securing knowledge and understanding in our hearts can we walk forward with confidence and courage (by God's grace and mercy). Having wisdom for our first cycle, as well as for maternity and menopause will enable us to make informed decisions regarding our care. Our bodies are our bodies (in the sense of decision making), and we are the ones solely responsible for them.

Erasing a spirit of fear is a strong phrase. But think of it, we have daughters who are in fear of their first cycle beginning. Why is this?  We have women who are scared to death to have a baby. We have women who worry, stress and fear of "hitting" menopause. God wants us to have the spirit of a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).  I believe this carries over to these areas of our lives as women. It is about taking our thoughts captive, relying on God, not the world, to teach us about our bodies and how they work.

We must trust the process God has created for our bodies as women. What a concept!  We have been told time and time again that we are not made well enough, that we are insufficient. Our bodies are bleeding each month-oh, what a bother! That is the mentality we carry around with us. It is difficult, we cramp, we might get headaches, etc. Why would anyone want to go through this? If we trust God, who created us, we would know that He has a perfect reason for it all. We ought to be obedient to trust Him in this area of our lives as well as every other area, right? If we trust the process, when young, we will trust the process of birth and menopause later in life, easier and with more confidence.

I have created a curriculum for young ladies and their mothers called Maidens by His Design.  It is a godly approach to teaching daughters how their bodies are created to function. It instructs them on how God has fearfully and wonderfully made each one of us. This knowledge is essential to understanding the other two phases of womanhood-maternity and menopause. The course covers many topics including: basic female reproductive organs, hormones, cycle length, history and various cultural information, tools and gear, how to celebrate womanhood in a godly manner, how to take thoughts captive, how to erase a spirit of fear, how to learn about herbs that are helpful for that time of the month, how to eat well, as well as use your diet to enhance your health during your cycle and all of womanhood... and so much more.  The focus is that there is a "big picture" to this thing called womanhood and we ought to start seeing it!

This course can be taught in a group setting or privately. I have taught workshops all throughout the states as well in the Ukraine (yes, the materials were all translated into Russian!) Women everywhere are starving for this information for their daughters because they were not taught themselves. They want to learn more and they naturally want their daughters to know more also. The information is presented very discreetly and from a Christian perspective. There are no male parts or talk of the actual act of reproduction and procreation. However, it does provide a springboard for discussion of those areas, if the parent or guardian deems it an appropriate time to learn this delicate information.

We desperately need Christian resources that allow our daughters to learn from a Christian perspective. We need to counter the pagan worldview in these areas. Consider teaching your daughters, from a young age (it is geared for eight years old and older), that God created their bodies to cycle each month for a reason, a glorious reason!  He also wants us to know and believe that it is for our good; it is a cleansing process, a process we should be thankful for, not dread. He has created it as a blessing to us, His way. Yes, maidenhood can be taught and embraced in a godly manner. Join many others by teaching your daughters and bringing this vital message of God's design to your community today! All materials are online at http://www.blessinggodsway.com/

Or Ph: 1 888-218-2453.

LITTLE GIRL WAITING TO BE ADOPTED

LINDSAY BERTRAM, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

I've recently become aware of a sweet little girl in an orphanage in the Ukraine who needs a family. She had a family coming to adopt her, but they changed their minds. The Lord put it on my heart to send you a link to her website, in hopes of getting a word out for Vera. I know that many of your readers are interested in adoption, and have adopted children themselves. http://iknowyouroutthereimjustwaiting.blogspot.com/

CONSERVATIVE MOMS

Mary Baker, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. sends this information for those who are interested:

Conservative Moms for America

Website/BlogTalkRadio

Ph: 281-741-4478 * Houston, Texas, USA

FROM DEATH TO LIFE

It's a Miracle!

RACHEL CRAWLEY of Rushville, Missouri, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

In August 2010 we found that we were expecting a baby once again! Everything seemed to be going well. I felt sick (a good sign of my pregnancy), and the test was positive so I started going to the midwife. At 18 weeks I had still not felt movement and began to worry. We went to an appointment December 8 to hear the heartbeat but it was not there and my uterus only measured 12 weeks gestation. The baby had died at 12 weeks.

The midwife wanted us to get an ultrasound. I already knew the baby was gone; however we went immediately to the birthing center to get a viability test. On the hour's trip I prayed. I didn't ask God to bring my baby back but talked to him about how I longed to nurse and hold this little one in my arms. I said, "God, only you can bring life to this baby if it is your will." I then began to feel my body change and felt my uterus rising. I felt God moving over me.

When we got to the birthing center I didn't want to go in as I still feared the worst. The midwife performing the ultrasound turned the screen so I couldn't see and told me to be very still.  Then she stated, "I see a very active, moving baby with a strong heart beat." I was in awe of God. God healed my unborn baby. God brought this sweet baby I am carrying back to life. God showed me he is in control of everything. I cannot even express in words how in awe I am at what God can do!

OCCUPYING SMALL BOYS INSIDE

Indoor Sports Arena

RANAE WYNDER, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

We have three boys, ages ten, seven and five and a three-year-old little girl. We live in a small house with no basement. We do have a pretty big great room with high ceiling.  We have minimal furniture in this room and have made it into a mini sports arena since exercise is a must every day, especially for the boys.  We have, at times, had two basketball goals (one stuck to a window, the other directly opposite over a closet door) and masking tape on the floor to make a miniature court. Currently, the room is an indoor soccer arena. The boys play lots of lively, rousing games inside during this time of year. It is loud, but helps channel all that energy in a positive direction.

Another idea is to go outdoors with the children in every kind of weather.  If they hit an "I don't want to go outside" valley, I find that if I go out with them (to watch them sled, play ball or explore the woods), they happily go out and will often stay a good while longer after I need to go inside.

My younger two often play together while the older two do school work. Also, giving them some "work" to do makes them feel important and keeps them occupied, at least for awhile, while I'm tending to the other two children.

The Lord also reminds me to relax and ENJOY these loud, boisterous children he's given us. What blessings they are!

Wood and Nails!

KARINA FARENHORST of Ontario, Canada, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

I have found that one of the easiest ways to keep boys busy in the winter is to give them pieces of wood and some nails! My two boys, ages four and six, will work on pieces of wood for hours, hammering them together into different shapes. In fact, my husband and I sometimes wake up to the sound of hammering! I find that smaller chunks of wood are the easiest for them to work with (but large enough for them not to crack when they hammer in the nails). Best of all, you can find free pieces of wood in the scrap bins at hardware stores! The boys have made a boat, a mouse, guns and a bench--it's amazing what they create!

Winter Sandpit

MONIQUE STRACHAN at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. of Regina, SK, Canada writes:

During the winter, I use a large box with low sides and fill it with dry rice and/or beans. I gather toy trucks, cars and diggers, or spoons, cups and funnels. The boys dig and scoop just like in the sandbox during the summer and they stay occupied and quiet for up to an hour!  Sometimes I place it on the floor with a tarp underneath so the spilled rice can be easily poured back into the box when finished. Or I sit them at the table with a smaller container, usually a baking dish or roasting pan and sweep up the mess afterwards. They love it and ask for it almost daily.

BABY DIED BEFORE BIRTH

MELISSA WALL at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. wrote a letter to her little baby who died just before birth. I know this will be a comfort to those who have lost precious little ones in the womb:

Dear Ivana,  I wanted to write you before these memories fade away. It has been one week since I last felt your body move in my belly and you have been gone from our lives to a better place. How my heart aches for you. I can now relate so much closer to what God felt when His innocent Son died who had done nothing to deserve it.

It all started back in November when I took a pregnancy test and saw two lines. I took it to Daddy and he looked and said, "Are you sure?" Of course I was sure. We were so happy about God blessing our family with new life. It brought joy and happiness to our souls.

From the beginning this pregnancy was different. I never felt my typical pregnancy symptoms of going to the bathroom in the middle of the night, hips hurting, poor circulation and constipation. I always said, "It's the power of one. The Lyme's symptoms are all I feel." Five months before you were conceived Mommy who had been very sick to her stomach for years got diagnosed with a disease called Lyme's. In very rare circumstances Lyme's can be given from Mommy to baby. I was treating the Lyme's when I conceived you and was never worried that it would affect you until about two weeks before you died. As the pregnancy progressed I felt sicker and sicker from the Lyme's. I carefully took the medicines I was told were safe for you and me but the symptoms never went away.

I told a friend, "I have been pregnant five times but this one seems different and I am not sure why." To ease my fears I had an ultrasound. I had read Lyme's could affect you, so I wanted to make sure your placenta, heart, brain and other organs were all developing normally. After tests doctors would say, "Melissa you have a very healthy baby that looks perfect." I cried when I saw your face on the ultra sound. They even caught you sucking your fingers.

How we planned for your arrival to our family. Your brother and sisters were so excited. They loved feeling you move. They talked to you and even tried to think of names for you. We bought you outfits, made you blankets, and planned our whole summer around your birth. Our lives were going to change when you came and it was going to be for the better. We couldn't wait.

Then Mommy got sicker and I knew something was wrong. We started blood work test and they showed things were bad but we didn't know why. Mommy's pee was darker than normal. I started saying things like, "This is the hardest pregnancy I have ever had." "I am afraid I am going to have this baby too early." I started organizing things. Five days before you were born, Daddy and I changed our room around so we could make room for your bassinet. We were getting ready.

One week before you were born Mommy's feet swelled very suddenly and each day got worse. You started moving less and less. On Monday I was so worried for you. I felt you were leaving me and I begged God not to take you. I couldn't get you to move so I called the midwife and she came right over. We got a good heart beat and I tried to believe that you really were okay and that it was just my body that was having all the issues. Your movement was very sparse and on Wednesday morning, June 9^th 2010, you kicked my coffee cup on my belly for the last time. That afternoon my pee turned clear again and I now know that was a sign to me you were gone.

On Thursday morning, the midwife came to check your heartbeat and my fears were confirmed when she couldn't find one. We rushed to the Inland Hospital where a wonderful doctor who didn't know us, lovingly took us as patients and did another ultrasound to double check your heart. He confirmed it was not beating.  He said you looked perfect and your placenta looked fine. Oh how my heart ached.

God was so good and allowed you to be born quickly and naturally at the hospital, in the water, just like all my other babies. The hospital was kind and let me do whatever I wanted to do with you. You were born seven hours after we confirmed you were gone. As soon as you were born the doctors took one look at your placenta and could tell it was diseased with Lyme's. Not only had it made me so sick; it had taken your life.

All I wanted was to be alone with you and Daddy. We loved holding you and you looked so perfect.  Your siblings came right away to see you along with many other people. We hadn't chosen a name for you and Daddy and I wanted to name you something that meant you were a gift. We knew you were a very special gift and we found the name Ivanawhich meant "Gift from God." Ivana Grace Wall seemed to say what we felt from the depths of our heart that God had given us a very special gift in you.

Daddy went home and in the next few days made you a casket and prepared your gravesite. We planned a small funeral for you and over 100 people came to celebrate your short life. Pastor Denny shared many verses, including Psalm 139. Your siblings all wanted to do something special for you. Faith wanted us to sing "Jesus Loves Me," Eli wanted to read Job 1:21-22, Alicia painted you a picture we put in your casket and Emma was just Emma. Even Daddy shared some special words at your service. I placed the blanket I made you in the casket to wrap and cushion you, a hat Kami had knitted for you and a rose Daddy had bought me.

When the doctors confirmed you were gone, God gave me Job 1:21 "The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name of the LORD." Then God gave me this verse to comfort me, Psalm 34:18, "The LORD is near to the brokenhearted." Written June 16, 2010.

GUARDING THE HOME

Purged our Home

LYN CONRAD at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

My husband, Rob, teaches the 30+ age group adult Sunday School class in our Church. We were reaching the end of a series on pursuing holiness when he felt led to start the next series on what the Lord wants for our families. We both read through Nancy's book Be Fruitful and Multiply and felt that it contained most of what Rob wanted to teach in this next series. The same week we introduced this new Bible Study we also dedicated our five month old first born son at Church.

Aiden was and is a very content baby but wouldn't nap much during the day. He quickly got himself into sleeping for long stretches at night (much to my concern at first) but even when he did fall asleep during the day he would awaken after only half an hour or so. The day he was dedicated our eyes were opened to why this was happening. Once we got home and fed, Aiden started to cry hysterically. He kept looking at one particular spot just below the ceiling. It was as if he could see something really scary, yet we couldn't. He was terrified of whatever it was he saw.

Over the next few days this happened more and more, until on the Friday evening as Rob tried to put him down for the night, Aiden became very terrified of something in his room. Rob brought him back to me, and together we prayed over him for peace. We decided to move him into our room until we knew what was going on. By Sunday afternoon he was screaming as soon as he was left alone for even a few seconds. One of us had to stay with him at all times.

That evening at Church we sought the council of an older godly man. He told us we should not take Aiden back home until the menacing spirit that was tormenting our son was taken care of. Fortunately we did have somewhere we could stay near to where my husband works. I stayed at church while Rob went home and grabbed a few essential items (mostly clothes and cloth diapers for Aiden) before we headed to our temporary home. The very next day Aiden was again a calm, contented baby. For the first time since arriving home from the hospital he had three long naps of two hours each. It was like a miracle. We knew without a doubt at this point that Aiden couldn't sleep during the day because he was being tormented by some kind of evil spirit.

Rob and I committed to praying and fasting for wisdom to know what to do next. A group of men from church went with Rob to the house to pray on the Tuesday evening. After they left Rob could still feel the evil presence in the house. We stayed away until the Saturday. All that time we prayed and Aiden slept. The Lord used this time to show us areas where we had let our guard down, allowing the world and the enemy into our home. In each area that we were convicted, we knelt in prayer together, repenting and asking the Lord to take back the ground we had surrendered to the enemy. Friday evening brought us together in an even closer way than we had already experienced in our three years of marriage.

