Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Through the weekly and daily devotionals you can be constantly encouraged in your great role of parenting, the highest career in the nation. You can also stay updated on what's happening with the Above Rubies ministry.

Strengthening Families Across the World through the encouragement of women in their high calling from God as wives, mothers and homemakers.

IT'S NOT THE END YET

eddyWhere is your mind today? Dwelling in the past? Or even in the present as you mull over the difficulties you face? To dwell in the past or the present can be depressing unless you are doing it with joy and thankfulness.
 
Did you know that God wants us to LOOK AHEAD! To that which is BEFORE! Paul confessed in Philippians 3:13, 14: "This ONE THING I DO, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before. I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."
 
Things may look pretty bleak at the moment. But it's not the end of the world. God has got so much more ahead for you. Look ahead to what God has. Forget the past and keep pressing forward to the prize.
 
Recently in our Family Devotions my husband talked about how we can easily get stuck in an eddy. An eddy is where some flowing water gets sidetracked and stuck to the side of a river. Instead of flowing with the current it goes around and around in circles going nowhere.
 
If we don't keep our eyes on what is ahead, we can be sucked into an eddy. Instead of looking up, keeping our eyes upon Jesus, and the hope of what is before, we can stay in a rut (or an eddy) going over and over our problems and never getting anywhere. Remember, that's what happened to the children of Israel in the wilderness. Because they didn't believe God was bigger than their enemies, they ended up going around in circles in the wilderness for 40 years!
 
We'll never find an answer to our problems while we keep worrying about them. We'll only know the way out when we look to the Lord and trust Him.
 
When our eyes are upon Him, He can show us the way He wants us to go. And it will always be FORWARD. GOING AHEAD. PRESSING ON TOWARD THE MARK.
 
Keep out of eddies and keep running your race. It's not the end yet!
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
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SAFEGUARD YOUR MARRIAGE

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Your marriage is your first priority. Treasure it and guard it well.
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MORE THAN YOU NEED

MoreThanYouNeedDear mothers, you are doing a GOOD WORK. This is confirmed in 1Timothy 5:10 and Titus 2:3-5. I know that sometimes you feel as though you are hardly making it, that you are not accomplishing much, and it's all so hard. Yes, it is hard in your own strength, but God does not intend you to do this great work on your own. He stands behind you with all His power. He waits to give you His wisdom. He wants to refresh you and strengthen you as you trust Him.
 
Although it is in the chapter about freely giving (isn't motherhood all about giving?), 2 Corinthians 9:8 is a wonderful promise to you as mothers: "And God is able to make ALL grace abound toward you; that ye, ALWAYS having ALL sufficiency in ALL things, may abound to EVERY good work." ALL is repeated three times in this Scripture. God does not half enable you. He does not give you half enough strength and sufficiency to mother your children. He gives you ALL that you need!
 
Let’s notice some more words in this Scripture:
 
"And GOD IS ABLE to make all grace ABOUND toward you, that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may ABOUND to every GOOD WORK." The word "abound" is perisseuo in the Greek and means "more than abundant, more than you need." It's the word that used to describe the seven baskets of food that were LEFT OVER after Jesus fed the 4,000 plus (Mark 8:8).
 
God’s name, Almighty, is the Hebrew word El Shaddai and it means “the God who is more than enough.” God is more than enough to supply our every need.
 
What more do you need when God promises He will give you more than you need? I think you need to write or type this Scripture out in big letters and pin it up where you can see it.
 
Many blessings to you today,
 
NANCY CAMPELL
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STAY THE COURSE!

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Do things seem all on top of you? You wonder how you can keep going? Can I encourage you dear, Mother, to keep plodding on? Take one step at a time. You can’t solve your problems in one moment. Your challenges won’t go away with one magic flick of your finger. Everything takes time. Instead, you keep plodding on.
 
But you don’t plod on in gloom and despair. You take one step at a time looking up to Jesus. When you take your eyes off your problems and look to Him, He will show you the way. He will give you strength. He will put His peace in your heart. The greatest thing you can do is put one step forward after another.
 
Even when it’s hard, keep taking the next step. What do you do when you are climbing a steep mountain? You get weary. You don’t know whether you can take another step. But you do. And another one. And eventually you get to the top! It’s the same with everything in life. You just keep going and you’ll get through. You will climb your mountain.
 
I was reading the book of James and was arrested by James 5:10. I love the paraphrase of the Message Bible: “Take the old prophets as your mentors. They put up with anything, went through everything, and NEVER ONCE QUIT, all the time honoring God. What a gift life is to those WHO STAY THE COURSE!”
 
