Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Through the weekly and daily devotionals you can be constantly encouraged in your great role of parenting, the highest career in the nation. You can also stay updated on what's happening with the Above Rubies ministry.

YOUR DESCRIPTION

YourDescriptionThe Song of Solomon is full of glorious descriptions of the Bridegroom to the bride and vice versa. Shall we look at one today? The Bridegroom speaks in Song of Solomon 7:6: “How fair and how pleasant art thou, O love, for delights!
 
The words of this book can be read as the words of our Heavenly bridegroom to the church, His bride. They can also be taken literally as the husband and wife speaking to one another. As we read this description, do you think it is a description your husband would say of you?
 
I notice four adjectives in this one little sentence.
 
HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE. The Hebrew word is “yaphah” which is the word used in Israel today for beautiful. It means to “make oneself beautiful, to decorate.” We know this means beautiful on the inside as well as the outside. Not all of us are what we could call beautiful, but we can make ourselves beautiful with a loving smile and attitude. This far outweighs any outward beauty. How often do you smile adoringly at your husband? Many times a day?
 
HOW SWEET YOU ARE. The word “pleasant” in the Hebrew is “na-em” and means “to be agreeable, to be a delight, to be pleasant, to be sweet.” Are you agreeable to live with? Or are you reactionary? Are you sweet to your husband or cold and boring?
 
HOW LOVED YOU ARE. Your husband cannot help loving you because of the love you show to him. When you pour out love it comes back to you.
 
HOW DELIGHTFUL YOU ARE. The Hebrew word “delights” is “ta-anuwg” and means “delight, pleasant, delicate.” This Scripture is in the context of love-making. Are you intoxicating him with delights? But it is far more than that. It relates to every department of our lives as wives in the home.
 
Do you notice the word is plural? It has an “s” on the end! It is not one delight but continual delights. Do you continually delight your husband—in the bedroom, in the kitchen with delightful and wholesome meals, in every situation in your life? Do you delight to serve him?
 
As you seek to delight him, he will delight in you.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
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TRIALS TO BLESSINGS

TrialsMakeBe encouraged. Your trials and challenges often turn in to blessings. Don’t focus on your trials; turn your attention to the Lord. Keep your eyes on Him and He will carry you through. You will love to read my new devotional book, 100 DAYS OF BLESSING , Volume 4. In this book there are five devotions which tell you all the miraculous things that can happen to you even when going through your wilderness. God will never for sake you.

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THE FORGOTTEN PHRASE

ForgottenPhraseAt the beginning of this year a member of our church fellowship shared some insights she had read from the Apostolic Council of Prophetic Elders, a group of intercessors who meet together every year to pray and seek God for what He is saying to the body of Christ.
 
One of the things she shared was that they felt there would be a return to the “family altar.” She stopped and said, “Well, I don’t know what that means. I have never heard of it.” But I did know what it means, and my heart leapt to hear these words because they are forgotten words in the body of Christ today. Even archaic words. But they shouldn’t be archaic because the truth comes from the Living and eternal Word of God.
 
I decided to check out what she was saying and found it on the Internet. In one of the paragraphs I read:
 
“During this Era of the Holy Spirit, many prodigals will come back to the Lord. We are backing the Turnaround Tuesday movement where the Body of Christ fasts on Tuesday for the salvation of families and for prodigals to come home. God will also shake and prune the church to prepare to receive them, along with the great harvest. (I had not heard about Turnaround Tuesday but it sounds great. I am sure that families who have prodigals would love to check this out and join in this fasting and prayer).
 
The vision continued: “There will be a special emphasis in 2022 on the family. God is calling families to “build the family altar” in their homes and pray with and for their families.”
 
There was the phrase in writing. What does it mean? “The family altar” was one time part of the daily life of every Christian family. Every morning and evening they would gather as a family to meet with God—to hear His words and to pray and worship together.
 
It comes from the passage in Leviticus 6:8-13 where God gave the instructions of how to conduct the burnt offerings on the altar. He told them that the fire on the altar was NEVER to go out. He told them to keep it going by attending to it every morning and every evening. If we want the fire of God to keep burning in our lives and each member of our family, we must attend to the fire every morning and evening. Fires go out easily if they are not constantly refueled.
 
God wants each family burning brightly for Him. O, how I was encouraged to hear that God is calling His families again to the family altar.
 
THE MODERN CHURCH MAY HAVE FORGOTTEN BUT GOD HAS NOT FORGOTTEN!
 