On Saturday morning we both woke up with a strong desire to go back home and claim our house back from the enemy. We prayed in the car before we entered the house. As soon as we walked in through the garage door we could feel the difference. There was a peace about our home again. The most amazing thing was that the entire house smelled like someone had just sprayed air freshener. We knew it was the Holy Spirit filling our home ahead of us. The house smelt like this for days afterwards and Rob really enjoyed bragging on the Lord about it.

A few months later, we have now moved to a new home, partly because Aiden still had residual memories of what happened. He kept looking around as if watching out for the spirit that had been harassing him. At our new home he doesn't do that anymore.

Rob and I have learned how important it is for us to be vigilant as parents. In response to this spiritual trial we have gone into lockdown mode. We have searched our home and our lives to find everything that does not honour the Lord. Not only did we unplug the TV and DVD player, we got rid of them completely. We purged our home of everything and anything that had any pagan association, even the souvenir lei from a vacation to Hawaii. We have gone through everything, from books and music to clothes and toys. If we have any doubts then it goes. We have become much more disciplined about having a family devotion every day.

One look at the joy on the face of our son and we know we are doing the right thing. http://thestayathomewifey.blogspot.com/

God Opened my Eyes

ERIKA SCHAFFER at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

I never realized how adamant the enemy was at trying to destroy the home until God gifted me with my first child. Before I had my daughter, my number one priority was to make sure I had every new gadget under the sun. I would be able to sit her, swing her, bounce her, or snuggle her in some type of plastic baby holder.

Once she was born, the relationship I had with God immediately changed as did all my views of how I thought I would be a mother. God didn't change my heart so much as he opened my eyes to a whole new spiritual level of accountability. I had a responsibility before God to care for His gift, the daughter he gave me. Since her coming into this world, the enemy has constantly given me advice from those around me, telling me the way to mother. This includes everything that separates or detaches me from my daughter or breaks our bond and trust we develop together through God's blessing. I constantly here, "Let me hold her, you need a break," or "Set her down, you're going to spoil her."

However, through the endless hours of holding God's gift to me, he's shown me more about myself and how strong He wants me to be. I have been called to become a gatekeeper of my home, where before the gates were ajar, I have to completely lock and bar them, as the enemy is ready to kick them down every, every day!

When my daughter and I are together it puts the fear of God into the enemy because we are forming our new relationship with God. What are the weapons with which I guard my Home? Praying, praying, praying and thanking the Lord!

GOD'S PRACTICAL PLAN

I have been reading through Jeremiah lately. Just finished actually. My plan in reading the Word of God is to read from Genesis to Revelation and then start again. I continually do this. I was reminded again of God's plan for us when reading Jeremiah 29:4-9. God spoke to His people who had been taken captive to Babylon through His prophet Jeremiah. Even though they were now in captivity and away from their beloved homeland, He reminded them to continue the plan He originally gave them. What did He say?

1.    "Build houses and live in them" (verse 5). God told Adam and Eve to do this in the very beginning in Genesis 2:15.

2.    "Plant gardens and eat their produce" (verse 5). This is part of God's original mandate. Remember, the first home was called the GARDEN of Eden. It was a garden. A garden to provide food for the family is meant to be part of every home. The children of Israel were to continue to do this even in captivity. Check out the following Scriptures: Proverbs 6:6-11; 12:11; 24:27; 27:18; 28:19; 31:16 and 2 Corinthians 9:6.

3.    "Take wives and become the fathers of sons and daughters, and take wives for your sons and give your daughters to husbands that they may bear sons and daughters." God's plan from the beginning is for us to be fruitful. We see God's heart for fruitfulness right throughout the Word of God. If you haven't already read, Be Fruitful and Multiply, purchase it from the Book Store at http://bit.ly/BeFruitfulAndMultiply

4.    "Multiply there and do not decrease." God is not only into fruitfulness, but multiplication. He wants His people to increase. He does not want them to decrease. If we are standing on the side of God's truth, we'll want to increase. If we do not believe in increasing, we are taking the opposite side to God! That's scary! And where does God ask them to multiply? Not in their own safe homeland, but as slaves in captivity! The same thing happened while they were in Egypt. Even under great servitude and hard bondage, the children of Israel increased so that they became "more and mightier than the Egyptians" (Exodus 1:9). God wants His people to be more and mightier than those who are evil in the land.

5.    "Seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf; for in its welfare you will have welfare" (Verse 7). God wants us to pray for the city and area where we live. We have this responsibility as God's people. We cannot expect God to bless the city we live in if we do not pray for it.

6.    "Do not let your prophets who are in your midst and your diviners deceive you... For they prophesy falsely to you in My name; I have not sent them, declares the Lord" (Verse 9). We must be careful that we are not deceived by the humanistic world around us, or even the humanistic values that have been imbibed into the church today. We must seek after truth and guard against deception. If church pastors do not stand with God's heart for increase, they prophecy deception.

Isn't God very practical? If we embrace His way, we will be blessed. Not only will we be blessed, but the city in which we live will be blessed. Not only will the city be blessed, but the nation will be blessed. And all we have to do is follow God's practical plan for our lives as families.

MY BEST QUOTE OF THE MONTH

"Truth can never win unless it is promulgated. Truth does not carry within itself an antitoxin to falsehood. The cause of truth must be championed, and it must be championed dynamically."

~ William F. Buckley, Jr.

May God pour out His blessing upon you and all your family. Hopefully you will receive your new Above Rubies magazine about the beginning of March.

Yours for the strengthening of families,

NANCY CAMPBELL, Founder and Editress

http://www.aboverubies.org

Dear Above Rubies reader,

The new Above Rubies magazines have now been sent all across USA. I am sure you have received your magazine by now. I know you will be enjoying it.

In this Newsletter:

Above Rubies Facebook

Rowland Family

C-sections

Prayer Lists for Birth or Infertility

Writing for Above Rubies

A Little Bit of Heaven

Back Issues

Cleavage to Modesty

Another VBAC

The Power of Family Devotions

I'm Thankful to my Husband

Quote for Today

Responses from Readers

Seven Amazing Specials

ABOVE RUBIES on FACEBOOK

I'm not a fan of Facebook. However, I am very happy with the Above Rubies Facebook as it is so encouraging and not a time-waster. JUMP ON, if you haven't already. You will be blessed. Michelle Kauenhofen (mother of 11 beautiful children,  the Moderator of the Above RubiesFacebook, and the Director of Above Rubies in Canada) and/or I write a little word of encouragement to you each day. You won't waste your time on this Facebook. Come each day to get an encouraging word to strengthen you in your high calling of mothering and then get off the computer and on to your great job of mothering and training your children, the greatest career in the nation. I know that if you pop in for a few minutes each day, you'll be inspired for the rest of the day.

I have a personal Facebook but I hope you don't mind, please don't try to become my personal friend on Facebook. I don't accept anyone but close family. And even then, I rarely have time to ever go to it. However, you can meet me each day on the Above Rubies Facebook. See you there.

My webmaster, Joe Goodale, has now given us a shorter link to send people to the Above Rubies Facebook. Here it is: http://facebook.com/AboveRubiesUS

We are nearly up to 10,000 readers on our Facebook. Let your friends know that the 10,000^th person will receive a gift from Above Rubies. If  you, or one of your friends, are # 10,000, you can call Above Rubies at 931 729 9861 or 931 729 0537 and tell us what product you would like to receive as a gift. It's coming up very fast so you'll have to watch carefully!

ROWLAND FAMILY

I know you love this new issue of Above Rubies. However, I have some sad news to tell you. On pages 14-15 you will read the wonderful testimony of Krista Rowland and how the Lord enabled her to have nine c-sections.

We recently received the tragic news that her husband, Justin passed away suddenly. We were able to travel to the funeral to be with them. Krista's constant confession was how much Justin loved his children. He certainly left a heritage for the world-10 children who love the Lord and who will also establish godly dynasties.

I would ask you to pray much for this precious family as Krista is left with 10 children to care for. Emily, the oldest daughter has been an Above Rubieshelper on two occasions here at our home.

If you would like to encourage and comfort Krista, her email is This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

And if God touches your heart to help Krista and the children financially, you may send a check to:

Ava National Bank

PO Box 98

Ava IL 62907 USA

Specify for the benefit of Krista Rowland and your donation will go into her account. If you have any questions, call Sharon at Ava Bank, Ph: 618-426-3303.

C-SECTIONS

If you are interested in reading more about C-sections, you can go to www.aboverubies.org and click on Articles and Stories and then C-Sections where you also can read Melanie Beggs' testimony. She also had nine c-sections.

You can also go on line and read the stories of Cindy McDaniels' C-sections. She has also experienced nine c-sections. Go to: http://manymcdaniels.com/birthstories.html

Her email is: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

PRAYER LISTS FOR COMING BABY OR INFERTILITY PROBLEMS ON EGROUP (Women's Yahoo Forums)

I was thrilled to hear that the Above Rubies Egroup has a prayer list for mothers who are experiencing fertility problems and also pregnant mothers so that others can pray for them. Jennifer Bryant in East Texas looks after these lists.

She writes: "It would be wonderful to have more ladies join the group! We actually have several prayer lists on the Egroup. The two that I care for are the Fruitful Wombs Prayer list, which is for women desiring more blessings. It's a big list! And the Healthy Pregnancy/Safe DeliveryPrayer List. I have it divided up by month and due dates, with any special needs also listed. Email me at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.."

If you would like prayer as you nurture your precious baby in your womb and prepare for your birth, or for infertility, email Jennifer or feel free to join the Egroup (go to www.aboverubies.org to join the Egroup). Jennifer says that if you don't hear back from her, keep trying. Sometimes emails get lost in cyberspace.

WOULD YOU LIKE TO WRITE FOR ABOVE RUBIES?

I am now working on the next issue of Above Rubies. Once one is completed, I start on the next. I have a few subjects I would like to cover in the coming issue (and later issues, depending on what room I have available). I will mention the subjects below.

If you have a personal testimony you would like to write about any of the following subjects, I would love to hear from you. Of course, I am not limited to the following subjects and am open to hear from you if you have something special to write about that will particularly bless our readers.

Instructions for submitting articles:

Email your testimony to me as a Word Attachment. Type only one space between sentences. Try to keep it to 1500 words or less, unless it is a very powerful story. Shorter is better.

At the end of the article please give the following information:

1.    Your name

2.    Your husband's name

3.    City, State and Country

4.    Email address (I definitely need your email address at the end of the article)

When I print your testimony, I will email you for the current names and ages of your children and for an up-to-date family picture.

PROVISION TESTIMONIES

Do you have a testimony of how God has provided for you on a one-income family, or how God has shown His faithfulness since you have decided to become a full-time mommy, or how you have seen God's provision when He has blessed you with another baby? I will be definitely doing this feature in the coming issue, so send your testimony as soon as possible. Type PROVISION in the Subject Line.

MARRIAGE RESTORATION

Please, if God has restored your marriage or done a work of His grace in your marriage, I would love to hear from you. Satan is out to attack marriage because it reveals the divine truth of Christ and His church. We want to build up, strengthen and encourage marriages. A testimony of God's working in your marriage to bring healing can be such a blessing to many other marriages. Type MARRIAGE in the Subject Line.

GATE KEEPER TESTIMONIES

After reading the manual, Gate-Keepers of the Home, one mother has asked for testimonies from other mothers as to how they guard their home from the inroads of the enemy. Type GUARD in the Subject Line.

TRAINING CHILDREN AT FAMILY DEVOTIONS

Another mother has asked to hear from other mothers as to how they train their children to behave during Family Devotions. What are your secrets? Also, we'd love to hear from you about the way you conduct your Family Devotions in your home or different ideas that you do in your family. Type DEVOTIONS in the Subject Line.

LARGE FAMILIES

A young mother who has not yet experienced the joys of a large family complained that she would not want a big family because there would not be enough time to spend with each individual child and that the children would miss out on many things that children of two-child families would receive. I know this is a fallacy and therefore I would love to hear from mothers and young people of large families to share how it really works in a large family. I'd especially love to hear from the young people. Type LARGE FAMILIES in the Subject Line.

KEEPING BOYS OCCUPIED IN THE WINTER

Another mother has asked for ideas for keeping her energetic "real" little boys occupied while homeschooling other children and watching a baby. What ideas do you have to keep them positively occupied instead of "wrecking the house?" Type BOYS in the Subject Line.

A LITTLE BIT OF HEAVEN

I think that many people think Above Rubies arrives from heaven. I hope you feel like that, but it takes a lot hard work and finance to get "this little bit of heaven" to you. But it is my joy to freely do this "labor of love" (which I have been doing for over 33 years) and I am so happy to make Above Rubies generously available.

However, the only way we keep going is by the loving donations of those who have a burden to see marriage and motherhood strengthened in this nation. If God touches your heart to help us get this message out into the nation, give, not just to pay for your magazine but in order for us to be able to send out this magazine freely to families who need it all over this nation, and the world.

We had to pay over $20,000 to send out this current issue in USA-and that's not the rest of the world yet! And that's not the printing bill which is even higher! The costs are enormous. Thank you so much for your support as we work together to bring God's ways back into this nation.

You may help by using this link to our Above Rubies Donation page: http://do.nr/1LG

BACK ISSUES

Back issues of Above Rubiesare usually like "gold" to find. However, every now and then we manage to have a few extra in stock. Currently, we have the following issues available for you--75, 76, 77, 78 and 79. Get them while you can.

You are welcome to get these for yourself if you don't have them, and you are also welcome to ask for extra copies to share with others. You are welcome to ask for as many as you can effectively distribute and share.

My vision is to get this magazine to every mother in the nation. Don't discriminate to whom you give Above Rubies. Give them to every mother you meet, not only home-loving, home-schooling mothers, but "day-care and working mothers" who need the message more than anyone.

