Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Through the weekly and daily devotionals you can be constantly encouraged in your great role of parenting, the highest career in the nation. You can also stay updated on what's happening with the Above Rubies ministry.

Strengthening Families Across the World through the encouragement of women in their high calling from God as wives, mothers and homemakers.

IS THERE A SWEET AROMA IN YOUR HOME?

HomeSweetWhat kind of aromas fill your home? Sweet or bad smells? The flesh gives off sour, bitter, grumpy, and horrible smells, doesn't it? They make everyone in the home feel bad and want to run!

But Christ in us is a sweet-smelling savor, and He wants us to exude His sweet aroma throughout your home. Most husbands love fragrant perfumes (well, my husband does), but more than perfumes, we should constantly wear the perfume of Christ in our lives. I am challenged by 2 Corinthians 2:14 (J. B. Phillip's translation): "We should have about us the unmistakable scent of Christ." Isn’t that wonderful?

How are you smelling today? Are your husband and children avoiding you or running to you?

We notice two things in this Scripture in 2 Corinthians 2:14, 15 (NLT): “(God) uses us to spread the knowledge of Christ everywhere, like a sweet perfume.” Firstly, we understand that it is a sweet perfume. If we are not giving off a sweet perfume, it is not the aroma of Christ!

And secondly, we are to spread this sweetness everywhere, in every place. This means your home! It means in the midst of what you are doing—when the children are driving you crazy, when your husband rubs your up the wrong way, and when you are doing the mundane chores like scrubbing toilets and piles of dishes.

No matter what the situation or the place, we keep being sweet! Are you up for the challenge?

Love from Nancy Campbell

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IS YOUR HOME FULL OF THANKFULNESS?

HomeThankfullness“Let there be thankfulness to God” (Ephesians 5:4 (NLT).

Is thankfulness the predominant language of your home? Are you in the habit of thanking God, not only for the good things but for the difficult situations?

Our thankfulness to the Lord should spill over to our family. Do you thank your husband for the little things he does for you? Do you thank him for choosing you to be his wife? Do you thank him for taking out the trash? Well, if he doesn’t take out the trash and you have to do it yourself, thank him for something else!

What about your children? Do you thank them when they do their chores? Do you tell them you are glad God gave them to you?

Today, why don’t you thank your husband and each one of your children for something specific, maybe something for which you have never thanked them before?

Your thankfulness to your family members will spill over to others outside your home, too. Ephesians 5:4 (TPT) says: “Guard your speech. Forsake obscenities and worthless insults; these are nonsensical words that bring disgrace and are unnecessary. Instead, let worship fill your heart and spill out in your words.”

Think of someone else you can thank and give them a call.

Be blessed,

Nancy Campbell

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DON’T LOSE HEART

LoseHeart“WE DO NOT LOSE HEART!” This was Paul’s confession In the midst of "afflictions, hardships, distresses, beatings, imprisonments, tumults, labors, sleeplessness and hunger" (2 Corinthians 6:4-10, 16-18; 11:23-29; and 12:10).

What are you going through, dear mother? Perhaps a few sleepless nights. Maybe you are upset because of negative words that have been said to you. Or everything suddenly seems so overwhelming. Your circumstances seem “like the end of the world, “but dear mother, we know little of real hardships. We are not being persecuted like millions of fellow believers across the world. We are not experiencing beatings, imprisonment, and hunger as Paul was. But he didn’t lose heart.

Be encouraged by these words: DON'T LOSE HEART! Stand strong against the pressures of life. Stand strong for your family. Stand strong for your convictions. Stand strong in the Lord. We have to toughen up a bit, don’t we?

But don’t despair. God is with you and He will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5, 6).

Blessings to you today, Nancy Campbell

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BE A FOUNTAIN...

FountainAre you a bubbling fountain of life to your husband and children?

