Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Through the weekly and daily devotionals you can be constantly encouraged in your great role of parenting, the highest career in the nation. You can also stay updated on what's happening with the Above Rubies ministry.

The vision for Meat for Men — UNCOMPROMISING MANHOOD blog is to encourage husbands, fathers and single men in Biblical manhood.

FATHERS, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE!

disrespectful“We must not allow our children to get away with negative attitudes or moods. If moods are not dealt with while children are young, it will be more difficult to deal with them later on. Temper tantrums, stomping the feet, and hateful speech (especially to parents) must not be tolerated. Don’t allow your children to get away with pouting, rolling the eyes, or negative facial expressions.”
~ Colin Campbell

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STAND UP FOR TRUTH - SILENCE IS A CRIME!

standtruthgod"Is the old Pilgrim spirit quench'd within us?
Stoops the proud manhood of our souls so low,
That Mammon's lure or Party's wile can win us to silence now?
Now, when our land to ruin's brink is verging.
In God's name let us speak while there is time:
Now, when the padlocks for our lips are forging,
Silence is a crime."
~ Whittier

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THE MOST SIGNIFICANT MORAL ISSUE OF OUR TIME....

BabyWomb"I see abortion as the most significant moral issue of our time. In fact, I feel that the ministers of this country (of the world) are someday going to have to answer for their unwillingness to confront this issue head-on. It cannot be right to take an innocent little child whom God is forming in his mother's womb, and leave him to die on a porcelain table."
~ James Dobson

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AT THE CROSS OF CHRIST

AllToJesus"If it is I who determine where God is to be found, then I shall always find a God who corresponds to me in some way, who is obliging, who is connected with my own nature. But if God determines where He is to be found, then it will be in a place which is not immediately pleasing to my nature and which is not at all congenial to me. This place is the cross of Christ."
~ Bonhoeffer.

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GOD IS A...

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...Consuming Fire. ~ Deuteronomy 4:24

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"YOU CANNOT HELP MEN...

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...permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves."

~ A. Lincoln

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"Patriotism...

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...is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it."

~ Mark Twain

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YOU CAN'T CHANGE...

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...What you refuse to confront.

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SOCIALISM IS...

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...a philosophy of failure.

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THE SAME POWER...

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...that raised Christ from the dead is living in you.

Romans 8:11

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ATHEISM IS A TEMPORARY CONDITION...

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Every knee will bow, every tonque will confess that Jesus Christ is LORD.

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SHARPENING MY CHILDREN

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With God's Word

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 4

FeelPainI begin today with a statement I wrote yesterday:

GOD’S AMAZING GRACE DOES NOT COVER A LIFESTYLE OF UNREPENTANT SIN.

To permit a son or a daughter to have their homosexual partner living and sleeping together in your home is a false love and a false grace. Even to allow unmarried couples of the opposite sex to sleep together in your home is a false love and a false grace. This is happening in Christian homes across America and I am saddened by it.

Whatever the world accepts as acceptable and normal behavior when it comes to morals is now becoming the norm of the church.

I am not saying that we should not actively, as Christians, love those who are committing sin. God loved us while we were yet sinners so much that he sent His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, to die a horrible death for our sins. Romans 5:8 says: “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”

We must actively show our love toward sinners and yet at the same time let them understand that we actively reject their sin.

Under the guise of love and grace many so-called Christians will not judge abortion as murdering innocent lives and yet at the same time they will actively stand up against those who murder innocent people on our streets, schools, and Walmart’s. What hypocrisy. This is false love and grace and we fail to discern what is right from wrong. Murdering unborn, innocent children is just as evil as murdering people in Walmart.

Under the guise of love and grace we must not allow your children to have uncontrolled use of Internet games and programs that pervert their innocent minds and lives. This is false love for your children and false grace. Christian parents have a God-given mandate to protect their children from watching the wrong things.

God’s grace should never be treated as a band aid to cover sin so that sin doesn’t look so bad.

Many Christians allow this to happen so their children will not be bored with nothing to entertain them. They think that one day they will grow out of it. This is a false love and a false grace.

Hebrews 12:28, 29: “Wherefore we receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have grace, whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear: For our God is a consuming fire.” This is the love and grace that is acceptable to God.

Titus 2;11, 12 explains more of what it means to walk in grace: “For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men, Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present world.”

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 3

GavelLove is not puffed up with the yeast of our own prideful reasonings.

The love of God does not leave sin unjudged. Sin is not something that, under the guise of love, should be tolerated and accepted in the Christian family or the church.