Stay the course, dear lovely mother. God is with you. He will not let go of you Trust Him. His ways are higher than your ways and He is bigger than every problem you face.
 
Many blessings to you from Nancy Campbell
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HAPPY THANKSGIVING

ARHappyThanksIt’s getting to the end of another wonderful Thanksgiving Day. We squashed about 90 plus people for a sit-down meal at our home today. A great time of feasting and fellowship and speeches. Plus tug-of-wars and egg-throwing.
Here is an acrostic on being thankful, not just for today, but for every day of the year.
 
T I thank God for TEACHING me His ways.
H I thank God for giving me my HUSBAND. Marriage becomes more and more beautiful with time.
A I thank God for ANOINTING me to be a mother. Is there any greater blessing, apart from our salvation, than to enjoy the blessings of children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren?
N I thank God for creating me to be a NURTURER and NOURISHER to my family and to others.
K I thank God for His KINDNESS to me.
F I thank God for my FAMILY and His daily FAITHFULNESS to me.
U I thank God for giving me UNDERSTANDING of His truth. My greatest delight is to receive revelation of God’s truth from His living Word.
L I thank God for LOVING me enough to die for me and shed His precious blood for my sins. I don’t like to get a day go by without thanking Him for His great and unspeakable and eternal salvation.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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OVER THE TOP

OvertheTopThe life God gives us in His kingdom is an abounding life. It is above the normal status quo. He wants us to abound in everything in our lives (2 Corinthians 8:7). That means abounding and overflowing as we face the challenges of motherhood each day. Yes, right in your kitchen, when a child is annoying you, one is crying, and everyone seems to want you at once!
 
"Please get real," you say. "This is a bit over the top. And you don't understand what I am going through." Dear wife and mother, did you know that the word "abounding" is Bible language. It's repeated over and over again, translated with words such as "abundantly, exceeding, increasing, and multiplying." These words relate to every area of our lives. They are even written to believers who are suffering and going through persecution.
 
One of the "aboundings" is to ABOUND IN THANKSGIVING (Colossians 2:7). Most translations say: “OVERFLOWING WITH THANKSGIVING.” The Greek word is “perisseuo” and literally means “superabounding, overflowing, exceeding, excelling, over and above, and enough and to spare." Now, that's not normal, is it? It's over the top! But dear ladies, it’s Bible language! It’s amazing how we live so sub-zero standard, isn’t it?
 
Do you start the day thanking God for all His goodness and His great salvation that He suffered for you on the cross? Are you thanking Him in your heart all day long for every little thing that happens? This overflowing thankfulness should spill over to everyone around us.
 
Do you continually thank and show gratitude to your husband? When he does something for you do you take it for granted or spill over in thanks? Why don't you stop and give him a call right now and thank him for the wonderful husband and provider that he is? Thank him for marrying you!
 
And don't forget your children. Thank them when they do a task. We give loads of commands, we give lots of frowns, we are always reprimanding, but where are the thanks? Where are the smiles? We should be aboundingly and overflowingly thanking our husband and children and all the people who are part of our lives.
 
I know you’ll have a great Thanksgiving Day tomorrow, but let’s not limit our thankfulness to this day but let’s have thanksgiving day every day of the year. Amen?
 
Many blessings to you and have a most wonderful Thanksgiving.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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THE ANTICIPATION

AnticipationDo you like waiting? Well, in the natural world it is hard to wait, isn’t it? We like things to happen just when we want them. I remember growing up as a child. We had everything we needed but we didn’t have excess. We didn’t expect to get what we wanted each time we went to town with our mother. We received gifts for birthdays and Christmases and that was it. To get an orange in our Christmas stocking was a gift from Heaven. A little packet of raisins was heavenly!
 
I can remember waiting with agony for Christmas to come each year. It seemed like an eternity to wait. But with the waiting was incredible expectation.
 
My husband remembered one time how he received a bottle of pop for his birthday and thought he had gone to Heaven. He remembers it being called Orange Crush. It was so precious that he would take two sips each day and put it back on the shelf to make it last. It didn’t even bother him that all the bubbles depleted as the days wore on.
 
This is unheard of today. An orange or a bottle of pop is like nothing! Most children get what they want when they want it. They have never learned the expectation of w a i t i n g!
 
In many ways, this is sad. I think that if children do not learn to experience this emotion of waiting when they are young, how are they ever going to learn to wait on God and wait for His timing when they are older? The Bible says, “First that which is natural, and then that which is spiritual.” Nature prepares us for the spiritual.
 