Always have some in a plastic bag in your bag, ready to give to someone. Put them in waiting rooms too. For more ideas, go to www.aboverubies.org and click on Ideas for Distributing Above Rubies.

When you ask for them by email, write BACK COPIES in the Subject Heading. I am happy to send these freely to you, but, if you are able, it would be a blessing if you can donate toward the shipping. Thanks so much.

FROM CLEAVAGE TO MODESTY

Katrina Ariana Casey writes: "I am a twenty-one year old stay-at-home daughter. After much prayer and planning, I have started a website that offers advice in an e-book on how to take nearly any style of store-bought clothing and make it modest. I also sell stretch laces to fill in low necklines. You can view these products on my website, http://www.edelweisspatterns.com

I will give the e-book away to anyone on the Above Rubies mailing list who will write a short blog about the website or send an email about it to at least three friends. Then they can email me at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and I will send them the e-book for free. (This offer only applies to people on the Above Rubies mailing list).

Katrina Ariana Casey, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

"I checked out Katrina's website and loved it. I am sure you will too. I loved her idea of the beautiful stretch laces to fill in low necklines. I am devastated by the current fashion of low necklines, which seem to have been embraced by the church as much as the world. However, Katrina shows how that even if you see a beautiful dress, but it has a low neckline, how you can still wear the dress by making it modest.

Katrina is also sending you all a free tip. I am sorry that I had to eliminate the pictures which show the method clearly. However, I hope the tip will still be a blessing." Nancy.

TAKING IN THE SHOULDER SEAMS - EASY VERSION by Katrina.

You will need:

Pins

Thread to Match

Measuring tape

1. While wearing the top, pinch up the amount it needs to be taken in and mark with a pin.  (Remember, this method only works for 1" total or less, which means ½ " in front and ½ " in back.  Otherwise, the shoulder seam will pucker at the sleeve seam.)

2. Lay the top (or dress) on a flat surface, wrong side out.  Starting at the neckline, pin in the determined amount, tapering the pins gradually in towards the shoulder seam and meeting up with the seam stitching about ½" in from the sleeve seam.

3. Starting right after the sleeve, stitch in towards the neckline, following the pins and backstitching at start and finish of the shoulder seam.  If you wish, you can trim off the excess fabric between the new shoulder seam and the original shoulder seam, then finish the raw edges with a zigzag or overlock stitch.

4. That's it!  The top fits perfectly now and doesn't gape when I'm bending over.

ANOTHER VBAC

In Above Rubies, # 79, pages 22-23, Nanci Smith wrote a testimony about having VBACs called, I Needed to Change my Thinking! I received an update from her today:

"I wanted to report that I had another successful VBAC on September 13 to a healthy 8 lbs. 8 oz. baby boy. His name is Adlai Nathaniel. The funny part is that the ultrasound said he was a "she" so we thought we were expecting another daughter. It was a great lesson that technology can be wrong! We were delighted to have another boy. We now we have three boys and three girls!

Another miracle that happened was regarding my son Spencer, who I mentioned in the article that we were chelating for autism. The other night I was awakened in the middle of the night to what I thought was the stove timer going off. I thought it was odd because it was not an "on" night for Spencer's doses (on his "on" nights I do set the stove timer so I can get up and give him his dose). I went into the kitchen and saw that the timer was not going off at all. I looked at the clock and it was 3:16 am. I immediately thought of John 3:16, "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."Then I "heard" the Lord's Voice (not audibly, but in my heart) saying, "I want you to know that I love you very much and that Spencer is healed." I was amazed and went back to bed pondering this.

The next morning I had to take Adlai for his well-baby check up. We went to the same Christian doctor that Spencer sees. At the end of the visit, he prayed for Adlai and then said, "The Lord woke me up last night to pray for Spencer." I was amazed. This is a very busy doctor who sees many, many patients every week! I told him what happened the night before and he said, "I don't know exactly what time it was, but it could have been around 3 00 am."

I don't know if he is fully healed right now, but he has been doing so well, better than ever before. It may be accomplished in heaven and we will see it soon here on earth.

The spirit of gloom and despair is gone from him. He's been happy and singing. He asked to hold Adlai for the first time and comforted him when he was crying. He keeps coming up to me and kissing me on the cheek--he has not done this in about six years! He's also suddenly eating more...he's been a terribly picky eater since he was three years and often in the last six years will go without eating the whole day. I just don't have the words to explain how different he is.

The VBAC and this miracle have greatly encouraged me. I've been praying for my husband's salvation for 15 years so that can't be much longer in coming!

NANCI SMITH, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

THE POWER OF FAMILY DEVOTIONS

I also received an email today from the Young Family, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

"Hi Nancy, I saw some great quotes in Above Rubies #79 by Norman V. Williams.  I looked him up online and found his book, How to Have a Family Altar

http://www.baptistbiblebelievers.com/Books/HowtoHaveAFamilyAltarbyNormanVWilliams/tabid/198/Default.aspx

This book is now out of print (although you may be able to order used copies from Amazon) but you can download it from the above site. I posted this previously, but I am happy to post it again. This is a delightful book and I would encourage you to read it. I constantly refer to it. Below are some quotes from the book that the Young family emailed that they particularly like and other quotes about the Family Altar. I like these quotes too and I am sure you will too. Nancy

REVIVAL PRINCIPLE

"Years ago Thomas Boston was burdened over the cold spiritual state of his church. It was not only cold, but practically empty. He decided that the way to bring revival to his church and community was to establish the family altar in every home.

He went from home to home, leading people to CHRIST and establishing family altars. After nearly three years, revival fires were burning in his church, and multitudes of rejoicing saints and seeking sinners would crowd the church every Sunday!

Richard Baxter followed exactly the same procedure in his spiritually cold parish, with exactly the same results!

This is a sound principle of revival that never fails to achieve the blessed fruits of spiritual awakening! It used to be that fifty per cent of professing Christians had a daily family altar of worship and prayer.

When these praying families came together in church it was like "adding power to power," with the result that there was a mighty spirit of revival prevailing - souls were saved; the saints were blessed and edified; backsliders were restored and the whole community was shaken and brought under the convicting power of the HOLY SPIRIT.

Nowadays it is estimated that only five per cent of professing Christians maintain daily family worship. (Wow, this book was published in 1951! What would be the percentage now?)It isn't enough that the churches we go to exalt CHRIST and teach the Word, the homes we come from must likewise exalt CHRIST and teach the Word.

Families which ignore God and His Word six days a week will not be likely to know GOD in "the power of his resurrection" on the seventh day of the week!

http://www.baptistbiblebelievers.com/LinkClick.aspx?fileticket=XX7NeYdzrIE%3d&tabid=198&mid=649

A HAPPY HOME

"Happy is the household which meets every morning for prayer! Happy are they who let not the evening depart without uniting in supplication! Brethren, I wish it were more common, I wish it were universal, with all professors of religion to have family prayer.

We sometimes hear of the children of Christian parents who do not grow up in the fear of God, and we are asked how it is that they turn out so badly. In many, very many cases, I fear there is such a neglect of Family Worship that it is not probable that the children are at all impressed by any piety supposed to be possessed by their parents." -Charles Spurgeon (1834-1892)

From a WONDERFUL booklet on family worship online which they also send to people upon request - http://www.chapellibrary.org/pdf-english/fworfg.pdf

JOHN G. PATON

I love John G. Paton's autobiography, a missionary in the 1800's. He wrote of his father...

"And so began in his seventeenth year that blessed custom of Family Prayer, morning and evening, which my father practiced probably without one single avoidable omission till he lay on his deathbed, seventy-seven years of age, when even to the last day of his life, a portion of Scripture was read, and his voice was heard softly joining in the Psalm, and his lips breathed the morning and evening prayer-falling in sweet benediction on the heads of all his children, far away many of them over all the earth, but all meeting him there at the Throne of Grace.

None of us can remember that any day ever passed unhallowed thus: no hurry for market, no rush to business, no arrival of friends or guests, no trouble or sorrow, no joy or excitement, ever prevented at least our kneeling around the family altar, while the High Priest led our prayers to God, and offered himself and his children there. And blessed to others, as well as to ourselves, was the light of such example!

I have heard that, in long after-years, the worst woman in the village of Torthorwald, then leading an immoral life, but since changed by the grace of God, was known to declare, that the only thing that kept her from despair and from the Hell of the suicide, was when in the dark winter nights she crept close up underneath my father's window and heard him pleading in Family Worship that God would convert "the sinner from the error of wicked ways, and polish him as a jewel for the Redeemer's crown." "I felt," said she, "that I was a burden on that good man's heart, and I knew that God would not disappoint him. That thought kept me out of Hell, and at last led me to the only Savior."

http://www.chapellibrary.org/pdf-english/fworfg.pdf

"How much my father's prayers impressed me," he writes, "I can never explain, nor could any stranger understand. When, on his knees, and all of us kneeling around him in family worship, he poured out his whole soul with tears for the conversion of the heathen world to the service of Jesus, and for every personal and domestic need, we all of us felt as if in the presence of the living Saviour, and learned to know and love Him as our divine Friend.

As we rose from our knees, I used to look at the light on my father's face, and wish I were like him in spirit, hoping that, in answer to his prayers, I might be privileged and prepared to carry the blessed gospel to some portion of the heathen world."

http://www.wholesomewords.org/missions/biopaton8.html

I'M THANKFUL FOR MY HUSBAND

Thank you so much for your lovely responses about being thankful for your husband. I know you will be blessed as you read all these responses and you will be motivated to be continually thankful for the husband God has given you.

These men are certainly amazing husbands and fathers. You may think, "Well, my husband isn't like this to me!"

Don't wait in self-pity for your husband to do loving things to you. You may keep waiting forever. Start loving him to pieces now! Give him respect-that's the most important thing he wants. He desires this more than anything.

Show your gratefulness and thankfulness to him. Give him love--every moment you can. Think of ways to love him and surprise him. You'll soon find it will all boomerang back on you!

From Barbara at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

Recently, he took off work on several occasions to take a sick child to the doctor. This is a great blessing as we have five beautiful children ranging from 10 years to 1 month. The thought of taking all five children into a small doctor's exam room is frightening--not just because of the cramped quarters, but the exposure to germs.

From Ashley at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He works hard to provide for me every day.

He supports my efforts to become a music minister.

He is the future father of my children.

He cares for me when I am sick or exhausted.

He thinks I am the most beautiful woman in the world and this is the only thing that makes me think I am beautiful.

He prays for me daily and encourages me to walk with Jesus always.

God made us for each other and knit our hearts together.

From Tara at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful to my husband because:

I can trust him with my whole heart to make any decisions for our family.

He is the God ordained leader of our home. I don't have to worry, not one bit, about the decisions he makes. Even, if in my eyes, they are wrong decisions, they are the decisions God wants in my life. Whether his decisions will have a positive or negative effect on my life, they will shape me and mold me to be the woman Christ wants me to be.

He seeks God's will in all the decisions he makes.

From Dawn at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful to my husband because:

He works hard and sacrifices for his family.

He seeks God in all things.

He loves me truly, sincerely, and authentically.

From Debi at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful to my husband because:

He chose me. There came a time in our marriage, where my husband had the opportunity to choose me, or the other things tugging at his heart.  God humbled my dear husband, and with a mind committed to honoring the Lord, he chose me.  Since he is a passionate personality, when he chose me, it was with all of his being, and our relationship is a real treasure.  I am gratefully enjoying this fabulous blessing called my husband.

From Desiree at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He is kind. He tells me that he sees it as his job to make me happy. For years I believed it was not really possible. However, I can honestly say after 25 years of wonderful marriage that I am happy and he has done it. God knew he would do the job properly!

From Jill at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He is opinionated and outspoken. This means that he is a man of conviction and courage!

He is a protector and provider. He stands up  to dangers that he thinks will affect the family (be they political changes, physical dangers or spiritual lies).

He thanks me daily for being willing to give birth to our eight children. He is thankful for me!

From Ingrid at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He prays for me. Many times before he leaves the house my husband asks me how he can pray for me on that particular day. He also often calls home in the middle of the day to let me know that he is praying for me.

He is a lot of fun. One thing that I noticed about my husband soon after I met him was his sense of humor. The children really appreciate the fact that their Dad can become like one of them, especially given the fact that they have such a serious mom.

He allows me to complete him.He doesn't try to do it all himself. He appreciates my role in completing him. He seeks my insight. He listens to me. He is very encouraging, which gives me the incentive to keep going. After all these years, I am still his best friend.

He is not a lazy man.

He is a good example. The world is full of not-so-good male examples. I am glad that he gives my sons the example of what a manshouldbe. I am thrilled that my daughter has a great example of what she should look for in a husband!

He is strong--physically, spiritually, and emotionally.  I remember one time after having had surgery I was a bit, shall we say,woozy. I really had to depend on him to get me back home and upstairs. I knew it didn't matter because he would never drop me. Because he has made the LORD  his Rock, my husband can also be depended upon.

He is zealous. He has a zeal for souls, and it shows in how he lives his life. He also has a zeal for unity among God's people. He knows that one of Satan's names is Diabolos (the divider). He is the embodiment of Romans 12:18.  I admit, I can struggle with letting a thing slide.  On the other hand, my husband absolutely refuses to hold a grudge. He is such an inspiration to me.

He is still good looking after 11 years of marriage. Not only has he kept his good looks, but they keep getting better!

He is what God made Him and I love him just the way he is!

From Lissa at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful to my husband because:

I'm blessed with a man who makes me think. He does not think "in the box", never has and I do, so he's been stretching me these 37 years.

He has been a wonderful father to our four children, and we are now grandparents of 10, and soon another one.

He loves the Lord and he's a man that lives his faith.  When he was in college he went to Ethiopia for 13 weeks with a missionary, and it changed his life.

From Jennifer at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He tries hard to understand me even when I am being difficult.

He is very committed to me.

He loved me through a period a few months ago when I was wondering if we would make it. We came through it strong with the Lord.

