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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 6 - GOD’S LOVE IS NOT UNSEEMLY continued.

NotUnseemlyJesus Christ did not act unseemly, rudely, coarsely, or inappropriately to His godly character. Even when He cleansed the temple.

Our God is very great, majestic, and holy. He does not lower His righteous, holy standards when dealing with mankind. He sent His only beloved Son, Jesus Christ into this sin-filled world to redeem us with his precious, sinless blood so that we would become new creatures.

2 Corinthians 5:17: “Therefore if man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.”

We must not fashion ourselves after the ways and culture of this present age, but rather be fashioned in the likeness of his Son.

Romans 8:29: “For whom he did foreknow he also did predestinate to be CONFORMED TO THE IMAGE OF HIS SON that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.”

As new creatures still living in these earthly bodies, our whole aim and objective in life should be to live , act, look, and speak exactly as Jesus did when He was physically alive here on this earth.

How wonderful that God our Father has given to us His precious, Holy Spirit to enable us to be like Jesus in every aspect of life. Jesus Christ is our perfect example and we should seek to emulate Him in every dimension of His life.

When people look at us, they should see Jesus Christ in all that we do, speak, and behave. In other words, Jesus Christ should still be walking on this earth in all his glorious character through His people, which is His body.

John 1:14: “And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we behold his glory the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.”

Jesus Christ, our perfect prototype and example, was full of grace and truth. Therefore, we His people should also be full of grace and truth through the power of his indwelling Spirit.

More tomorrow.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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BOLD AS A LION

BoldLionProverbs 28:1 says: "The righteous are as bold as a lion." God is bold and He despises fear and cowardice.

1 Chronicles 12:8 says: "And of the Gadites there separated themselves unto David into the hold to the wilderness men of might, and men of war fit for the battle, that could handle shield and buckler, whose FACES WERE LIKE THE FACES OF LIONS, and were as swift as the roes upon the mountains."

These Gadites, whose faces had a lion-like look about them must have indeed been bold men. All these mighty bold men came to help King David. But our King Jesus, who is the heavenly David, is surely worth nothing less than the earthly David.

Don’t you agree?

Let’s be bold in this hour to stand up for truth.

Be encouraged, men.

Colin Campbell

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 5

RespectElderly1 Corinthians 13:5a says: “Doth not behave itself unseemly.”

Although the King James Version uses the word “unseemly,” most translations use the word “rude.” The Strong’s concordance says this word means “indecency, shame, unbecoming.”

I believe it is important for all Christian parents to repeatedly teach their children this truth so that it enters deeply within them that God’s love flowing through them will not allow them to behave unseemly, rudely, indecently, or shamefully.

We are living in a generation that is far too disrespectful in their behavior and speech towards their parents, elders, peers, the elderly, and those who have rule and authority over them.

There was a time in our culture when we were taught to stand up, bow down, and kneel in the presence of those whose position rightfully deserved our honor and respect.

Proverbs 25:6; “Put not thyself forward in the presence of the king, and stand not in the place of great men. For better is it that it be said of thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.”

To put oneself forward into an honored position in someone else’s home without being invited is rude and unseemly. Do not take the chair of honor in the dining room nor at the dinner table unless you are asked.

Leviticus 19;32 (NET): “You must stand up in the presence of the aged, honor the presence of an elder and fear your God. I am the LORD.”

This appropriate behavior is not only for special occasions, but for normal everyday life. Many of our English-speaking nations have departed from our Judeo /Christian culture norms to our own discredit. We no longer address an older stranger whose name we do not know as Sir or Mister, or an older lady we do not know as Ma’am or Madam.

It is now normal to be uncouth, brash, arrogant, and down right disrespectful in the presence of the opposite sex and innocent children.

Freedom of speech does not give us the right to say whatever we like for God will judge every man according to what comes out of his mouth. Even when we share a testimony or a word before God’s people at church or a Christian gathering, we must be careful to be honorable with our words.

Matthew 12:36, 36: “But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words that shalt be condemned.”

Ephesians 4:29, 30: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your nouth but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.”

Colossians 4:6; “Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.”

James 3:8-10: “But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith cruse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceeded blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.”

Unseemly speech will be judged at the Judgment Seat of Christ. Unseemly words or behavior do not promote the love of God nor are they motivated by the loved of God.

