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THE JESUS WAY TO LIVE

JesusWayLiveDavid said in Psalm 4:6: “There are many who say, “Who will show us any good?” In other words, ”Where can I find true happiness?” Some look for happiness in material things, pleasures, entertainment, prestige, or the favor of people around them. David answered his own question. He replied that he found his happiness in knowing the presence of God and His friendship. The GW translation says: “Let the light of your presence shine on us, O LORD.” It is only God who can truly satisfy the longing and deepest desires of our heart. You cannot find it in “things.” You cannot even find it in your closest friend, your husband. Only in God.
 
But there is another thought in this Scripture, “Who will show us good?” Who in this world will show us the true way to soul rest and joy? God reveals Himself through His people. Can God use us to show His goodness to those around us? Acts 10:38 tells us “how God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power: who went about DOING GOOD, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil; for GOD WAS WITH HIM.” Many of us just “go about,” but if Jesus Christ lives in us, we will go about our daily life “doing good.”
 
What a privilege we have as mothers. When we wake up each morning, we have a whole day ahead to “do good” and “say good things” to our children. We are the face of Jesus to our little ones. We can show them “good” all throughout the day.
 
And what about our husband? Proverbs 31:12 says the virtuous woman “will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Not just one day, but EVERY DAY of her life.
 
Dear wife and mother, may you have the most wonderful day today, going about doing, speaking good and doing good things to your husband and children and everyone else you come in contact with.
 
What a great way to live, the way of Emmanuel, God with us.
 
~ Nancy Campbell
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IT’S TIME TO SAY NO

TimeToSayNoThe devil wants our children. He will take the souls, minds, and hearts of our children if we let him. He wants to take them down his road of destruction. We cannot give him an inch or he takes a mile. We must be fierce guarders!
 
Because the devil hates everything that God loves and planned for His creation, he robs women of their God-given home and mothering by wooing them into their careers. He robs children of being raised in the home which is their inheritance. He robs families of more children that God has eternally destined for them by contraception, sterilization, and abortion. He robs marriages through pornography and adultery. He robs our silver and gold by tempting us to spend it on wasted material pleasures instead of God’s kingdom.
 
We see an example in the life of King Ahab. Ben-Hadad, king of Syria sent messengers to king Ahab of Israel: “Thy silver and thy gold is mine; thy wives also and thy children, even the goodliest, are mine.”
 
And what did king Ahab answer? “My lord, O king, according to thy saying, I am thine, and all that I have.” He even stated: “I denied him not” (1 Kings 20: 2, 3, 7). Can you believe it? Because of the fear of man, or because he didn’t have the courage to stand up against king Ben-Hadad, he surrendered to him. He gave up everything that was precious to him.
 
How sad to read such a testimony? And yet we can so easily get caught. God gives us our children to raise for Him and for God’s destiny. And yet we give them to daycares and hand them over to the state education system.
 
Somehow, even some Christian parents don’t mind that their children are taught that Islam is a peaceful religion (while we watch Islamic terror on TV). Many children in state schools have been asked to draw posters of the Five Pillars of Islam and pictures of the Prophet Muhammad, sing Islamic songs, wear Islamic clothes, construct a 3-D model of a mosque, design an Islamic prayer rug, and do calligraphy for “There is no God but Allah and Mohammed is His prophet.” Yes, this is in American schools.
 
Some parents don’t mind that their children are openly taught about alternative lifestyles and that transgender is a choice for them. They may even be ignorant that the gay agenda now pushes their lifestyle in our state schools through books and curriculums (even on-line school). One of their latest books available to schools is “It’s Perfectly Normal” which contains material so sexually explicit that, according to the American Life League, it has been ruled inappropriate for prisoners by a Washington State court.
 
Some parent don’t mind that their children are taught that abortion is a woman’s right. They don’t seem to mind that their children are brainwashed in socialism.
 
Let’s not give in like Ahab. Let’s have the courage to rise up and say No to the enemy! No, to his robbing of all that God has given us.
 
Speak your confession out loud: “I will not give anything to the devil. He has no right over me. I am God’s possession. He has no right over my children, and I will not give him any authority over them. They are God’s possession, and I am their guardian.”
 
It’s time to say No.
 
Blessings to you today,
 
Nancy Campbell
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CAN YOU IMAGINE?

CanYouImagineCan you imagine what the world would be like if God’s people had not limited their families? The land would be filled with righteousness and the image of God. We would have a landslide for righteousness at voting time.

Can you imagine what this nation would be like if all God’s people would start embracing children now instead of aborting and stopping them coming into the world?