Will you hear His call? Are you ready to rearrange your family lives to incorporate the family altar into each day? To meet with Him morning and evening is the very least that we can give to Him in the 24 hours He gives us each day. I have found in my own experience that I cannot hope this will happen. I must make it happen. I make it happen and everything else fits around it. If other things don’t get done, it doesn’t matter. But if we let this go, the fire will go out.
 
Let’s respond to God’s call. This is the beginning of revival. If a move of God does not begin and CONTINUE in the families of God’s people, it will be something that comes and goes but does not last.
 
Oh, let’s turn back to His ways,
 
Nancy Campbell
 
I would encourage you to check out the following materials:
 
To read more about the Morning and Evening Principle in the Scriptures go to:
 
BOOKS:
 
FAMILY DEVOTIONS - The Husband's and Wife's Role E-Booklet (mybigcommerce.com)
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A NEW LEVEL OF LIVING

LevelLivingI posted yesterday about living in the true reality, the reality of the heavenly world. How can we practically do we do this?
 
When Christ dwells in our hearts everything is sacred. No matter how mundane the task at hand, it cannot be anything less than holy when Christ dwells in us.
 
The real truth is “Christ in you, the hope of glory" (Colossians 1:27). We need to acknowledge this truth and believe it!
 
When you clean toilets, sing for joy because Christ sings with you and over you (Zephaniah 3:17).
 
When you wash dishes and laundry, acknowledge the presence of Christ with you.
 
When you prepare another meal for your family, do it with joy and excitement because Christ is with you.
 
He doesn’t leave you when you do the commonplace duties. He is not apart from you in the humdrum of life. He is in you and with you.
 
He promises: “I will NEVER leave you, or forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). No matter what you are doing (unless you are sinning and grieving His Holy Spirit), He is with you.
 
I love Zechariah 14:20, 21 (NET): “On that day the bells of the horses will bear the inscription “HOLY TO THE LORD.” The cooking pots in the LORD’S temple will be as holy as the bowls in front of the altar. Every cooking pot in Jerusalem and Judah will become holy in the sight of the LORD who rules over all.
 
Every saucepan you pick up is holy because you are holding it.
 
Everything in your home is sanctified by the power of the living Christ who abides in you.
 
To prepare a meal for your family is as sacred as a minister who prepares a spiritual meal for the church!
 
Therefore, enjoy every moment and every task in your home today.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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THE NITTY GRITTY OF LIFE

NittyGrittyThe reality of life is our day-to-day responsibility to manage our homes, feed, nurture, and train our children—and attend to all the interruptions of our children. But there is another reality, a reality that has the power to affect our daily lives in our home. It is the reality of the heavenly.
 
Jesus told us to pray: “Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10).
 
Colossians 3:1-3 (NLT) states: “Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven, where Christ sits in the place of honor at God’s right hand. Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth. For you died to this life, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God.”
 
These words seem so far from our experience, don’t they? And yet this is normal Christianity. The realities of the heavenly realm are the TRUE REALITIES. The eternal realm is the real world. This world is passing away. It is like a vapor that appears for a moment and is gone.
 
When we focus our ordinary, daily life on the eternal, it takes us from the doldrums to delight, from misery to the miraculous, from pre-occupation with self to praising God. Instead of being overwhelmed about all our challenges and problems, we lift our eyes to Jesus who sits at the right hand of the Father. We give our difficulties to Him. Nothing is too big for Him to handle.
 
Did you know that God never gets in a state of confusion or tension? And He dwells in your heart by His Spirit? Therefore, you don’t have to get all tied up in knots. Allow Christ to take control. He’ll do a much better job than you!
 
Be encouraged today as you read 2 Corinthians 4:1-18: “For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a FAR MORE EXCEEDING AND ETERNAL WEIGHT OF GLORY: While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which re not seen are eternal.”
 
Many blessings to you today,
 
Nancy Campbell
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YOU'RE NOT INSIGNIFICANT...

NotInsignificantMother, you are the backbone. You are the hidden strength of the nation. When a mother vacates her mothering role, the nation weakens.

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IT SHALL BE DONE...

With God you cannot laugh at impossibilities!

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THOSE WHO HAVE MORE WILL GET MORE!

haveMoreThis is an interesting principle, isn’t it? I read the other morning in Numbers 33:54: “And ye shall divide the land by inheritance among your families; and to the more ye shall give the more inheritance, and to the fewer ye shall give the less inheritance.”
 
The Complete Jewish Bible translates it clearly: “You are to give more land to the longer families and less to the smaller ones.”
 
