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The vision for Meat for Men — UNCOMPROMISING MANHOOD blog is to encourage husbands, fathers and single men in Biblical manhood.

WHO ARE THE SALT SHAKERS?

SaltShakersMatthew 5:13: “Ye are she salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savor wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.”

Good people have always been known as the salt of the earth. Good people can be good in some ways, e.g. their work ethic, helping someone in need, courageous on the battlefield, or good with their children. But when it comes to morality such as abortion, adultery, homosexuality, and embracing and raising the children God wants us to have, we often discover that they are not the salt of the earth.

What is the salt of the earth that Jesus talks about? We are the real “salt of the earth” if we allow our lives to lign up with what Jesus calls us for in this sermon. When it comes to judging true values, the salty words of Jesus must be the only judgment we can use.

We are only the salt of the earth when we live and practice what we believe. People can know the Bible through and through, but knowing it is not enough to make us the salt of the earth. We must live what we know.

Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount was the greatest saltshaker in the history of the earth, but it would have no meaning if Jesus did not practice what He preached.

Men, if we do not shake the salt first with our wives and families, we fail the cause of Christ. We husbands are saltshakers, shaking out the salt (God’s truth) everywhere we go. The world desperately needs it.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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EVEN A LITTLE COUNTS

LittleCountsJohn 6:9: “There is a lad here, which hath five barley loaves, and two small fishes: but what are they among so many?”

When we look at the great needs of so many in this world who are suffering and being persecuted we could easily become discouraged, throw up our hands, and forget about them. But even if we cannot give much because of our limited funds, we can always give something. Even if it’s only a few dollars. If all Christians would just give something, even when they themselves are struggling financially, we would be surprised what God can do. He can multiply it just like the boy’s little lunch of five barley loaves and two small fishes.

We must give what we can, even if it is just a little. We must also teach our children to be more giving than getting. The little boy gave Jesus all his lunch, but he never went home hungry! How amazing!

To cap pit all off there were twelve baskets over. I am sure they found others along the way to give them to. Ephesians 3:20 says: “Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us.”

Even when we have little to give in the way of money, we can still give our earnest prayers. Your prayers are invaluable. James 5:16 says: “The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.” God is more than able to meet every need in this entire world, but He has ordained that we should make these needs a matter of prayer. We must teach our children to pray for the great needs of the persecuted people in the world.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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HEAVY PERSECUTION continued.

HeavyPersecution2The kingdom of God is much more about giving than getting.

Matthew 19:29 states: “And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.”

The devil is not a giver and apposes giving. True Christian faith is a much more godly thing than many Christians understand. Biblical faith must be tested and tried in order to be perfected. Many Christians believe we exercise faith for the material comforts of life. But the faith Jesus teaches us to exercise is a faith that is prepared and willing to forsake all material and physical comforts if God should require, follow Him, and live our lives in a way that advances His kingdom first.

How is it possible that we who live in affluent western countries should be so taken up with creating our own wealth and physical comforts when fellow believers around the world are being tortured, persecuted, cast out, and killed for their faith in Christ? Do we not understand that by living in a free society we are blessed to be generous and give to those who are persecuted, trodden down, cast out, and deprived? If we are going to believe God for finances, we should believe for “kingdom giving” to those who are in need and greatly persecuted.

We are to follow our Savior’s example in Hebrews 2:10 who suffered in his life of giving to the point of giving His own blood.

2 Corinthians 8:9: “For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that ye through his poverty might be rich.”

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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HEAVY PERSECUTION

NeverAgainFathers, one of the best ways to train our children about persecution is to get them praying for the persecuted Christians in the many countries where this is happening. Heavy persecution comes to those who live in countries where the government and culture is seriously opposed to the Christian faith.

Even being kicked out of your home and family in a western country because you have converted to Christianity could hardly be considered heavy persecution. Hebrews 12:4 says: “Ye have not yet resisted unto blood, striving against sin.”

Heavy persecution is where one’s life and blood is at stake. Being cast into prison and tortured for your faith in Jesus Christ is heavy persecution. When your home and possessions are taken away from you because you are a Christian and you cannot find food or shelter from the government would be heavy persecution.

Because of ISIS, Boko Haram, Al-Qaida, Hamas, Hezbollah, El Shabaab, the Muslim Brotherhood and other terrorist regimes there are more and more Christians being heavily persecuted for their faith than at any other time in the history of the world.