He loves the Lord.

He loves our children.

He keeps me balanced.

He really thinks through and prays about everything.

He is incredibly forgiving.

He is a hard worker.

He is faithful.

He is patient.

He is loving.

He is fun.

He cherishes me.

He has stayed married to me for 15 years.

He went with me through a difficult time... six miscarriages and a difficult postpartum depression. I'm thankful that God brought us together.

He is willing to try new and healthier things and willing to listen to the things that I read about health.

He listens to the Lord.

He has always tithed and given above what is required even before we were married.

He loves his mom and helps take care of her now that she moved from out of state and bought a house two blocks away.

He spends time with the Lord every morning.

He is protective of me and our children.

He is a great provider.

He is frugal and doesn't waste.

He is good with money.

He tries his best to plan ahead for our family.

He is a believer and loves the Lord.

He encourages me to reach out and minister to others when the opportunity comes up.

FromJennifer at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I'm thankful for my husband because:

He wants me to be at home with our children, instead of in the workplace. He does not want our children in the care of someone else.

He works hard to allow me to be home with them, teach them at home, and be there to welcome him home each day.

From Anna  at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He protects me and the children.

He understands and loves me.

From Laci at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He loves my child from a previous relationship so much. We have a child together also and you can't tell a difference! The Lord has truly blessed me with a wonderful and amazing husband.

From Lisa at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He helps refine weak spots in my character.

He makes me laugh.

From Susan at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He not only survived testicular cancer, but was then miraculously able to father our eight beautiful children and seven pre-born babies, straight to the arms of Jesus.

From Roxanee at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He tells me I'm beautiful even when I have no make-up and sloppy hair.

He is willing to trust God with our family size even after five children in consecutive years. We have six children in all!

He understands that God has chosen US to raise our children and it is not to be left to others to do it.

From Pat at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He loves me even when I'm grouchy and afraid

He is brave enough to do the things that scare me!

He fears God more than men!

He always takes time to play with the children!

He has compassion for me!

He works even when he's sick!

He lets me be weak and doesn't boast of his strength.

He has a heart that's willing to change when God challenges him!

From Rose at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

Of the love he has for me.
For the way he takes care of me and the children.
We share the word of God each evening and we are able to express to each other our thoughts without limits.
He is always there for me when I am low. and
He is my best friend.

From Kimberly at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:
He has been a kind and loving husband for 19 years.

He pushes me in my wheelchair without complaint. He understands my limitations and helps me whenever he can. He never makes me feel bad about my limitations.
He still makes me feel adored, loved and special.

He has a kind heart and generous spirit.

From Sandy at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He is happy to help me with fastening, and later, removing my clothes when I am unable to do it myself because of my hurt shoulder!

From a thankful army wife at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

Although he came home from Iraq with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder which destroys his sleep, causes panic attacks and unexplained episodes of sadness or anger, he has never turned to alcohol, drugs, prescriptions or any of the other unhealthy "coping mechanisms" available. He has spared our family so much heartache that other military families have experienced. Instead, he has chosen to meet with men from our church on a weekly basis, to be accountable to them and have them pray for him.

Though it has taken time and patience, he is now able to communicate his struggles with me, so I can be praying with him and for him and giving him grace and extra love when he needs it most. He will be starting counseling soon and we hope this will be a major step forward in his healing.

It is a demonstration of his courage and humility, as he is used to being a strong, commanding man. This condition could have caused him to become bitter, or to give up altogether, but my husband has chosen to rely on God in this season of weakness--to be a man of honor in the midst of hardship.

From This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful to my husband because:

He builds us a fire every winter morning so that our house stays warm. He even goes down in the middle of the night when it gets really cold to stock it up.

From Jayme at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He is willing to serve others.

He has a sense of humor. It sure has helped us get through some tough times! Tim's dad was a pastor and an excellent example to his sons. All four of us daughters-in-law still "argue" about which one of us got the best Osborn guy. Truly an amazing legacy!

From Tina in Belize at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He is a flesh and blood picture of Christ for me, showing me unconditional love.

He carries me into bed when I'm not feeling well.

He lavishes his love on me when the children are looking, and when they're not (lots of hugs and kisses!)

He thanks me for every meal I make and encourages the children to do the same.

He provides for our livelihood without ever complaining. I can rest in that security.

He tells me that he loves me several times a day, and shows me through small acts of kindness.

He thinks of hundreds of different ways to tell me how beautiful I am to him.

He brags about me to others.

He is a faithful follower of our Lord Jesus Christ, and a strong spiritual leader in our home.

He plays with the children, spending time with them on their level.

He takes time to work with our 12-year old on projects.

He is open and bold about his faith to others.

From Tonya at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

In an age when many children don't know their fathers, my husband has stayed with us, no matter what.

He makes me and my children laugh.

He is willing to work to provide for us.

He has never learned the art of lying.

He loves to gives hugs to us all.

He is happy wearing used clothing.

He has taught me many things.

He listens to me.

He enjoys my cooking.

He chose me to be his wife.

From Lorna at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful to my husband because:

He is a visionary man and a risk taker. This has resulted in a rather adventurous, and at times, hard journey, but we have learnt so much about God and about ourselves. Through all the hard times God has blessed us over and over in every area.

Initially my husband only wanted two children, but God changed his view on family size and saw fit to bless us with six children and our 7th is due in January 2011!

Although he is a very driven and motivated person, he is humble enough to be changed and led by God!

From Traci atThis email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

He goes to work each day without complaint and for his unselfish provision for our family. We are able to live on one income.

He manages our finances so that we are not in debt and live within our means.

He truly is a wonderful, loving father and my best friend.

He wants me to stay at home raising and schooling our children. This is a BIG deal to me when I see so many other husbands wanting their wives to work and earn extra income.

He will eat oatmeal, lentil beans, and rice without complaint.

I am thankful for his balance in my life, his unwavering faith in our LORD Jesus Christ, and his determination to lead our family in devotions.

He is by no means perfect, but I know he is perfectly God's plan for me and I am thankful for that.

From Robyn Carton at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I am thankful for my husband because:

I recently celebrated my 50th birthday and in May my husband and I reached our 20 year anniversary. At times I didn't think we'd get there. We are two quite different people, but thankfully God is chipping away at both of us to help us 'fit'.  When we first announced our engagement, my brother said that we may be different, but rather than chalk and cheese, we were more like bread and butter - different but go together.

At our wedding, when our minister got to the part of "in sickness and in health," there was a ripple of laughter throughout the congregation. The "in sickness" was a real and present commitment for my husband, as three days earlier I had come down with Ross River Virus, a mosquito borne disease, relatively unknown back then. There I was--his bride, barely able to walk down the aisle. Geoff could only place the ring on the tip of my little finger as my joints were so swollen.   For the next week or so, my husband had to feed me my meals and even brush my teeth for me.  For the next 12 months I needed to sleep 18 hours a day, and had to give up full-time work, but my husband never once complained or regretted marrying me.

My first pregnancy was difficult with threatened miscarriage and bed-rest. However, my husband cared for me and not once did he complain or regret marrying me. Baby two came along, a much better pregnancy, but I suffered terrible Post-natal depression for more than a year later. Once again, my husband was there, caring for not only me, but helping with the two children. He never complained and he never regretted marrying me.

In recent years I was again struck down by a mysterious illness that nearly robbed me of life. Once again my husband has been there, caring, encouraging and praying. It was a huge burden, but not once have I heard my husband complain, nor has he regretted marrying me.

I must point out that throughout all these times, my husband was and still is holding down a demanding full-time job.

My husband is a man of few words and over the years I have been very frustrated in his inability to express affection. However, as I reflect on our life together, I now see that words weren't necessary. He SHOWED me his love. For this I am thankful!

QUOTE FOR TODAY

I loved this quote I read today:

"Around each pure domestic shrine

Bright flowers of Eden bloom and twine,

Our hearths are altars all."

~ Rev. John Keble

RESPONSES FROM ABOVE RUBIES READERS

THE FIRST BLESSING

"My husband and I spent a whole evening on your website reading articles on why to have more children and how they are a blessing from God. Our church really likes to quote Deuteronomy 28:13 about God making us the "head and not the tail," but we noticed in this chapter that the womb was the first thing He blessed!  We have two wonderful girls and were really convicted that we couldn't limit His blessings, especially when we have been in a financial desert for over two years and whatever we "try" isn't working.  We just found out we are expecting baby # three. We've been trying to sell our house--it's the house in town that no realtor could sell. Recently a lady walked through in about five minutes put in an offer!  We got almost asking price and all papers were signed within 24 hrs. Wow!  We started looking on line for rentals and got everything we wanted in less than 24 hours--only God could do this! We know that this new baby is the START of our blessings. I realized that with my other two children blessing always followed (not that we have babies for a blessing to follow). Thank you for opening our eyes to the Scriptures of how children ARE blessings, family IS a blessing, and God takes care of our needs always."

FINE CHOCOLATE

"I want to thank you for the joy you brought into my wife's life when she received your magazines. She gave tear-filled thanks to Adonai and would not open the plastic wrapper until Shabbat. She proceeded to treat it as fine chocolate, reading only a little bit each week. Thank you!"

SWEET DREAMS

"I love the names of all your grandchildren and the chess contest between your grandchildren inspires me to teach that game to my children!  I had really sweet and beautiful dreams the night I first read some of the articles before I went to bed. That says something about the content and the Lord's presence in the magazine because the devil tries to attack me often in dreams."

MAJOR LIFE CHANGES

"I have received Above Rubies for about two years and have been led by the Holy Spirit on many occasions to make major lifestyle changes through your magazine!"

A BETTER WIFE AND MOMMY

"I adore Above Rubies. It always encourages me to be a better wife and mommy!"

CHANGED MY THINKING

"Your magazine has totally inspired me and changed the way I think about children. Because of the truths that were opened up to me through Above Rubies, we had another two children. What wonderful fruit!"

DAUGHTERS ARE BLESSED TOO

"What a joy it is to get Above Rubies each time! I devour the contents and am so encouraged in my walk as a young daughter of 20."

SETS OUR FEET A-DANCIN'

"I cherish the magazines and read them over and over. My 13 year-old-daughter also reads them and we both dance around in joy when one arrives. I found my husband recently reading one and hope he continues to do so."

JUST IN TIME!

"Just as I get upset and start to lose it, I get another magazine!"

SMILING AGAIN

"I have very low self esteem but when I read Above Rubies, I smile again and have sunshine in my life. God is Awesome." From the Solomon Islands.

MIRACLES HAPPEN!

"Your magazine changed my life! I found your magazine in desperation when I had my

first child and had no idea what I should be doing with her or myself. I drank down the inspiration I received from Above Rubies and it has changed my life and the life of my descendents forever. I now have THREE children (my husband originally wanted only one!) and am a stay at home Mama who is going to begin homeschooling! I had no idea about this before and now my husband who was against it is going to let me do it. PRAISE THE MIGHTY LORD. You have helped the Lord do a mighty work in me. I was raised to think the HIGHEST thing I could do was to have a high-powered career. Now I KNOW the highest thing I can do is to be a wife and mother and my children will know the same thing."

A RUBY RING

"I have had some not-so-good feelings about the atmosphere at our local Play Centre of which I have been a member for 6.5 years. Recently, a mother left her ruby ring with great sentimental value on the windowsill in the kitchen and it went missing. I missed the monthly meeting but I heard how members talked about improving security. Fingers were pointed at the absent cleaner and I do not know who else. All this time I said that I believed the ring was not stolen, only lost.  Even when it did not show up I believed it lost not stolen. I prayed it would turn up. Four weeks after its loss a complete visitor to our centre said, "I found this ring." There it was with its three rubies shining-she had found it outside in the playground. I was telling this story to a member of our church and she said to me, "There's a far higher purpose for all this. What was the magazine you gave everyone last week?" A ruby ring was lost and found, but the learning and purpose is above rubies."

A SECOND BIBLE

"Your magazines are my second Bible. My husband is also very blessed with everything I share with him."

CANDY

"Above Rubies is like candy to me!"

ENJOYING A FEAST

"A friend kindly gave me a pile of old magazines and I have been feasting richly on the wealth of godly material. I can't tell you how blessed I have been from reading them! I couldn't believe it when I discovered you are a faith-based ministry."

FUTURE GENERATIONS

"Thank you for encouraging us women to be godly mothers and wives amidst the sinful world we live in. I have been saving all my Above Rubies, not only to re-read myself, but so my daughters can read them when they get older. Your encouragement and wisdom will bless my children and their families someday also."

A HUGE DIFFERENCE

"You're making a huge difference in my life."

A WAY OF LIFE

"I am so grateful for Above Rubies. This world has few places any more that support "old-fashioned Christianity" values and family. I was raised on Above Rubies and every time it arrives in the mail box, a peace comes over me and I can't wait to read it.  It is more than just a magazine or a ministry; it's a way of life for which we all yearn for. Thank you for mentoring, discipling and encouraging us. May God truly uphold your arms as you stand like Moses and fight for our families. However badly this nation slips away from its roots, we are determined to stand all the more for its return back to God and family. May God have the last word!"

EMBRACE MOTHERHOOD

"It is through Above Rubies that I have come to embrace motherhood and become so excited about encouraging others!"

DOCTORS AND DENTISTS

"I keep an issue ofAbove Rubies in the car at all times and even read while waiting for something else. I like to leave my extra issues in doctors and dentists' offices and pray it blesses some weary mom who picks it up."

LEAVE ABOVE RUBIES IN OBGYN WAITING ROOMS

"I found Above Rubies in my OBGYN waiting room. The magazine was used by God to change my heart to have more children. Thank you to whoever "left" the magazine in my OBGYN office!"

SEVEN AMAZING SPECIALS

Did you receive the email with the SEVEN AMAZING SPECIALS? If not, email me and I'll send it to you. You'll be just in time to order for Christmas.

