Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

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Strengthening Families Across the World through the encouragement of women in their high calling from God as wives, mothers and homemakers.

DO YOU FINISH WHAT YOU BEGIN?

FinishStartIt is a good habit to finish one thing before you start another. We see examples of this in the apostle Paul’s life.
 
Paul longed to come and see the believers in Spain, but he told them he couldn’t come until he FINISHED his current task which was to take contributions from the church to the poor believers in Jerusalem (Romans 15:28).
 
Paul asks the Galatians believers in Galatians 3:3 who were trying to gain their salvation by doing the works of the law? “Are you so foolish? Although you began with the Spirit, are you now trying to finish by human effort?”
 
We have to watch this too, don’t we? We can begin a project in the power of the Holy Spirit and gravitate to doing it by our own human effort. God wants us to finish in the anointing of the Holy Spirit too.
 
It was Paul’s habit to complete and finish his missions. He states in Acts 20:24: “But none of these things move me (the fact they he was going to face prison and afflictions), neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might FINISH my course with joy, and the ministry which I have received of the Lord Jesus.”
 
Toward the close of his life he confesses in 2 Timothy 4:7: “I have fought the good fight, I have FINISHED the race, I have kept the faith.”
 
JESUS also finished the work God gave Him to do.
 
John 4:34: “My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to FINISH His work.”
 
John 17:4: “I have FINISHED the work which thou gavest me to do.”
 
John 19:30: “Jesus said, It is FINISHED: and he bowed his and gave up the ghost.”
 
May we also be task finishers.
 
Blessings to you today,
 
Nancy Campbell
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REJOICING HOMES

RejoicingHomesGod told the tribe of Issachar "to rejoice in their homes" (Deuteronomy 33:18). The word for homes is “ohel” and it means “a covering, a dwelling place.” It can be used of a hut or a palace! It speaks of a home for animals or for a king.
 
Maybe you are living in cramped quarters. It feels like a hut! You long for more room. Can I encourage you to keep rejoicing? When Moses spoke those words to Issachar, they were living in temporary tents! They had no mod cons. No store down the road to run to if they ran out of something. And God wanted them to rejoice.
 
Rejoicing is a powerful attribute. It allows God to work in our lives and in our circumstances. When we complain and whine, we keep ourselves in our self-pity dungeon! And we stay miserable!
 
When we rejoice, our circumstances may not change, but our heart changes and we can face insurmountable odds with the joy of the Lord.
 
Do you remember the time when David came back from battle to his home city of Ziklag? They found it burned to the ground with fire. That would be enough to make you depressed. But the Amalekites had also taken all their wives, sons, and daughters captive! They were left with nothing. They all lifted up their voices and wept until they could weep no more! The men were so upset they wanted to stone David!
 
David was so distraught! But then the Bible tells us that “David encouraged himself in the LORD his God” (1 Samuel 30:6). When David took his eyes off his devastating circumstances and directed his heart to the Lord, God was able to give David the strategy and he and his men recovered every wife and all their children. Verse 19 says “David recovered all.”
 
David had no answer to their terrible catastrophe while he was in a state of despair. We can’t hear from God when we are filled with bitterness, unforgiveness, and moaning. But when by faith we look to the Lord and rejoice in Him, things begin to change. It’s a biblical principle (Job 13:15 and Habakkuk 3:17, 18).
 
Fill your home with rejoicing today.
 
Blessings to you from Nancy Campbell
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MY WOBBLY FAITH

WobblyFaithThe other week I did a podcast with Rebecca Southey from New Zealand (who was staying with us at the time) where she tells her story of God’s grace and blessing upon her life. She mentioned on the podcast of how I printed a testimony by her mother, Maureen Green, who gave birth to a spinal bifida daughter. Can you believe it? It was printed in the No. 3 issue of Above Rubies, away back in 1978! Here’s the testimony.
 
MY WOBBLY FAITH
 
How thrilled and grateful I was when my young daughter, Lois gave birth to a big bouncing baby boy. She had a perfect pregnancy and an easy natural birth. Little Joshua was my 15th grandchild, so why was it so special?
 