The humanistic mindset of our society thinks that if we have too many children we will stay poor. We will be deprived of many things. But this Scripture promises that those who have more children will get more land! Those who have less will receive less.
 
And it is true. God does not provide for children that we don’t yet have. He is a faithful God. He provides when a new baby comes along. Therefore, the more babies God gives you the more provision will come your way. It’s just the way it works.
 
Deuteronomy 28:4 – 13 tells us that the first blessing God gives is the fruit of the womb. But when He gives the fruit of the womb, He adds many more blessings to enable you to provide for the fruit of the womb.
 
You don’t get the provision first; you get the baby first.
And then comes the blessing of provision!
 
Deuteronomy 28:4 (BSB) tells us: “The fruit of your womb will blessed, AS WELL as the produce of your land and the offspring of your livestock—the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks.” Look it up and keep reading up until verse 13 to read all the rest of the blessings.
 
I know some big families live in small homes, but it may not be forever. God will enlarge you as your family enlarges.
 
God’s ways are the best ways.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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AN EMPTY WOMB

EmptyWombI am sharing this poem with you from Holly Bennington. Holly writes:
“I wrote this poem one evening after a grievous state law had been passed permitting (and celebrating) late term abortion rights. I could not help but think about the parallels between the innocent lives being taken and Jesus, the innocent, being crucified. I am a mother of seven and my heart breaks for the loss of life that plagues our country and world.”
 
Two men stood accused before a judge,
the crowds demanded blood.
One, a convicted murderer,
One, the Son of God.
The former already proven guilty,
In the latter no guilt to be found.
He couldn’t with clear conscience decide
For death there were no grounds.
So, he let the people choose:
One to die,
The other to walk free.
And they satisfied their bloodthirsty desires
And nailed the innocent One to the tree.
 
Today, a mother and her child,
Heart beating already inside.
Which life is given more value?
Who gets the right to decide?
Again, the innocent
Gets slaughtered like the Lamb,
And love for Self
Gets called a Choice.
A little life
Has lost her voice.
 
An empty tomb.
An empty womb.
 
I see them sitting there,
On a hill beside that tree.
Jesus takes her little hand
Gently lifts her upon his knee.
“Your mama would have loved you so,
Her greatest joy you would have been,
But just like Eve she accepted a lie,
And was grievously deceived by sin.
She traded her greatest riches and wealth
Only to end up empty and poor.
But do not weep, sweet little one,
For I could not love you more.”
 
~ Holly Bennington
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KEEP DOING A LITTLE...

DoingALittleGood advice. Just keep doing a little at a time. Don’t give up and you’ll find you have finished your job!

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GOD'S WAYS ARE OPPOSITE...

GodGaveLotsGod's ways are opposite of man's ways. God loves giving babies. If we are on God's side, we will love having His babies. God's ways are powerful. They impact nations.

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WHICH WAY DO YOU CHOOSE?

WhichWayGod’s way is often the opposite to the world’s way. We have to choose which way we are going to live. The world’s way lures mothers out of the home. God‘s word woos them into the home to mother and nurture their children in this safe and secure sanctuary. The world’s way encourages women to pursue their careers outside the home. God wants mothers to be the keepers of the home, teaching and training their children and preparing them to be godly men and women who will impact the nation. Mothers are the hidden strength of the nation. They determine the character of a nation.

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BREAK THE HABIT

LyingLipsHave you noticed that children have a tendency to tell lies? They want to save face. They don’t want to get caught or own up to their wrong doing and so they tell lies. As parents we must be on the watch. When wen notice it we deal with it strongly. We don’t allow our children to get into the habit.
 
I read this morning in Jeremiah9:5: “They will not speak the truth: they have taught their tongue to speak lies . . . “
 
If we don’t deal with lies our children will automatically teach their tongue to speak lies. It is not a light thing. It is an evil habit.
 
When we speak lies we align ourselves with the nature of Satan. Wow, that’s serious, isn’t it? John 8:44 (NET) says that the devil is a liar and “there is no truth in him. Whenever he lies, he speaks according to this own nature, because he is a liar and the father of lies.”
 
It is important for children to understand that they side with Satan and take on his nature when they lie. When they resist Satan and speak the truth they side with God who is truth!
 
Psalm 51:6: says: “Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.” Make this Scripture a memory verse for your children.
 
The BSB translation says: “You desire truth in the inmost being; You teach me wisdom in the inmost place.”
 
Break the habit of lies in your children.
 
And here’s a little poem for them to learn.
 