God judged all our sins with the crucifixion of His sinless and only Beloved Son. God forgave us all our sins through the terrible judgment that Jesus Christ vicariously bore in our place on that rugged cross.

Jesus Christ now lives in us by His spirit to give us the victory over all sin. Every type of sin that seeks to dominate our lives must be judged for what it is. Sin is sin whether it was before we became a Christian or after we became a Christian.

If God calls all wrong-doing sin, so should we.

Even though sin was judged at the cross, it is still sin if we continue in it.

Romans 6:1, 2: “What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any loner therein?”

We must examine ourselves and judge our actions before we partake of the Lord’s Supper lest we eat and drink damnation to ourselves. 1 Corinthians 11:29, 30 says: “For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body. For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.”

God’s amazing grace does not cover a lifestyle of unrepentant sin.

Much of the church is under a false grace that permits sin to be unjudged and unrepented of, both in our homes and in the churches.

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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EDUCATION IS NOT...

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...the learning of facts. It's rather the training of the mind to think.

~ Albert Einstein

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 2, LOVE DOES NOT BOAST

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Love does not vaunt itself.

Love does not promote oneself; it promotes others.
Love does not draw attention to oneself.
Love does not seek the applause of man.
Love does not desire the admiration of the crowds.
Love does not need others to see how well-educated, brilliant, or wise you are.
Love does not seek to be a great orator to dazzle people with the power of one’s speech.

LOVE IS NOT PUFFED UP

Love dies to oneself rather than increasing oneself with pride and self-fame.

Paul speaks about being puffed up in 1 Corinthians 4:6 (NET): “So that none of you will be puffed up in favor of the one against the other.” Sadly verses 18 and 19 say: “Now some of you are puffed up, as though I would not come to you. But I will come to you shortly, if the Lord will, and will know, not the speech of them which are puffed up, but the power.” Paul is saying that there were people amongst them that were favoring some and not others. They were respecters of persons.

Acts 10:34 says: “Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons.”

James 2:1: “My brethren, have not the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory, with respect of persons.”

1 Corinthians 5:2: “Ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this dead might be taken away from among you.”

The Corinthians church were allowing fornication of a very serious nature to remain in the church. This type of sin is being committed all over our modern-day Christian church and yet they allow it in the name of love. We lovingly tolerate the things God abhors. We are puffed up with false love for we allow people to continue in sin who do things God hates. God’s love deals with sin and applies the necessary discipline.

We think we should not judge sin in the church on the basis of “Judge not that ye be not judged” (Matthew 7:1). This is not talking about not dealing with sin in the church, but rather to not be a critical person who is always looking for faults in others.

1 Corinthians 6:3 says: “Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?”

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 1 LOVE IS LONGSUFFERING.

LoveEnvyLongsuffering means one who has the power to revenge but refrains from doing so (Romans 2:4; 2 Corinthians 4;4-6; Galatians 5:22; Colossians 1:11; and 3:12-14).

LOVE IS KIND

This means to act benevolently, to treat one as one’s own kind (a member of one’s own family).

Proverbs 31:26 says of the virtuous woman: “She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.”

Ephesians 4:23 “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

LOVE DOES NOT ENVY

Love is not jealous of others. The word envy means “a passion or zeal to move against someone because of envy.” Envy is divisive. It blocks fellowship and hinders the flow of the spirit of love. Envy causes one to argue and resist others even when they are more righteous.

When judging Jesus at the time of His crucifixion Pilate asked the people if they would prefer Barabbas, a notable prisoner who was a murderer (Mark 15:7-15). Matthew 27:18 tells us that Pilate “knew that for envy they had delivered him.”

The priests were envious of Jesus because the multitudes followed Him. Or was it because of the mighty miracles He performed? They were not performing miracles.

Jesus told the disciples to tell John the Baptist: “Go and show John again those things which ye do hear and see: The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them. And blessed is he, whosoever shall not be offended in me” (Matthew 11:4-6).

Why did Jesus tell John tell John the Baptist not to be offended at Him? Great miracles were happening with Jesus. Multitudes were following Him and yet John the Baptist’s ministry was fading. Even John the Baptist said himself: “He must increase but I must decrease” (John 3:30).

We read in John 1:35-42 of two of John’s disciples who left John and followed Jesus. Sometimes this kind of thing can cause an offense and offense can lead to envy. I am not saying that John the Baptist was offended. However, Jesus certainly cautioned him about it.

We will not envy if we are filled with love.