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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FATHERS, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE!

disrespectful“We must not allow our children to get away with negative attitudes or moods. If moods are not dealt with while children are young, it will be more difficult to deal with them later on. Temper tantrums, stomping the feet, and hateful speech (especially to parents) must not be tolerated. Don’t allow your children to get away with pouting, rolling the eyes, or negative facial expressions.”
~ Colin Campbell

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STAND UP FOR TRUTH - SILENCE IS A CRIME!

standtruthgod"Is the old Pilgrim spirit quench'd within us?
Stoops the proud manhood of our souls so low,
That Mammon's lure or Party's wile can win us to silence now?
Now, when our land to ruin's brink is verging.
In God's name let us speak while there is time:
Now, when the padlocks for our lips are forging,
Silence is a crime."
~ Whittier

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THE MOST SIGNIFICANT MORAL ISSUE OF OUR TIME....

BabyWomb"I see abortion as the most significant moral issue of our time. In fact, I feel that the ministers of this country (of the world) are someday going to have to answer for their unwillingness to confront this issue head-on. It cannot be right to take an innocent little child whom God is forming in his mother's womb, and leave him to die on a porcelain table."
~ James Dobson

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AT THE CROSS OF CHRIST

AllToJesus"If it is I who determine where God is to be found, then I shall always find a God who corresponds to me in some way, who is obliging, who is connected with my own nature. But if God determines where He is to be found, then it will be in a place which is not immediately pleasing to my nature and which is not at all congenial to me. This place is the cross of Christ."
~ Bonhoeffer.

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GOD IS A...

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...Consuming Fire. ~ Deuteronomy 4:24

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"YOU CANNOT HELP MEN...

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...permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves."

~ A. Lincoln

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"Patriotism...

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...is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it."

~ Mark Twain

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YOU CAN'T CHANGE...

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...What you refuse to confront.

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SOCIALISM IS...

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...a philosophy of failure.

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THE SAME POWER...

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...that raised Christ from the dead is living in you.

Romans 8:11

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ATHEISM IS A TEMPORARY CONDITION...

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Every knee will bow, every tonque will confess that Jesus Christ is LORD.

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SHARPENING MY CHILDREN

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With God's Word

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 4

FeelPainI begin today with a statement I wrote yesterday:

GOD’S AMAZING GRACE DOES NOT COVER A LIFESTYLE OF UNREPENTANT SIN.

To permit a son or a daughter to have their homosexual partner living and sleeping together in your home is a false love and a false grace. Even to allow unmarried couples of the opposite sex to sleep together in your home is a false love and a false grace. This is happening in Christian homes across America and I am saddened by it.

Whatever the world accepts as acceptable and normal behavior when it comes to morals is now becoming the norm of the church.

I am not saying that we should not actively, as Christians, love those who are committing sin. God loved us while we were yet sinners so much that he sent His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, to die a horrible death for our sins. Romans 5:8 says: “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”

We must actively show our love toward sinners and yet at the same time let them understand that we actively reject their sin.

Under the guise of love and grace many so-called Christians will not judge abortion as murdering innocent lives and yet at the same time they will actively stand up against those who murder innocent people on our streets, schools, and Walmart’s. What hypocrisy. This is false love and grace and we fail to discern what is right from wrong. Murdering unborn, innocent children is just as evil as murdering people in Walmart.

Under the guise of love and grace we must not allow your children to have uncontrolled use of Internet games and programs that pervert their innocent minds and lives. This is false love for your children and false grace. Christian parents have a God-given mandate to protect their children from watching the wrong things.

God’s grace should never be treated as a band aid to cover sin so that sin doesn’t look so bad.

Many Christians allow this to happen so their children will not be bored with nothing to entertain them. They think that one day they will grow out of it. This is a false love and a false grace.

Hebrews 12:28, 29: “Wherefore we receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have grace, whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear: For our God is a consuming fire.” This is the love and grace that is acceptable to God.

Titus 2;11, 12 explains more of what it means to walk in grace: “For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men, Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present world.”

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 3

GavelLove is not puffed up with the yeast of our own prideful reasonings.

The love of God does not leave sin unjudged. Sin is not something that, under the guise of love, should be tolerated and accepted in the Christian family or the church.

God judged all our sins with the crucifixion of His sinless and only Beloved Son. God forgave us all our sins through the terrible judgment that Jesus Christ vicariously bore in our place on that rugged cross.