Communist countries continue to heavily persecute Christians, e.g. North Korea, Cuba, and China. Hindu and Buddhist countries in parts of India and Burma heavily persecute Christians. Central and Eastern Asian countries, Islamic countries, and Northern African and Middle Eastern countries are also persecuting Christians.

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING -- HOW TO HANDLE SOFT PERSECUTION

BlessedPersecutionMatthew 5:10: “Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

Men, the kingdom of God is made up of righteous lives who are so committed to Christ that they often cause others who are not so fervent in their faith to persecute them in some way. We don’t receive hard persecution in this country, but sometimes soft persecution. Perhaps people may ostracize you, speak negatively about you, or make you feel unwelcome.

John 7:1-13 reveals that even Jesus’ own brothers and sisters opposed him. Verse 5 says: “Neither did his brethren believe in him.” They wanted Jesus to demonstrate His miraculous power openly and to promote Himself publicly. But Jesus knew that He would be killed before His time if he conformed to the ways and opinions of man. He was led by the Spirit which His family did not understand.

Persecution can be very real even in Christian families when one member chooses to really push into God. Fathers, we must encourage our children to seek God for themselves. This requires them to get away in some quiet place, take their Bibles and read, pray, and worship. Other members of the family may cause some opposition but we must encourage our children to keep a right attitude and always repay the negative with prayer, a smile of blessing, and good deeds.

If we can’t handle the soft persecution; how will we handle the hard persecution?

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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THE CALEB COMPANY

Ephesians 2 14Who belongs to the Caleb company? Those who refuse to acknowledge walls and giants!

Ephesians 2:14 says: “For he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition between us.” When Jesus Christ gave the great commission to His church to “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature” He did not acknowledge international or city walls (Mark 16:15).

In Matthew 28:18, 19 He says: “All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations . . .” “All power in heaven and in earth” negates all walls and boundaries. No matter how strong and tall the walls or boundaries, there is more than enough authority and power in Jesus’ statement of “All power in Heaven and in earth” to break them down.

The gates of hell that are built around nations, e.g. Hindu, Buddhist, Islam, Communist, and Humanist cannot prevail against the Caleb company who dare to believe and stake their lives upon the “All power in Heaven and in earth” that is in the name of Jesus Christ.”

The early church refused to acknowledge walls and boundaries. No devils, principalities or powers held them back and they earned the right to humbly take a front seat in the Caleb company (Acts 8:4).

Paul and Silas earned the right to be part of Caleb’s company. They were called “These that have turned the world upside down” (Acts 17:6).

David held a prominent seat in the Caleb company. He confessed: “For by thee I have run through a troop; and by my God have I leaped over a wall” (Psalm 18:29).

Where are the parents who are raising their children to take their place in the Caleb company?

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING -- DON’T BE DISCOURAGED BY THE MOUNTAINS

giantsLandMen, we are surrounded with giants, walls, and mountains, e.g. homosexuality, divorce, abortion, pornography, and a host of Internet evils. Many are throwing up their hands and giving up.

Along with Moses and Joshua, Caleb was different to all his contemporaries. God singles out Caleb. He highlights and honors him for us unwavering faith that giants and high walls are nothing in comparison to the power of God who delivered His people out of the hands of Pharaoh through great signs, wonders, and miracles. How sad it is that the multitudes of the adult population of Israel allowed fear and unbelief to cause their hearts to rebel against God, so severely that they desired to return to the slavery of Egypt.

High walls and giants discouraged them. Their human logic and reasoning told them they could not accomplish this assault on such powerful enemies. As a result it took 40 years of wandering in the wilderness for that unbelieving generation to die off before a new generation would be born who would not be intimidated by walls and giants--a generation who believed that nothing is impossible with God.

Caleb was the example and pattern of the type of people God is calling to mow down mountains. Isaiah 41:15 says: “Behold, I will make thee a new sharp threshing instrument having teeth: thou shalt thresh the mountains, and beat them small, and shalt make the hills as chaff.” Through God they will break down walls (Joshua 6:29). They will wholly follow the Lord no matter what the naysayers say all around them.

