Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Through the weekly and daily devotionals you can be constantly encouraged in your great role of parenting, the highest career in the nation. You can also stay updated on what's happening with the Above Rubies ministry.

Strengthening Families Across the World through the encouragement of women in their high calling from God as wives, mothers and homemakers.

DON'T YOU LOVE WORK?

I am sure I don’t have to remind you that mothering is hard work! It’s how it’s meant to be.

When God put Adam and even in the garden home, he gave them work to do—and that was before the fall of man. Don’t despise that your career takes work!

Work is a blessing. Work is therapeutic. Work releases creativity.

God told the first couple to “dress” the garden. The word in the Hebrew is avad and means to “work until weary, to be fatigued.”

God reiterates the same theme in the New Testament in 1 Timothy 5:10 where He tells us that feeding and raising children is a “good work.” The Greek word is ergon and means, “work that is not accomplished by a single act but by accumulated labor and continued work.” That sounds like daily mothering, doesn’t it?

Rejoice as you work. Sing while you work. You are in the perfect will of God.

Love from Nancy
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A HUGE VISION

I was amazed to read about some of the sons of Israel. 1 Chronicles 12:14-15 NASB says, “The sons of Gad were captains of the army; he who was least was equal to a hundred and the greatest to a thousand. These are the ones, who crossed the Jordan… when it was overflowing all its banks and they put to flight all those in the valleys, both to the east and to the west.”

What a vision! To raise a son who is equal to a hundred men! Or even a son who is equal to a thousand other men! In 1 Chronicles 26:29-31 we read about “capable men” and also “men of outstanding capability.”

Don’t aim for raising sons and daughters that are status quo and like everyone else around. Aim your vision higher. Educate children who will think like God thinks instead of the “dumbing down” spirit of this world. Raise sons who will “know their God” and who will be “strong, and do exploits” (Daniel 11:32).

Love from Nancy
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THE WONDER OF LIFE

How blessed we are to have the gift of life. How blessed we are as mothers to have the privilege of bringing life into the world, not only life for this earth, but for the eternal realm. We were created to be life-givers. To cooperate with God to bring into this life an eternal soul who will live forever is a privilege beyond any other.

Life-giving is our glory. We teach our children the wonder of life. We teach them the preciousness and value of life, from conception to the grave. We teach them how to enjoy life. We speak life-giving words to our husband and children and everyone we meet. We prepare our family life-giving foods.

We delight in life because “Christ who is our life” dwells in us (Colossians 3:4).

Love from Nancy
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PRESS ON HARDER

Nehemiah faced persecution on every hand. His adversaries tried every way to stop him build up the gates and wall of Jerusalem that were broken down.

You are also in a building program and the adversary, the devil does not want you to succeed in building either. He wants your marriage and family weakened.

But what did Nehemiah do? In Nehemiah 6:9 he says, “They all made us afraid, saying, Their hands shall be weakened from the work, that it be not done. Now therefore, O God, strengthen my hands.” Instead of caving in to their plots against him, he cried out to God for strength to continue.

The Knox translation says, “I pressed on the harder.” The more his enemies came against him, the more he determined to finish the task. The Moffat’s translation says, “I applied myself with greater energy.”

When everything is coming against you, don’t give in. Press on harder in God’s strength.

Love from Nancy
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ARE YOU FEARING A FEAR?

Psalm 53:5 says, “There they were in great fear, where no fear was.” The margin of my Bible says, “They feared a fear.”

One of Satan’s greatest tactics is to bind us up with fear even when there is no valid reason for the fear. These deceptive fears immobilize you from fulfilling God’s plan for your life. They debilitate you.

Society fills women with deceptive fears. “It would be dangerous to have a baby in my forties!” I beg your pardon. You are in your child-bearing years until you reach menopause.

“I may have a Down syndrome baby.” And you may not, so what are you fearing? And if you did (which can happen to a mother of any age), this child would be your greatest blessing.

“I’ve had two c-sections and my doctor says I can’t have any more.” There are many mothers who have seven and eight c-sections and their womb is still as great as ever.

The “fears of a fear” keep coming. Will you give into them or trust in God?

Nancy
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LIFE IN THE SPIRIT

Michelle, thank you for your great post.

I have just read William Barclay's translation of Romans 8:5-6, "Those who have allowed their lower nature to become the rule of their lives have an attitude to life which is dominated by their lower nature; those who have taken the Spirit as the rule of their lives have an attitude to life which is dominated by the Spirit."

Oh to let the Holy Spirit dominate our lives. When the Holy Spirit dominates our lives, our marriage will be dominated by the Holy Spirit and our home will be dominated by the Holy Spirit. How wonderful.

Nancy
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THE BEAUTY OF JESUS.

Moses prayed in Psalm 90:17, “Let the beauty of the Lord our God be upon us.” We would all like to be beautiful, wouldn’t we?

