Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Preparing meals is one of our biggest tasks as mothers. Each new day we have to plan, prepare, and provide wholesome food for children's bodies. It is a negligent mother who does not care what her children eat. It is an ignorant mother who thinks that endlessly cooking and preparing nutritious meals is wasting her time. It is a powerful part of her mothering.

It is also just as important to plan and prepare food for their souls and minds. It is a careless mother who lets them have unlimited electronic access and does not lead them to food that nourishes and stimulates their minds.

However, most important of all, she plans, prepares, and provides fresh food each day for their spirits. We are responsible to feed our children three nourishing meals each day, but what about their spirits? Are we faithful to nourish them as well? Or, are our children growing tall in body, but with tiny starving spirits?

Making Family Devotions happen each day in your home will provide opportunity to nourish their spirits. Did you notice I said, "Making it happen"? Yes, it doesn't just happen. You as the mother of the home have to make it happen. You prepare the way for your husband to read God's Word to your children.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom" (Proverbs 9:10). And we certainly need constant wisdom as mothers, don't we?

If we feel a kindly thought,
Warm and helpful, then we ought
Not to keep it close and tight,
But instead, with all our might
LET'S SAY SO!

If we feel a thought of praise
For our neighbor's words or ways,
Which should cheer him on his way,
Streak with gold his hours of grey--
LET'S SAY SO!

But so often, what a shame!
Though we're free enough with blame,
Out of shyness, out of pride,
Help and praise we somehow hide--
LET'S SAY SO!

Some day, when it's little use,
We shall let our praises loose,
We shall wish we'd mentioned how
Kind we felt, then why not now?
LET'S SAY SO!

Mother, you are the guardian of your little flock. It's a 24/7 job! 1 Peter 5:8 tells us we must "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." He wants to devour your children. He wants to get hold of their minds and infiltrate them with subtle deceptions against God and His truth. He wants to mar their spirits and take away their purity. He wants to destroy their souls.

This is why Satan hates mothers being in the home. They stand in his way. He wants them out of the way so he can do his work. He wants their children in day cares and the public education system that is becoming more and more foreign to everything that is biblical.

King David cried out that if we want our sons to be like plants grown up in their youth (mature and steadfast) and our daughters to be strong and beautiful like the pillars in a palace we have get rid of all that is foreign to God and His Word (Psalm 144:11-13).

Paul's prayer for the Thessalonian believers is a great vision for your children. Pray and make it your passion that their "whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ" (1 Thessalonians 5:23).

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

Many times you face situations that get your head spinning and your stomach tied up in knots. How do you get out of this turmoil? God gives an answer in Isaiah 26:3-4, "You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee."

The answer is to STAY your mind upon the Lord. IMMOVABLE! UNWAVERING! That's easier said than done. Your thoughts quickly go back to your problem and you begin to worry again. We must learn to get into the habit of STAYING our minds upon the Lord, leaning upon Him and His promises, and trusting Him. The NLT says that peace comes to those whose "thoughts are FIXED" on the Lord.

FIXED means fixed, not swaying back and forth. Not giving the problem to the Lord and taking it back again. Leave it with the Lord. He can handle it far better than you. When you keep your mind and confession upon the Lord, He keeps you in perfect peace. The word in Hebrew is plural. It means "double peace, or peace-peace."

Le's read the rest of the Scripture, "Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he TRUSTS in thee. Trust ye in the lord forever: for in the Lord Jehovah is EVERLASTING STRENGTH."

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

We can confess one thing or the other. We can brood over and talk about the problems we are going through (which is what we usually tend to do), or we can choose to confess that God us with us.

God gives us such a wonderful promise in Isaiah 43:2, "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow you., When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, nor shall the flame scorch you." I hear many women confess how they are going through deep waters, or going through a fiery trial. The problem is that when we keep talking about our problems and difficulties we end up staying under them.