Men, we must be this same example to our wives and families as Caleb was to his family and generation.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING--REFUSE TO ACCEPT THE DEFENSIVE WALLS

BreakWallsIf we accept the walls of defense that people put up around their lives, we are defeated before we start. If members of your family (or even your own spouse) do not wish to communicate or fellowship with you, the natural inclination is to stay away yourself and pay them back with their own medicine. But this only tends to accentuate the problem and build the walls of separation even thicker and higher.

The devil is a... divider of the brethren. He knows the power that people have when unity is flowing. Therefore it is to his advantage to split and divide the precious unity God requires for His blessings to flow.

The devil quickly tries to build walls of hurt, unforgiveness, anger, argument, and hate. Refusing to acknowledge, reach out, and fellowship with certain Christians because they do not belong to the same denomination as you, or because they view certain minor doctrines differently to you is to fall into the enemy’s trap to divide the brethren.

Religious pride is one of the biggest walls that divides the brethren. Proverbs 6:19 says that sowing discord among brethren is one of the seven things that God hates and is an abomination to Him.

Walls are made to keep certain people out, but Jesus is in the business of breaking walls down, thereby bringing peace.

Ephesians 2:14: “For he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition between us.”

Psalm 133:1-3: “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron’s beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments; as the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life forevermore.”

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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PEACEMAKING -- A MEEK SPIRIT

MeeknessPowerThe following Scripture is written to wives who inherently like to adorn themselves with all types of jewelry: “Let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price” (1 Peter 5:3).

However, it can also have its application men. It makes reference in the beginning of the verse to “the hidden man of the heart.” Men who prefer their wives not ...to be loud and raucous, screaming and yelling at the children, would do well to tone themselves down somewhat. It is not the nature of the inner man, Jesus Christ, to be loud and brash.

Jesus said in Matthew 11:29: ”Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” Undoubtedly it would be a great blessing for women who desire a restful marriage to have a husband who is like Jesus Christ in this way. A loud and abrasive husband who bullies his wife and family does not create a home of rest for the souls under his care.

I do not believe that men are not mean to show their masculinity in the way they act and live. On the contrary, I love men to be masculine, but at the same time caring, protecting, and gentle towards their wives and daughters. Masculinity does not mean a man should not be meek when dealing with hurt and broken people.

Meekness does not mean that we cannot be competitive in sports and business and at the same time meek and gentle to our family and friends.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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PEACEMAKING--PEACEMAKERS TAKE THE HUMBLE WAY

HumbleWayBack to our subject of:

Zechariah 9: 9: “Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion; shout O daughter of Jerusalem: behold, thy King cometh unto thee: he is just, and having salvation; lowly, and riding upon an ass, and upon a colt the foal of an ass.”

Mathew 21:5: “Tell ye the daughter of Zion, Behold, thy king cometh unto thee, meek, and sitting upon an ass, and a colt the foal of an ass.” This Scripture tells us that Jesus fulfilled the Zechariah's prophecy when He chose to ride into Jerusalem on a colt, the foal of an ass.

This was indeed a humble form of transport for Jesus, the Jewish Messiah. The humble multitudes that heard His teaching and witnessed His miracles recognized who He was and spread their garments on the road and cut down branches from the trees and spread them in the way. Multitudes went before and behind saying, “Hosanna to the Son of David: Blessed is he that cometh in the name of the Lord; Hosanna in the highest” (Matthew 21:9). All the city was moved, saying, “Who is this?”

There were more noble forms of transport in Jesus’ day. Perhaps a throne-type chair held aloft by several strong men, or a chariot with magnificent white horses would have appealed far more to the proud, political religious leaders. But they did not want to recognize a Messiah riding on an ass.

Men, this same Jesus Christ is still looking today for humble, meek, “donkey-type” men to ride on through the pathways, roads, and streets of this life on earth. He refuses the glamorous and prideful forms of transport.

And this is the way He brings in His peace. His kingdom consists of humble men and woman.

Come, ride on my life, Lord Jesus Christ, my King and my Master!

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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WHO WILL RISE UP?

WhoRiseUpPsalm 94:16: “Who will rise up for me against the evildoers? or who will stand up for me against the workers of iniquity?”

It surprises me that there are so many churchgoers who support homosexuals and their right to be married. I believe this is because church leaders, for fear of losing their 501C3 status or losing people from their church, do not speak up about what God says concerning this issue.

Gods people are like sheep and easily led astray. Church leaders and parents who claim to be Christians must from time to time, especially at this moment which this subject is such a “hot potato,” should rise, up, stand up, and speak up.