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THE PRECIOUSNESS OF LIFE

PreciousnessLifeTHE PRECIOUSNESS OF LIFE versus cold-blooded murder. The RHA which New York governor, Cuomo, signed into law allows precious human beings to be murdered in the womb up to the time of birth. No God-fearing person can stay silent. We are told to ABHOR evil (Romans 12:11). That means to shudder with horror! Life begins at conception and is a separate human being than the mother. The baby has a different DNA than the mother! To kill a baby at any time in the womb is murder and nothing less. Let’s not be duped and deceived. #standforlife #lifebeginsatconception #abortionismurder #embracemotherhood #aboverubies #nancycampbell

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MOTHERS - WATCH DOGS OF YOUR CHILDREN

CommandmentsLifeMother, you are the watch dog of your children--body, soul, and spirit.

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MOTHERHOOD IS BEAUTIFUL

MotherhoodBeautifulMotherhood is beautiful—tender, passionate, powerful, protecting, emotional, the most challenging and heart-wrenching of all careers—but the glory of womanhood. P.S. Would you like to add some more descriptions? #mothering #ilovemotherhood #powerofmotherhood #gloryofmotherhood #godsdesign #aboverubies #nancycampbell

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WHAT A PRIVILEGE

WhatAPrivilegePerhaps you are sitting on your rocking chair and nursing your baby as you read this post. What a powerful work you are doing. You are not only nurturing and comforting your baby, you are not only preserving your own body, but you are revealing the character of God. What could be more beautiful and powerful?

We see God’s nurturing heart in Isaiah 49:15: “Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion (wombness) on the son of her womb? Yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee.” This powerful anointing of protection, love, and nurturing that pours from you while you nurse your baby comes from God. Only God’s anointing is even stronger. A mother may forget, but God will never.

We see the same character in Jesus when He cried over Jerusalem: “How often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not!” (Matthew 23:37).

Rejoice that you have the privilege of revealing God’s character in your home and to the world

Love from Nancy Campbell

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NECESSARY QUESTIONS

NecessaryQuestionsHere’s some good questions to ask yourself about your marriage . . .

Am I Nourishing my husband with love?
Am I Nurturing him and ministering to his needs—physically, emotionally, and spiritually?
Am I being Nice to him, or just plain grouchy?
Am I Noticing him and giving him time in my busy schedule?
Am I Nesting the home to provide him a place of solace?
Am I Nobly revealing the picture of Christ and His church through my marriage?
Am I Never giving up in my commitment to my marriage?

Love from Nancy Campbell

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GOD IS MY SANCTUARY

GodMySanctuaryDo you feel lonely, out of sorts, full of fears, or down in the dumps? You don't have to stay in this state! Did you know there is a sanctuary where you can run? It is God Himself! He is your refuge and hiding place, and He waits for you to run to Him. As you run into His heart, you will find safety, comfort, help, and deliverance!

Ezekiel 11:16 says: "Although I have cast them far off among the heathen . . . yet will I be to them as a little SANCTUARY." No matter what your situation, God is always our SANCTUARY (which is the same word that is used for the tabernacle and the temple where God dwelt in all His Shekinah glory)!

Don't stay in your depressed state one minute longer! Run into God! Hurry!

Love from Nancy Campbell

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LOOK OUT, WORLD!

LookOutWorldYour home is a haven providing protection,

Filled with joy and peace and lots of affection,
It’s God’s chosen place for your husband and you,
To raise godly children, righteous and true,

You’re making it a sanctuary from the evil around
So you can train children to be whole and sound,
The right time is coming when you’ll send them out,
Empowered with God’s Spirit—world, look out!

Love from Nancy Campbell

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HOW DO YOU LOVE YOUR CHILDREN?

HowLoveChildrenWhat is God's plan for our lives? To present us unblameable and unreprovable in His sight at the coming of the Lord Jesus (I Corinthians 1:8; Colossians 1:21-23; and I Thessalonians 3:13). To conform us to the image of His Son, Jesus Christ (Romans 8:29 and 2 Corinthians 3:18).

We also should have a vision for our children. Of course, we need a biblical vision. If God’s vision is to present us blameless at His coming, I think that’s a good vision for our children, don’t you?