It is sad when I hear someone say, “OH, I prayed, but God didn’t answer, so I don’t believe in Him!” I wonder how many times they prayed. I wondered how long they waited. I am sure it wasn’t long. They have not learned this very important quality. Don’t deprive your children of learning it.
 
And let’s all learn to wait on God. He is not in a hurry. He does not live in time. He will work when it is the right time.
 
Lamentations 3:26: “It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the Lord.”
 
Psalm 37:7: “Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself . . .”
 
Many blessings,
 
Nancy Campbell
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YOUR HOME IS NOT CONFINING

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Your home can be the most exciting place on earth!
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RESIST

ResistDevilDon’t allow the devil any space in your home. Don’t even let him get a foot in the door. Once he is in he will take over more and more. Speak the name of Jesus out loud. Take authority in Jesus’ name over any evil in your home.

 

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BE DANGEROUS

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Rise up in the anointing and authority God has given you as a mother.
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IS YOUR MARRIAGE A RESTING PLACE?

MarriageRestingPlaceI was reading the psalm we all know so well this morning, Psalm 23:2: “He leadeth me beside the still waters.” We know that a shepherd always leads his sheep to peaceful and tranquil waters. They will not drink from turbulent waters.
 
The Hebrew word for still means “a resting place, an abode, figuratively consolation (specifically matrimony).” When God was looking for the best place for His people to dwell Numbers 10:33 tells us that “the ark of the covenant of the LORD went before them . . . to search out a RESTING PLACE for them.” It is the same Hebrew word.
 
When Naomi was saying goodbye to her daughters-in-law and encouraging them to stay in their land and find a husband she said: “The LORD grant that you may find REST, each of you in the house of her husband.” The Berean Study Bible says: “May the LORD enable each of you to find rest in the home of your new husband.”
 
God, who is the giver of all good things, intends marriage to be a place of rest. Sadly, many marriages are places of turbulence and upheaval. That’s the devil’s plan. But God’s plan is peace and rest. We must stay on God's side to help bring peace and rest to our marriages and homes.
 
This may not be easy. But God, who lives within you by the power of His Holy Spirit and who sheds abroad His love in your heart, is able to give you the power to do this. Instead of reacting when your husband says something nasty or derogatory, answer him with sweetness and softness (Proverbs 15:1). You can’t do it in your own strength but only by the power of the Holy Spirit. If you can’t trust yourself to say the right thing, well, don’t open your mouth at all. Keep your mouth shut!
 
Marriages are ruined and destroyed by words! Our words have power to build up or pull down (Proverbs 14:1). To bring life and refreshing or destruction. Even when Jesus was accused at the time of His crucifixion, “He answered never a word.” When He was reviled, he did not revile back. When they heaped abuse on Him, He did not retaliate. When He suffered under their hands, He made no threats (1 Peter 2:23).
 
Do everything you can, through the power of the Holy Spirit, to make your marriage a place of rest. That is God’s beautiful plan for you. I love Isaiah 28:12 which says: “His rest shall be glorious.” When you have rest and security in your marriage, it is such a glorious way to live. God wants you to live a glorious life.
 
Be blessed today, Nancy Campbell
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GOD DOESN’T BELIEVE IN ISOLATION

NoIsolationToday is the 18th November and so I began to read Proverbs 18 (31 chapters for 31 days in the month). As usual, I didn’t get very far. I didn’t get past verse 1! This is usually what happens wen I read God’s word each morning. I rarely get through a chapter. As I begin to read, I find something so wonderful and revelatory that I stop to study and meditate upon it more! God’s word is new and refreshing each day.
 
What was it that arrested my attention? Proverbs 18:1 BSB says: “He who isolates himself pursues selfish desires; he rebels against all sound judgment.” The Good News Translation says: “People who do not get along with others are interested only in themselves.”
 
This truth lines up with God’s word and His plan for the people He created. God did not create us for isolation. He created us for familyness, togetherness, and fellowship. He sets the solitary in families. Yes, He wants us to experience our family fellowship, but to also reach out beyond our families.
 
There are some folks who do not go to church. They can’t find one where they fit in and therefore fellowship on their own. That is isolation. God loves togetherness. Recently I did a study on the assembling of God’s people. Can you believe it? I found 17 different Hebrew words that God uses to describe His people assembling and coming together and each one is used in many different Scriptures! It is God’s heartbeat and it His plan.
 
God continues this doctrine in the New Testament. We all know Hebrews 10:25: “Not forsaking the assembly of ourselves TOGETHER, as the manner of some is, but exhorting one another and so much the ore as ye see the day approaching.” And we read in Acts 4:42 that this was the lifestyle of the early church.
 