Jesus Christ now lives in us by His spirit to give us the victory over all sin. Every type of sin that seeks to dominate our lives must be judged for what it is. Sin is sin whether it was before we became a Christian or after we became a Christian.

If God calls all wrong-doing sin, so should we.

Even though sin was judged at the cross, it is still sin if we continue in it.

Romans 6:1, 2: “What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any loner therein?”

We must examine ourselves and judge our actions before we partake of the Lord’s Supper lest we eat and drink damnation to ourselves. 1 Corinthians 11:29, 30 says: “For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body. For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.”

God’s amazing grace does not cover a lifestyle of unrepentant sin.

Much of the church is under a false grace that permits sin to be unjudged and unrepented of, both in our homes and in the churches.

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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EDUCATION IS NOT...

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...the learning of facts. It's rather the training of the mind to think.

~ Albert Einstein

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 2, LOVE DOES NOT BOAST

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Love does not vaunt itself.

Love does not promote oneself; it promotes others.
Love does not draw attention to oneself.
Love does not seek the applause of man.
Love does not desire the admiration of the crowds.
Love does not need others to see how well-educated, brilliant, or wise you are.
Love does not seek to be a great orator to dazzle people with the power of one’s speech.

LOVE IS NOT PUFFED UP

Love dies to oneself rather than increasing oneself with pride and self-fame.

Paul speaks about being puffed up in 1 Corinthians 4:6 (NET): “So that none of you will be puffed up in favor of the one against the other.” Sadly verses 18 and 19 say: “Now some of you are puffed up, as though I would not come to you. But I will come to you shortly, if the Lord will, and will know, not the speech of them which are puffed up, but the power.” Paul is saying that there were people amongst them that were favoring some and not others. They were respecters of persons.

Acts 10:34 says: “Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons.”

James 2:1: “My brethren, have not the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory, with respect of persons.”

1 Corinthians 5:2: “Ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this dead might be taken away from among you.”

The Corinthians church were allowing fornication of a very serious nature to remain in the church. This type of sin is being committed all over our modern-day Christian church and yet they allow it in the name of love. We lovingly tolerate the things God abhors. We are puffed up with false love for we allow people to continue in sin who do things God hates. God’s love deals with sin and applies the necessary discipline.

We think we should not judge sin in the church on the basis of “Judge not that ye be not judged” (Matthew 7:1). This is not talking about not dealing with sin in the church, but rather to not be a critical person who is always looking for faults in others.

1 Corinthians 6:3 says: “Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?”

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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GOD’S DESCRIPTION OF LOVE, Part 1 LOVE IS LONGSUFFERING.

LoveEnvyLongsuffering means one who has the power to revenge but refrains from doing so (Romans 2:4; 2 Corinthians 4;4-6; Galatians 5:22; Colossians 1:11; and 3:12-14).

LOVE IS KIND

This means to act benevolently, to treat one as one’s own kind (a member of one’s own family).

Proverbs 31:26 says of the virtuous woman: “She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.”

Ephesians 4:23 “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

LOVE DOES NOT ENVY

Love is not jealous of others. The word envy means “a passion or zeal to move against someone because of envy.” Envy is divisive. It blocks fellowship and hinders the flow of the spirit of love. Envy causes one to argue and resist others even when they are more righteous.

When judging Jesus at the time of His crucifixion Pilate asked the people if they would prefer Barabbas, a notable prisoner who was a murderer (Mark 15:7-15). Matthew 27:18 tells us that Pilate “knew that for envy they had delivered him.”

The priests were envious of Jesus because the multitudes followed Him. Or was it because of the mighty miracles He performed? They were not performing miracles.

Jesus told the disciples to tell John the Baptist: “Go and show John again those things which ye do hear and see: The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them. And blessed is he, whosoever shall not be offended in me” (Matthew 11:4-6).

Why did Jesus tell John tell John the Baptist not to be offended at Him? Great miracles were happening with Jesus. Multitudes were following Him and yet John the Baptist’s ministry was fading. Even John the Baptist said himself: “He must increase but I must decrease” (John 3:30).

We read in John 1:35-42 of two of John’s disciples who left John and followed Jesus. Sometimes this kind of thing can cause an offense and offense can lead to envy. I am not saying that John the Baptist was offended. However, Jesus certainly cautioned him about it.

We will not envy if we are filled with love.

To be continued.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

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