Did you notice something in this Scripture? God promises that when we go through the deep waters, that "I WILL BE WITH YOU." When we are enduring the fiery trial, He says, "YOU WILL NOT BE BURNED." We have to change our confession, "Oh God, I thank you that you are with me in this trial. You are bigger than this problem and I trust You!"

Your confession determines how you come through your trial. You can come out in victory, or with the smell of the fire upon you. When you confidently put your trust in the Lord, and CONFESS OUT LOUD that God is with you, it will turn your heart from the difficulties to the Lord. You may still be going through it, but you will go through it knowing His power and presence.

And when He is with you, who can be against you?

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

Life is not always easy. It seems we go from one battle to the next, from one challenge to another. All the great saints of God in the Bible suffered hard times, but they show us how to survive in the difficult times.

In Lamentations chapter 5 Jeremiah laments for 18 verses about all the terrible things happening in Israel, but he doesn't stay discouraged. In verse 19 he exclaims that God is still in control, "You, O Lord, remain forever; Your throne from generation to generation."

When David was going through one of the darkest times of his life (one of them, because he went through many) his confession saved him. In 1 Samuel 30 we read the story of how David and his men came back to their city of Ziklag to find that the Amalekites had destroyed their city with fire and captured all their wives and children. They wept until they had no more power to weep. In fact David's' men were in such distress they wanted to stone him. Even in this hour of despair, he "ENCOURAGED himself in the Lord his God," and it was then that God showed him what to do (1 Samuel 30:6-18).

This was David's habit. When he was cast down and in the pits, he would speak to his soul, "Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? HOPE IN GOD! For I shall still praise Him for the saving help of his presence" (Psalm 42:5, 11; 43:5 WEB).

Take your eyes off your problems and put them on the Lord. It is then that you will hear His voice speaking to you. It's hard to hear His voice when you are consumed with your problem.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

Charles Hadden Spurgeon writes:

"It would not be easy for some of us to recall the hour when we first heard the name of Jesus. In very infancy that sweet sound was as familiar to our ear as the hush of a lullaby. Our earliest recollections are associated with the HOUSE OF GOD, THE FAMILY ALTAR, THE HOLY BIBLE, THE SACRED SONG, and THE FERVENT PRAYER."

It was this foundation that produced a man such as Spurgeon. Will these be strong memories in your children's minds?

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

There is no greater vision we can have than "to be conformed to the image of God's Son" (Romans 8:29). Another attribute of Jesus that is a challenge to me is found in Philippians 2:5-8 where it tells us that Jesus Christ, who was very God Himself, "thought it not robbery to be equal with God: but made himself of no reputation and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: and being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross."

If Jesus Christ, who was God, could have such a spirit of humility and submission, why do we run from it? Why are we stubborn and refuse to submit on some worthless matter, when Christ submitted to the death of the cross for us?

To have this same attitude of Jesus in our marriage brings harmony and unity. And as we yield to this spirit, we are being conformed to the image of His son, which is God's highest purpose for us.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

If you are wondering how to get a smile on your face, go to these pictures and you'll begin to laugh and smile!

Show them to your children, too, and everyone will be happy.

http://www.pinterest.com/aboverubiesmag/will-you-smile-and-laugh-with-me/

God's ultimate plan for each one of us is "to be conformed to the image of his Son" (Romans 8:29). What is the image of Jesus? It is His character which we see revealed through His life and spoken Word. The fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23 reveals His character. Can we mention just one of them in this little post?

Joy! Hebrews 1:9 tells us that Jesus was anointed with the "oil of joy" more than anyone else! Therefore, if we allow Him to work in our lives and conform us to His image, we will be filled and overflowing with joy. It is true that we don't always feel joyful. But, life does not consist of our feelings. Feelings come and go, but the Spirit of Christ who dwells within us is permanent and His life is a LIFE OF JOY, no matter what the circumstances.

As we shared Family Devotions this morning I thanked each of our lovely Above Rubies helpers for coming into the kitchen each morning with a smile on their face, filled with happiness and joy. They fill our home with joy as they seek to be more and more like Jesus. And, it proves they have been trained well by their parents.

