MARRIAGE DESTROYER

One of the biggest stumbling blocks in a marriage relationship is pride. Pride reveals itself when we are stubborn and not willing to yield. It shows its ugly head when we stay on our "high perch" or keep our "high look" and are not prepared to humble ourselves.

Conversely, one of the greatest building tools in establishing a happy and sweet marriage is to have a humble and contrite heart. We certainly don't have this in our own flesh, but as we yield to the Holy Spirit, He will work it in our hearts. And you will have the favor of God upon you. And when you have God's favor in your home, you will enjoy all kinds of wonderful blessings.

Over and over again God reminds us that He hates the pride. Psalm 101:5 NIV says, "Whoever has haughty eyes and proud heart, I WILL NOT TOLERATE." The CEB translation says, "I can't stomach anyone who has proud eyes or an arrogant heart." Wow! God runs from pride so we won't experience His presence anywhere near us when we keep our proud heart (James 4:6 and 1 Peter 5;5).

But, who does God want to dwell with? Those who have "a contrite and humble spirit" (Isaiah 57:15). When we follow the example of Jesus and humble ourselves (Philippians 2:5-8) God comes right into our marriage with His mighty presence.

Blessings from Nancy Campbell