We imagine our self beautiful, even if we aren’t. Beauty is delightful to behold. In fact, “delight” is the meaning of this word in this Scripture.

More than anything else, God wants His beauty to be upon us. He wants our children to learn of His beauty and character as they watch our lives. He wants the world to see His beauty through us for this is the way He has planned for them to get a glimpse of Him.

His beauty is His presence in our lives. I love to pray these lines…

"Let the beauty of Jesus be seen in me, All his wondrous passion and purity. O thou Spirit Divine, all my nature refine, ‘Till the beauty of Jesus be seen in me."


Love from Nancy
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YOU ARE ESTABLISHING GOD'S KINGDOM

You are pregnant! But you are scared to tell your parents or parents-in-law! You know you’ll get a negative reaction (or maybe even a violent reaction)!

Can I encourage you that you only have to get through the next few months, for when your precious baby is born, their hearts will change. No one can resist a baby!

Your parents and friends have this negative reaction because they have been educated to have this response.

Society, the media and the education system all teach that you shouldn’t have too many babies and should instead give your lives to careers and jobs that you will leave behind and will have no impact on the nation or eternity! Their minds have been conditioned to believe lies from Satan who hates life.

But don’t despair. They’ll love your baby when he or she comes.

And every new baby is a revelation of God’s truth and God’s kingdom which is a kingdom of life. You are helping to establish the kingdom of God on earth and in heaven.

Love from Nancy
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YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK

The Bible gets it right every time. Before science ever discloses a truth, God has already established it. Here’s another maxim that God established from the beginning, “For as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he” (Proverbs 23).

You can’t get away from it. What you think is how you live. Are your thoughts full of self-pity? Don’t expect to rise up out of your pit.

Are your thoughts filled with selfishness and how everything should revolve around you? Expect to stay miserable.

Do you harbor anger and bitterness in your heart toward your husband or anyone else? You are on the way to self-destructing.

There’s only one way out. Change your thought patterns. Change them to what God says about you. Meditate in God’s Word and make it your confession. Think love. Think forgiveness. Think of blessing people. Think of how to make your husband and children happy. Think joy. Think peace.

Think God’s thoughts and you are on the way to life and victory.

Love from Nancy
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HELP ME TO BE KIND

One of God’s attributes is kindness.

The Hebrew word is chesed which is one of the most powerful words in the Old Testament. The meaning is much bigger than our English word of kindness. It means unfailing love, benevolence, goodness, grace which we don’t deserve, mercy, loyalty and strength.

The amazing thing is that God wants us to reveal His same chesed kindness to one another. It gets even more personal when we read the description of the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:26, “She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.” Yes, the word is chesed.

Can you imagine what our homes would be like if we daily, and constantly, demonstrated and spoke words of kindness to our husband and children?

Love from Nancy
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GOD IS GOOD

God cannot do anything but good, because He is inherently good. This is His nature. We look out upon the world and see so much evil and suffering, but in it all, God is still good.

Because we have evil in the world does not change God’s goodness. Because we go through difficult and traumatic times does not change God’s goodness. God is Sovereign and working all things out for good.

I think of Joseph who was torn away from his family as a young teen and taken to a foreign country. He was put in prison and faced disappointment after disappointment. But God was working it out for good.

When the time came to be reconciled to his brothers, he confessed, “But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive” (Genesis 45:7-8 and 50:20).

God is working everything in your life for good, too. Trust Him and acknowledge His goodness.

Love from Nancy
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I AM IS WITH YOU NOW!

God revealed Himself to Moses as I AM THAT I AM! (Exodus 3:14). That says it. No one can question God’s purposes for He is I AM THAT I AM. No one can question His counsel for He is Jehovah and His thoughts are far above our thoughts.

But more than that, He is I AM today. He is I AM in the situation you face right at this moment. He is not only the faithful God of the past and the eternal future, but the God of the moment. Now! He is I AM with you in your kitchen right now, with all your frustrations and the needs of your little children and teens.

God said to Moses, “Say unto the children of Israel, I AM hath sent me unto you.” I AM comes to you right now. Acknowledge His presence with you at this “special” moment. Never forget that every moment of the day, no matter how frustrating or difficult is “divine” when I AM is with you.

Love from Nancy
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Second Milers! - Above Rubies Devotional

SECOND MILERS!


“Whoever forces you to go one mile, go with him two” (Matthew 5:41).

As we prepared to update the address labels to send out the new issue of Above Rubies, we encountered a problem. We had to manually verify nearly a thousand addresses, right when we needed to print labels! It is a lengthy task to locate the address, go to the USPS webpage and verify it, and then change it on our data base.