One of the girls shared how that one morning she came downstairs to the breakfast table in her home with a grouchy face. Her mother sent her straight back to her room and told her to come back with happy smiling face. Good training!

I hope you don't let your children, and especially your teens (they should certainly be trained by now) come to the breakfast table with a sour and grumpy face. If they do, send them straight back to change their countenance and come back with a smile! Teach your children that the action they put on their face will soon change their attitude within. And you are also training your children for marriage. What a horrible thing for a spouse to wake up to a grumpy and grouchy wife. Of course, you'll have a wonderful smile on your face, to show them the way, won't you?

Are you being conformed to Christ's image? Then JOY will be one of your attributes.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

I read Michelle's post where she quoted an older woman saying that to be happy we should, "Live simply, GIVE MORE, and expect less." I thought about the sheep. We know that God calls us His sheep. We are so much like sheep because we are prone to go astray and we cannot live successfully without our Shepherd. But, there is something else about sheep that we don't often think about.

Did you know that of all the animals in the world, the sheep is the GREATEST GIVER? All year the faithful sheep grows its wool, not for itself, but to GIVE AWAY. Once, or twice a year, the sheep is brought before the shearer where all its wool is completely shorn off. It doesn't give grudgingly, but submissively and willingly. Isaiah 53:7 says that Jesus, the Lamb of God is "as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he openeth not his mouth."

My father, Ivan Bowen who has now passed away, designed the way shearing is performed across the world and was the fastest shearer in the world in "his day." He and his brother, Sir Godfrey Bowen promoted the wool industry across the world. I love what my uncle wrote in His book, "Why! the Shepherd."

"How impressive the sight of the giving sheep. The soft, valuable wool, contributed so willingly by the humble sheep, who, when shorn, stripped bare, and a little cold, has given all that it has to give. What a wonderful sacrifice! And once made, the sheep is off again, away on the range to grow it all over again ... The sheep makes no fuss, waits for no compliments for its wondrous fleece, because it has given as a sheep has always given, because this is what it was born for, this is what it lives for: to give willingly all that it has ... The more we give, the more we receive. The more we give away, the more that comes back to us. The more we serve, the more we grow in happiness, contentment, and peace of soul."

Dear mother, as one of God's sheep, you were born to sacrifice, born to give, born to give your all. And when you have given again and again you grow in spirit and refresh to give more. This is the life of the sheep. And can I tell you a little secret? You will never lose by giving. You'll never live to the full by pampering yourself! You find your life by giving. Jesus gives us an eternal principle for ultimate living in Mark 8:35, "Whosoever will save his life, shall lose it; but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the gospel's, the same shall save it."

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

LOVE GIVES ...

Love ever gives,
Forgives,
Outlives,
And while it lives
It gives!
For this is love's
Prerogative,
To give, and give,
And give!

I'd like to add to what I posted on Friday, BOILING HOT. The full meaning of "fervent" in Romans 12:11 is "BOILING HOT when referring to liquids and GLOWING RED HOT when referring to solids. The Amplified version says, "Be AGLOW AND BURNING with the Spirit." The Moffat's translation says, "Never let your zeal flag, MAINTAIN THE SPIRITUAL GLOW."

There's no room for apathetic, compromising, half-heartedness, lukewarm, mediocre, middle of the road, run of the mill, wimpy, or jelly-fish spirit here, is there? Instead God wants us to be hot and GLOWING for Him. The enemy wants to lull us to sleep and take away our zeal, but God wants us to be ardent, enthusiastic, exuberant, fiery, passionate, wholehearted, and GLOWING AND BURNING HOT.

And where are we to glow? In our home with our husband and children. And how will they see the glow? On our face. This is where the glow shows. Is your face glowing with love, sweetness, and joy today? If your faces looks down in the mouth, frowning, sour, and rigid, something's wrong. Yield to the Holy Spirit who lives within you to work in your heart and burn up the dross (Proverbs 25:4). Confess your sin of grumpiness, selfishness, and self-pity and let Him take over your life and fill you with His glow.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

Yesterday I shared about raising children who are zealous for God. Of course, we need to be zealous ourselves if we want zealous children. Do our children see that we are zealous for God's Word? Zealous for prayer? Zealous for righteousness? Zealous to serve the Lord?

