Home Destroyers Pt 1, No. 207


Part 1 

1 Timothy 6:8, “Having food and clothing, with these we shall be content.” 

Reading through Proverbs recently I noticed that it mentions five things that destroy the home. I prefer not to write about negative things, but, on the other hand, we can’t wipe any of God’s Word under the mat. And God’s negatives always turn to positives. When we read His warning signs which mean, ROAD BLOCK, WRONG WAY-GO BACK or DEAD END we know that it is not the road to take, even though it looks beautiful and such an easy road. We must swerve back on the road God has planned for us from the beginning of time. God has never changed his plans. His ways are still the only ones that work effectively. Jeremiah 6:16 says, “Thus saith the Lord, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls.”  

Let’s look at some of these WRONG WAY signs. 


Proverbs 15:27, “He that is greedy of gain troubles his own house.” 

No wonder one of the Ten Commandments is “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s house… thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife… nor any thing that is thy neighbor’s.” (Exodus 20: 17) When we see friends with things that we don’t have it is easy to hanker after them too. Most people like to be like everyone else and have everything that their associates have.  

How can this negatively affect the home?  

a)   By becoming despondent and full of self-pity because we can’t afford what we want. This takes away our joy of living and being “content with such things as we have.” (Hebrews 3:5-6) 

b)   As we crave a better house and more things to put in the house we start to plan how we can get these things. Ideas take shape. That’s it! I could do what everyone else is doing who has more things. I could go out and get a job! Yes, that’s the answer. But is it? To go out and get a job you have to leave the home behind. You have to vacate the very place where God wants you to be—in the heart of the home. (Psalm 1228:3) You have to put your children in daycare or leave them with someone else. God didn’t give your children to you to give them to someone else to look after! He gives the responsibility to you. You are the only one who can truly nurture and nourish your baby and children.  

c)   The home becomes a show piece of material riches rather than filling it with the true riches of children. When you get your eyes on material riches, children become a nuisance. 

May God save us from a greedy spirit. 



“Father, I pray that you will take every spirit of greediness from me. Give me a contented spirit. Help me to enjoy the riches you have given me – my precious children and the (little) house you have provided for me. I thank you for the blessing of food and clothing. Amen” 


Content in my home, that’s for me,With coveting gone, I’m now free!  

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