I thought back to a day 21 years ago when I lay on a hospital bed with a gynecologist/physician/surgeon surrounding me saying that this pregnancy must be terminated! This was because of my acute physical condition and the risk of childbirth. My previous pregnancies and births had been very difficult, and they did not think I could survive this one.
 
I was faced with an issue of life and death. How could I destroy life which God had put within me? No. I couldn’t allow it, even at risk to myself. I remember saying to the physician, “My faith is wobbly, but I will wobble on with the help of God” and I went through the pregnancy.
 
Lois was born with difficulty at five weeks premature, RH negative, and spinal bifida! She was operated on at two days old to close the opening. After the operation there was no reaction or sign of reflexes. Her legs just dangled. The doctor said they had done all they could.
 
My husband and I had many times experienced a touch from the Lord and so we turned to Him again. We took her to Wellington where a visiting evangelist from America prayed for her.
 
Nothing apparent happened, but my husband, being a man of faith, kept telling the Lord what we had read in His word: “They shall lay hands on the sick and they shall recover” (Mark 16:18). Each night as we put her to bed he would say, “Lord, we’re still waiting. We thank You that this baby will walk.”
 
The night she was one year old we were bathing her and suddenly she moved, and her legs kicked for the first time. What excitement as the whole family came crowding in the tiny little bathroom. Such shouting and rejoicing.
 
From this day on she grew stronger and began to hold her head which she could not do before. We decided to treat her from this day just as we had our other five children.
 
We had many opportunities to tell of Jesus and His love through what people saw happening over a space of time.
 
At 15 years she was last seen by the specialist who was surprised that she was just like any normal girl. However, he did say that if one day she should marry and have a child that she would need to give birth by c-section. How wonderful is the goodness of God that she had a beautiful natural delivery.
 
We have been a family who have known what it is to have sickness come our way, but we have seen the Lord’s hand on our lives and have been granted the ability to rise above it.
 
I strongly recommend this wonderful friend, Jesus Christ, to anyone needing healing, whether it be spiritual, physical, or emotional.
 
MAUREEN GREEN (who passed away many years ago).
 
(Maureen was also Sue’s mother who did the podcast, A LIFE POURED OUT, and Rebecca’s mother who shared her story in the podcast, GOD’S FAITHFULNESS.
Here's the link to Rebecca’s great testimony.
 
 
Picture: Cover of Above Rubies, No. 3. I wonder if anyone in the world still has this copy of Above Rubies!
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THE LORD’S PRAYER

ThyKingdomComeI can’t believe it. I found the following on my computer the other day—and it was sent to me in 2000, 25 years ago! So here it is. Hope it’s a blessing to you.
 
THE LORD’S PRAYER
 
(A little dialogue between God and someone).
 
“Our Father which art in heaven . . .”
 
“Yes?"
 
"Don't interrupt me. I'm praying."
 
"But you called Me."
 
"Called you? I didn't call You. I'm praying. ‘Our Father which art in Heaven . . .’”
 
"There . . . you did it again."
 
"Did what?"
 
“Called Me. You said, ‘Our Father which art in heaven.’ Here I am. What's on your mind?"
 
“But I didn't mean anything by it. I was, you know, just saying my prayers for the day. I always say The Lord's Prayer. It makes me feel good, kind of like getting a duty done."
 
"All right. Go on."
 
"Hallowed be thy name . . .”
 
"Hold it! What do you mean by that?"
 
"By what?"
 
"By ‘hallowed be thy name?’”
 
"It means, it means, good grief! I don't know what it means. How should I know? It's just a part of the prayer. By the way, what does it mean?"
 
"It means honored, holy, wonderful."
 
"Hey, that makes sense. I never thought about what ‘hallowed’ meant before.
 
“Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven."
 
"Do you really mean that?"
 
"Sure, why not?"
 
"What are you doing about it?"
 
"Doing? Nothing, I guess! I just think it would be kind of neat if You got control of everything down here like You have up there."
 