May God be with you at this special season. Don't get rushing around too much that you become harrowed in your mothering.

Love in Christ, NANCY CAMPBELL

Dear Above Rubiesreader,

May God's blessings be poured out upon you and your husband and family.

Colin and I leave early in the morning to take meetings in England and Europe. We would be grateful for your prayers, that God will anoint us mightily, and also for our safety.

European and UK readers can check out the UK Above Rubies website or contact Alice Gurr for information about meetings, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Ph: (020) 8224 3628

In This Above Rubies Mini Newsletter:

• The New Magazine #80 info
• Last Retreat of the Year
• Bracelets of Encouragement
• 100 Days of Blessings
• Thankful for Husbands
• A New DVD
• Genetically Modified Foods
• Needy Children
• International On-line Donations
• New Music Bundle
  

THE NEW ABOVE RUBIES, # 80

Tonight I am checking the last minute layout details with the Design Artist and it will go to the printers while I am away. They will have the proofs ready for me to check the moment I come home and the magazine will go straight on to the presses. We should be sending it out to you the beginning of November.

LAST RETREAT FOR THE YEAR

The first weekend after I return home, we will have our last retreat for the year. If you live in Oregon or a nearby state, I hope you can come. Here are the details.

5 - 7 NOVEMBER, OREGON

LADIES RETREAT at  Aldersgate, Turner(South of Salem)

Contact: Pam Fields, Ph: 503-363-0579 * This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Or Terri Burkhert * 541 580 2905 * This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Go to website: http://www.oregonrubies.com

WRIST BRACELETS

When my sister, Kate, was proof-reading my book, 100 Days of Blessing, I noticed loads of little Post-it Notes sticking to her arm. "What on earth are you doing, Kate?" I asked. "There are so many statements in this book that are life-changing. I don't want to forget them," she replied. "You should get bracelets with these slogans on them so mothers can look at them and be reminded of these truths throughout the day," she continued.  It sounded like a pretty good idea to me.

It would be too expensive for mothers to purchase fancy embossed bracelets so I have printed eight different rubber wrist bands with...

Powerful and Positive affirmations for wives and mothers!

As you wear them on your wrist each day you will be constantly reminded of your high and mighty calling as a mother and wife!

The ones we currently have available are:

I LOVE MOTHERHOOD

WE'RE A SMILING FAMILY

I'M A COVENANT KEEPER

I LOVE MY HUSBND

I AM ABOVE SELF-PITY

MOTHERHOOD=ADVENTURE

I AM A NATION BUILDER

WORTH MORE THAN RUBIES

"BRACELETS of ENCOURAGEMENT"

Only $2.50 each

Or $12.00 for ALL 8 bands. You Save $8.00!

What an amazing saving for such powerful life-changers!

If you would like to purchase them, go to the Bookstore at:

http://bit.ly/BraceletsofEncouragement

100 DAYS OF BLESSING

Talking about the wrist bands, I should tell you that after Kate mentioned the idea of wearing bracelets, I decided to add another chapter to 100 Days of Blessing.Because I knew I would be able to afford to print over 40 bracelets,I listedaffirmations from the book that you can type and print off to pin up in your kitchen to remind you of who you are and of the great work you are doing. You will love these.

If you haven't purchased 100 Days of Blessing yet, you can order it from the Bookstore at:

http://bit.ly/100DaysofBlessing

THANKFUL

Recently, I started to write ideas of things about our husbands for which we can be thankful. Then I thought I needed to widen my ideas and get suggestions from you. What are the things that make you thankful for your husband? If you would like to share, please email me.

Write THANKFUL in the subject heading. Thanks.

HOT OFF THE PRESS!

I am making available to you a new DVD which is hot off the press. In fact, it just arrived by UPS today.

It is called CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING and you are the first people to hear about it. You can watch this family of 12 enjoy family life together.

See them in action as they anticipate, give birth to and welcome their 10^th child into the home. You will hear them expose the history of the birth control movement on the 50^th anniversary of the Pill and how God opened their eyes to the blessing of children, in spite of their different ideals at the beginning.

It is a delightful documentary. We all watched a sample DVD as an extended family and we all loved it.

Not only will you be inspired, but you can show it to other families or lend out to promote the blessings of embracing children. (29 minutes long, and also includes 60 minutes of bonus features)

It is available for $14.95 and you can order it from the Bookstore at:

http://bit.ly/ChildrenAreABlessing

GENITICALLY MODIFIED FOODS

From Erin nelson, Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I took the TRUE food safety threat seriously upon reading an article  on page 14 of Above Rubies # 79 regarding staying away from GMOs.  I immediately raided the kitchen after that, tossing out all non-organic corn products. It helped me to realize my recent allergic reaction after eating yellow Popcorn was REAL.   

As a result, we will be looking to start our own organic garden in the upcoming year (though we have NO CLUE how, but are looking for information now).  This has also been a great science/political lesson for my home schooled children.

You may want to check out this documentary, "The Future of food"(filmmaker posted free to watch):http://www.thefutureoffood.com/onlinevideo.html

Also, folks may want tocall their senators to let them know we OPPOSE "FOOD SAFETY" Senate Bill 510:
http://www.prisonplanet.com/s-510-12-reasons-why-the-food-safety-bill-from-hell-could-be-very-dangerous-for-the-u-s-economy.html

NEEDY CHILDREN

From Colleen Kelley, Email:This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

We are anAbove Rubies family in Pennsylvania, running out of time to bring home three special needs children from Ukraine. If you would like to know more to help us in any way, go to the website, designed by our 14-year-old McKennaugh, about our mission to adopt these children: www.ukrainianorphans.com

International On-line Giving Now Available

We have now fixed the on-line contribution form to allow donations from other countries. Everyone now has the option to use your debit or credit card (Visa, M/C, Discover or American Express) or e-checks (checking account). You may also give monthly or one time donations.

All donations go directly to publishing the Above Rubies Magazine and the costs associated with the bookstore and websites. All donations are tax deductible.

New Music Bundle Now Available

The new "Best of Serene & Pearl MP3 Music Bundle" is now available in the Bookstore also. The "Preferred Shoppers Group" members enjoy great discounts on bookstore products and receive money saving coupons and first come first serve priority. Join today if you haven't already.

Use this link to see the "Best of Serene & Pearl MP3 Music Bundle":

http://bit.ly/BestofBundle

GOODNIGHT

Because it is getting late and I still have much to do and we have to leave our home at 3:00am in the morning, I will have to make this newsletter rather short.

Goodnight and many blessings,

NANCY CAMPBELL

Dear Above Rubies Reader,

Here is another mini Above Rubies newsletter to keep you up with the news.

The new magazine #79, was packaged and sent out by the 24^th July. I am sure you have already enjoyed your magazine and are sharing it with others.

I have been working hard to finish editing the new edition of Above Rubies, #80, and will send it today to my design artist.

Colin and I leave tomorrow for the San Diego Above Rubiesretreat. He will fly home Sunday night and I will fly on to Australia. I have three Above Rubies retreats in Australia, plus other meetings and will return on the 20^th September.

I will only be home for two weeks when Colin I venture out again for seminars and retreats in England, Czech Republic and the Netherlands.

We return about the 26^th October and that's when I print the new issue. I had to have it all completed before I left next week so my design artist could work on it gradually while I am away. When I come home it will be ready, we'll go to print and send it out to you, hopefully early November.

I would value your prayers over these next two busy months. Thank you so much.

In This Newsletter Issue...

• VBAC Testimonies
• Above Rubies on Facebook
• Above Rubies EGROUP
• South African EGROUP
• Always Keep On Encouraging
• Guard Your Home
• One Lucky Lady
• Brayden and Tali In The Land
• Daily Planner
• Free Distribution of Pill Documentary
• Blood Money
• Red Palm Oil and Coconut Oil
• Birthday Encouragement
• The Family Alter On Line
• Stand Up And Be Counted
• Abortion In New Zealand
• Parental Rights Amendment
• Rolling Stones Magazine
• Australia Retreat Itinerary
• UK and Europe Itinerary
• Raise Faithful Children
• Comments From Reading Above Rubies
• A New Above Rubies Book & Music Store
• Thanks For Your Prayers

VBAC TESTIMONIES

You will have read the VBAC testimonies I printed in the current issue of Above Rubies. Unfortunately, I couldn't fit them all in. If you would like to read more testimonies on this subject go to www.aboverubies.org and click on Articles/Stories and then VBAC Stories ( http://aboverubies.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&id=176:vbac-stories&Itemid=400430 )where you can read 10 testimonies on this subject.

ABOVE RUBIES on FACEBOOK

Have you joined the Above Rubies Facebook? You can keep up with the latest of what is happening with Above Rubies and be in touch with Above Rubies mothers from all over the world.

At the Tennessee retreat a young mother shared with me that she finds it so encouraging to go to the Above Rubies Facebook each morning to receive a little word of encouragement for the day. If you haven't joined yet, go to:

http://bit.ly/AboveRubiesFacebook then click on the "Like" button next to the Above Rubies name at the top.

You will also be able to keep up with what happens on my travels during the next two months on the Facebook.

Michelle Kauenhofen, our Above Rubies Canadian Director is the one who looks after the Above Rubies on Facebook . She is a mother of eleven wonderful children ranging from 18 - 7 months. Her email is This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

We are currently at 4,485 friends. The one who becomes #5,000 will receive a gift-their choice of an item from our Book/CD store. Don't forget to tell all your friends on your Facebook about the Above Rubies on Facebook

Michelle also hosts the Canadian Above Rubies Facebook. Alice Gurr, our UK/European director runs the European Facebook.

ABOVE RUBIES EGROUP

The Above Rubies Egroup is still continuing after many years. Although we have now moved on to Facebook, many mothers couldn't give up the Egroup, so it still continues also. There are currently 3,383 on the Above Rubies Egroup.

The lead moderator is Denise Bryce who is a single mother of seven beautiful home-schooled children, ranging from 6 - 20. She has been with the Egroup for nearly 10 years and loves to encourage ladies to look to Jesus as the Author and Finisher of their faith. Her email is This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

One Egroup participant writes,

"I enjoy being among like-minded individuals and reading the discussions has helped me a lot. It kept me from walking out on my husband because of the commitment of this list to be good wives. I find information, courage, encouragement, strength, laughter, joy, tears, different perspectives, things that make me think, lots of information that I have not been able to find on another Yahoo list and certainly not in my own community."

SOUTH AFRICAN EGROUP

From Marelize Keyter, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

I've started a Yahoo group for Above Rubies ladies in South Africa to encourage, help and guide each other in our own special country with its unique limitations as well as its challenges. The address is: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ARSouthAfrica/

ALWAYS KEEP ON ENCOURAGING

Don't forget that the purpose of the Above Rubies Facebook pages and Above Rubies Egroups is to encourage and bless one another. This is the whole purpose of the Above Rubies ministry which extends to the Facebook and Egroups.  When you post, remember to always be encouraging. Lift one another up. Encourage one another. Bless one another. Pass on your ideas and hints for better mothering and home-making.

Never use these places as opportunities for gossip or debate on controversial subjects. They do not edify. Be an encourager. That's what Above Rubies is all about.

I love Hebrews 10:24...

"Let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works."

Here are some other translations of the same Scripture:

"Stimulate one another to love and good deeds."

(NASB, MLB, Williams)

"Let us outdoeach other in being helpful and kind to each other." (TLB)

"Spur one another on toward love and good deeds." (NIV, CJB)

"Arouse one another to brotherly love and right conduct." (Wey)

Let's keep this as our aim on the Above Rubies Facebook pages and the Egroups.

GUARD THE ENTRANCE TO YOUR HOME

I read in Nehemiah 7:3, "Appoint guards from the inhabitants of Jerusalem, each at his post, and each in front of his house." I like this phrase-each in front of his house! How important it is to guard our homes and the most important place is the front entrance, both physically and spiritually.

We should be on guard in prayer, watching carefully for any inroads of the enemy who wants nothing more than to weaken our marriage and family. Don't give up your important task of guarding your home. Of course, it's hard to guard your home if you are mostly away from the home. We have to be on the job to be an effective guardian.

If you would like to know how to guard your home effectively, the study manual - GATE-KEEPERS OF THE HOME - HOW TO GUARD YOUR HOME ( http://aboverubiesbookstore.mybigcommerce.com/products/GATE%252dKEEPERS-OF-THE-HOME-%252d-HOW-TO-GUARD-YOUR-HOME.html ) is a great resource to get you started.

ONE LUCKY LADY

You will notice that I advertised two courtship movies in the latest magazine, BETROTHED ( http://aboverubiesbookstore.mybigcommerce.com/products/BETROTHED.html ) and PAMELA'S PRAYER ( http://aboverubiesbookstore.mybigcommerce.com/products/PAMELA%27S-PRAYER-%252d-DVD.html ), both of which I recommend.

I have now added one more to the list, ONE LUCKY LADY ( http://aboverubiesbookstore.mybigcommerce.com/products/ONE-LUCKY-LADY-%252d-DVD.html ).

It is very powerful as one young man shares haltingly and yet passionately how he decided to keep his first kiss for the wedding day. When I played it to my current Above Rubies helpers, they liked it even more than PAMELA'S PRYER.

I would encourage every family with teens to purchase this ONE LUCKY LADY on DVD. Go to http://aboverubiesbookstore.mybigcommerce.com/products/ONE-LUCKY-LADY-%252d-DVD.html or call on 1 877 729 9861.

BRAYDEN AND TALI  IN THE LAND

If you have watched the betrothal story of Brayden and Tali on the DVD BETROVED ( http://aboverubiesbookstore.mybigcommerce.com/products/BETROTHED.html ), you may like to catch up with their news.

"God gives each of us longings and dreams. Around four years ago a dream was birthed in my heart to speak the Hebrew language. I have learned a lot but not yet reached fluency.