Can you imagine what would have happened if families had taken a stand for God when the public education system took payer and the Bible out of schools? What if they had taken their children out of the system? The worldly system would soon have had to change their ways.

Can you image what would happen in the nation if families gathered around their tables each evening to connect and dialogue together instead watching TV or everyone going their various ways? Families would be strengthened and cemented together instead of fragmenting.

Can you imagine what would happen if Bible-believing families gathered their children together each day to read God’s Word to them?

Can you imagine what would happen if every Christian household gathered their families together each day, preferably morning and evening to cry out to God for this nation? What would happen if they started praying for the situation we are in now! We are currently under tyranny? Is EVERY “Christian” family praying? We can quote 2 Chronicles 7:14 by heart, but do we believe it or do anything about it?

Can you imagine what would happen if people would turn off the Fake News and listened to the voice of God instead?

Can you imagine what would happen if every mother began to embrace her divine calling of motherhood and come back to her home to raise God-loving, God-fearing, Bible-adhering, devil-defeating, truth-speaking, holy and upright sons and daughters? Mothers determine the destiny of the nation.

Can you imagine what would have happened if God’s people had not given in to the tyranny we are currently facing. The socialists can only enforce what we bow to. God’s people wear masks and social distance through fear.

Can you imagine what would have happened in the nation that even in the face of lockdowns and tyrannical mandates against God’s people that Christians would have NEVER stopped going to church? Can you imagine that instead of disobeying God’s Word and staying away from their churches, they had instead FILLED and over-filled EVERY church building in this nation? The authorities could have done nothing to the millions standing up for their God and a great move of God would have happened. Instead many hid away, and the churches weakened.

I read that even the “elite” were surprised that there was not more resistance to their demands! Help! What a challenge. Instead we have cowardly submitted.

If only we would get back to God’s ways. Gross darkness of deception and evil is covering the land. It is time for God’s people RISE AND SHINE WITH HIS GLORY (Isaiah 60:1-3).

Let’s rise to be the people He wants us to be. Wow, we can only imagine!

Love from Nancy Campbell

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MORE IDEAS FOR NAME PLACES AT YOUR TABLE

NamePlacesI hope you picked up some ideas from yesterday’s post, BLESS YOUR FAMILY. Here are a few more ideas for you today.
 
Four-Liners
Can you think of four rhyming lines? There is something about rhyme that helps your children to remember. You will also remember them and can recite them to your child/children when you are sitting with them or riding in the car. For example:
 
MEADOW
A beautiful girl who is a delight to the eyes,
From the hand of the Lord she is a special prize!
With her long golden curls and her soft white skin,
She radiates loveliness which comes from within!
 
Limericks
These will take a little more thought to write, but worth it for a special occasion. I love to write limericks for the children. Your children will keep them as memories.
 
EVANGELINE
There’s a lady with flowing red hair
Who always makes everyone stare!
She is so outrageous
And even dangerous
This girl with the flowing red hair!
 
SERENE
A great mother lives in this home
Who brings love and joy and shalom
She shines with glory
As she writes her story
With each precious child in her home.
 
PEARL
I saw a wonderful and happy sight,
It was like a bird that is taking flight,
A mother skipping,
Her feet a-tripping,
A mother happy and filled with delight!
The Meaning of their Name
 
ZADOK
Leading many to righteousness!
 
RASHIDA LA'EL
Pointed in the right direction toward God!
Thank You
 
Sometimes you may like to write a “Thank You” underneath their name, some character trait for which you are thankful or for something they have done for you, e.g.
 
MERCY
Thank you for the privilege of being your mother!
 
JOHN
Thank you for watering my garden every night!
 
COLIN
Thank you for being my faithful and loving husband!
Trust these examples will be of some inspiration to you in your family. You can use the different ideas on different occasions.
You can write these not only for your family, but for visitors when they come to your home too.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
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BLESS YOUR FAMILY

BlessURFamI wonder what you have planned for your family meal table tonight? It’s good to hink of different ways you can bless and encourage your husband and children. One nice idea is to get your children to write a card to their father with all the great things they love about him. They can also draw a picture and make it very special. If you have little ones who cannot write yet, get them to draw a picture for daddy. You can then put them by his plate when he comes to the evening meal. During the meal he can read them aloud. The children will be excited to hear him read them and your husband will be blessed.
 
Every now and then I love to make place cards for each member of the family. This is a lovely way to encourage your husband and children. I keep colored cardboard and paper on hand for this task. I type the name and comment on the computer, print it off on colored paper, and then paste it on a folded cardboard that can stand on its own when folded in half. There are lots of ways you can do this:
 
Encouraging Phrases
 
Type or write their name and underneath their name write an encouraging phrase that starts with the first letter of their name. Here's some examples that I have used with my children and grandchildren over the years.
 