"Have I got control of you?"
 
"Well, I go to church."
 
"That isn't what I asked you. What about your bad temper? You've really
got a problem there, you know. And then there's the way you spend your money all on yourself. And what about the kind of books you read?"
 
"Stop picking on me! I'm just as good as some of the rest of those people at the church."
 
“Excuse me. I thought you were praying for My will to be done. If that
is to happen, it will have to start with the ones who are praying for it, like you, for example."
 
"Oh, all right. I guess I do have some hang-ups. Now that you mention it, I could probably name some others."
 
"So could I."
 
"I haven't thought about it very much until now, but I really would like to cut out some of those things. I would like to . . . you know . . . be really free."
 
"Good, now we're getting somewhere! We'll work together, you and I. Some victories can truly be won. I'm proud of you."
 
"Look, Lord, I need to finish up here. This is taking a lot longer than it usually does. ‘Give us this day, our daily bread.’”
 
"You need to cut out the bread. You're overweight as it is."
 
"Hey, wait a minute! What is this? 'Criticize me day?' Here I was doing my religious duty and all of a sudden You break in and remind me of all my hang-ups."
 
"Praying is a dangerous thing. You could wind up changed, you know. That's what I'm trying to get across to you. You called Me, and here I am. It's too late to stop now. Keep praying. I'm interested in the next part of your prayer (pause). Well, go on!"
 
"I'm scared to."
 
"Scared? Of what?"
 
"I know what You'll say."
 
"Try me and see."
 
“Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us."
 
"What about Ann?"
 
"See? I knew it! I knew you would bring her up! Why Lord, she's told lies about me, spread stories about my family. She never paid back the debt she owes me. I've sworn to get even with her!"
 
"But your prayer? What about your prayer?"
 
"I didn't mean it."
 
"Well, at least you're honest. But it's not much fun carrying that load of bitterness around inside, is it?
 
"No, but I'll feel better as soon as I get even. Boy, have I got some plans for that neighbor. She'll wish she had never moved into this neighborhood."
 
"You won't feel any better. You'll feel worse. Revenge isn't sweet. Think of how unhappy you already are. But I can change all that."
 
"You can? How?"
 
"Forgive Ann. Then I'll forgive you. Then the hate and sin will be Ann's problem and not yours. You will have settled your heart."
 
"Oh, you're right. You always are. And more than I want to revenge Ann, I want to be right with You. Ann, I want to be right with you . . . (pause) . . . (sigh). All right! Alright! I forgive her! Help her to find the right road in life, Lord. She's bound to be awfully miserable now that I think about it. Anybody who goes around doing the things she does to others has to be out of it. Someway, somehow, show her the right way."
 
"There now! Wonderful! Now do you feel?"
 
"Hmmm . . . well, not bad. Not bad at all. In fact, I feel pretty great! You know, I don't think I'll have to go to bed uptight tonight for the first time since I can remember. Maybe I won't be so tired from now on because I'm not getting enough rest."
 
"You're not through with your prayer. Go on."
 
"Oh, all right. ‘And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.’"
 
"Good! Good! I'll do that. Just don't put yourself in a place where you can be tempted."
 
"What do you mean by that?"
 
"Don't turn on the TV when you know the laundry needs to be done and the
house needs to be picked up. Also, about the time you spend having coffee with your friends. If you can't influence the conversation to positive things, perhaps you should rethink the value of those friendships. Another thing, your neighbors and friends shouldn't be your standard for ‘keeping up with.’ And please don't use Me for an escape hatch."
 
"I don't understand the last part."
 
"Sure you do. You've done it a lot of times. You get caught in a bad situation. You get into trouble and then you come running to Me, ‘Lord, help me out of this mess, and I promise You I'll never do it again.’ You remember some of those bargains you tried to make with Me?"
 
"Yes, and I'm ashamed, Lord. I really am."
 
"Which bargain are you remembering?"
 
"Well, there was the night that Bill was gone and the children and I were
home alone. The wind was blowing so hard I thought the roof would go any
minute and tornado warnings were out. I remember praying, 'Oh God, if
You spare us, I'll never skip my devotions again.’”
 