When raising our children, I took to my heart the following Scripture. 1 Thessalonians 5:23: “The very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ."

It is not enough to care for our children’s physical lives. We must guard their souls and spirits. This kind of vision takes our whole lives and earnest prayer.

I was talking with a mother last evening and she said something arrested me. “I love my children beyond their flesh.” How true that is. As mothers, we have a higher vision than making sure our children are well fed and clothed. We see beyond that. We are not content with middle of the road children. We want to see them passionate for God, instead of hankering after the things of this world.

If our children are rebellious and disobedient, we don’t think it’s funny. We deal with this sin. We cry out to God in prayer. For we are not just looking after children. We have a vision for God’s character to be formed in them. We want them to fulfil the purpose for which they were born. We do not want them contaminated by the deceptions of this world.

We constantly and vigilantly watch over their souls and their spirits.

Be blessed,

Nancy Campbell

Painting by Pierre Auguste Renoir (1897).

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LIKE SALT...

LikeSaltAs God’s representative in your home and in the world, He wants you to be tasty and flavorful salt. Never BLAND! Bland salt is good for nothing except to be thrown out. God vomits Luke-warm believers out of His mouth (Revelation 3:16). Let’s embrace the extravagant life of Christ Jesus who lives within us. Never bland. Never mediocre. Never status quo. Never ordinary. Never boring. Instead OVERFLOWING with love, joy, patience, and generosity. #abundantlife #abundantlifeinchrist #youarethesaltoftheearth #aboveselfpity #aboveanger #aboverubies#nancycampbell

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NAILED TO A CROSS...

NailedThe victorious life is the crucified life. Anger, bitterness, jealousy, self-pity and other fleshly sins no longer rise up in our lives if we have nailed them to the cross. This is how you live in victory in your home. Read also Galatians 2:20; Romans 8:13; and Colossians 3:12, 13. #crucifiedtotheflesh #thecrucifiedlife #alivetojesuschrist #liveinvictory #aboverubies

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HEAVEN ON EARTH

HeavenOnEarth“Heaven on earth.” Is it possible? Jesus told us to pray: "As in heaven, so in earth" (Luke 11:2). That’s a huge prayer, isn’t it? But it’s what He asked us to do.

Lift your vision higher today, dear mother. God wants His will to be accomplished in your home just as in His heavenly home. He wants the atmosphere of heaven to be the atmosphere of your home. As He fills heaven, He wants to fill your home with His presence. Will you let Him?

Yes, that means in the midst of your frustrations and challenges of training your children. Often it doesn’t happen, because we live in the shallow and don’t realize this is God’s plan for us.

Think on this truth and confess it out loud over and over again today: "As in heaven, so in earth." Now make it a little more personal: "As in God’s home, so in my home!"

Amen and amen.

Be blessed today,

Love from Nancy Campbell

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A HUGE VISION

URSaltI was amazed to read about some of the sons of Israel. I Chronicles 12:14-15 (NASB) says: “The sons of Gad were captains of the army; he who was least was equal to a hundred and the greatest to a thousand. These are the ones, who crossed the Jordan . . . when it was overflowing all its banks and they put to flight all those in the valleys, both to the east and to the west.”

What a vision! To raise a son who is equal to a hundred men! Or a son who is equal to a thousand other men! Wouldn’t that be amazing? In I Chronicles 26:29-31 we read about “capable men” and also “men of outstanding capability.”

Don’t aim for raising sons and daughters that are status quo and like everyone else around. Aim your vision higher. Educate children who will think like God thinks instead of the “dumbing down” spirit of this world. Raise sons and daughters who “know their God” and who will be “strong, and do exploits” (Daniel 11:32).

This morning I read the familiar Scripture in Matthew 5:13 how God wants us to be the salt of the earth. I checked the TPT and read: “Your lives are like salt among the people. But if you, like salt, become bland, how can your ‘saltiness’ be restored? Flavorless salt is good for nothing and will be thrown out and trampled on by others.”

I picked up on the word BLAND! Oh, isn’t that such a boring word? I don’t like bland food And I don’t like being bland myself. I don’t want my children to be bland. I want them to change the world.