Another reason why church leaders do not speak out against this moral perversion is that they are afraid of being branded a bigot or intolerant. They love the praises of men and want to be loved by all. They want to be popular, but the truth is not always popular. Antibiotic injections have to be given in order to save lives, even if the recipients don’t like needles being poked into them.

As parents, we must share with our children what God says about the sin of homosexuality. The state schools through Common Core are not afraid to educate the nation’s children to accept homosexuality as an alternative to heterosexual marriage. The media is fine with pushing alternative lifestyles.

However, because the world jams these immoral values into our young people’s minds, we as church leaders and parents cannot afford to hold back the truth. If we are silent because of fear of being branded bigots, homophobias or such like, woe unto us.

We must speak up now.
We must stand up now.
We must rise up now.

This is the time to educate our children with the truth of God’s Word or we will be in danger of losing them. Many have already lost their children to the deception of homosexuality because not enough people are prepared to rise up and call it what it is: homosexuality is an abomination to God and it should be to us.

Leviticus 18:22 says: “Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind: it is abomination.” This ruling comes from the Supreme Court of Heaven.

Be ready to rise up.

Colin Campbell

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THE ANSWER IS NO

noDoes God agree in any way with the Supreme Court’s decision on homosexual marriage? The answer is Absolutely No.

In the beginning God founded and ordained the institution of marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 1:27, 28) Marriage between a man and a woman is sanctioned by God in multiple instances throughout the Bible. The Bible records no incidence where God sanctions or affirms homosexuality or marrying two of the same sex.

In the first book of the Bible, Genesis chapters 18 and 19 declare God’s hatred for homosexuality and His awesome judgment upon it.

The law of Moses prohibits and pronounces judgment against it (Leviticus 18:22; 20:13; and Deuteronomy 23:17). There are 39 negative references to Sodom and Gomorrah in the Old Testament and nine in the New Testament. They all speak of judgment concerning the cities and their sin of homosexuality.

Hate speech is frowned upon concerning race and homosexuality. However, God wants to bless every race, no matter their what their skin color. Just as murder is spoken against and no one sees that as hate speech, so must parents and church leaders speak up against all moral perversion (which uses the human sex drive to do things God did not ordain or create us to do).

The homosexual agenda is now taught in more and more state schools in our nation and there are many Christians who are deeply offended by the liberal hate speech opposing biblical morals. Christians are not taught in the Bible to hate homosexuals any more than they are taught to hate abortionists or murderers. But we are to hate the sin of homosexuality and must speak against this sin. In fact, we must speak out against all that God speaks again.

In the midst of all this we must always remember that we are all sinners in some way or other and that God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son to die and shed His blood for each one of us and that by repenting and turning from our sin we are saved and cleansed from every sinful and moral offence against God.

God loves sinners but He does not love or condone the sin. The supreme Court dared to rule on the behalf of what God condemns and unfortunately, and sadly, the country will suffer for their decision.

Christians cannot bow to their ruling, but only to God’s ruling.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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A LITTLE FELLOW FOLLOWS ME

LittleFellowA careful man I want to be;
A little fellow follows me.
I do not dare to go astray
For fear he’ll go the self-same way.

I cannot once escape his eyes,
Whate’er he sees me do, he tries.
Like me he says he’s going to be;
The little chap who follows me.

He thinks that I’m so very fine,
Believes in every word of mine.
The base in me he must not see;
The little chap who follows me.

I must remember as I go
Through summer’s sun and winter’s snow,
I’m building for the years to be;
The little chap who follows me.

~ Unknown

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING 7b - BE A GOOD FORGIVER continued.

ForgiveThemIt’s hard to imagine how many families are torn apart through the failure to forgive. Ephesians 2:4 says: “But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, even when we were dead in sins . . . ” To be rich in mercy is to be rich in forgiveness.

In the midst of unimaginable suffering and taking upon Himself the sin of the world, Jesus cried from cross, “Father, forgive them: for they know not whatthey do.” Without a doubt, the crime of all crimes was the crucifixion of the Jewish Messiah by His own flesh and blood. And yet it was all our sins, both Jew and Gentile, that nailed Him to that cross.

God had forgiveness in His heart when He planned our salvation from the foundation of the world (Revelation 13:8). However, no matter how willing God is to forgive, it can only be received and experienced by the repentant, believing heart (John 1:12 and 3:16).