Here’s a secret for the girl and boy
Who wants to live a life of joy—
ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH
 
When you tell a lie, you please the devil,
He’s the father of lies and wants you a rebel—
ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH
 
Do not try to cover the mess you’re in
By telling a lie God says is sin—
ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH
 
Every lie you tell makes matters worse,
It leads to another and becomes a curse—
ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH
 
Confess the truth although hard to do,
It’s the way to go and God will bless you—
ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH.
 
There are no liars in heaven, did you know?
Stop telling them now, it’s the way to go!
ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH.
 
Break the habit of lies while in your youth,
To follow God, you must speak the truth—
ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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WARM IS LOVELY BUT . . .

WarmLovelyYou are going to love today’s podcast (posted below). Erin and I talk about three things a man needs to make him happy when he comes home—a warm welcome, a warm meal, and a warm bed (meaning more than an electric blanket!). These are very basic but wonderful things and will bless your husband.
 
However, I think you can notch it up further and make it a . . .
 
HOT AND SPICY WELCOME
 
Don’t just yell Hi from the kitchen when your husband comes home. Get up from what you are doing. Go to the door or walk toward your husband and welcome him with open arms and a loving and lingering kiss. Tell him how happy you are to see him. A warm welcome is nice, but a hot spicy welcome is even nicer!
 
HOT AND SPICY MEAL
 
Make a lovely nutritious meal for your husband and family but make it spicy and full of flavor too. Bland food is boring. Spice up your food with herbs and spices and if you are up to it, hot peppers too. Basic, wholesome food changes from satisfying to scrumptious when you make it flavorful. God gave us tastebuds. Tantalize those tastebuds. Try out new things.
 
And spice up your family mealtimes with good conversation. Mealtimes can be terribly boring if there is no purposeful conversation. As I raised our children, I found that it was just as important to think about what we would talk about as what I would cook for the meal. Things don’t just happen. You have to make them happen. Think of a subject to bring to the table to discuss with your husband and family—political, biblical, historical, or geographical. Ask a question and get each one in the family to share their thoughts. Think of ideas to make your mealtimes exciting.
 
HOT AND SPICY BED
 
Always be ready to love your husband passionately. Forget being passive and pour out your hot spicy love on him. He is waiting for it. As you give to him, you will be blessed beyond measure. Proverbs 5:19 tells us that the wife is to “satisfy” and “ravish” her husband. Yes, that’s King James language. Other translations say “captivate, intoxicate, exhilarate, rapture” I can’t let you off the hook, ladies. It’s Bible!
 
Your husband will love coming home to you!
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
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MOTHERING BEGINS...

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Your prayers, attitudes thoughts, and words will affect your baby even in the womb.

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WONDERS WITHOUT NUMBER

WondersNumbersJob exclaims that God does “great things past finding out; yea, and wonders without number” (Job 9:10 and 5:9). How true this is. We see God’s wonders every day—in creation, in His workings in our lives, and in our children (the beautiful miracles He has given us.) Every new baby is a miracle from God, a unique new person who has never lived on the earth before and there will never be another one like him or her. How amazing.
 
Take time to look at your children and appreciate the miracles they are. Thank God for them. Embrace them as miracles and joy in them.
 
The word “wonders” is the Hebrew word “pala” and means “astonishing, extraordinary, marvelous, miraculous, wondrous, to accomplish.” It reveals God doing things beyond the powers of human powers or expectations.
 
It is used in Genesis 18:14 about the miraculous conception of Isaac: “Is (pala) any thing too hard (pala) for the Lord? At the time appointed I will return unto thee, according to the time of life and Sarah shall have a son.” God miraculously restored Sarah’s womanly cycle and she conceived during the “time of life,” the time of the month when the womb is ready for conception and a miracle of God.
 
Although this was a very special miracle to an older woman, every married woman has this opportunity for a miracle during her “time of life.”
 
This word is used of God creating each new life in the womb (Psalm 139:13-16). The psalmist exclaims: “I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous (pala) are thy works.”
 
God uses this word when describing a couple falling in love (Proverbs 30:18, 19). God calls it marvelous and wonderful. I’m sure it makes His heart smile for it is His plan and design.
 
Each night as I am going off to sleep, I like to think of all the wonders around me for which I can thank God and then I like to do it again as I wake in the morning.
We can easily get bogged down with all the pressures and complexities of life. But look up today, dear mother. Rejoice in the miracles all around you. You have wonders without number if you will only open your eyes.
 