My zeal to learn Hebrew was, at times, overboard. Once after returning from Israel I was so determined to keep learning the language that I taped a paper to my chest that said, Rak Eevreet which means "only Hebrew" and would then shout my little mantra as I felt inspired. My brothers and I remained steady friends over the years but it became somewhat a sore point when I refused to talk in English at times where there was something more pressing than learning Hebrew at hand!

To my amazement, not only had God given me this dream of learning Hebrew, but He also placed it on my wife, Tali's heart, before I even knew her. Tali is a wonderful blessing tome even if she didn't have the same desire to learn Hebrew that I have, but that she does is like peanut butter on a banana! She has learned an incredible amount since we were married. She learned most the colors in Hebrew on the trip from Kentucky to Tennessee after our wedding.

A few months after finding out Yael's little life had begun we really buckled down and started doing more Hebrew study. We both want Yael to grow up speaking Hebrew.

After hoping and praying, and then not knowing if it would work out, then hoping and praying again, the Almighty has seen fit for us to go to Jerusalem to study Hebrew. Tali, Yael and I, along with Tali's sister, Kendra headed to Israel on the 9^th June.

Shalom in Yeshua, Brayden Waller, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

P.S. If you would like to find out more about the miraculous rebirth of Hebrew as a spoken language there is a great book called, "Tongue of the Prophets"that tells the story of Eleazer Ben Yehuda. Not only is this a fascinating biography, but it also gives a great appreciation for the role that Hebrew played in the rebirth of the nation of Israel."

I would also recommend this book-one of my favorites. Nancy

DAILY PLANNER

Starla Kreider has designed a planner especially for stay-at-home moms. If you are interested, go to http://www.wellkeptlife.com

Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * Blog: http://www.thetimekeeper.wordpress.com

FREE DISTRIBUTION OF PILL DOCUMENTARY

Trent Herbert writes: We have decided at TNL Productions to provide that the documentary, 28 Days on the Pillcan be freely copied and distributed. The copies from originals are not to be sold but are to be freely given out. There is not a limit restriction on the number of copies that can be made. The only restriction is that it must be distributed in its entirety. Any reproduction of certain parts of the Documentary, for any reason, requires prior permission.

It is our desire that everyone be fully informed about these issues surrounding the Pill.  Let's continue to get the word out. The video has been placed on-line in its totality at:

http://vimeo.com/user3833899

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me:

Trent Herbert, TNL Productions - Searchlight Films

Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. * 519-649-0901

BLOOD MONEY

An Above Rubies reader writes: The following link is to a new independent film which needs our support to expose the corruption of Planned Parenthood. The movie is called Blood Money and in order for the producers to get it into the theaters they need to show that millions of interested people have visited their website.

PLEASE HELP GET THIS IMPORTANT FILM INTO THEATERS BY VISITING THE WEBSITE, then forward it to your family and friends! Americans NEED to see this...

http://www.bloodmoneyfilm.com/

RED PALM OIL AND COCONUT OIL

Coconut Oil and Red Palm Oil are the only two oils that are safe to use for cooking. They are the only two oils that do not turn to trans fat when heated. These are the only oils that I use for cooking in our home. I use Olive Oil for salad dressing but not cook with.

To order, call Charity Callis, Ph: 1 877 841 2861

You can also go to http://www.rainforestredpalmoil.com/ to order organic red palm oil.

BIRTHDAY ENCOURAGEMENT

Stephanie Thompson,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes:

"We had been making speeches at our family birthdays, but only with our own family. We felt it was time to do it with our parents.My mother-in-law's birthday is always around Mother's Day. We wanted to make her birthday special, but on Mother's Day we had a snow storm of all things so my in-laws ended up coming here. We made a beautiful meal for her birthday and asked the children to write why they love Mimo (their name for her). They had to read it to her and then give her what they wrote so she could always keep it.  My husband and I did it too. What my husband wrote meant so much to her as he is her only child left (her daughter recently died of cancer.)  He tends to be quiet so hearing what he felt about her brought her to tears. She said that this was the best Mother's day and birthday she ever had. She couldn't believe it was real, but it was! God is so good."

How true that the greatest gifts we can receive are encouraging words, either written or spoken. I remember the very first Christmas we had in North America, and of course, our very first White Christmas which we had dreamed of for years while living in New Zealand and Australia.

We drove up to my sister's big log home in the Cariboo, on the road that leads to Alaska. We arrived in a snow storm and her husband had to tow us up the long steep hill to their home with a tractor. We were snowed in for most of our time with them. Each day we snuggled in by the fire and I made soup and homemade bread. Christmas Day came and none of us had any money for gifts so we all decided to write poems to one another. What precious gifts. We were more blessed by these encouraging poems than any material gifts we have ever received. It is still one of my favorite Christmases.  Nancy.

THE FAMILY ALTAR ON LINE

I mentioned in my article, FAMILY DEOVTIONS, THE WIFE'S PART in the latest issue of Above Rubies a book that I heartily recommend. It is called How to have a Family Altar by Norman V. Williams. It is out of print, but an Above Rubies reader found it on line: Here's the link:  http://www.baptistbiblebelievers.com/Books/HowtoHaveAFamilyAltarbyNormanVWilliams/tabid/198/Default.aspx

STAND UP AND BE COUNTED

I like to speak out, write, sign and be a voice for righteousness in any way I can. Any opportunity to sign something to stand against evil, I want to be part of. Here are a few things you may like to do to help be a voice.

Abortion in New Zealand

From Janine in New Zealand,This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Could we ask for your help please? We are one of the families trying to save babies from abortion in New Zealand. We have a website http://www.0800uchoose.com and we need people to visit the site so our website can get higher up the Google list. Thanks, Janine.

Parental Rights Amendment

Certain radical leaders in Congress want to ratify a UN treaty that would basically take away the rights of parents and give them to the UN. The Parental Rights Amendment would prevent this treaty and others like it. It will also protect parental rights from judicial undermining that is going on in American courts today. To learn more click on the link below.

The Solution: The Parental Rights Amendment

If you want some more information the best website to look into is http://www.Parentalrights.org

You can also print off a petition which you can give to people to sign and when it is complete, send it in.

Rolling Stones Magazine

Flying last weekend to the Above Rubies retreat in Montana, Pearl wanted to pick up a health magazine to read on the plane. At eye level she noticed the cover of the Rolling Stonesmagazine. She came back to me horrified! I went to look myself and was also horrified. I immediately complained to the shop assistant and asked to speak to the manager. He spoke to me on the phone and said he would need more complaints to do something about it! That shows that everyone needs to complain!

This cover is so disgusting that we cannot sit by and do nothing. I would rather you didn't have to see it, but if you are in a shop that sells magazine and you can see it out of one corner of your eye, please ask for the manager and complain. It is terrible that it is at the eye level for children to see. And if we don't rise up and complain about this cover, they'll start printing worse covers!

AUSTRALIAN READERS - CHECK OUT ITINERARY!

TASMANIA - Women's Camp

September 3rd - 5th

Springvale Hostel, Midwood Street, New Town (Hobart)

CONTACTS:  Mel Thompson * Phone: 03 6223 7170  * Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

VICTORIA - Day Seminar

Wednesday 8th September

Venue: House of the Rock Church, 17 Goode St Gisborne  Vic 3437

Contacts: Rosie Glenister  0438 741 033 * Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.  or

Jenny Barnes, Phone 03 5426 1717  *  Email:  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

NEW  SOUTH  WALES - Ladies Camp

10th - 12th September

Ridgecrest - 621 The Circle Rd Mumbil, (30k - Wellington: 75k - Dubbo)

Contact: Robbie McFadyen - Trewilga Park Rd, Trewilga  2869

Phone: 02 6869 1388 * email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Day Seminar in Sydney

Monday 13th  September 2010

Toongabbie Baptist Church: Cnr Metella Rd  & Octavia St  Toongabbie

Contact: Jan Saunders, Phone 02 9621 4164 * Email:  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

QUEENSLAND - Ladies Camp

17th - 19th  September 2010

QCCC - 179 Gold Creek Rd- Brookfield Brisbane 4069

Contact: Claire and Maggie Ciranni - 282 Mt Samson Rd- Samsonvale 4520

Phone: 07 3103 9055  Mobile: 0416 488 812 * Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

UK AND EUROPEAN READERS - CHECK OUT ITINERARY FOR COLIN AND NANCY!

8th October-8 a.m. Colin Campbell will be on the Breakfast Show on Premier Radio.

8-10 October-LADIES RETREATat Wokefield Park Hotel, Reading, England. Registration forms and further information are enclosed and on the website, or email Alice at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

11th October-11a.m. Nancy Campbell will be on Premier Radio.

http://www.premierradio.org.uk/listen.aspx

11th October-7 p.m. Meal and meeting for all at 2 Ember Farm Way, East Molesey, Surrey KT8 0BJ. Phone: (0208)398 1996 *  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Please call Lydia Bate to let her know you are coming, for catering purposes.

12th October-9 p.m. Colin and Nancy--Live at 9on Revelation TV.

13th October-1.00  p.m. Nancy on She Matterson Revelation TV.  http://www.revelationtv.com/

13-15 October-Netherlands. Please contact Erna Stelma, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

15-17 October-Conference in Hustopeče, South Moravia, Czech Republic. Further information on the website, or contact Karel Fridrich This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

.

17-18 October-Prague, Czech Republic. Please contact Kristyna Klusonova. This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

19 October-Meeting in Pleasley Landmark Centre, Chesterfield Road North, Pleasley, Mansfield NG17 9SP. Meal at 5 p.m.--separate men's and ladies' meetings. Contact Helena Mol to let her know you are coming for This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. *

01623-757973.

20-22 October-7 p.m. Colin and Nancy speaking at Aberdona House, FK10 3QP (nr. Stirling), Scotland.  Contact Marta Kleczkowska:  01259-759085 * This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

22-24 October-FAMILY CAMPat Whithaugh Park, Scottish borders. Registration forms and further information are on the website, or email Sarah at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

.

For information on all these events and regular updates, please go to  http://www.aboverubies.co.uk/#/conferences/4537247267

Alice Gurr, Above Rubies Director in UK and Europe also writes: Everyone who is on the email address list for Europe has received this information already. If you have not received information on the visit and retreats already, it is because you are not on the Above Rubies UK/Europe email address list. THIS IS NOT THE SAME AS NANCY'S EMAIL ADDRESS LIST FOR DEVOTIONALS AND NEWSLETTERS! For regular updates and information between magazines, please check the website http://www.aboverubies.co.uk regularly or send your email address to Alice Gurr at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

RAISE FAITHFUL CHILDREN

Nehemiah 7:1-2 says, "Now it came about when the wall was rebuilt that I put Hanani my brother, and Hananiah the commander of the fortress, in charge of Jerusalem for he was a faithful man and feared God more than many." We are raising children to be ready for God's service. Who is God looking for? Faithful servants. Ask God to help you raise children who are faithful. That means teaching them to be faithful in the little daily things of life for God has promised that those who learn to be faithful in the little that He will make them ruler over many things. (Matthew 25:23). God looks for faithfulness over and above talent and intellect. It does not matter if your child does not have great abilities, if he learns faithfulness, he will be prepared and ready for God to use him.

We must also teach our children to walk in the fear of the Lord. Even children face situations where they have to choose to fear God or give into pleasing men. Ask God for wisdom to teach your children how to stand up for God and stand against evil, even if it means being unpopular in the eyes of man.

COMMENTS FROM READING "ABOVE RUBIES"

"I had really sweet and beautiful dreams the night I first read some of the articles before I went to bed. That says something about the content and the Lord's presence in the magazine because the devil tries to attack me in dreams often."

"I love the names of all your grandchildren and the chess contest picture in # 79 inspires me to teach that game to my children!"

"I have received your magazine for about two years and have been led on many occasions to make major lifestyle changes through the leading of your magazine!"

"I adore Above Rubies. It always encourages me to be a better wife and mommy!"

"I wanted to tell you that your magazine has totally inspired me and changed the way I think about children.  Because of the truths that were opened up to me through Above Rubies ministry, we had another two children.  What wonderful fruit!

"My best friend subscribed me to Above Rubies magazine two years ago and oh what a joy it is to get it each and every time!  I devour the contents and am so encouraged in my walk as a young 20 year old lady and daughter."

"Just as I get upset and start to lose it, I get another magazine."

THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS

I must sign off now. I have four week's work to do today before I leave early tomorrow morning. I would really value your prayers for God's strength, physically and spiritually. And I would appreciate your prayers for God's anointing as I share with women in many meetings and retreats in the coming months.

May God pour out His blessing upon you and your precious family.

In His love, NANCY CAMPBELL

Dear Above Rubies reader,

It's time I got another mini-Above Rubies out to you. I know it's hard to wait between magazines, but these mini e-magazines can keep you going until you get the real thing.

HOME NEWS

I have just completed eight Above Rubiesweekend retreats, mostly in a row. It is wonderful to be home for a few weekends before our next Family Retreat in Missouri.

You'll have heard about the floods in Tennessee. We bucketed hundreds of gallons of water out of our downstairs room. Fortunately we have a concrete floor. Serene and Sam didn't fare so well. Sam had put in beautiful wooden floors in their home. Their down stairs living area is now the funniest site you could ever see! You walk in to see waves of the sea, some three feet high as the floor has buckled! They came down a couple of days after the flood to find all their furniture upside down and falling over because the floor had grown into waves! It is hilarious. They have now had to move upstairs to live.

As soon as I returned from Colorado, I got to work preparing for Colin's 70^th birthday. He actually turned 70 years on the 1^st April (he reckons he has a good excuse in life!) but we didn't have time to have it until the 18^th May. We re-painted our downstairs social room. It is actually our Above Rubies packaging room, but we use it for church on Sundays and for loads of wonderful celebrations. Our Above Rubies office, packaging room and store room are downstairs and we live upstairs.