"I protected you, but you didn't keep your promise, did you?"
 
"I'm sorry, Lord. I really am. Up until now I thought that if I just prayed The Lord's Prayer every day, then I could do what I liked. I didn't expect anything to happen like it did."
 
"Go ahead and finish your prayer."
 
"For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever. Amen."
 
"Do you know what would bring me glory? What would really make Me happy?"
 
"No, but I'd like to know. I now want to please You. I can see what a mess I've made of my life. And I can see how great it would be to really be one of Your followers."
 
"You just answered the question."
 
"I did?"
 
"Yes, the thing that would bring Me glory is to have people like you truly love Me. And I see that happening between us. Now that some of these old sins are exposed and out of the way, well, there is no telling what we can do together."
 
"Oh, Lord, let's see what we can make of me, okay?"
 
"Yes, let's see."
 
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THINK OF THE POSSIBILITY!

ThinkOfPossibilties
 
The following is one of my favorite quotes by General William Booth, Founder of the Salvation Army.
 
"Think of the possibility of raising a multitude of men and women whose bodies have never been poisoned by vicious indulgences, whose minds have been enlightened and filled with the principles of divine truth from their infancy, and whose hearts, from their earliest days, have been inspired with the love of Christ and possessed with the one supreme ambition to GLORIFY THE FATHER, DETHRONE THE DEVIL, DESTROY SIN, AND SAVE THE WORLD!"
 
God has given to parents a great vision and purpose. We haven't got time for lesser things. We have a world to influence with glorious gospel of Jesus Christ as we prepare our children for their destiny.
 
~ Nancy
 
Painting: Three Brothers by Wilhelm Palmer, 1898
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Old-Fashioned Believers

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How richly and how deeply are your children filled with God’s word and His principles?

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LIVE IN THE GLORY

MotheringDay

May you enjoy a blessed mothering day.
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YOU ARE IN GOD’S PERFECT WILL

InGodsWillDear lovely mother . . .
 
I want to remind you today that as you mother, nurture, and train your children in your home that you are in the perfect will of God.
 
When God gives His children to you (for they are ultimately His children) to raise and train for Him, He doesn’t give them to you to give to someone else. He knows that no one else in the world will love them, ache for them, protect them, and give their lives for them like YOU, their own mother. Mothers and babies are bound together. Mothers and children are bound together until they reach the age of maturity and are ready to charge out on their own.
 
I want to also remind you that because you are doing the will of God that you will abide forever. Here is the promisein 1 John 2:15-17: “Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world, And THE WORLD PASSESTH AWAY and the lust thereof: but HE THAT DOETH THE WILL OF GOD ABIDETH FOREVER.”
 
Sometimes you may feel like you would like to be out in the career world and doing important things. Let me tell you dear mother, that that kind of lifestyle is going to pass away as the Scripture says. You won’t take your career into Heaven with you. It will be left behind. Not a memory of it.
 
But you will take into Heaven your redeemed soul and the redeemed souls of your children who are eternal beings. Motherhood is an eternal career.
 
Rejoice that you are fulfilling God’s will. God sees your service which is ultimately unto Him. You may feel that you are hidden away, but as you are faithful to fulfil your calling, there is a day coming (and it comes too quickly) that from your home will come children who are polished and trained to bring God’s salvation and truth to the world, who will shine God’s light into the darkness, and who will overcome the evil.
 
You couldn’t be doing anything more powerful.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
 
 
Painting: Thomas Little
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VASECTOMY CAUSED PROBLEMS

VasectomyCausedProblemsWhen I was a young mother of two children I was given a stack of Above Rubies magazines. I gleaned messages from each magazine that were valuable to my life at the time. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would have a large family or homeschool.
 
The Lord saved my husband's soul when my third born son, Isaiah (God is Salvation) was born and God led us to surrender our family size to Him. We kept building our wall. My sixth child, Nehemiah was born in 2019, and that year God gave my husband the gift of sobriety.
 
