I think that part of being a helpmate is helping your husband turn his heart toward God, home, and children. One of the very best practical ways to do this is to enjoy your faith, your home and all children immensely.
When a husband comes home to a wife that complains about her life at home, or her church life, or is always frustrated as a mother, he naturally wants to lessen her grief.
If he sees that her faith, her home life and all children she sees as bringing great joy, he will be much more likely to embrace what she embraces.
Attitudes are catchy, and an easy way to influence and bless others! How is yours?