Be filled with thanksgiving today,
 
Nancy Campbell
 
P.S.
MORE SCRIPTURES ABOUT GOD’S WONDERFUL WORKS
 
We are to show to our children, and all people, God’s marvelous works. We must not keep them hidden: 1 Chronicles 16:9, 12, 24; Psalm 9:1; 26:7; 71:17; 78:4 (specifically); 96:3; 105:2, 5; 107:8, 15, 21, 31; 119:27; and 145:5.
 
God loves to do wonderful and marvelous things: Exodus 3:20; 34:10; Job 5:9; 37:5, 14; Joshua 3:5; Psalm 31:21; 40:5; 72:18; 75:1; 78:32; 86:10; 98:1; 106:7, 21, 22; 111:4; 118:23; 119:18; 136:4; Isaiah 28:19; 29:14; Jeremiah 32:17, 27; Joel 2:26; and Zechariah 8:6-8.
~ Nancy
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KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS

KingOKingsTHE GREATEST MAN in history--
He had no servants, yet they called him Master.
He had no degree, yet they called him Teacher.
He had no medicines, yet they called him Healer.
He had no army, yet kings feared him.
He won no military battles, yet He conquered the world.
He committed no crime, yet they crucified Him.
He was buried in a tomb, yet He lives today.
He is my Savior and Redeemer. His name is Jesus Christ,
KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF LORDS!
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HOME IS BEST

HmisBestStay, stay at home, my heart, and rest;
Home-keeping hearts are happiest,
For those that wander they know not where
Are full of trouble and full of care;
To stay at home is best.
 
Weary and homesick and distressed,
They wander east, they wander west,
And are baffled and beaten and blown about
By the winds of the wilderness of doubt;
To stay at home is best.
 
Then stay at home, my heart, and rest;
The bird is safest in its nest;
O'er all that flutter their wings and fly
A hawk is hovering in the sky;
To stay at home is best.
 
~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
 
Painting by Janet Kruskamp: Summer Front Porch.
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BRASS INSTEAD OF GOLD

BrassGoldDid you know that your home is meant to be a treasure house, filled with the good things of God? Proverbs 15:6 says: “In the house of the righteous is MUCH treasure.” The word “treasure” in this Scripture also means “riches, strength.”
 
God wants our homes filled with all the riches that are in Christ Jesus--His wisdom, knowledge, mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering, forbearance, forgiveness, love, righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost (Romans 14:17; Colossians 2:2, 3; 3:12-17; and James 3:17, 18). What amazing treasures. These are the riches that fill our homes with strength!
 
But we know that Satan is the robber. He comes to steal, kill, and destroy and he wants to rob you and your home of all these beautiful treasures. In 2 Chronicles 12:9 we read how the king of Egypt came against Jerusalem and “took away ALL the treasures of the house of the Lord; he took all.” This included the shields which were all made of gold.
 
What did king Rehoboam of Jerusalem do? He made brass shields. Instead of gold, he now had brass! Dear mother, be on the alert against the robber of your home. Sometimes we can be so apathetic that we don’t even notice we are being robbed. The treasures of love, kindness, peace and joy creep out the door and we settle for the inferior. We get used to the status quo of how we are living.
 
We can become so deceived that we are satisfied with counterfeits. We put up with the brass instead of the gold.
 
Instead of pursuing a loving, serving, and intimate relationship with our husband, we settle for “just living together.”
 
Instead of seeking forgiveness and peace, we settle for arguments, bickerings, and moods amongst family members.
 
Instead of embracing and nurturing our children in our home, we take the enemy’s counterfeit of daycares. And so it goes on.
 
Let’s go for the treasures of gold, not the counterfeit of brass.
 
Don’t settle for the status quo.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell.
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WHAT MORE COULD WE ASK?

IfGodBeForI received these encouraging words from Patricia this morning. She used to be a neighbor to us but is now a missionary to the native people of Panama. May you be encouraged.
 
WHAT MORE COULD WE ASK?
 
If God is with us, what more could we ask?
If God be for us, who can be against?
If Heaven smiles down on us,
How can earth oppose?
If God is with us, what more could we ask?
 
When evil sweeps thru like a flood,
When trials and griefs swell on waves,
Even then, praise your God,
For praise has strength to overcome.
 
This, too, has come-to-pass,
And “pass” it shall, for God has warranted
His will for us is good, His love is great,
His Kingdom SHALL come, and we shall see it!
 
If God is with us, then we are with Him,
Side-by-side, joined in Jesus Christ.
Oh, faithful pilgrim—keep on keeping on!
If God is with us, what more could we ask?
 
~ Patricia Moore Holmes
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