Nehemiah, and our seventh born, Jeremiah, were such difficult babies. My husband decided we would have one last girl, and he would get a vasectomy. Baby eight was a delightful little boy, Elijah Zion.
 
In spring of 2024 we welcomed our beautiful little Zinniah Blossom—our one last girl and my husband scheduled his vasectomy. With the finality of sterility, my heart ached for the children we would never meet. I held the conviction to allow God to create with our bodies so near to my heart.
 
I was advised by people much wiser to submit to my husband. He was a good man, of sober mind, and who loved the Lord. I tried to make my heart obey but it would not, and I threw the tantrum of my life when the month of his surgery came around.
 
We fought. I tried to hurt him with my words as badly as his decision was hurting me. It created a huge chasm in our marriage. A few weeks after his vasectomy my husband started having side effects that completely destroyed our sex life. These symptoms worsened as the weeks went by.
 
We went to counseling to work on the issues that stirred up this trial. We prayed together every single night without fail. The Lord answered us with a unified direction for my husband to have a vasectomy reversal.
 
During this time my husband decided to donate to Above Rubies for the first time and shortly after the most recent magazine, #102, was mailed to me. I couldn't believe that the first time my husband donated to this ministry was to put an issue about vasectomy reversals into my hands. What a blessed comfort each and every story was to my soul.
 
At Christmas, just four months after his initial vasectomy he had a reversal. God allowed us to schedule at the perfect time for my husband's work with the surgeon we felt was the best choice. The entire process was such a deep valley with so much provision from God.
 
My husband is now healed of all the side effects that destroyed our marriage bed. He is so proud that we are expecting a little baby soul from our Lord this Thanksgiving, our 10th baby that I never thought I'd have the privilege to carry.
 
The Lord fought this battle for me in entirety. I didn't need to force my will on my husband. God's will cannot be thwarted. Now as we stand on this mountain, I cannot believe I'm writing this. We are better than before. Our love is covered in daily prayer, and we have surrendered our will to our Father God.
 
CHELSIE PANELLA
Oconomowoc, Wisconsin
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Picture: Michael and Chelsie with the beautiful children God has given to them.
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DON'T BE HOODWINKED

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Motherhood is your most important career and the highest calling God has given to women.

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HOME IS THE NEST

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The home is the nest God provided for mothers to raise their children.
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MORE THAN OUR DAILY FOOD

MoreThanDailyFoodCurrently we are reading through the book of Job in our Family Devotions. This morning we were encouraged by Job 23:12: “Neither have I gone back from the commandment of his lips: I have esteemed the words of this mouth more than mmy necssary food.”
 
The CJB translation and most others say: “I TREASURE his words MORE THAN my daily food.” Can we truly say these words? I believe this challenge comes to us personally and collectively as a family. I love my time in God’s Word each morning before everyone else is up. I treasure this time. I treasure God’s words. This is the exact meaning of the Hebrew word, “to treasure, to hide, to store up.” It’s the same word as Psalm 119:11: “Thy word have I HID in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.” Read also Psalm 40:7, 8; Proverbs 2:1; 4:20, 21; 7:1; and Jeremiah 31:33.
 
I’m a great believer in the words of the old Chinese saint who used to say: “No Bible; no breakfast!” He wouldn’t feed his body until he fed his soul and spirit.
 
But it is not enough to treasure God’s word pesonally. I believe we must treasure it as a family. Of course, if we treasure it more than our daily food, we’ll make sure that we are gathering our family together each day to feed them spiritually. We feed our family at least three good physical meals a day and often snacks in between. Are we feeding the spiritual inner man of our children MORE THAN that?
 
I think the least we can do is to have our morning and evening Bible time together. Anything less than this shows very clearly that we do not treasure God’s living and eternal Word.
 
Are you a family that can say, “We treasure God’s Word more than our daily food”?
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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BE EXCEPTIONAL

BeExceptional

Dear mother, all the little things you do in your home each day add up to big things. Keep being faithful. It is precious in the eyes of God.