Romans 12:11 tells us to be "Fervent in spirit; serving the Lord." The word fervent actually means "BOILING HOT." We're not to be cold, lukewarm, just simmering, but BOILING HOT.
Can you just imagine what could happen in the nation if Christian families (parents and children) became BOILING HOT for God? And this is meant to be the norm!

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

Sometimes we are inclined to think that zealous people are "over the top!" We like to keep everyone at our own level, don't we? And yet, what does God want us to be like? He tells us in Revelation 3:15 that He will spew us out of His mouth if we are lukewarm. That's not a very nice word, is it? It actually means "to vomit!"

Christ Jesus Himself should be our greatest example. He was "meek and lowly" but He was also zealous for His Father and His kingdom. He was zealous for rightousness. When he saw the corruption going on in the temple He chased them out with a whip and turned over all the tables. And the disciples remembered the prophetic Scripture, "The zeal of thine house hath eaten me up" (Isaiah 9:7; 69:9; John 2:17).

It grieves my heart to see so many young people from Christian homes who are apathetic toward the things of God. They confess they are Christians, but they have more desire for worldly things than pursuing God. They'd rather watch movies than read God's Word. In fact, most of them hardly know anything of the Scriptures. They spend every spare moment on their iPod, iPhone, and texting but have little thought for God.

Dearest mothers, what are we doing? It should be our passion, with persistent prayer, to encourage them to be zealous for God. May God save us from raising apathetic, mediocre, and lukewarm young people. May Gold anoint us by the power of the Holy Spirit to raise sons and daughters who are filled with zeal, who will stand against evil, who will stand up for truth and righteousness, and do mighty acts for God.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

Mother, are you feeling you just have to struggle through another day? Can I remind you that you are not only mothering for today. Your mothering continues into the generations to come. You fail one day. You "blow your cool" another day. What's a few days in the light of generations? Mothering is greater than one day. It is a lifetime that influences many generations to come and impacts eternity.

When speaking of a character in the Bible it mostly gives something of their genealogy, sometimes the father and grandfather are mentioned. Other times the Bible takes us back five generations or more. I was reading Zephaniah 1:1 one day and was ploughing through his genealogy of five generations when I was filled with great vision for our own family. Zephaniah came from the lineage of King Hezekiah, a king who did that which was right in the sight of the Lord. And now his great-great-grandson is a prophet to the nations! Doesn't that give you vision?

2 Chronicles 20:14 tells us of Jahaziel, where five of his generations are listed and then it goes back further to say he came from Asaph who was an anointed singer of the Lord.

My prayer is, as I am sure yours is too, that not only our children, not only our grandchildren, and not only our great-grandchildren, but the generations of our family to come will continue to serve the Lord and be mighty for God in the earth. Of course, this doesn't just happen. We must be faithful to impart God's Word into their lives and most of all, PRAY. When my husband and I pray for all our children and spouses and grandchildren and great-grandchildren each morning, we not only pray for them but also for the future generations.

Lift up your vision, dear mother. Your influence determines the future.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

Mother, you are a nation builder. You build and strengthen the nation as you embrace motherhood. It is mothers who determine the destiny of the nation. When mothers vacate the home and childbearing the nation weakens. When mothers come back to the home with a vision to raise godly children they strengthen the nation.

~ Nancy Campbell

Home based upon Christian marriage is so evidently an institution of God, that a man must become profane before he can deny it . . . Of this realm woman is queen. It takes its cue and its hue from her. If she is in the best sense womanly--if she is true and tender, loving and heroic, patient and self-devoted--she consciously or unconsciously organizes and puts in operation a set of influences that do more to mould the destiny of the nation than any man, uncrowned by power or eloquence, can possibly effect.

~ Dr. J. G. Holland