Colin's birthday celebration was a wonderful time of yummy food and great fellowship with friends and family-about 130 folks. We enjoyed food and fellowship outside on the lawn around white round tables with canopies overhead. God was so good to give us such a beautiful evening. After floods and continual rain we had one fine night - and now it is raining again!

As it got dark, we all came inside for the program. We Campbells can never have a function without a program of items and lots of speeches! Evangeline did a skit for her father while she sat on a tractor. Yes, Howard actually made a make-shift tractor out of tractor parts and they even had the tractor noise coming through the sound system! And she was dressed in her father's suit! Colin loves to wear suits-and has even been seen driving his tractor down the road in his black suit!

For a joke Colin will often say, "Did my million dollars come today?" He's been saying this for our 47 years of marriage now, although it still hasn't arrived! And so for a laugh, Evangeline wrote...

Just Around the Corner!

A million bucks is coming my way, just don't you fellas worry,

I know it's true the bills are due but it's coming in a hurry.

Is that the phone? Quick, grab it Nance, you know I bet it's them,

To say the pay is on its way, don't question, just ask them when?

Now everyone just calm your horses, I'll be the head cashier,

Submit your mission, your plan, your vision, I've a feeling my million is near!

CHORUS: Sung by Evangeline's children!

A million, a million, a million bucks today,

A million trucks with a million bucks is coming Granddad's way!

Hey, a million bucks is coming my way-our water system may annoy us,

But chances are the money's not far and then we'll all be joyous!

I'll need to lay a mile of pipe, I'm not afraid of the toil,

But oh holy night when I get it done right by striking it rich in oil.

CHORUS: Away the children sang again with gusto...

A million, a million, a million bucks today,

A million trucks with a million bucks is coming Granddad's way.

A million bucks is coming my way, there's nothing we cannot do,

We'll build an expansion or maybe a mansion and help an orphanage too!

Now don't let it out or spread it around, but Pearl, I just got a letter,

They say it will come in a huge lump sum, oh how could life be better?

My food will be contraband, the nectar of heaven, lose the health diet book,

I'll eat out every night, now Darling, don't fight! It's a God-send, you won't have to cook!

CHORUS:

No more broken down tractors, no more broken down cars,

No more broken down, back-breaking labor,

I'll buy it all new! And say "How dee doo!"

You'll all want me as your neighbor!

No more school for the children, no more tension or strife,

No more dirt or noise from the mice,

It'll be peace like in heaven when my money starts revvin',

All will be Paradise!

So pray for my million, have faith for a billion, just get out if you're a scorner,

It's about to come, a really large sum, it's just around the corner!

CHORUS:

Serene and Pearl also sang which is always wonderful. They sang, ‘Pity the man" which is the song Colin always sang when asked to sing a solo in his younger days. Smoochie McTwain entertained us with her southern accent, aka our daughter-in-law Monique. She wrote two songs about Colin which tell a little more about his life...

Colin got the name of Mr. C in the very early days of the Newsboys when they lived with us in Australia. They didn't like to be disrespectful and call him Colin and he was too familiar to them to call him Mr. Campbell so they began to call him Mr. C. It has continued to this day. When we first came to the States Colin drove the Newsboys bus across the country and he got known as Mr. C in the music industry.

Mr. C's on his Way!

Have you heard about the man, way yonder in Primm Springs

Making clanging sounds from the old shed  where he sings?

Even though the sun is down, he keeps a-working late,

You can tell he's been fasting and its days since he ate.

CHORUS:

You can see him driving in his Cadillac

Up big Primmridge hill,

Hell do anything to help somebody out,

Don't matter if his coffee spills,

He's coming to help and he's coming to pray,

Mr. C's on his way!

And you may have seen him with the sun upon his back

On his rusty tractor in his white singlet and hat,

If you cannot find him, then he'll be down at the creek

Fixing all the water pipes that had broken that same week!

CHORUS:

He's on his way,

Mr. C's on his way,

He's on his way!

If you have ever met Colin you will know he loves to pray and exhorts everyone else to pray too! His passion in life is to pray for the nation and encourage other people to also get to prayer. I think Monique wrote this one out of a bit of conviction, but with tongue in cheek of course...

It's Sunday Morning!

It's Sunday morning, he's done the calling,

Did he tell you that he'd love to see you there?

It's time for prayer!

On Sunday morning, you'll hear him warning

Today is not the day for sleeping in,

That'd be a sin!

CHORUS:

On Sunday morning service starts,

Don't leave your Bible in the car

Or there'll be a lot of brimstone raining down

At Sunday morning 10 am!

Better sing those hymns and lift those hands

'Cause sitting down the back aint holy ground!

It's Sunday morning, children quit that talking,

It's time for getting serious with the Lord

And no getting bored!

It's Sunday morning, and the Spirit is falling,

Better keep on pressing through those holy gates

And lunch can wait!

CHORUS:

BRIDGE:

Pray without ceasing in this wonderful meeting,

You won't find a service as good as this!

Don't you sit down now, stand up, no, kneel down,

If you get dizzy, that's nothng that prayer won't fix!

There were lots of other wonderful music and loads of speeches to celebrate his life.

Last week we attended a memorial funeral which was a wonderful celebration of our neighbor's life. Many people got up and shared what she meant to them and many great stories about her. Someone said, "If only she could be here to hear all these wonderful things being said about her." How true. We usually wait until someone dies to eulogize them. It is so good to make moments to speak into people's lives while they are alive. Speeches at celebrations give this opportunity.

That's why we love to celebrate Shabbat every Friday evening. After Colin has read Proverbs 31 he eulogizes me and then I do the same to him. Oh what a blessing. Then he blesses the children or grandchildren who are around our table. These moments are life-changing and special.

BIRTHDAY SPEECHES

Talking about speeches,Charlene Witek, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. wrote...

"We recently attended the Wisconsin family camp where you spoke about the importance of birthday speeches. Our youngest son, Ephraim had his birthday party the weekend after the family camp and we decided to give it a try. Everyone seemed a bit nervous and some didn't have much more than a sentence to say but everyone did participate. It was a tremendous blessing!  It not only edified Ephraim, but gave us insight into what others were thinking and feeling.

For example, it was a surprise to learn that my father felt very blessed by something Ephraim had said over a year before. My mother had been visiting without my father and as soon as she walked in the door, Ephraim asked where Papa was. It didn't seem anything noteworthy to us, but my father mentioned it in his birthday speech to Ephraim and how it made him feel so good as a grandfather to be missed like that. We hadn't realized that those little things meant so much.

Also, before I had children I used to enjoy writing humorous poems but never seem to find the time for that type of thing anymore. Now I have an outlet for that activity! So far I've written a poem for my son's birthday and my husband's birthday. Our daughters even choreographed a little dance to perform for my husband's birthday. I am looking forward to the four remaining birthdays to come this year---each of us can't wait to hear the speeches!  I can't tell you what a blessing this has been and it will definitely be a tradition in our family from now on!  Thank you so much for encouraging us in this way."

THE GREAT REBELLION

I know that so many of our readers would love to come to our home and visit us but this is not usually feasible. However, you now have a chance to visit us via a movie! As you know, I have Above Rubies helpers come to help me in this great ministry of bringing strength and encouragement to the mothers and families of the world. These girls stay for about two months and give of their time liberally and generously. Colin and I often say to each other, and to other folks as well, that we are blessed to have the "cream of the earth" come to our home. These girls certainly are the "cream of the crop"-beautiful home-trained girls who know how to work hard in the office and in the home. We are so blessed by them. We have now had over 80 girls in our home now, and many have come for the second or third time.

We have just enjoyed having with us two sisters from Australia, Jessica and Loretta Robertson and two sisters from Michigan, Chloe and Annie Zielinksi-and of course, they became great friends while being here together. Jessica has a real interest in film-making so while here she wrote a script and starting making a movie with the "Rubies girls" and all the grandchildren as stars!

Jessica didn't have much time to put into this movie with working in the office from 9.00 am to 5.00 pm each day, but in her spare time she did it! And it turned out great.

It is called "The Great Rebellion" and takes place in the time of the Underground Railroad when people helped smuggle black slaves to freedom. It is all filmed in our home, upstairs and downstairs (downstairs is our Above Rubies packaging room) and in the woods around our home so you'll get to see where we live. And you'll get to see all the grandchildren. And you'll enjoy the story too! In fact, I'm sure you'll love it.

And the best thing of all, you can download"The Great Rebellion" for only $4.99.  Wow, what a deal! Go to the webpage,"The Great Rebellion" and it will be yours.

EMBRACE AN ORPHAN IN YOUR HOME THIS SUMMER

Michelle Vernon, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...

"Would your family consider hosting an orphan in your home for five weeks this summer? New Horizons for Children connects Christian host families willing to share the love of family and the love of Christ with orphans from Latvia, Russia and Ukraine. Hosting is open to families nationwide. If you are willing to be an orphan's family for 5 weeks, contact New Horizons for Children by calling 678-574-4677 or on the web at www.newhorizonsforchildren.org

International Orphan Hosting Christian Ministry, 501(c) (3) Non-Profit
NEWSLETTER, NO. 3 2010.docx www.newhorizonsforchildren.org)

HARVEST GRAPES AND OLIVES IN ISRAEL THIS FALL

Do you remember reading the wonderful story, "Signs and Wonders" about the Waller family in Above Rubies# 68? Or you may have seen their DVD, "A Journey Home."

For those who missed, I'll put you in the picture.Tommy Waller and his wife Sherri are parents to 11 children who came out of the rat race a number of years ago in Tennessee and began to live off the land. They discovered God's plan for the return and restoration of His people and Israel and began to bless the Jewish people. Several years ago they started going to Israel as a family to volunteer with farmers and vineyard owners during the harvest seasons.

Then they started taking people from North America with them. Last year they had 100 Christians helping in the vineyards of Samaria with the harvest of grapes. As they worked in the fields, they danced and sang and worshipped the Lord. The Jewish vineyard owners love them and are so blessed to be given this gift of free labor from people who esteem them and who want nothing in return for their service. The governor of this area in Samaria has asked Tommy to raise up 10,000 harvesters this year to help them with their crops - which are growing in abundance every year!

If anyone in your family would be interested in being part of this historic event, read the following information or go to the website: www.hayovel.com.

There are three options during September 12 - October 29

Option #1 -Grape Harvest, End of grape Harvest, Feast of Tabernacles

7 weeks,September 12 - October 29

Option #2 -Olive Harvest

3 weeks,September 12 - October 3

Option #3-Feast of Tabernacles,Olive Harvest

3 weeks,October 3 - October 24

Who should consider going?We need all ages - young and old. Physically fit, strong men and women to do the job of picking tons of grapes and preparing other vineyards to be planted. Older men and women to assist with the labor and to balance the group with maturity and wisdom. This is a family ministry. We need everyone and their unique contribution. We need intercessors. If you feel you cannot fully participate please consider coming as an intercessor. Everyone who comes will participate in the prayer shifts as well as the work force.

How long can I stay?The full seven weeks. The Feast of Tabernacles is September 22-29. We plan to be in Jerusalem and if possible you may join us. Please do not schedule your arrival or departure dates before your interview.

What about our entire family going?That would be great! Each family would be together in housing and work assignments, with parents overseeing their own children. Of course it easier to separate men and women in a dorm-like setting, but families with children will be together.

What type of mindset should a harvester have?We have ONEobjective-to bring in the harvest. We have to work as a fluid team to accomplish such an awesome task. There is no room for an ‘I want' or ‘I need' mentality. Plan to be as low maintenance as possible. It will be impossible to cater to individual touring requests. God Himself has drawn you and you will receive more than you can even think or ask!

We will tour...Samaria, which includes Har Gerizim, the Mount of Blessing, the Samaritan village, Elon Moreh, Shiloh, Psagot, and other communities in the heartland of Israel and Jerusalem. You will have the opportunity to hear from native Israeli's and learn from their life experience.

What does it take?A heart to serve and bless, flexibility, perseverance, ability to follow instructions and a community spirit and a round trip ticket (about $1200 from US--check prices from your area). Estimate $300/week for food, housing and transportation plus extra spending money for eating out and souvenirs

Steps

1) Complete an application, available at www.hayovel.com

2) Submit for review

3) Interview with Hayovel staff

4) Send in $200 non-refundable deposit

5) Purchase ticket 1 month prior to departure

Tommy Waller and the HaYovel Staff, www.hayovel.com

NEW BOOKS AND DVDs AVAILABLE

In case you didn't get the other email I sent out about the new resources, I will mention it here again. If you did read the email, just scroll on down to other interesting information.

I don't sell a lot of other products through Above Rubies apart from our own Above Rubies material, but everyone now and then I like to make available products that I know will be a blessing to you.

COURTSHIP DVDs:

PAMELA'S PRAYER($9.00)

This motion picture portrays the unique story of Pamela Bucklin from her birth in 1969 to her wedding day in 1991. It s a wonderful story that shows Pamela's temptations but how in the end God wondrously enabled her to keep her first kiss for the wedding day. You will love this story. It is captivating and an inspiring story. I would recommend every young person (and parents too) watching this movie.

BETROTHED($19.95)

This is the story of Brayden and Talitha Waller's betrothal. Do you remember reading about the Waller family in Above Rubies # 68 and how they serve the Lord in Israel with their 11 children? Brayden is their eldest son. Brayden and Tali decided to go beyond courtship and experience a betrothal just like in Bible days. It is the most incredible story. You will laugh. You will cry. Colin and I were very blessed to be part of their wedding ceremony but when I saw the movie of their whole story (and what happened behind the scenes) I was awed. You will be too.

BOOKS:

LOVE YOUR HUSBAND, LOVE YOURSELF (Embracing God's Purpose for Passion in Marriage)By Jennifer Flanders  ($14.95)

This vibrant mother of 12 children tells you how to take 10 years off your appearance, reduce your risk of heart disease, enjoy intimacy with your husband instead of making excuses to avoid it and divorce-proof your marriage! It's a knock out! You will be challenged and inspired.