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THE ANOINTING OF MOTHERHOOD

AnoitingMotherhoodToday I send my love and blessings and encouragement to all mothers—the mothers who are feeling overwhelmed with little ones running around your feet, mothers with one or two children, mothers with loads of children, mothers with middling children, mothers with grown children, mothers who are lonely and feel forgotten by their children, mothers who could not give birth physically but who have embraced children into their home, mothers who have no children but are nurturing the needy and hurting around them from the mothering anointing God has put within them. May you all be blessed and encouraged today from the Father above who designed motherhood.
 
God’s heart is for mothers. He so loved mothers that He planned for His own beloved Son, the Lord of Glory to come to this earth in the womb of a mother. Who could have ever thought of this but God? And it reveals the intensity and importance He places upon motherhood. Without mothers, and yes, without the womb of mothers, the world would soon come to a halt.
 
Not every mother has the privilege to give birth to a baby, but every woman is created with the anointing to nurture and to mother. It is innately within her by divine creation. This is why the eradication of the word “mother” is a slap in the face against women. God used the word “mother” before there was a mother on the earth (Genesis 2:24 and 3:20). It was His design and plan from before the foundation of the world!
 
Oh, mothers. You are not insignificant! You are part of God’s glorious plan. Don’t listen to the lies of the world. I want to remind you today that you are in the most elevated career God has given to women. God has placed mothering above every other career in the nation. Read the allegory in Ezekiel 19:10-14. In God’s eyes you are exalted! The highest of all. Above every other career.
 
God is looking in love on all mothers today, even those who have never given birth. Some of the greatest mothers in history have been women who have never given birth. We think of Gladys Aylward (the little English woman who rescued hundreds of children to safety in China), Mary Slessor, Amy Carmichael, Lillian Trasher (founder of the first orphanage in Egypt) and so many others who poured out of their mothering and nurturing hearts to minister to so many needy souls.
 
And we cannot forget the late Mother Theresa who mothered more children than any mother in the last century. She never gave birth to a child but lived in the anointing of motherhood.
 
Motherhood is far more than birthing a baby. It is the revelation of the mothering heart of God to the world. It is the fulfillment and glory of every female.
 
I think of my own sister who was not able to have children. She experienced a “long” pregnancy as she waited and prayed and agonized for a child and eventually, after years and much heartache, God blessed her with a precious little baby from China. My sister was a mother before she ever received Promise, her little Chinese baby. She mothered everything she could get her hands on. She mothered animals like her babies. But then God blessed her with her long-awaited promise, the greatest joy of her life. Promise has now grown into a beautiful young woman as Kate has mothered her through the years and will soon be married in a few months.
 
Dear precious and lovely mothers, whatever state or season of motherhood you are in, God has not forgotten you. His heart is for you and for you as a mother. Because He loves mothers and He loves motherhood. If you are on God’s side, you will love motherhood too. Don’t endure it. Love it and embrace it with all your heart and you will live in the glory God intends for you as a woman!
Never be ashamed of motherhood. It is precious to the heart of God.
 
Much love and blessings to you today,
 
Nancy Campbell
 
 
Beautiful painting: “Motherly Love” by Gabriele Baber
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HOT AND SPICY

HoytSpicySome time back I did a podcast with Erin Harrison about the GLORY OF OUR KITCHENS. On this podcast we talked about how a husband wants nothing more than “A warm welcome, a warm meal on the table, and a warm bed (meaning more than an electric blanket). It was one of the most popular podcasts on LIFE TO THE FULL w/ Nancy Campbell
 
However, after doing the podcast, I realized I needed to notch it up further and make it a . . .
 
HOT AND SPICY WELCOME
Don’t just yell Hi from the kitchen when your husband comes home. Get up from what you are doing. Go to the door or walk toward your husband and welcome him with open arms and a loving and lingering kiss. Tell him how happy you are to see him. A warm welcome is nice, but a hot and spicy welcome is even nicer!
 