OLIVER
Obedient Son
 
ROCKLYN
Resolute for God
Rhyming Couplets
 
Type, or write their name and underneath write a rhyming couplet. It doesn’t take too long to think of these, and they will really bless your family. Here are some examples I have written for the grandchildren over the years. As you can see, they are very simple rhymes.
 
BOWEN
A very fine boy who can read so well,
We all think that you are real swell!
 
HARRY
The boy with the beautiful, big blue eyes,
There’s no doubt about it, he’ll take the prize!
 
RASHIDA
Industriously planning ways to make money,
But no matter how busy, she always looks sunny!
 
And some for our grown children, one of the many I have written for her!
 
EVANGELINE
Wild and outrageous, but she is a true sage,
The best researcher on curriculums for any age!
 
And don’t forget your husband. I have written many for Colin over the years, e.g.
 
COLIN
He has a great big, kind, and loving heart,
He likes things big and he likes them smart!
 
COLIN
Are there any faithful left in the land?
Yes, he is one of God’s mighty band!
 
That’s enough for today. I’ll give you some more ideas for place cards tomorrow.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
 
P.S. Miraculously I am still here! Thank you, Lord.
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OUR GREEN NIGHT!

GreenNightHave you, or are you planning to have a “Color Night” at your table. Yesterday I shared about a Red Color Night. Today, I am sharing a testimony from Val Stares about when she planned a “Green Color Night” at her table. Val Stares is the Director of Above Rubies in Australia. Val has been with me in the vision of Above Rubies from its very inception when we began in New Zealand over 43 years ago. She and her family moved with us to Australia and after 10 years when we moved on to live in USA, she took over the managing of Above Rubies in Australia. Val is now a great-grandmother like me, and this story happened a number of years ago. But I am sure you will enjoy it.
 
OUR GREEN NIGHT!
 
I was inviting my daughter and son-in-law and family for a meal. I decided on a theme, a color night. I decided to make it green because I could use lots of green vegetables for a nutritious meal.
 
First, I wrote each member of the family a personal invitation in separate envelopes, steamed old stamps off letters and used them, walked down the drive and “posted” them in the letter box when no one was watching (they lived next to us). The next morning I could hear the squeals of delight, as each child discovered their own letter. I instructed each person to wear green, to bring something green and to prepare an explanation to be shared at the table on what their ‘thing’ reminded them of about God.
 
Calais, my 10-year-old granddaughter at the time, wanted to help me set it all up. We went shopping together. It was more fun than it would have been alone, even if it did spoil some of the surprises. I was aware of teaching her true hospitality at the same time. We purchased green plastic cutlery, plates, bowls, serviettes, balloons, streamers, sweets (for a little treat), green drink (yuk) and plastic tumblers. My daughter lent us a green tablecloth and we had the greatest fun setting the table. We raided the garden to put greenery in the center of the table. Calais made green name place settings.
 
I made a special rice dish and colored the rice green. (We normally have brown rice but for this occasion I used white). It included green peppers, parsley, peas, and beans. The men like their meat so it included chicken, which didn’t go green though no one seemed to notice.
 
For dessert I made a lovely healthy steam pudding but colored the custard green! It looked yuk, but if you closed your eyes, it didn’t taste any different.
 
It all looked amazing! There are so very many different colors of greens that we don’t even think about on a daily basis. Everyone joined in and looked the part. After we had eaten, while still seated at the table, we started our sharing time, going around each one at the table.
 
First was Jaeger (8). Firstly he shared his disappointment in not being able to bring the green frog he longed to because he couldn’t find one. He had rather ‘defeatedly’ settled for his green toothbrush. He told us how important it is to keep our teeth that God gave us to chew our food with clean, otherwise they too will turn green! Keeping things clean is part of our Christian duty, especially our hearts.
 
Natalie (the mother) shared next. brought parsley and explained how wonderful God is that He created something so amazing. The parsley roots go down into the brown dirt and draw from the earth nutrients to make it grow. It grows and flourishes in the light of the sun and is watered by the rain, which only makes it grow greener and healthier. The parsley is full of goodness and it was God who provided us with this wonderful food to garnish our meals and bless us with health.
 