PRAYING THROUGH THE 100 GATEWAY CITIES OF THE 10/40 WINDOW($9.99)

This book gives up-to-date information on the 100 key cities in the world's least evangelized area, mostly Muslim countries. A marvelous resource to use with your family each day to pray for these needy cities of the world. You not only learn about new cities and countries, but as you pray together as a family you can be used of God to bring salvation and deliverance to these people.

At our evening devotions Colin reads the Scriptures from THE DAILY LIGHT. (Have you purchased one of these books yet? We wouldn't be without it! We use it night and morning in our home.) After reading THE DAILY LIGHT we read about a city from Praying Through the 100 Gateway Cities of the 10/40 Window. It gives some history and points for prayer. As we each pray around the table we pray for this city. It is such a powerful time. Many of these cities are closed to missionaries, but we are not bound at all. Through the power of prayer we can go right into these cities and intercede for God t move and bring salvation and deliverance.

It is such a blessing to hear of amazing stories of Muslims coming to the Lord in Iran and other Middle Eastern countries through seeing dreams and visions of Jesus. God is coming to these people, without the aid of missionaries, because people are praying around the world. You can join in too.

Go towww.aboverubies.org to order

or call us at 1 877 729 9861 to order by credit card.

If you can't get through on this line because we are already

taking a call, try 931 729 0537.

FATHER'S DAY SPECIAL

This email was also sent to you separately. If you received it, you can scroll down to other interesting information. I have popped it in again in case you missed it and you are wondering what to purchase for your husband or father for Father's Day.

Richest Man on Earth CD

Songs for Fathers

Professional Country/Bluegrass Music with anointed words especially for Fathers.

This makes a wonderful gift for your husband or father. They'll love it.

Order your copy of "Richest Man On Earth" for your dad, husband, or friend today and get a Special Bonus also.

The Complete "Making of a Patriarch" Teaching
by Colin Campbell in Mp3 Format
For FREE

In this study God plainly reveals His plan for men and fatherhood in the Bible. Discover powerful truths and principles laid down by God for families.

Here's What You'll Receive...

You get the complete Physical CD of Richest Man on Earth for the special price of $9.99, a savings of over $5.00 off the original price. AND You also receive the "Making of a Patriarch" MP3 version (value $9.00) for immediate download at no additional cost.

Both For Only $9.99!
Save over $14.00

Special Savings Only Until MIDNIGHT June 13, 2010

Get your "Father's Day 2010 Special Bundle" by clicking on the Link below:

Father's Day 2010 Special Bundle

(NOTE: You will be able to download the complete "Making of a Patriarch" MP3 version directly to your computer and not have to wait for postal delivery. Details for downloading will be in your confirmation receipt email.)

You may also call 1-877-729-9861 or 931 720 0537 to order by phone.

EATING FOR TWO

So amazing to me are the things I will do,

‘Cause somebody said, "you're eating for two."

Others don't care about stretch marks or not

Because they aren't pregnant, they could've forgot.

Wherever there's food, "you get double" they say,

But I must be careful 'cause fat likes to stay.

But I pile high my plate, the excuse is so great,

Then later I wonder why I over-ate!

Well, baby arrives and what a surprise,

Just as tiny and small as can be;

A glance in the mirror, it's all gettin' clearer,

The "eating-for-two" joke's on me!

SHELLY TOWNSEND who has successfully lost all the baby weight!

Humble, Texas, USA  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
Mark and Shelly have three blessings--Maren Chapel (3), London Christopher (2), and Baby Mark (1).

THE DAILY LIGHT DEVOTIONAL

Jeannette Hansen, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...

"I have been using the Daily Light (Bagster, copyright 1901) since my grandmother gave it to me in about 1982, the year after my grandfather went to be with the Lord.  Inscribed in the front cover is a handwritten note from my paternal great-great grandmother, giving the book to my grandparents on their wedding day, January 7, 1928.  It never fails to meet whatever the need for the day, showing again that the eternal living Word never changes."

Keep checking the web page, www.aboverubies.org and go to PRAYER IN THE HOME and BIBLE IN THE HOME as more articles are continually posted to encourage you in these two most foundational anchors of family l8ife.

HOW TO HAVE A FAMILY ALTAR

I  would also recommend a little book called, "How to Have a Family Altar" by Norman V. Williams. It is no longer in print, but you can purchase a copy from Amazon.com

This book is an absolute treasure. I'll give you a few quotes to think about...

"Your home is a Christian home only if God's Word is exalted within the home as God commands that it shall be."

"God didn't make the course and destiny of nations and of individuals dependent on the decisions of Congresses and Parliaments, nor did He lay this power in the hands of rulers and kings; but God placed it in the praying family! This is why the devil cannot ruin nations of men until he has destroyed the homes of prayer! That why Satan hates the family altar."

"The greatest Bible institute in the world is a father reading the open Bible to his family."

"The home is God's greatest agency for the transmission of His Word from one generation to another. This responsibility cannot be passed on to any other person, or persons, or to any other agency. It cannot be shirked except at painful loss to the never dying souls of the children and all concerned."

"One vibrant, pulsating and faithful family altar home will stir a whole community for God! And not only a community but the whole world!"

"A family on its knees, agreeing as touching anything, has power to claim anything within the will of God for nations, or individuals, or for the Church."

"It used to be that fifty percent of professing Christians had a daily family altar of worship and prayer. When these praying families came together in church it was like "adding power to power"... Nowadays it is estimated that only five percent (that was back in 1951!) of professing Christians maintain daily family worship. It isn't enough that the churches we go to exalt Christ and teach the Word; the homes we come from must likewise exalt Christ and teach the Word. Families which ignore God and His Word six days a week will not be likely to know God in "the power of his resurrection" on the seventh day of the week!"

MP3 DOWNLOADS

Two more Downloads are now available of my speaking sessions.

MOTHERS WITH A MISSION - 5 sessions

LOVELY HOMES - 4 sessions

HOPE CHEST / GLORY BOX

Natalie Norris, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. from New Zealand writes, [

"I too had a Glory Box from the age of 13 and I just loved getting it together. By the time I was 23 and got married I had 72 tea towels! Some of those were given as gifts over the years when people knew I enjoyed getting gifts to make a home. It was not until not too many years ago that I needed to buy a tea towel! By the way I turned 70 years in February!

"I had lovely crockery including a cup, saucer and plate that my Dad gave me when I was 16. I still have it and when I have friends I use my nice things that I collected in my younger days. Floods of memories keep coming back as to where I got some of the things that were given as gifts for my Glory Box. That glory box has given me many hours of pleasure and when our daughter had her two babies she used it for the children's toys. But they grew up knowing it first belonged to Gran. We have had to buy very few towels or household things over the years."

THE SECRET OF PRAYING

Dawn Herring, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...

"I felt prompted to email you a response to your The Secret of Praying devotional. I am so heartily in agreement with you on this issue. I began to pray verbally about eight years ago, having been a pray-er all my life. Verbal prayer is now my passion, and my desire is to encourage others to verbally pray. Many probably feel odd or insecure, feeling like they don't really know how or are too embarrassed to try. I know I had felt that way in my younger years. But now, I so enjoy and benefit from verbal prayer."

Others write...

"This was an on- time message that speaks directly to my heart and spirit. Ouch and Amen is all I have to say. I know how to "go forth" without a shadow of any doubt and will no longer let fear of sounding this way and not that way hinder me any longer."

"I've been so burdened lately about prayer. I am more earnest and praying often. I also found the power in praying God's Word. God wants to bless us, but we need to ask in prayer. He has so much spiritual blessing for us when we come to Him in prayer.  Thanks for encouragement and useful ideas."

For more articles about praying, go to the website, www.aboverubies.org, click on ARTICLES AND STORIES, then click on PRAYER IN THE HOME. Also check out BIBLE IN THE HOME.

CHILDREN IN CHURCH

An Above Rubies reader sent this quote they found on a website about children in a Jewish Temple. I love this attitude. Wouldn't it be good if we had this attitude in our churches? "

"A special note about young children. We want them and need them in the Sanctuary. Not only does their involvement add to the spirit of our prayers, it provides them with experiences and memories that will be with them for the rest of their lives. For many of us, being with our families in the Sanctuary are among our fondest childhood memories, something we'd like our own children to have."

To read an article I have written called SHOULD CHILDREN BE IN CHURCH, go to www.aboverubies.org and click on ARTICLES AND STORIES, then FAMILY LIFE and then click on  SHOULD CHILDREN BE IN CHURCH.

ABOVE RUBIES RETREAT TESTIMONIES

I receive hundreds of testimonies, but I thought I would share just a few with you...

ABOVE RUBIES MINISTRY TESTIMONIES

Michelle Rodman, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...

"Thank you so much for your Above Rubies website and magazine. They have been an encouragement to me for many years. But thank you most of all for your book, Be Fruitful and Multiply. I bought it at the age of 37. I had three wonderful children, a husband ready for a vasectomy, and a heart longing for more children. Your book, patience, and lots and lots of prayer have brought me to being eight weeks pregnant at the age of 40. I cannot thank you enough for the Bible verses that God was able to use to soften my husband's heart and to encourage me to keep taking the matter to the Lord. We are all so happy."

From the Solomon Islands...

"I have a very low self esteem for the last four weeks, but when I read the Above Rubies, I can smile again and have sunshine in my life."

"Thank you very much for the e-mails. I don't like to spend much time at the computer and am always trying to get done and back to "real life", but when I see your e-mails I make a special effort to read (and re-read) them. I have been deeply blessed by them."

"My children like to watch Serene in her DVD, "REJUVENATE with Serene." They think it is sooo funny how she attacks the baby coconut."

"I grew up in a home with a mother who was a die-hard feminist. She did not clean or cook or mother me at all!  Now how am I supposed to mother the beautiful daughters I have been given? I prayed for God to find someone to speak LIFE into my mothering and he sent you and your CDs. My life is different because of your words. I can hear you throughout the day saying "You are doing a GREAT Work."

"I listened to Evangeline's CD about Adventurous Mothering and WOW! It really changed my life. It's like a refreshing river every time I hear it. I've listened to it many times as there is a powerful anointing upon it."

"I ordered the FLOURISHING MOTHER CD set and I am FLOURISHING once again"

I have been listening to your CD sets and have been so encouraged and blessed. My husband and children thank you too."

"I have been encouraged and personally helped across many a difficult moment through the conviction, encouragement and peace God has bestowed on me using your texts. I am especially thinking about the Devotionals, Sowing Seeds of Peace and the ones about Home Destroyers. There is nothing else that can set you right in your mind than God's words. When I cried out to the Lord in my time of distress during a stressful family trip earlier this month, He helped me by leading me to your texts on a public computer in a ski resort in Finnish Lapland. I was the only professing Christian in the company. I was restored in my attitudes and brought to rest by these texts."

"I can't let this day pass without telling you how much I appreciate these beautiful messages that I receive from you. Each one is invaluable. Thank you for reminding me of these precious truths. My daughter is married, although not yet a mother and I often forward your messages to her because they are so inspiring and uplifting. I often send them to other mothers too and I know they are blessed by them."

"Above Rubies has changed my thinking and my heart. I keep back issues close at hand to remind me to persevere."

"Your magazine changed my life! I found your magazine in desperation when I had my

first child and had no idea what I should be doing with her or myself. I prayed and prayed, I drank down the inspiration I received from your magazine and it has changed my life and the life of my descendents forever. I now have THREE children (my husband originally wanted only one!) and am a stay at home Mama who is going to begin homeschooling (I had no idea about this before and now my husband who was against it is going to let me do it.) PRAISE THE MIGHTY LORD."

"I was raised to think the HIGHEST thing I could do was to have a high powered career. But now I KNOW the highest thing I can do is be a Wife and Mother. And my Children will know the same thing."

"My children and I get so excited when Above Rubies arrives. We read it together, cover to cover, ooing and ahhing over the pictures."

"Each issue uplifts me and calls me to a higher standard, convicts and refreshes in one fell swoop."

"Above Rubies always encourages me to be a better wife and mommy!"

"Just as I get upset and start to lose it, I get another magazine."

""Your magazines are my second Bible. My husband is also very blessed with everything I share with him."

"Above Rubies is like candy to me!"

"I keep an issue ofAbove Rubies in the car at all times and even read while waiting for something else. I like to leave my extra issues in doctors and dentists' offices and pray it blesses some weary mom who picks it up."

THE CONSTITUTION

Shannon Hoskovec writes...

"I enjoy your magazine so much. This recent one was very encouraging with your teaching the children about our heritage of Biblical Liberty. I wanted to suggest another book for you that I am currently reading and learning from. It is "The 5000 Year Leap" written by W. Cleon Skousen.

I use a mixture of Classical and Principle Approach in our homeschool. The "red books" are chalk full of original writings from our founding era and works from people the founders read. The book titles are Christian History of the Constitution of the United States, two volumes. You can look them up from Foundation of American Christian Education.

This is an area that my husband and I are very passionate about. We have collaborated with a friend who is trained in the Principle Approach, to put on Lessons in Liberty Seminars here in the Albuquerque, NM area. I speak on the Biblical origins and meaning of Liberty, my husband on the Founder's thoughts of how Liberty is practiced in government, and John talks about applying that Liberty in our homes and civil government. We are hoping to reach many people this year, but all in the Lord's time."

I mentioned in my editorial in Above Rubies that I read through Liberty and Tyranny by Mark Levin with Mercy and some of our older grandchildren. We have now started our next book and it is "The 5000 Year Leap--the 28 Ideas that Changed the World" that Sharon mentions. It is very informative and I would recommend it heartily. Today we read and discussed the 7^th Principle-The proper role of government is to protect equal rights, not provide equal things.

NURSING HOMES

Vickie Matthews, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. writes...