As men and fathers, God does not want us to be like Shakespeare’s Macbeth, always wanting our pound of flesh. God does not want us to be severe, cold, and calculating when it comes to forgiveness and peacemaking. However, this does not mean that we should be sloppy and giving forgiveness and fellowship to adulterers and fornicators while they continue in their sin. Far be it. But we should have a fervent desire to see fellowship restored, even if it is at great cost to us.

It cost our Heavenly Father His beloved Son. How much cost are we, His followers, prepared to pay? Forgiveness is not something we as Christians should struggle to give; rather our hearts should be full of it, always desiring for the right moment to pour it out.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING 7 - BE A GOOD FORGIVER

ForgiveMen, not only must we be able to forgive, but we must activate forgiveness. Being able to do something is one thing, but to actually do it is quite another. Everyone knows they ought to forgive, but many drag their feet in getting around to doing it. Some take a whole life time. How sad. Some only show partial forgiveness. They forgive some things about a person that they do not like, e.g. minor flaws in their personality, but the more serious issues they will not forgive.

Some offer only conditional forgiveness based solely upon complete repentance and change. Others only forgive when the offender comes full circle and asks for it.

But our God offers for forgiveness in Christ Jesus while we were yet sinners. Romans 5:8 says: “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”

I am sure that the father of the prodigal son forgave his son in his heart long before the son returned home seeking forgiveness (Luke 15:11-32). Verse 20 says: “And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.” This is the type of forgiveness we fathers must have towards our own children, and others, even before they “reach home.” Even while they are still “yet a great way off.”

God’s peacemakers minister God’s forgiveness which is always generous--the best robe, a ring on the hand, shoes on the feet, and a party with music and dancing. Forgiveness is always on the lookout for those who are beginning to make their way home.

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING 6a - CULTIVATE A MEEK SPIRIT continued.

WalkHumblyMeekness is not self-exalting.
Meekness does not boast about its own accomplishments.
Meekness does not parade its PhDs and Master’s degrees.
Meekness is not full of its own self-importance.
Meekness does not seek to impress others with its own intelligence.
When engaged in conversation with others meekness does not compete for the limelight or hog the platform.
Meekness draws out wisdom from others.
Meekness is a virtue that listens intently to others in order to learn how to answer correctly. Meekness honors others when it is applauded. Even when praise and honor is appropriately given for some act of great bravery, assignment, or accomplishment, meekness receives the reward with humility.
Meekness enables us to humble ourselves and go to others who we have unwittingly offended (or offended without thinking before acting), ask forgiveness, and offer apologies.
Meekness forgives others who have wronged us.
Meekness enables us to consider our own faults and weaknesses.
Meekness receives correction.
Meekness does not demand its own way.
If called Rabbi, Pastor, Teacher, Doctor etc. out of respect, meekness graciously receives it without allowing it to boost prideful egos. Matthew 23:7-11 shows us that we must learn to not allow titles to puff us up.
Meekness enables us to serve others. In the same context of warning about titles, we are encouraged to be a servant. Luke 23:11 says: “But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.” Meekness does not expect others to always be serving us without our being involved in serving them.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING 6 - CULTIVATE A MEEK SPIRIT

MeekSpiritParents, pastors, and leaders, please take not of this Scripture: 2 Timothy 2:24, 25: “And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth.”

Men, how sad it is when church leaders who are meant to be resolving a contention within the church, whether it be many or few, come across as arrogant, proud, and hurt people with their words.

In Numbers 12:3-14 we read about the dispute of Miriam and Aaron with Moses about the Ethiopian woman he married. God Himself intervenes and supports His servant, Moses by describing him with these words: “Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth.” What an amazing testimony for God to give His servant Moses. This is a huge endorsement for Moses’ leadership of God’s people. Would to God that all God’s servants in parenting and leadership would exemplify this beautiful character qualification in their ministry.

Tragically, there are multitudes who have been seriously hurt and wounded by parents, pastors, and church leaders who are often so full of their own importance.

Often men are not chosen to lead others because of their meekness. All too often they are chosen for their smartness, intelligence, academia, good looks, gifts of oratory, and ability to organize. However, it is meekness that pleases God.