Next came Kaylah (3) and Jace (18 months). Kaylah was chosen as the spokesperson. They showed us their handfuls of grass. She explained that God made the grass for the horse to eat. Jace echoed the word horse and grass a number of times and it was evident they were in agreement.
My son-in-law was full of enthusiasm. He had stripped a green vine off one of their passion fruits. Yes, you guessed it. This vine reminded him of abiding in the vine. He had a fine message backed with Scriptures and everyone listened attentively.
 
By now it was Calais’ turn but for some reason she wanted to go last, so we skipped to granddad, my husband Bill. He had a green sock! He held it high and asked who it belonged to. The guilty person owned up and then was asked; "Did you know that God tells you to pick up after yourself and not to leave your things lying around in other people’s places causing them to have to pick up after you?” Some of us weren’t quite clear where that Scripture is found but the message came across loud and clear.
 
Anais (5) had a green plate for which she had found two popsicle sticks, which became hands to make a green clock. She wasn’t quite sure what it reminded her of about God except that God made the time!
 
Paige (7) had a zucchini, and her message was similar to her mother’s but lacking a little detail. Sadly, her closing comment was that she didn’t like them. She confessed she doesn’t know why God makes some things that we don’t like? Her brilliant smile, which she constantly wears, didn’t seem to convince any of us that it was a problem.
 
Then it was Grandma’s turn! (mine). I showed them the money in my hand. Everyone protested. "That’s not green. You said we had to bring something green.” (We don’t have any “green” money in Australia). I just sat there saying nothing while everyone berated me by saying how unfair it was that I should get away with not bringing something green. The verdict was that I had cheated. Finally they settled down and allowed me to speak.
 
I shared that even though the money wasn’t green; it actually was capable of causing an emotion that is likened to “green” when you have it. Could they tell me what that emotion is? The adults were encouraged to give the children a chance to guess.
 
“You see,” I explained, “mine is a ‘hidden green’ and it’s not a good one. This money reminds me to always be thankful to God for His provision and not to rely on other securities such as money or be envious when others have money, and I don’t!”
 
At last it was Calais’ turn. Surely, she must have something brilliant for her to want to wait till last. To our disappointment she produced a green cup and some green cutlery that was left over from setting the table. Like the rest of us she stood up to share. She cleared her throat then proceeded to fire questions at us.
 
“Why are we all here tonight? “ A few weak answers came filtering through. Calais continued in a strong voice, “Because grandma invited us, right?” We nodded our ascent.
 
“What did we have to do?” was the next question. We’re starting to get the hang of it now, so we joined in by answering that we had to wear and bring something green along with a little message.
 
“Right!” said Calais, and then she went round the table commenting on each person’s offering and what they had to say about it. She tied everything up, pulled the whole night together and summarized every one’s offering. We were amazed at this little girl’s ability to do this. We had no idea she had this skill. None of us have it, and because she is home-schooled it isn’t something that she has picked up from others. God has given her this gift and when the opportunity afforded, being comfortable amongst her family, she let herself go.
 
In the shock of the moment I have no idea what she had to say about the cup and utensils. I think that it just paled into insignificance as it dawned on us what God had revealed to us right there at the table.
 
VAL STARES
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Nerang, Gold Coast, Australia
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HAVE YOU TRIED A COLOR NIGHT?

ColorNightWe talked yesterday about making every meal a love affair. This won’t just happen. You need to take time to think about your family meal table. Think about creative things you can do to bless the children. When raising our children, I tried to do something different at the meal table at least one night a week. One of the things our children loved when growing up were COLOR NIGHTS. For example, I would choose a color and put up a notice:
 
“Tonight is RED Night
No admittance unless wearing something Red.
Supper at 6.00 p.m. Please knock before entering.”
 
While they rummaged through drawers and wardrobes to find red clothes (children love to dress up), I set the table with a red tablecloth, adding red candles, napkins, and centerpiece (red flowers if I could find them).
 
I prepared red foods. There are plenty of foods from which to choose, e.g. beets, radishes, red beans, red hot dogs with tomato sauce, tomato soup, potatoes or rice colored with red food coloring, etc. For dessert you can choose red fruits such as pomegranates (when in season), blood oranges, cherries, strawberries, watermelon, or red grapes, etc. Or you can make red jelly or a lovely healthy dessert with red berries.
 
You can also purchase red paper plates and knives and forks, etc. I would often wrap a little gift (something inexpensive) in red paper and put it beside their plate. The children loved these nights and over the years we tried every color of the rainbow!
 
Have fun with your family,
 
Nancy Campbell
 
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MAKE EVERY MEAL A LOVE AFFAIR

EveryMealThere used to be an old saying: “Children should be seen and not heard” I don’t agree with this statement. I believe the table is place for not only eating, but fellowship. Food and fellowship go together. They are TWINS.
 