Knowing the urgency of the task, my Above Rubies helper smilingly started to work. She didn’t only work from 9.00 am to 5.00 pm as we do each day in the office. She worked through her lunch hour. She shifted into a new gear—the “second mile” anointing! She kept on with the job in the evenings. She worked all through the weekend and continued the same pattern the following week. She didn’t stop until the last address was verified! I called her, “Second Mile Haley.”

Read the complete story at Second Milers! - Above Rubies Devotionals

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WORLD CHANGING MINISTRY


Would you love to be involved in a world-changing ministry? Do you want to feel useful and do something that impacts society? I want to encourage you, mother, that as you embrace your calling of motherhood to receive the babies God wants to give you and raise them to contend for the faith and stand undaunted against the enemy, that you are involved in a world-influencing ministry!


The greatest threat to the progressives and socialists are strong godly families who are raising children who will stand unflinching against the devil’s deceptions. They are a force to be reckoned with. You will face disappointments and challenges, but never give up! The cost is too great.


Love from Nancy



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BLESSINGS FOR 2012


Do you want the blessing of God upon your life in this coming year? Do you want your children to be blessed? God does not keep us in the dark about how to go about it. He informs us that families will be blessed who do not “walk in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stand in the way of sinners, nor sit in the seat of the scornful” (Psalm 1:1).


This means we will do everything in our power to make sure our children do not receive ungodly teaching in the state system. We certainly would not want them to sit for many hours a day and be educated by the scorners of God’s Word and His ways. And we wouldn’t think of allowing our young “olive plants” to hang out every day with those who will influence them toward evil rather than righteousness. =


Instead, we as a family will delight in God’s Word as we seek His path for this coming year.


Love from Nancy



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HOW CAN I DOUBT?


I am in awe of God. I love Him with all my heart. And yet I am appalled at how often I fail to trust Him. How could I ever doubt for one minute the Supreme Potentate of the universe who created the worlds and upholds them by the word of His power?


Arthur W. Pink writes, “No prayer is too hard for Him to answer, no need too great for Him to supply, no passion too strong for Him to subdue; no temptation too powerful for Him to deliver from, no misery too deep for Him to relieve.


In your mind, your situation may look hopeless, but it is insignificant to God. Trust in His omnipotent power to work on your behalf.


Love from Nancy



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TOP POST # 3 from Nancy

TOP POST # 3 from Nancy:

Talking together about motherhood with a few women recently, one lovely
mother said, "Oh it's so hard. It's such a sacrifice!" Immediately, my
daughter, Evangeline replied, "What are you sacrificing?"

When we confess that motherhood is a sacrifice, we are saying that there
is something better that we could be doing and we had to give it up for
the sake of motherhood! That is a lie.

Motherhood is the highest calling God has given to us. It is our LIFE. It
may be challenging, but any worthwhile career is challenging.

This dear mother is committed to motherhood and when she was confronted
with what she said, she immediately recanted her words. It's just that we
are programmed by society to think that it is a sacrifice.

We need our minds renewed to God's way of thinking, to think truth instead
of deception.

Love from Nancy
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LEARNING TO FIGHT


We would rather not be in a battle, would we? And yet it is unavoidable. We can’t get out of it. We are in a battle between the kingdom of God and the kingdom of darkness.


Because we are engaged in this battle, we have to learn how to fight. Paul said in 2  Corinthians 6:4-10, “In all things approving ourselves… by the word of truth, by the power of God, by the armor of righteousness on the right hand and on the left.”


We have to learn to fight with both hands, on the offensive and the defensive, guarding on all sides. We need to hold the shield of faith with one hand and the sword of the Spirit (the Word of God) with the other.


Teach your children how to fight with both hands. Raise children who will stand in the fight instead of being knocked down by the enemy.


Love from Nancy



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Keeping Your Cool...

Do you find it easy to "keep your cool"? It's not too easy, is it? And yet
this quality is very precious to God.

1 Peter 3:4 says, "Let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is
not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek (gentle) and quiet spirit,
which is in the sight of God of great price."

The word "quiet" is hesuchios in the Greek and it literally means "to keep
one's seat"! In other words, when your feathers are ruffled and your
children are getting on your nerves, instead of lashing out in anger and
"blowing your cool," you stay on your seat! Don't jump off the seat of
your emotions and get into the flesh. Stay rested.

"Help, how do you do that?" you cry! By the power of Christ. He lives in a
state of rest and He lives in you. Let Him live His life through you.

Nancy
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TOP POST #4 from Nancy

TOP POST #4 from Nancy:


I received this note today from Sally Ott (mother of 16 and 79 great and grandchildren).


"At age 77, I can tell you that it is all worth it--every cry, every diaper, every sleep lost, every evening-out missed and every tear! I would do it all over again. What did I miss? Nothing! What did I gain? Very interesting people who love me and a peaceful home always filled with laughter."


I had to share this with you.


Nancy

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