It is true that we can miss “sound judgment” when we are isolated. We need one another to sharpen one another, to encourage and exhort one another, and to keep one another in line. It’s not even enough to go to church. We must fellowship. We just show hospitality to one another.
 
God’s plan is togetherness, not isolation.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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CREED FOR SEXUAL UNITY

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Val Stares, the director of Above Rubies in Australia, sent this link to me this morning. It is called THE AUSTRALIAN CREED FOR SEXUAL INTEGRITY.
 
This creed was drafted by some of Australia’s most prominent Christian leaders. In just over 200 words, it lays out the Bible’s clear teachings on sexuality in truth and grace. They want millions all over the world to sign this creed. It can be used as:
 
a doctrinal affirmation in worship services,
an educational tool for Christians,
a theological defence against compromise,
a way for churches and schools to affirm their orthodoxy,
a legal defence for Christians facing job loss.
 
Go to this link to sign:
 
I have already signed it. Sign and share it with others. Further information from: www.australiancreed.com
 
Blessings from Nancy
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LOOK OUT WORLD

LookOutWorldYour home is a haven providing protection,
Filled with joy and peace and lots of affection,
It’s God’s chosen place for your husband and you,
To raise godly children, righteous and true.
 
You’re making it a sanctuary from the evil around,
So you can train children to be whole and sound,
The right time is coming when you’ll send them out,
Empowered with God’s Spirit—world, look out!
 
~ Nancy Campbell
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A HERITAGE AND REWARD

HERitageBy Judy Folsom
 
Psalm 127:3 says: “Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb is a reward.”
 
A reward you say? Yes, a reward! We were always asked the same questions as we filled up a couple of tables at a restaurant or when I shopped for groceries with two carts and several children in, around, and clinging to the sides of the cart. “Are all these yours?” and “Did you plan to have so many?” and my very favorite, “Don’t you know where babies come from?” Let me start by telling you our plan and about the work God did in our lives and hearts.
 
Our plan was to have my tubes tied after our third child, Denise, our first beautiful daughter. But God said, “That is not my plan.” I did not feel any peace with this decision and so our plan was thwarted. But we did not quit trying to be in charge! We decided that there were a lot of other children that could use our help. Maybe that would do. After all, being foster parents was a good thing! I also started taking a birth control pill which lead my heart to extreme turmoil. God wanted us to be a part of His plan.
 
The point was, God wanted us to trust Him with our plan. Of course, I had a lot of questions.
 
What if they come too close for me to give them personal attention? God said, “Their brothers and sister will take up the slack. My grace is sufficient.”
 
How will we feed and clothe them? God said, “I will take care of your needs.”
 
When I asked Him about their college, as the world always does, He literally said, “Give Me credit for something!” So when people would ask me those questions I would say, “Not my problem, God’s problem, I am just obeying.”
 
While God was working with me, answering all my many questions, He was working with Mike through the Word. Mike is a wonderful Bible teacher, so as is his custom, when he is not sure what to do, he goes to the Word. The Lord led him to Psalms 128. He read: “Your wife shall be like a fruitful vine in the very heart of your house, your children like olive plants all around your table. Behold, thus shall the man be blessed who fears the LORD. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them” (Psalm 128:3-5a).
 
He definitely wanted to be a blessed man, and though he was not quite sure what a quiver was, he knew that he wanted to be happy. We have since discovered that everyone’s quiver (the container for holding your arrows), is different. Do not stop having children until your quiver is full. There is nothing sadder than a less than full quiver, because you will always be desirous of another. So, I became his fruitful vine, and our children were olive plants all around our table.
 
When I was expecting our seventh child, Mike and I both felt like God was calling us to a deeper walk of faith in Him. We had some friends that assisted with home births. We approached them about helping us with our own homebirth. Our friends advised us to pray and make sure God was telling us to do this. We prayed until we knew that we knew that this was what we were supposed to do. While our children waited and slept on the floor by my bed and a good friend walked the large hallway praying, Mike delivered our burly little ball player, Caleb.
 
When I found out I was expecting again, I did not have the same feelings about a home birth. My experience had been wonderful, but something did not feel right about it for this baby. As it turned out, our Abigail, whose name means a father’s joy, and I both needed medical help at the time of the birth. His plan was to have us at the hospital, with doctors and nurses who could care for us. God is so good.
 
Now fast-forward 23 years. My sweet baby girl is all grown up, and we just celebrated her marriage. The week before the wedding, we were blessed to have 22 of the 32 family members in our home at one time, twelve of which were children. Let me share with you some of the delightful scenes I had the privilege of witnessing.
 