We, and our children, will never be world changers if we are bland—normal, average, mediocre, middle of the road, lukewarm, ordinary! God does not intend us or our children to live this way. Jesus says in John 10:10 that He came to give us LIFE. But more than that. He came to give us life MORE ABUNDANTLY!

That does not mean bland! The word “abundantly” means “superabundant, excessive, exceedingly, beyond measure, vehemently.” How can we live bland lives when Jesus Christ, the Son of God lives within us?

Let’s not be satisfied with being bland ourselves. Let’s not be content to raise children who are bland. We are raising them to be the salt of the earth. To flavor everyone they meet with God’s life and truth. To fear God rather than man, for salt will often sting, but we and our children will not be afraid to speak the truth. For the truth, when it is received, restores, heals, and liberates.

Blessings to you today,

Nancy Campbell


Picture: Mother, as you raise mighty sons and daughters, you are pouring out salt upon the earth.

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IT"S NOT TOO LATE...

NotTooLateA word of encouragement does wonders. Loving words break down barriers. Sweet words break the hardest bone. Saying sorry heals wounds. #lovingwords #encouragingwords #kindwords #forgivingwords #strengthenyourmarriage #aboverubies #nancycampbell

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NO ONE CAN RESIST A BABY

NoResistBabyYou’re pregnant? But you are scared to tell your parents or parents-in-law! You know you’ll get a negative reaction (or maybe even a violent reaction)! Can I encourage you that you only have to get through the next few months. When your precious baby is born, their hearts will change. No one can resist a baby!

Your parents and friends have this negative reaction because they have been brainwashed to have this response. Society, the media, and the education system all teach that you shouldn’t have too many babies. Instead, they want you to give your life to a career or a job that you will leave behind and which will have little impact on the nation or eternity! Their minds have been conditioned to believe lies from Satan who hates life.

But don’t lose heart. They’ll love your baby when he or she arrives!

Every new baby is a revelation of God to the world They are part of God’s kingdom. Jesus said in Matthew 19;14 (ESV): “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”

You are helping to establish the kingdom of God on earth, and in heaven. Lift up your head and rejoice.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell

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KEEP YOUR LAMP BURNING

LampBurningWhen you get up get dressed ready for another day in your great career of mothering. You will accomplish your great work far better when dressed appropriately! Don’t hang around in pajamas or bathrobe! You are in the service of the King of kings. #getdressed #highcallingofmotherhood #motherhoodadventure #powerofmotherhood #ilovemotherhood #aboverubies #nancycampbell

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UNDIVIDED LOYALTY

EveryStormI have been thinking more about the Scripture I posted below. God is a jealous God. He commands: “Thou shalt have no other gods before me” (Exodus 20:3). He wants our undivided loyalty. Look at this example of those who went after other gods (Deuteronomy 13:13-18).

We are to portray this same relationship in our marriages. We know that God planned marriage to be a picture of the relationship between Christ and the church ((Ephesians 5:22-33). Therefore, as we picture this, we should have no divided loyalty in our marriages.

I was amazed some time back to read a Facebook post from a wife asking if it was okay to have a special friendship with another male. I answered in the negative but was surprised to read many answers from “Christian” wives that it was totally okay. “What’s wrong with your husband that he won’t let you have a friendship with another male?” “What’s wrong with going out to lunch and enjoying friendship with another male?”

However, this is totally foreign to God’s plan. When a couple get married, that is the end of any other “personal” friendship with another male! Period. Do you remember your marriage vows when the minister asks: “Will you take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife? Will you love her, honor and keep her in sickness and in health and FORSAKING ALL OTHERS keep her only unto you so long as you both shall live.”?

By the way, the marriage of the wife that asked this question ended. Always the end result of divided loyalty. Of course, you can have friends of the opposite sex that you enjoy together with your husband, but never separately from your marriage. This is divided loyalty.

God does not want us to be “two-souled” in our relationship with Him or in our marriages.

Be blessed,

Nancy Campbell

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