HOT AND SPICY MEAL
Make a lovely nutritious meal for your husband and family but make it spicy and full of flavor too. Bland food is boring. Spice up your food with herbs and spices and if you are up to it, hot peppers too. Basic, wholesome food changes from satisfying to scrumptious when you make it flavorful. God gave us tastebuds. Tantalize those tastebuds. Try out new things.
 
And spice up your family mealtimes with good conversation. Mealtimes can be terribly boring if there is no purposeful conversation. As I raised our children, I found that it was just as important to think about what we would talk about as what I would cook for the meal. Think of a subject you and your husband can bring to the table to discuss—political, biblical, historical, or geographical. Ask questions and get each one in the family to share their thoughts.
 
HOT AND SPICY BED
Always be ready to love your husband passionately. Go to bed together. At the same time as your husband. Don’t stay up doing your own thing while he lies in bed alone! Forget being passive and pour out your hot spicy love on him. He is waiting for it. As you give to him, you will be blessed beyond measure. Proverbs 5:19 tells us that the wife is to “satisfy” and “ravish” her husband. Yes, that’s King James language. Other translations say “captivate, infatuate, intoxicate, exhilarate, and rapture.” You can’t get off the hook, ladies. It’s Bible language!
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
 
Link for WE LOVE OUR KITCHENS, Part 3.
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IT’S NOT CHESTFEEDING!

NotCheastfeedingMore thoughts about nursing babies. The liberals don’t only want to get rid of the word “mother.” They don’t like the word “breastfeeding.” Why can’t they embrace the creation of the female? It is not only sad but scary that so many people are so deceived by the transgender propaganda that they want to eliminate anything that reveals the true characteristics of male or female.
 
There is now a movement in progressive circles to refer to “breastfeeding” as “chestfeeding.” Have you ever heard of anything so preposterous? Are they scared of the female anatomy?
 
I will not give in to such ridiculous nonsense. Men have chests and women have breasts. And they were given to us by divine creation. The Bible speaks of the “BLESSINGS of the breasts, and of the womb” (Genesis 49:25). And please notice that the word is not a singular blessing, but plural blessings! God gives multiple blessings to the baby and the mother when during breastfeeding.
 
Breastfeeding is God’s plan. One of God’s names reveals Him as the Breasted One, the nurturing, comforting, and protecting God, the One who pours out His love and mercy to us. God is called Almighty, “El Shaddai” in Hebrew. The root word of Shaddai is “shad” which literally means “the breast.” God is EL Shaddai; we are little “shads.”
 
The fulness of this word is the “God who is Enough.” Just as the breast is enough to physically and emotionally minister to our baby’s needs, so God is Enough to minister to our needs.
 
God gives physical breasts to women to feed and nourish life. However, He also puts this maternal anointing in each of His female creation to nurture, feed, and protect. It is inherently within every female.
 
God’s plans are so wonderful.
 
Blessings to you today,
 
Nancy Campbell
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BLESSED BEYOND MEASURE

BlessedBeyonFurther thoughts to my post yesterday about being a nursing mother.
To be a suckling mother is a beautiful blessing. Although every female is born with a nurturing anointing, we receive a double portion when we are breastfeeding. God gives the hormones of oxytocin and prolactin to the nursing mother which release even greater motherly hormones to her. The more she nurses her baby, the more motherly she becomes.
 
Oxytocin is released by the pituitary gland and is the hormone that stimulates the mother’s let-down or milk-ejection reflex. This incredible molecule of motherly love is called by many other different names:
 
The stress relieving hormone,
The calming hormone, even reducing blood pressure, cortisol levels, fear, anxiety, and staving off psychological as well as physiological problems,
The life hormone,
The love hormone,
The cuddle hormone,
The bonding hormone,
The empathy hormone,
The trust hormone, and even
The bliss hormone!
 
Who wouldn’t want to have this hormone? Who wouldn’t want to get as much of it as she can? It’s a great way to live instead of being filled with anxiety and stress. And this is the blessing God gives to every nursing mother. The secret: keep nursing your baby as long as you can! Don’t wean your baby before he or she is ready. Remember, you are a suckling mother.
 