I saw my husband working with my sons to replace the windows in our house. I watched my son-in-law playing ball with the grandchildren and riding the little ones around on his feet. My daughter–in-law and I came back from shopping for the wedding to find my ex-marine son-in-law, who now works as a bodyguard, painting the toenails of my four granddaughters.
 
My daughter was busy in the backyard, donned in her ball cap and garden gloves, directing the boys to pick up all the pinecones, branches, and burnable trash to be thrown in the burn pile for the bonfire that night. I saw my son, who has no children, swinging the grandchildren on the rope swing he had made by throwing a rope over a branch, putting a hole in a board, and tying it down to a wheelbarrow full of cement blocks.
 
Another daughter set up a chair for anyone interested in a haircut, while my daughter-in-law made sandwiches for all the children. I witnessed a daddy changing diapers for any babies nearby that appeared in need of a change. We finished off the night with a huge bonfire and smores for the children, made by my daughter and her husband-to-be.
 
After it had quieted down and the adults were all enjoying coffee and cobbler, I peeked in to the children’s room to see four children across the bottom bunk and the floor covered with little sleeping bags because they all wanted to be together. And knowing first thing in the morning, they would all be in our bed to say good morning! What pure joy!
 
And now you know. Yes, they are all mine! And yes, God had a plan. As for where babies come from, yes, I know that too. They are blessings from a good God and, indeed, our heritage and reward.
 
JUDY FOLSOM
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Update: Mike and Judy have eight grown children and now 20 grandchildren.
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A GREAT AND NOBLE WAY

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Your positive attitude to the most mundane tasks in your home makes such a difference to the atmosphere. Do everything as unto the Lord.
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BEAUTIFUL TWINS!

BeautifulTwinsOh, don’t you love this picture of these most adorable twins? I received this picture the other day from my dear friend, Sarah, and I just loved it so much I asked if I could share it with you all. Sarah and Daniel Bausum are now the parents of 12 amazing children.
 
I used to say when I had my twins (nearly 60 years ago) that “There’s nothing better than having a baby, except having two babies!” The amazing thing is that I didn’t know I was having twins until I was in labor on my due date! No ultrasounds back in those days!
 
Sarah writes: “Ida Poppy was only 4 lbs. when she was born, and she is now 12 lbs. Caleb was 6 lbs. 11 oz. and is now 15 lbs. They are growing just fine on breast milk alone. They started out too weak to nurse and I pumped my milk into bottles for three months until they gained strength to nurse. I introduced nursing a little each day. Now at four months old they despise the bottle and are exclusively breastfeeding! It was worth all the work.
 
The house has never been messier since I had the twins. (Sarah likes to keep her home ship-shape!). Your letter was a great reminder to focus on what matters and stop worrying about “how tired I am” or how “clean the house is” or “the projects” I’m not getting done.
 
Last night I sat in my boys’ room and chatted for hours. It is an absolute disaster since three boys share a tiny room. I sat on the edge of the bed, tried not to cringe at the dirty sheets, and had a heartfelt chat. I didn’t clean up a thing! That was very challenging for me since I prefer a tidy home. My son looked VERY encouraged this morning and left the house with a smile. It was the right choice to just connect in that moment instead of giving an oration on housekeeping.
 
Thanks for all you do in reminding us to keep focusing on the souls of our children. It’s very easy to get distracted in the busy coming and going, the dishes mounting up, the healthy meals to prepare, and mountain of clean laundry to put away from all the potty training accidents 😂. It’s refreshing to be reminded to stop, look past all that mess, and see the people we call our children.
 
“The joy of the Lord is my strength,” NOT how many hours I got to sleep in a row. God always provides the energy I need for each day. He is faithful, but your messages help me get my thinking back on track and out of the pity-party trenches.”
 
SARAH BAUSUM
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THREE DAY GAP

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God does not want His people to sit on the fence or even be close to the border of the world. God’s intention is a three day gap! Never lower the standard. If you compromise now, the next generation will lower the standard even more. Never be a compromising family.

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DREAMING OF AN ORGANIZED HOUSE?

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Stop dreaming. Get started!
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YOUR HOME IS NOT CONFINING

HomeConfiningIt's over to you, Mom. You can make your home a dreary, boring place, or you can make it the most exciting and productive place in your whole city. God has given you your home, whether small and humble or big and spacious, to raise your children for God and to use for His glory and blessing to many.
~ Nancy Campbell
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Above Rubies Address

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