Of course, we don’t allow children to talk over the top of one another, or to have separate conversations with each other at the table. Fellowship is for building up one another. Therefore, each one takes a turn. We train our children to do what is right and what is etiquette. When they learn the right way at the table, they understand how to act in other situations and other people’s homes.
 
Even in the church situation 1 Corinthians 14:31 says: “For ye may all prophecy ONE BY ONE, that all may learn, and all may be comforted.” Do you notice the words ONE BY ONE? It is chaos when everyone talks at once. But we are all blessed and encouraged when each one takes their turn.
 
Some mothers complain that their husbands don’t help at mealtimes. We all want our husbands to help more, don’t we? But we need to remember that God has given us the task of managing our home. It’s not our husband’s obligation. His responsibility to is to work hard to provide for the home. Of course, it is lovely when he helps with the dishes, sweeps the floor, or takes over preparing the little ones for bed, especially when you have young children. And we trust he will take up his responsibility to lead the family in prayer and Bible reading at the end of the meal.
 
However, when there are older children in the home, they should be trained to take the responsibility to clear the table, do the dishes, and clean the kitchen. If we are not training them, we are not doing our job. The husband who has been working hard all day should not have to do this. But if and when he does, please be grateful to him and thank him. Don’t take it for granted.
 
You are the Queen of your home. You are not expected to do every job in the home. You train and delegate. Every child can do something, even the little ones. In homes where there are older trained children the mothers should be reaping their reward of years of training. They should be able to sit and relax while their children clean up.
 
And one more thing. Can I please encourage you, dear wives and mothers, to change your confession? Some mothers tell me they dislike the family table because of the rabble and confusion that goes on. But this is opposite to God’s plan. God wants to come and join you at your table. He wants to bring His presence to your table. He wants it to be a place of joy, laughter, harmony, and blessing one another.
 
You can begin to make this happen as you change your confession. Begin confessing that you LOVE MEAL TIMES WITH YOUR FAMILY! What you confess will come to pass. Instead of thinking of preparing a meal as another chore, look upon it as sacred task. My goal is TO MAKE EVERY MEAL A LOVE AFFAIR!
 
When you begin preparing a meal, think of how to make your meal a love affair for your family. How can you make your table look special and inviting tonight? How can you best minister to their physical needs? What can you do to get your children interacting together?
Start thinking NOW about what you are going to do at your meal table this evening.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
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ARE YOU A GATHERING FAMILY?

RUGatheringFamilyWhat’s the atmosphere like in your home? What’s it like at meal times? Do you gather together around your table? Talk and fellowship together? Open God’s Word and pray together? Do you do dishes and clean up the kitchen together? Or is Mom left with the mess and everyone goes their merry way?
 
I am aware than in many homes family meal times don’t happen together. Even if they do, mother is left doing dishes while children run off to do their own thing. You can’t run a home this way. Family life is togetherness. Family life means that everyone pulls their weight.
 
Dear mother, you are the one who makes it happen. Don’t allow everyone to do their own thing. Gather the family together. Make the table and your meal so attractive and inviting that they’ll want to come to the table.
 
Think of subjects to discuss with your children at the table rather than enduring small talk that doesn’t interest anyone. And of course, you’ll never allow iPhones at the table! Have a basket where they drop them in as they come to the table. The table is the place to communicate together as a family. To look at one another face to face.
 
The Bible picture of a family that lives in God’s blessing is a family with the children all sitting around the table (Psalm 128:3). God wants to join you at your table. He wants to speak to you all as you open His Word at the end of the meal.
 
Don’t let your family dissipate into their own world and the world of social media while your family fragments away. Satan does not want family togetherness. He is intent on scattering the family in every direction. You must fight against every hindrance. You must push through and make it happen. But what blessed things will happen when you do.
 
Blessings on your home today in the name of Jesus.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
 
P.S. I know this picture looks too perfect and too few children. I am sure you have many more around your table. But oh it is difficult to find pictures with a big family around the table. If you have some, I’d love you to send them to me.
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DO YOU LOVE YOUR CHILDREN?

DoYouLoveChildrenOf course you do. When you become a mother you can hardly grasp how you can love someone so much.
 
But how do you love your children? Sometimes we love with a sloppy love. Instead of training, we laugh at their naughtiness. Some parents fear to discipline and take a stand against unrighteous standards with their young people in case they won’t love them back. They just want to be their friends. Instead of understanding that our children are not only our blessings to dote on, we forget that God has given them to us to train for His purposes.
 