Prolactin is another wonderful hormone. It’s a very strong protective hormone. They have done studies to find that when they inject this hormone into a rooster it becomes “clucky” and begins to mother the chickens. A female animal nursing her young in the wild will fight to death any other animal that comes near her young.
 
Every time a mother puts her baby to the breast, she releases prolactin which causes her to become more motherly. And also very protective of her baby. This is why it is painful for a nursing mother to leave her baby. She is tied to her baby. And this is how God intends it.
 
Many scientific studies also reveal that lengthy nursing of babies is a deterrent to breast cancer and other female cancers. And this is apart from all the blessings to the baby.
 
O yes, Isaiah 66:11 calls it “glory.” God’s way is always the best way.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
 
Painting: A Woman Nursing a Child, c.1894 | Pierre-Auguste Renoir | Fine Art Painting Reproduction
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A HAPPY HOME

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Even with chaos can’t beat family life. It is the best.

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THE SU.CKLING MOTHER

SucklingMotherLet’s get to the nitty gritty. Did you know that the Bible portrays the female as a su.ckling mother? We have gotten so far away from truth in our modern and humanistic society that we hardly know what is normal anymore.
 
In Matthew 19 we read about how the Pharisees came to Jesus to ask him about divorce. He answered them with these words: “Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female . . .”
 
When Jesus spoke the word “female,” He used the word thelus, a different word that is usually used in the New Testament. It comes from the root word thele meaning “the female breast, a woman with nursing breasts, one who gives su.ck.” One word study states “glorifying God by reflecting the ‘other wonderful half’ of the divine image.”
 
In other words, Jesus described the female as a “su.ckling mother.” “This is how God made them in the beginning” He reminded them. And God has not yet made a new model! It is the true picture of a woman, created with a womb to nurture life and breasts to nourish that life. When we breastfeed, we embrace our womanhood the way God intricately and wondrously designed our bodies.
 
I know that this description would be offensive to some women today. Isn’t that sad that women have turned away from the way they were created? We see the end result of this in Romans 1:26 where this same Greek word is used: “For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women (thelus) did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
 
Even the animal kingdom does not turn away from its natural function to nurse and nourish its young. Lamentations 4:3 says: “Even jackals offer their breasts to nurse their young, but my people, have become heartless like ostriches in the desert.”
 
God wants us to rise into the glory of our femaleness. To embrace our femininity. To be proud of the word mother. To encourage breastfeeding mothers. To be who God created us to be.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
 
 
Painting: Maternidad Óleo sobre lienzo Autor: Elin Danielson Gambogi (1861 - 1919) Fecha: 1893
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A FLOURISHING FINISH

BePatientGod always finishes what He begins. He never leaves anything half completed. And that includes our lives. Don’t you love the promise in Philippians 1:6: “Being confident of this very thing that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.”
 
The word “perform” is the word Greek word “epiteleo” and it means “to finish, to complete, to end.” As we yield ourselves to the working of the Holy Spirit in our lives, He will keep working in us to the very end. He doesn’t want us to come limping over the finishing tape but leaping and bounding. The Message Bible says that He will bring our lives to “a flourishing finish.” I love that.
 
Peter encourages the believers to keep on adding godly attributes to their faith so they will have an “abundant” entrance into the everlasting kingdom (2 Peter 1:11). How do you want to go into the eternal kingdom? Abundantly? Triumphantly? Grandly? A flourishing finish? That’s what I want, don’t you?
 
Life on this earth is not always easy. We face challenges and difficulties. You may be concerned about your marriage. You may be grieving over one of your children. Dear wife and mother, THE END IS NOT YET! Remember that. God is still working. Don’t give up. Keep praying. Keep trusting in God. Keep believing and thanking God for this promise. Philippians 1:6 promises that God is working until the very end.
 
Keep plodding on as we look for our heavenly city. We live this life in preparation for the eternal kingdom which is the REAL world. Keep praying this promise over your own life and the lives of your family members.
 
Be encouraged and blessed, today,
Nancy Campbell
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