Men, the role modeling of God's love, and all the ingredients that make up this love, should be of utmost important to us. This agape love of God is the central emphasis of all of Christ's teaching.
Jesus said in John 13:35, "By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another."
We men must understand that if we ignore any one of the necessary ingredients that make up this love, then the geniuses of our love is in question.
If a person takes a medication that proves to be effective, but the manufacturers suddenly leave out a certain ingredient, or for the sake of cost, use a substitute ingredient that proves to make the overall effect of the medication inferior, that person will cease to use the medication.
If we say we live in the love of God, but at the same time are rude or vulgar with our speech and actions, we seriously compromise the love of God.
In the Greek, the word "unseemly" implies "indecency, unbecoming, shameful, shapeless." A shapeless garment, such as an undergarment, is inappropriate to be seen in public. When our behavior in speech or conduct is inappropriate or rude we are not role modeling the love of God which is so desperately needed in our family life.
Be encouraged.
Colin Campbell