True love wants the best for our children. We don’t want them to grow up disobedient, selfish, lazy, ignorant, and with an entitlement philosophy. We want them to grow up obedient, hard-working, diligent, and well-spoken adults who will bring blessing to this world. We don’t have a low standard, but a high standard for them--a biblical standard.
 
This does not happen automatically. It takes consistent training--day after day. But we will not give up, because we are training them on God’s behalf. They are ultimately God’s children and we are responsible to Him for the way we educate them.
 
Proverbs 19:18 says: “Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.” The Good News Bible challenges us: “Discipline your children while they are young enough to learn. If you don't, you are helping them destroy themselves.”
 
“The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” (Proverbs 29;15). When we give in to our children’s wants and whims instead of training them in righteousness and unselfishness we prepare them for later devastation and maybe even broken marriages.
 
Are we preparing our children for a blessed future or one of sadness and destruction? It takes daily consistency on our part.
 
Be blessed,
 
Nancy Campbell
 
Painting: The picture book by Hermann von Kaulbach.
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WHAT HAPPENS AT YOUR TABLE?

WhatHappenstableAre your family mealtimes often chaotic? Sometimes you want to throw up your hands in despair! The following are some ideas that I have found helpful in maintaining togetherness at our family meal table. Even as you establish these ideas, don’t despair if everything is not perfect. It takes time. But as you keep training you will eventually reap the fruit of glorious times around your table.
 
EVERYONE COMES TO THE TABLE ON TIME
 
I believe it is important to train our children to come to the table the moment we call. Of course, they will know the approximate time of the meal and can anticipate it. They should also be in the kitchen at this time, helping with the meal and setting the table, so they shouldn’t be too far away.
 
SET THE TABLE ATTRACTIVELY
 
The Bible speaks about SETTING the table. Proverbs 9:2 (CJB) says: “She has prepared her food, spiced her wine, and she has set her table.” A lovely set table draws the family to come. Use a tablecloth. Maybe even add candles or a centerpiece. This is not extra work for you if you train your children. Organize them to take turns and have competitions to see how attractively they can make the table.
 
If you are in the stage with little toddlers and can’t imagine the thought of washing an extra tablecloth, purchase a pretty one and cover it with clear plastic. All you have to do is wipe it down at the end of the meal.
 
THINK OF SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT
 
Have you noticed that if you don’t prepare something to talk about, the conversation goes nowhere? It is often quite boring and shallow. When I prepare the meal, I like to also think about what we will discuss at the evening meal.
 
Ask the children a question (and make sure everyone at the table gets an opportunity to share their point or view). Or bring a subject to the table for them to discuss (and once again, make sure each one takes a turn to speak, even the youngest child). This changes your table time from nothingness to wonderful memories—or even a riot or a revival! I can remember when sometimes one of our children would stand up on their chairs with their fingers waiving to make sure they got their point across! Our table was never boring.
 
If you are at a loss to think of subjects, go to DINNER TIME CONVERSATIONS: http://aboverubies.org/.../797-family-meal-table-dinner...
 
ONE CONVERSATION ONLY
 
Although we allowed our children freedom to speak, we only allowed one at a time. We never allow separate conversations to carry on at the table. Everyone must be focused on the subject the whole family is discussing. It is not etiquette for some people at the table to personally speak to each other when there is a family discussion in progress. Children should also learn this etiquette for when they visit other families. They should give undivided attention to the focus of discussion at the table.
 
BAN IPHONES
 
I do not allow iPhones at the table. The table is a time of family togetherness. We come to interact and communicate with one another, not other people who are not at the table. To do this is the height of rudeness!
 
STAY UNTIL THE END
 
I expect everyone to stay at the table until the meal is finished. That means staying until we have enjoyed Family devotions together—the reading of God’s Word and prayer. In the Netherlands, they call Family Devotions “Finishing up the Meal.” Reading God’s Word and praying together is how they finish up their meal! This also means not popping up and down throughout the meal.
 
CLEAR THE TABLE AFTER PRAYER
 
I have found that if we begin to clear the dishes away from the table before devotions, it is difficult to get everyone back to the table again. Once they are up, they start disappearing. Therefore, we do not clear the plates away until we have enjoyed our reading the prayer together.
 
Many blessings to you from Nancy Campbell
 
Photographic Print: Family Eating Together at Dinner Table by William P. Gottlieb : William Gottlieb (1917 - 2006).
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OPEN FACES

OpenFaces“You are our letter, known and read by everyone” (2 Corinthians 3:2). In our homes and everywhere we go, we should reveal the character of Jesus for people are reading us. And how do they read us? Through our faces. Let’s not hide the glory of God.