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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THE GREATEST IS LOVE

WhoeverDoesNotLoveThere Is nothing greater than love except God because God is love!

1 John 4:8: “He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.”

1 Corinthians 13;13: “But the greatest of these is love.”

The question is: how great is the love of God in us?

Love is the principle doctrine of the three abiding truths which are faith, hope, and love.

1 Corinthians 13:1: “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.”

Speaking in tongues is not forbidden in the New Testament church (1 Corinthians 14:39), whether it be the tongues of men or of angels. However, in the church it must be interpreted, otherwise it is out of order. But even if we have a powerful gift of speaking in tongues and yet are not exercising the fruit of love we are as sounding brass or a tinkling cymbal.

Every gift must be exercised from a heart that is filled with the love of Christ otherwise it will not profit the giver or hearer.

1 Corinthians 13:2; “And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.”

Prophecy is a great gift because it edifies the church, but if the individual who prophesies is not filed with the love of God it prophets them or the hearers nothing.

Jonah was told to go and prophecy to the people of Nineveh. However, he was definitely not filled with the love of God. He had no love at all for the people of Nineveh. He wanted them to be destroyed and God did not reward him for his failure to love, even though he was miraculously delivered from spending three days and three nights in the belly of a whale.

Because of this Jonah became a prophetic sign of Christ’s death and resurrection.

Jesus said in Matthew 12:40, 41: “For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the whale’s belly; so shall the Son of man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth. The men of Nineveh shall rise in judgment with this generation, and shall condemn it: because they repented at the preaching of Jonah; and , behold, a greater than Solomon is here.”

To be filled with wisdom and to understand all mysteries and knowledge would be a very powerful gift and could draw crowds of people desperately seeking answers to their problems and important questions. However, from God’s perspective, it would profit the individual nothing if not motivated by the love of God that is shed abroad in the believer’s heart (Romans 5:5). Such a gift, though given by God’s love could easily promote pride.

The user of the gift must at all times give all the glory to God and seek to be always filled with God‘s love. Otherwise this powerful gift will profit him nothing.

Jesus Christ made it very clear that the supernatural gifts give us no credence, nor do they give us God’s acceptance or reward.

Although supernatural gifts of God will attract people’s attention and people will flock to be blessed by these gifts, they can only bring reward to the stewards of these gifts if they operate in the love of God.

I am most certainly not downplaying any of the gifts of the Holy Spirit, but merely saying that every steward of every gift must make sure the fruit of love is flowing from their lives.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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STOP LISTENING

The Devil never stops telling you lies.

StopListening

You've got to stop listening.

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WHAT IS HOPE? Part 2

WhatHope2Hope that is not based on the Word of God is indeed an enemy of faith. Hope that is based on what some doctor, friend, writer, or even preacher who does not have God’s Word backing him, is often a false hope. Even faith based on any other source than God’s spoken Word and promises is false, and therefore an enemy of faith.

Romans 8:24, 25: “For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for? But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.”

We can still call the things that we have faith and hope for as though they already were (Romans 4:17). Abraham not only believed for his son, Isaac, but he hoped for much more. He believed and hoped for future descendants and generations, as many as the stars in the sky that would come from his promised son (Genesis 15:5, 6).

Even Jesus Christ, the Messiah was included in the promised Isaac. The miracle baby was the down payment (Galatians 3:15, 16).

It is important for us fathers to take notice of Abraham, the “friend of God.” His desire for children was very great. He wanted children. He longed for children.

Genesis 18:19: “For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment, that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him.”

Abraham was a prototype father, a pattern father. God declared Abraham righteous because he believed in a multitude of future sons and daughters. This should challenge us fathers to rethink our own position on this important subject. God himself is a lover of children (many children).

As fathers, we must teach our children all that God has promised us. How can they believe and have hope in the Scriptures if no one enlightens them of these “exceeding great and precious promises”?

2 Peter 1:4: “Whereby are give unto us EXCEEDING GREAT AND PRECIOUS PROMISES: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.”

This world is full of hopelessness and unbelief in God’s Word. Many of the Christian faith are very ignorant of most of the promises of God’s word. A good father will teach his children the promises of God.

1 Peter 3:15: “But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear.”

Most Christians today cannot give a scriptural reason of the hope that is within them. Why? Because they do not know the Scriptures. Let’s be fathers who diligently teach the Scriptures to our children.

Isiah 38:19: “The father to the children shall make known thy truth.”

Romans 15;4: “For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope.”

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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