Some time back I did a podcast with Erin Harrison about the GLORY OF OUR KITCHENS. On this podcast we talked about how a husband wants nothing more than “A warm welcome, a warm meal on the table, and a warm bed (meaning more than an electric blanket). It was one of the most popular podcasts on LIFE TO THE FULL w/ Nancy CampbellHowever, after doing the podcast, I realized I needed to notch it up further and make it a . . .
HOT AND SPICY WELCOME
Don’t just yell Hi from the kitchen when your husband comes home. Get up from what you are doing. Go to the door or walk toward your husband and welcome him with open arms and a loving and lingering kiss. Tell him how happy you are to see him. A warm welcome is nice, but a hot and spicy welcome is even nicer!
HOT AND SPICY MEAL
Make a lovely nutritious meal for your husband and family but make it spicy and full of flavor too. Bland food is boring. Spice up your food with herbs and spices and if you are up to it, hot peppers too. Basic, wholesome food changes from satisfying to scrumptious when you make it flavorful. God gave us tastebuds. Tantalize those tastebuds. Try out new things.
And spice up your family mealtimes with good conversation. Mealtimes can be terribly boring if there is no purposeful conversation. As I raised our children, I found that it was just as important to think about what we would talk about as what I would cook for the meal. Think of a subject you and your husband can bring to the table to discuss—political, biblical, historical, or geographical. Ask questions and get each one in the family to share their thoughts.
HOT AND SPICY BED
Always be ready to love your husband passionately. Go to bed together. At the same time as your husband. Don’t stay up doing your own thing while he lies in bed alone! Forget being passive and pour out your hot spicy love on him. He is waiting for it. As you give to him, you will be blessed beyond measure. Proverbs 5:19 tells us that the wife is to “satisfy” and “ravish” her husband. Yes, that’s King James language. Other translations say “captivate, infatuate, intoxicate, exhilarate, and rapture.” You can’t get off the hook, ladies. It’s Bible language!
Love from Nancy Campbell
Link for WE LOVE OUR KITCHENS, Part 3.