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THE FAMILY MEAL TABLE

OverAMealOh how true. To gather family and friends around your table is one of the most enjoyable things in life. How wonderful to share, fellowship, discuss, tell stories, laugh, and even cry together. My favorite times of every day, especially as we end our meals with reading God’s Word and praying together.

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SO MUCH THE MORE

PullAwayAre you off to church today? We need one another more than ever, don't we?
 
"We know that we have passed from death unto life because we love the brethren" (1 John 3;14). We cannot say we love the brethren if we don't want to be with them or can't be bothered to make the effort to be with them. And if we don't love our brothers and sisters in Christ, are we truly born again?
 
~ Nancy
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YOUR COMFORTER

YourComforterOne of the names of our God is the “God of all comfort” (2 Corinthians 1:3). Did you notice that He is the God of ALL comfort? We need God’s comfort in different ways as we face different situations in our lives. But there is nothing that is too painful for God’s comfort.
 
He is also El Shaddai, the God of tender love and compassion. It is a beautiful word. “El” speaks of God’s might and power. The word “Shaddai” translates “the breast of God.” The root of “Shaddai” is “shad” and literally means “breast.”
 
It is a picture of God, who like a nursing mother, loves to gather us in His arms and tenderly comfort and nurture us. We see a little glimpse of this in Isaiah 40:31: "He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom and shall gently led those that are with young.”
 
The blessing God gives over Joseph says: “The God of thy father, who shall help thee; and by the Almighty (Shaddai), who shall bless thee with the blessings of heaven above, blessings of the deep that lieth under, blessings of the breasts, and of the womb” (Genesis 49:25).
 
The Hebrew word for “womb” is “racham.” This word means “compassion, mercy, tender love.” The amazing thing is that this word is used interchangeably in God’s Word to describe the mercies and compassion of God and also the womb of a woman! Same word!
 
God’s comfort comes from His breast (from His heart) and also from the very bowels of His womb of compassion and tender mercies. As a mother, you have much need of His comfort, counsel, and comfort. As you find your nourishment in Him, you then minister it to your children. As you find Him as your solace and source of strength, stability, and comfort, He ministers into your life, so you can comfort others (2 Corinthians 1:3-6).
 
As mothers, our “others” are first the children God has given us. God has wondrously created us in His image to reveal His nurturing heart and His compassion and tender love. This anointing comes from God Himself and He has put it divinely within us. And even more! He created us physically to reveal these powerful attributes. He created us with the blessings of breasts and the womb. As we embrace the function of the breasts and the womb in childbearing, we reveal the image of God. We become pourers of God’s nurture, compassion, and tender love.
 
How privileged we are. Embrace who God created you to be. Find God as your El Shaddai and then as a little “shad” pour out His love and nurture to your babies, children, and to the hurting around you.
 
In His love,
 
Nancy Campbell
 
Belgium painting: Armand Rassenfosse - Maternité, 1921
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YOU CAN CHANGE PEOPLE’S LIVES

ChangePeoplsLivesHave you thought much about salutations? They have power to affect people’s lives. What do you say when you greet your husband each morning? I am sure you start with the wonderful words, “I love you.”
 
And what about your children? When you go out to the breakfast table do you greet them with positive and loving words?
“Good morning, my most amazing and incredible children.”
“I love you and I love being your mother!”
“Good morning to my mighty world changers.”
 
And what about other people? Paul wrote to the Colossian believers: “To the saints and faithful brethren in Christ. . . Grace be unto you, and peace, from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.” Do you notice that he called them “saints” and “faithful”? The word “saints” is “hagios” and means “holy, set apart, sanctified, consecrated, and pure.” He greeted them with positive words: “holy and faithful.”
 
Why don’t we try to encourage people when we meet them? How lovely to greet friends in a way that will uplift their souls:
“So great to see you today, dear faithful friend. How are you?”
“What a joy to see your smiling face. You light up my day.”
“What a joy to see you. May you be blessed today.”
“How wonderful to meet another sanctified saint.”
 
Bring encouragement to your husband and children today. Change someone’s life every time you open your mouth.
 
Be encouraged and blessed,
 
Nancy Campbell
 
Painting by Mary Cassatt
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EXPOSING THE DECEPTION/REVEALING THE TRUTH

BarringtonDeclarationDid you know that 130 million people will starve this coming year as a result of the economic damage from lockdowns? Awhile back I posted a note about the GREAT BARRINGTON DECLARATION? In case you missed it, I am posting it again. The GREAT BARRINGTON DECLARATION is a petition you can sign if you are concerned about the continuing lockdowns in our nation. You can read about it and then sign the petition by going to the following link:
Already over 40,000 medical practitioners have signed this petition, plus over 13,000 medical and public health scientists, and over 700,000 concerned citizens. You can also add your name.
~ Nancy
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WHEN DO WE STOP MOTHERING?