Meekness is patient and takes time to listen carefully. Meekness will not rush to judge. Pride vaunts up itself. Meekness does not abuse its authority.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING 5 - SPEAK THE TRUTH IN LOVE

1Peter4 8 9John 1:14: “And the Word was make flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.”

John 1:17: “For the law was given by Moses, but grace and truth came by Jesus Christ.”

In order to bring peace in a relationship, it is important to speak only the truth. However, truth without the eyes and body language of love can be very destructive. One can say, “I love you,” but the words must be backed up with the eyes and facial language that support and confirm the statement. The loving touch of a hand, coupled with the loving look of the eye has power to melt the hardened heart.

Ephesians 4:15: “Speaking the truth in love, may grow up pinto him in all things. which is the head, even Christ.”

The truth should only be spoken in order to correct, encourage, to make amends, or to bring repentance. The true Christian way to bring an accusation should always be to restore, not to condemn.

When Jesus Christ came into the world, He did not come to condemn the world. John 3:17 says: “For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world though him might be saved.” Although there was much in the world worthy of condemnation (and that is a big understatement), every word and action of Jesus, from the beginning of His ministry to the cross, was for the purpose of redemption. How can we who speak in His name do anything less?

It is also important to speak only the truth that is relevant to the subject and to resist the temptation to drag up things of the past that have already been dealt with.

We should remember 1 Peter 4:8: “And above all things have fervent love among yourselves: for love shall cover the multitude of sins.”

Also James 5:20: “Let him know, that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins.”

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING 4 - REACT WITH A SOFT ANSWER

InYourAngerProverbs 15:1: “A soft answer turns away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”

Men, as the children of God we are call to be peacemakers. However, we cannot minister the peace of God when our emotions are not held in check. Do not even think for a moment that any good thing can come out of an angry, accusative spirit.

It is important to calm yourself down and take control of your angry emotions when disciplining your children. In the same way, it is just as important when dealing with your spouse, a friend, or church member, etc.

I am not saying there is not a place for righteous indignation as it was with Jesus when He cleansed the temple (John 2:15). We are also exhorted in Ephesians 4:26: “Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.” It is appropriate to be angry and upset over injustice and flagrant abuse of God’s grace and holiness. However, because of our fallen nature and all of its subtlety, we had better be sure that our anger is righteous anger.

Immediately after the words: “Let not the sun go down upon your wrath,” it states: “Neither give place to the devil.” If we do not quickly get our anger in check we give opportunity for the devil to make things far worse than they are.

Watch your body language--pointing the finger, screwing up your face, glaring angrily with your eyes, shouting, screaming, and yelling. None of these things belong to the children of God who are peacemakers.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STEPS TO PEACEMAKING 3 - GO TO YOUR BROTHER ALONE

ForgiveOthersGod’s children are blessed because they are peacemakers.

Matthew 18:15: “Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.”

When someone is offended by a friend, family brother or sister, or church member, they often cut them off and refuse to have anything more to do with them. This is very immature and grieves the Holy Spirit who blesses those who do their best to keep the unit of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

It is wrong for offended Christians to gossip and spread their offences to others, especially if they have not made any real attempt to go to the one who caused the offence to put things right so that unity can be restored

It is wrong for offended Christians to in anyway seek to pay back evil for evil or trespass for trespass. This is also very immature and we would do well to remember that two wrongs can never make a right.

Romans 12:17, 18: “Recompense to no man evil for evil. . . If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.”

Spreading slander about the one who offended you by spreading it on Twitter or Facebook is rendering evil for evil. All this type of thing is wrong and makes matters worse.

To go to someone who has wronged you takes courage and should be done as soon as possible. Many immature Christians often carry these grudges for years and this sort of behavior grieves the Holy Spirit. Refusing to talk to people or acknowledge those who have wronged you, perhaps not even intentionally, is rendering evil for evil and is not righteous behavior.

Cutting people off until they come back to you to find out what they have done wrong shows no humility. Just because someone, for the sake of restoring unity, apologizes or says “Sorry” does not always mean they are the guilty before God. It is wrong for the offended to sit back and coddle their hurts and wait for the offender, who may not know what they have done wrong, to come and repent and apologize.

Do not delay going to your brother or sister alone. The longer you wait, the more opportunity you give for sin to abound. The longer the rift or division is allowed to continue without being addressed, the harder it becomes for peacemaking.

Fathers, be responsible to practice these truths and teach them to your children.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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