WhenStopMotheringDear precious ladies, we don’t stop mothering when our children leave the nest. We increase in mothering. It won’t be long, and grandchildren will come. These years go quickly and then another generation begins.
Life as a mother is meant to enlarge, broaden, and unfold more and more into the fulfillment of God’s plan for families. We keep on mothering. Plus we have a new responsibility to encourage and teach the new generation of young mothers.
 
How do the new generation of mothers know what to do unless the older generation teaches them? It is sad that in many homes today young women grow up not knowing how to cook or run a home. Many of them are unfamiliar with babies. If there were only two children in the family, they haven’t experienced babies around them as they grew up. They are unprepared for mothering and homemaking.
 
This is not how God intends it to be. He has COMMANDED the older women to teach the young women HOW to love their husbands, HOW to love their children, and HOW to be keepers at home, etc. Read it all in Titus 2:3-5 (JBP). It’s not enough to teach them. They must show them how.
 
Can I ask: How can they show them how if they are no longer interested in mothering? I believe that we as older mothers should continue to seek God for His plan for us as women. I continually cry out to God to show me His ways for us as women and I am amazed that after all these years God continues to show me more and more of His beautiful plan for wives and mothers in His Word. Sadly, most older women do not even know God’s ways to pass them on to the younger generation.
 
To teach the new generation, we as older women must continue in the anointing of motherhood. Continuing to mother. Overflowing in it. Immersing ourselves in it. And seeking to faithfully and continually teach it to the new generation of mothers.
 
The Titus 2 passage ends with very strong words. It tells us that if the older women are not faithful to teach the younger women the truths of wifehood, motherhood, and homemaking that the Word of God will be BLASPHEMED! Wow, that’s a strong word. I’m glad the Bible said it and not me or you’d be wanting to throw rocks at me!
 
Why does God use such a strong word? I believe it is because if mothers do not embrace their role of mothering and the beautiful place of the home God has provided for them to raise their children, they show an opposite picture of God’s ultimate plan. And this is blasphemy to God.
 
Blessings to you today,
Nancy Campbell
 
P.S. Older mothers, let’s keep getting Above Rubies and pass it out to the younger generation of mothers. Let’s pass it on to our daughters and daughters-in-law. Let’s keep getting the message out. Email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. if you need extra copies of the Above Rubies magazine, the most wonderful magazines to encourage marriage and motherhood.
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GRANT US WISDOM AND COURAGE

GrantUsWe sang this hymn at our Family Devotions this morning. Powerful words for these times.
 
GRANT US WISDOM AND COURAGE
 
God of grace and God of glory,
On thy people pour thy power;
Crown the ancient church's story;
Bring its bud to glorious flower.
Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,
For the facing of this hour,
For the facing of this hour.
 
Lo! the hosts of evil round us,
Scorn thy Christ, assail his ways!
From the fears that long have bound us,
Free our hearts to love and praise.
Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,
For the living of these days,
For the living of these days.
 
Cure thy children's warring madness,
Bend our pride to thy control;
Shame our wanton, selfish gladness,
Rich in things and poor in soul.
Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,
Lest we miss thy kingdom's goal,
Lest we miss thy kingdom's goal.
 
Set our feet on lofty places;
Gird our lives that they may be
Armoured with all Christlike graces,
Pledged to set all captives free.
Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,
That we fail not them nor thee,
That we fail not them nor thee!
 
Save us from weak resignation
To the evils we deplore;
Let the search for thy salvation
Be our glory evermore.
Grant us wisdom, grant us courage,
Serving thee whom we adore,
Serving thee whom we adore.
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THE FIRST AMENDMENT

firstamendmentAs Colin and I were walking down Pennsylvania, going home from the Trump Rally I noticed the First Amendment written in huge letters on the side of a building. I was so blessed to see it and to think this is what we had come to DC for, to stand up for our freedom. Here it was written plainly for everyone to read and yet it is being pulled out from underneath our feet!
 
When I returned home, I searched to read more about the building to find that it is being sold and the new owner wants to take down these powerful words which are the foundation of our nation.
 
Consequently there is now a petition you can sign to keep these words plainly on view at 555 Pennsylvania is Ave.
 
“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances.”
 
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